Can the depo shot stop your period right from the first time you take it?
Q. So, just got my depo shot on the firtst (first time ever). And I still made the mistake of having sex before my week was up (3 days before). My period was supposed to come around this week and hasn't shown. Needless to say, I miss Aunt Flo and am ...
A. 18 November 2010: I got my first depo shot ever back in July. I didn't get my period, I had spotting throughout the first 3 months on the first shot. Some girls get an actual period on the depo, other's dont. I didn't, so try not to worry.... (read in full...)
If he can spend a lot of days having fun then why should I have to text him constantly on my only day off?
Q. My boyfriend and I of 3 months are going through a rough patch. He lives 30 minutes away from me and its hard getting together. He just got his license a month ago and he promised that he would see me more but it’s been hard because I started a ...
A. 18 November 2010: There's no reason why you guys have to wait 2-3 weeks to see each other. My boyfriend lives 30 minutes away and I see him every single weekend and call and text him during the week when we're busy. You should talk to him and both of you try to put ... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when girls get really wet during sex?
Q. Hi. This is my first time on this site, and I can't believe how helpful it has been! My question is: Do guys like it when girls get really wet before/while having sex? I ask this because I tend to get very turned on during sex, and get really ...
A. 17 November 2010: I think a lot of guys like it, and I'm not a guy but, I know when i'm NOT wet down there, it's really irritating to get my boyfriend's penis inside and it kind of hurts if your not wet and It's better to be turned on then not really enjoy anything ... (read in full...)
Would you say he's controlling?
Q. Is my boyfriend controlling me? I have been dating this guy for a year and four months. Some insight into our relationship: I have cheated on him. (Kissed an ex at a party) And told him in a hurtful way. That was four months ago. Since then...
A. 12 November 2010: I can understand why he is the way he is, because you cheated. The thing about the guy friends, I do understand because I'm that way with my boyfriend having friends that are girls because he's texted them flirting with them, etc. and I consider ... (read in full...)
I do it all for him.
Q. On the inside I’m the crazy girl with tattoos piercings and emo hair, on the out said I’m plain Jane and I do it all for my boy friend because he says its gross when girls look like that. We been together for 4 years and when we met I still lived ...
A. 12 November 2010: This guy sounds like a total jerk and you need to end it. You obviously aren't happy with how things are so why would you want to marry him if you know things are going to just be the same or get worse? He shouldn't make you be someone you're not, ... (read in full...)
Sex - what do women prefer? And why do some women like to swallow when others dont?
Q. [Mod Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Here is a question that I always wanted answered by someone other than my wife.....Why do some girls like to swallow seamen and some don't? What do most woman prefer, oral sex...
A. 10 November 2010: I, personally never liked to swallow because I didn't like the taste at first but after a while, I tried it again and I have no problem with it, the taste is fine. I think the taste is what some women don't like.
I like both oral sex and sexual i... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable with all her male friends!
Q. me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and almost 4 months but one thing bothers me and its her guy friends. i only know a few of them that are my friends as well but there a lot i don't know should i be worried? i keep hearing from ...
A. 28 October 2010: You need to talk to her about it. First off-If you haven't already tell her you don't like it. Because, I honestly don't think she should be getting mad if there's nothing going on. You need to talk to her about it and just explain to her that it ... (read in full...)
Should I start a long-distance relationship with this guy, or stay with my boyfriend who will never leave me?
Q. I have been dating a guy for nearly 4 years. At the beginning we were deeply in love with eachother and we had so much in common and we would talk for hours and hours and we never fought and were so happy with eachother. Two years into the relatio...
A. 28 October 2010: Honestly, I know you and your boyfriend have some problems but would you honestly rather be with a guy you would never see? My boyfriend honestly has the same thing your boyfriend has, he just knows how to control it but there are times where he ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity..how and where?
Q. Hi i'm 14 and think i am bi. I want to lose my virginity, but i don't know where to meet someone at my age. Also i have been talking to someone on msn who is gay and 17 and say they will help me lose it, but he doesn't live near me, though he did s...
A. 28 October 2010: I'm going to be honest with you, that's very dangerous. I don't think you should meet anyone, anywhere to do anything especially if you've just met him online. People have gotten raped and killed by people they meet online and try to meet in public. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, she's only 12, should I leave her alone?
Q. ok so i just recently found out that the girl i like is 12 i am 15. i didnt really care at first but now its really big. we do band together although shes in middle school and im in high school. shes really funny, smart, cute. she just makes me ...
