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writes:Okay, maybe someone can help me on this. I work in a gourmet store and theres this guy that comes in every other day and we always make eye contact with each other and chit chat with each other. When ever he comes to my register and sees me, he winks and smiles at me and then talks to me, but doesnt do that with the other people that are around me. I really like this guy, is he trying to give me some signal? or am I reading too much into it. He is Australian, so not sure if in his country that type of thing is being courteous. How should I approach the situation next time I see him without my coworkers realizing what I'm doing.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 He could just be a really friendly guy, but personally I don't know many guys who are that friendly with women they have no interest in, winking at them and whatnot.
Next time you're chatting to each other be flirty with him, to the point it's obvious, if he continues on being flirty with you afterwards, ask him what he's doing later on.
If you want to make it obvious and kill some suspence you could just ask if he's single, he'll know right away you're interested, if he is single, I say go for it.
Good Luck(Y)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 I think this is a very, very careful "maybe". Perhaps you just happen to be the one person who has given him service more often and he is just being friendly.
He might even fancy you, but that doesn't mean he wants something with you (hard lesson to learn, I know). Chances are he already has a relationship.
If you want to be sure, wait.
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