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anonymous
writes:I've just divorced my husband and met this man 18 years older than me. I am 45. This man is very good in bed. I've got turn on without minutes and gets very wet. He complains he couldnt feel anything when I am wet. He talks like its my fault that annoys me. I cant help it as it's just the natural thing. What can I do about it? Please advise.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Again, I'm with Collaroy. You got it wrong this time, Samutsen.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Oh come on! This guy should be thanking his lucky stars. Not only is he getting laid at 60 plus but the girl he's doing it with is getting sopping wet.
Bloody hell, some men just don't know when they are on to a good thing. Tell him he can just meet someone else if he likes as there are a million men out there who will praise god for a nice wet pussy.
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 I understand him. Because when you are wet, the penis moves with mouch ease and with less friction (which actually provokes nerves of pleasure on boths sides)So it is supposed that penis is large enough and vagina is tight enough the wetness would only make the movements only easier without doing away with the necessary dose of friction.In your case either his penis is smaller or your vagina is looser, or both. In any case, I would recommend him and you to dry it (both the penis and vagina) with a tissue paper once or twice during the intercourse.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 The wetter I egt a girl the happier it makes me, the guy is 65, you're 47, as Ponungalungb said he should be dropping to his knees and thanking god, not complaining.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (27 November 2007):
As both good ol' Doctor Phil and Ponungalungb have said, you're not the problem. I understand that penis sensitivity decreases with age. The nerve terminations are there but they aren't as sensitive as they used to be.
And, I agree he's lucky to have a lover like you, someone who feels that turned on as to get that wet. He should count his blessings. As the Spanish saying goes, "God gives bread to he who has no teeth".
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Tell him to grow a bigger penis. . . . LOL.
At 65, he should be thanking his lucky stars that someone your age finds him appealing.
If he doesn't like it, show him where the door is and tell him not to let it hit him in the ass on the way out.
Good grief!
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reader, sharsam +, writes (27 November 2007):
a women getting wet should make a man hotter, its a sign that she is getting really turned on to him, and is readying herself for what's (mind the pun), to come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): Of course it's not your fault he can't feel anything! I for one would love my missus to get wet, but as she's well past the menopause it's not going to happen, no matter how turned-on she gets, and we have to resort to saliva in emergencies and KY when we can find it amongst all the other pills and potions in the bedside drawer!
He should be bloody grateful, not complaining about it!
Phil
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (27 November 2007):
 You could just dry yourself a bit with a tissue before he goes inside you. This should keep it a bit dryer but men should be able to feel it even more when the woman is wetter. This is the whole point of the woman becoming wet. Ignore him.
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