A. 26 October 2010: Okay I don't think any of the answers about leaving her alone are correct. I'm sorry but I was just 12 when I got with my boyfriend who was 15 at the time and we've been together for 2 years now, no on and off or anything, straight up-2 years. I ... (read in full...)
I like this girl and need some tips for asking her out!
Q. I am 13 yearls old and well i like this girl and well im a litle over weight slightly not good looking... and one of her friends hate me. i tried asking her out today but i kind of got well really nervous and decided to kind of walk away, any tips i ...
A. 29 April 2010: My boyfriend is overweight too but I don't see anything wrong with it, I think he's gorgeous. If that's what's making you nervous, don't think about how you look, if she's really a nice girl, she won't care. Every guy is nervous talking to a girl he ... (read in full...)
Could this be my first period, at 14?
Q. Okay so my mom didint start her period till she was 16. so today I started bleeding like dark brown and it was In my underwear? I'm only 14 never had sex what's going on? PlZ help? ...
A. 17 January 2010: Yes you probably did start your period. 14 is Not to young to start your period if that's what you're thinking and just because you're mom started at 16, doesn't mean you will to. I started when I was 10 so, it's different for everyone. Yes it's ... (read in full...)
Two boys, my mother says this one, my father says that one, who to choose
Q. Well, there are two boys, who are both really close friends of mine, that really like me. Boy #1 is sweet, nice, kinda cute, and is nice to my family. The only problem is that he likes two other girls too, and tries to be a ladies man a lot. Then ...
A. 15 January 2010: You need to choose what is best for you! If I were you, i'd sit your parents down and talk to them both and just let them know, it's not their decision, its yours. Boy number 1, sounds like yeah he would be a handful and he seems like he would be ... (read in full...)
Will using a condom keep me a virgin?
Q. Ok here's another question for all of you wouldn't having sex for the first time with a condom on keep me a virgin? lol and plz read the question before answearing it ...
A. 13 January 2010: Oh My...Wow. Um, No. Once the penis has entered the vagina even a little bit, you are not a virgin. A condom makes no difference, it's just protection which if you do have sex, I hope you use! But I think if you're planning on having sex at all, you ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but I don't know because he cheated on his girlfriend with me...
Q. Okay so I don't know what to do, this guy I'm in love with(lets call him ed) is always texting me and he says he loves me too but I don't know because he had a girlfriend and cheated on her with me. and they broke up and he promised we would be ...
A. 2 July 2009: It sounds like he's just using you. He might say he loves you and wants to be with you but think about it, if he cheated on his ex girlfriend with you, then he's most likely gonna do the same thing to you and you'd end up getting hurt. If you wanna ... (read in full...)
I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!
Q. I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...
A. 30 June 2009: Honestly, just come out and tell him. And I honestly think you should break up with him and find someone better because even though you're the one he was talking to and you were a fake girl, that just shows that he would go and flirt if there was an ... (read in full...)
Do I have to make the first move and ask a guy out?
Q. iv never had a boy friend before today i was talking to my friend on the bus and he told me about this girl who he was about to ask out when she told him he liked her dose that mean i have to make the first move for a guy to ask me out?...
A. 30 June 2009: If you honestly like a guy, it's alright to ask him out instead of waiting for him to ask you. You don't have to make the first move but if you don't show that you like a guy or any signs that you like him more than a friend, then he might not ... (read in full...)
She's 12 and I have feelings for her
Q. ok so, i went to my friends birthday party yesterday and his sister had a couple of friends round ... there was this girl who just seemed to make something click in my brain and she was pretty funny for her age ... but the only problem (or is it a ...
A. 21 June 2009: Well, to be honest, the age difference isn't really that bad, in my opinion. If you do like her, then find out if she likes you and if you really do like her and want to date her then all you really have to do, is get permission from hers and your ... (read in full...)
Shave my pubes for him?
Q. Hiaa im 13 and im unsure if i should shave my pubes for my boy or not. Please give me a answer!!...
A. 20 June 2009: I wondered the same thing when I first started getting into sexual things with my man. I was afraid to ask him but, you should ask him what he likes. Shaving makes it itch and I will honestly tell you, it doesn't feel comfortable growing back and it ... (read in full...)
Dreams of my ex-boyfriend....Should I tell him?
Q. ok so heres the thing. me and my boyfriend broke up last month. we were 2gether for 1yr and 3 months. so like i was really into him. he was acting like a big jerk to me. and i couldn't take it anymore. everyday that went by he wouldn't act like my ...
