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writes:People always call me ugly every single day,either that or they ignore me or are really nasty to me.I personally don't think I am ugly(I don't think I'm beautiful but I would definatly say I am attractive at the least) but no one else seems to think this.I dress nicely,have nice hair,and I think a fairly pretty face.I am very shy however but I still am a nice person so I don't think this gives anyone the right to say I'm ugly.Even my best friend says I'm ugly and is always laughing about my appearence.I have never had a date and I never get compliments.Even though some of my friends are quite ugly they still get a load of compliments and they have dates.I realise that the fact I am shy may be a reason I don't get dates but why do people call me ugly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): girl those people are hating on you. you need to show them confidence , confidence , and confidence. Don't ask your friends for advise cause if their laughing at you , sourly there not your friends and probably are jealous. don't be so shy or that nice , always love yourself the most and then the others,
good luck ! : )
p.s and they call u ugly because it only makes them fell better , you know....people .. that's why .. so stop being shy and don't be afraid to stand up for yourself...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): i am going through that same stage. Listen to me those people are jealous because you are probably pretty and it bothers them because they are not as attractive as you. Ignore them and use your beauty to keep them jealous because they deserve it for being so mean. Remember don't worry its is better to be called ugly because then you will know its because they wish they were you. Hope this helps. GOOD LUCK :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): I was the ugly asian kid, now im first to have a gf lasting 9 months since grade 7... LOL.... I still find myself ugly... O_O but hey! They are just probably jealous because you grab all the attention... PEACE OUT!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Hey i think u must be really pretty! The reason ppl say ur ugly is because they wish they were u instead. All girls wish they were each other or look like another person or actor. Dont listen 2 wat anyone says because u no that u are pretty and they all do to just dont worry about it you just have 2 forget these things sometimes.Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Hey i think u must be really pretty! The reason ppl say ur ugly is because they wish they were u instead. All girls wish they were each other or look like another person or actor. Dont listen 2 wat anyone says because u no that u are pretty and they all do to just dont worry about it you just have 2 forget these things sometimes.Good luck!!
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reader, love-him +, writes (27 August 2007):
 babe.. ur best friend, should not be your friend.. she/he is treating you like rubbish.. ignore what people say.. you dont need to listen to them at all.. just ignore them and keep your head down..they will get bored.. you will find someone who wants to be your boyfriend.. dont worry.. mail me if you would like to talk.. and always remember we are all different .. x x x x
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reader, minimouse  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 hi that girl wich you call her a best friend is just jelaous for you she is not a friend and don't trust her. abaut the dates with boys dont' be shy belive in your self and you will see.
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reader, duce00  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 I think ugly is a better description for peoples behavior than theyre appearance. In this case its the people around you that are ugly. Trust me in time your beauty will shine through. The school years are usually difficult though. I was a goofy, un-confident, pimply kid growing up. I remember one time being called pie face by this really beautiful girl who happened to be dating my friend. It really killed me.
So here I am 20 years later. That girl got pregnant right out of high school and weighs like 300 lbs now. My "friend" was last known to be living on some weirdo commune in Oregon. Here I am happy, healthy and looking pretty good for a 37 year old father. I even turn heads occasionally :)
The moral of the story is that the inside of a person will allways overpower the outside of that person.
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reader, Geminibabe2013 +, writes (27 August 2007):
ok first off im am sure you are not ugly. Im 13 and i get that alot.the truth is there probably just jealouse of wat a pretty girl you are and are intimidated by it.honestly people that have time to make fun of other people obviously have no life at all. and if ur friends call you ugly too,that certainly tells me that they arent much of friends at all. i hope i have atleast helped a little. if not im sorry. just remember that your beautiful inside in out! -Geminibabe2013
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reader, AndyL  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 My friend, let me tell you: don't hear things like this...And don't say that "People always call..." It's not "people", but some very superficial people (maybe few). See: You're a teenage, so you'll grow and will be changed too. When i was a teen, I used to think like that, but now I just can't remember those days and I'm very happy in my life and with my beauty. Things will be changed for you as soon as you can't imagine, believe in me! God bless you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): So people say you're ugly, has it always been like this? Does anybody in your family say these things to you?? Your friend says it, maybe you have to accept that only your eyes can see the beauty for now and 1 day so will your prince, when he comes along, hang on in there as there is someone for everyone in this world.
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reader, cassandra_096 +, writes (27 August 2007):
Hi.um i think no one is ugly and the people who say ur ugly might not think they are pretty.And if your best friend thinks that your ugly and if she makes fun of you thats not a friend.if you think you are pretty and not ugly, you shouldnt care wat other people say!!i hope i help you.xoxo
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 first of all, with a best friend like that you will never need an enemy. get rid of her. and it sounds like the girls are jealous. if you really WERE ugly, your best friend would not say it because she would be embarrassing you and because its downright mean. i really think she is jealous and trying to bring you down. the same goes for the other girls who are saying this. as for the boyfriend thing, it is probably down to shyness but you will get over that in time. make the most of your good points you seem like a lovely girl and you are far too good to let ignorant shallow stupid people like that bring you down.all the best.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Well, if you want to know if you're ugly you could always goto Hot or Not, they don't know you so you'll be judged 100% on looks.Being shy is whats causing you problems, I never go for shy girls, I'm somewhat shy myself so I don't know why, but I just don't.But being ugly or w/e doesn't really effect the dating scene, unless you're shallow, then you have to realize you need to do the best with what you got.Most poeple don't find me too attractive, but I honestly couldn't care less. And I've had my fair share of dates, some of them with really descent looking girls, and believe it or not guys arn't half as shallow as they let on when they're with friends.Hope it helped.
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