A. 20 June 2009: You're probably just having dreams because you guys just broke up. I wouldn't tell him because just because you're having these dreams, doesn't mean that you want or need to be with him. They're just dreams, not reality. In reality, you said he was ... (read in full...)
I broke things off with him, now how do I stick with it?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off since November. I realized that this is not healthy for me nor him, and I am really unhappy being with him, but I some how always find my way back to him, and he swoons me with all his, 'i promise i'll ...
A. 16 June 2009: If you honestly do not want to be with him, you need to stay strong and listen to your heart. You need to let him know that it's not his fault and you don't want him to change, you just don't want to be with him anymore. If it's hard Not to go back ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be his girlfriend because he cheats!
Q. I need an advice about my relationship. I have been in this relationship since Dec 2008. He has certainly been more than just a loving and caring person. He has always loved me like a child and been very tender towards me. But this is the second ...
A. 16 June 2009: You've given him quite a few chances, more chances then I'd give my boyfriend, to be honest. If you really do love him then I say you give him just one more chance, and I mean only one more. Sit down and have a serious talk with him and let him know ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to tell his mates that we are dating!
Q. Hey I was just wonderinig you see my boyfreind is really nice and everything i still love him and that. i just find one problem he doesn't want me to tell any of his mates that we are going out! this doesn't really bother me except when i see them ...
A. 12 June 2009: Honestly, I think you should break up with him. If he can't tell his friends who he's dating then he's probably just using you. Usually when a guy starts dating a girl, he wants to tell the world, not keep it private. You're young so you might think ... (read in full...)
When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?
Q. Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...
A. 11 June 2009: I was able to start dating when I was 12 years old. All parents are different though.... (read in full...)
What should I say to him?
Q. I went out with this boy but it only lasted a week because everyone was pretending to go out with me. I still like him and everyone can see it, they all say he likes me too but i don't know if i can trust him again. He's too afraid to say something ...
A. 11 June 2009: Well, the question here is, Do you trust him? Do you think he'd be a good boyfriend to you? If you honestly don't trust him or think you don't then maybe you should try building a friendship with him first and get to know him better if you don't ... (read in full...)
How do I fall out of love?
Q. i think i'm in love with a guy. but i don't want to be, i want to fall out of love with him, that's the question how do i fall out of love with this guy? i feel i should explain first why i need to fall out of love with him. I have liked this guy...
A. 11 June 2009: I honestly think, you should try to stay out of contact with him for a while. You can't control your feelings but he's using you. I know it might be hard but try to focus on other things like, hanging out with friends and try to forget about him. ... (read in full...)
On and off several times, but he has my heart
Q. So I was dating this guy off and on for about three years now. Lets start from the beginning.... Me and him at first weren't really connecting so we broke up. But when we got back together after a few times of trying, we started to have a ...
A. 11 June 2009: I think you should try to move on. He shouldn't tell you he loves you then go and get another girlfriend. Chances are, he's lying about loving you. Some guys are jerks but a lot of guys out there aren't. It might take time for you to move on but you ... (read in full...)
I can't bring myself to kiss her. Help me guys
Q. Hi there I am really nervous,, I am going to the cinema on saturday with a girl i like and we are going with some mates. Well ive never kissed anyone properly before and im really worried because i think she has and i dont want to look like an idiot...
A. 11 June 2009: If you don't tell her, then she won't know. Just be calm, you'll know what to do once you're already kissing her. Trust me.... (read in full...)
I'm still worried about losing my g/f!
Q. I am worried about losing my gf again i mean i lost her nearley to a guy before and then after that i nearley lost her to this girl and now i am just so worried about losing her AGAIN she means the world to me and now that we go back with each othe...
A. 9 June 2009: There are two options here. Have a serious talk with her and also tell her, what you just told us. Let her know that you are afraid of losing her. Or since she's almost left you twice, you could always end the relationship and find someone else who ... (read in full...)
I can't bring myself to kiss her. Help me guys
Q. Hi there I am really nervous,, I am going to the cinema on saturday with a girl i like and we are going with some mates. Well ive never kissed anyone properly before and im really worried because i think she has and i dont want to look like an idiot...
A. 9 June 2009: There is no right or wrong way to kiss a girl. If you really want to kiss her, then just do it. Once you actually start kissing her, you'll be able to go right along with it and you'll know what to do.... (read in full...)
Why am I so scared?
Q. hey I'm 15 years old and I don't what to do. I really want to be in a relationship and have a boyfriend, but the thing is I'm too scared. I don't no why I am so scared, when I talk to boys I start shaking and go all shy. My last relationship I w...
A. 4 June 2009: I'm really sorry to hear that but, You're probably scared because, you're afraid of being abused and hurt again. You just have to keep your head held high and remember that, not all guys are like that. You might not be able to trust guys right away ... (read in full...)
He called me a selfish bitch because I don't want to have sex
Q. So I told my boyfriend that I don't want to do anything sexual with him mainly because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Well he gets mad at me cause I told him earlier I was going to gave him my virginity but I realize I wasn't ready. He called me a ...
A. 4 June 2009: No! He's selfish! I would've done the same thing to my boyfriend, too. Honestly, if he cared about you at all, He'd respect that you're not ready for sex, and wouldn't have called you a selfish bitch, he would've waited. I think you should dump him ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!
Q. I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...
A. 4 June 2009: Honestly, Don't do it! I don't think that sounds like a good way to lose your virginity. Wait until you're actually with someone you love and someone who actually cares about you and loves you. He just wants you for sex, so I wouldn't do it. I don't ... (read in full...)
Your hymen...
Q. Hi... I'm 13 years old, and I'm only here to ask this one question. I was told today that you can 'break your hymen' and i've been told too many things, and I'm not sure what is the truth.. Please, will someone explain to me... how do you brea...
A. 3 June 2009: Your hymen is a thin layer of skin in your vagina. It can be broken by wearing tampons, sex, or activities like riding bikes, horse back riding, etc. Once it's broken though, it doesn't hurt to have sex or be fingered. You do bleed when it breaks ... (read in full...)
Why aren't I good enough for him any more?
Q. My boyfriend flirts with other girls... but not just any girls. My best friends... while I'm there! We've been going out a while, few months and we're both the same age really. I'm almost 14, he is. He is also kind of pressuring me into sexual ...
A. 1 June 2009: To be honest, I'd dump him. If he's trying to pressure you into doing things that you're not comfortable with and flirts with your best friends in front of you, then he doesn't respect you at all. You can find someone who's better than that. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys say sappy things like"awww" all the time, just wondering?
Q. Hey! :D I was just wondering why some guys say 'awww' to almost everything you say? It happens to me quite often, mainly it is on msn. I wouldn't usually imagine some guys to say it, even some who are not necessarily tough, but would never say extr...
A. 29 May 2009: Well if it's when you say something sweet to them or are complaining about something then, its probably because he doesn't feel like saying too much back. Lol I'll tell my boyfriend he's amazing or something and I'll get an "Aww" and nothing else. ... (read in full...)
Does she really care more about him than me?
Q. Basically, my girlfriend of nearly eight months has been talking to this guy over the internet for about four years. She says they used to be, sort of together, long distance but then she broke with him (she says). Thing is, she always wants to ...
A. 28 May 2009: I think you should end this relationship because it seems to me, she's using you. Let him have her, let them talk online and you can go out and get a girlfriend that's better than that. Someone who respects you, doesn't go around flirting/cheating ... (read in full...)
What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?
Q. What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?...
A. 27 May 2009: There's two choices here. Either, talk to him about it and let him know that you don't want sex all the time and you'd like to spend time with him and do other things other than have sex. Choice two, if he doesn't understand and gets mad when you ... (read in full...)
Should I be with him, when he hides from his girlfriend with me and makes out?
Q. I think I have an issue. I am in love with a guy that already has a grilfriend. We were dating for a while but he dumped me. We still like each other- it's obvious. We have kinda become friends with benefits we dont have sex we just make out. Last ...
A. 25 May 2009: What both of you are doing, is wrong. Yes, that IS cheating! Think about how you would feel if you found out that your boyfriend was cheating on you. You'd be upset right? That's how she's gonna feel and I think you should step up and tell him that ... (read in full...)
I am having terrile pain from my period. Can anyone suggest something to do or take that will ease the pain?
Q. i really need some help quick cuz im in reallyyyy bad pain. ive just come on my period and ive had them for four years so they aint new but this one is killin me. ive never bin in so much pain, ive bin curled up on my bed rockin to try and stop it n ...
A. 25 May 2009: All the ideas that 'Ginalolabridga' and 'betty black' said were really good but if nothing they suggested helps, and if the pains are serious, you could talk to your mom about going to a gyno and get birth control pills, they'll help the pains and ... (read in full...)
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