He says he loves me but I don't know because he cheated on his girlfriend with me...
Q. Okay so I don't know what to do, this guy I'm in love with(lets call him ed) is always texting me and he says he loves me too but I don't know because he had a girlfriend and cheated on her with me. and they broke up and he promised we would be ...
A. 2 July 2009: It sounds like he's just using you. He might say he loves you and wants to be with you but think about it, if he cheated on his ex girlfriend with you, then he's most likely gonna do the same thing to you and you'd end up getting hurt. If you wanna ... (read in full...)
I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!
Q. I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...
A. 30 June 2009: Honestly, just come out and tell him. And I honestly think you should break up with him and find someone better because even though you're the one he was talking to and you were a fake girl, that just shows that he would go and flirt if there was an ... (read in full...)
Do I have to make the first move and ask a guy out?
Q. iv never had a boy friend before today i was talking to my friend on the bus and he told me about this girl who he was about to ask out when she told him he liked her dose that mean i have to make the first move for a guy to ask me out?...
A. 30 June 2009: If you honestly like a guy, it's alright to ask him out instead of waiting for him to ask you. You don't have to make the first move but if you don't show that you like a guy or any signs that you like him more than a friend, then he might not ... (read in full...)
She's 12 and I have feelings for her
Q. ok so, i went to my friends birthday party yesterday and his sister had a couple of friends round ... there was this girl who just seemed to make something click in my brain and she was pretty funny for her age ... but the only problem (or is it a ...
A. 21 June 2009: Well, to be honest, the age difference isn't really that bad, in my opinion. If you do like her, then find out if she likes you and if you really do like her and want to date her then all you really have to do, is get permission from hers and your ... (read in full...)
Shave my pubes for him?
Q. Hiaa im 13 and im unsure if i should shave my pubes for my boy or not. Please give me a answer!!...
A. 20 June 2009: I wondered the same thing when I first started getting into sexual things with my man. I was afraid to ask him but, you should ask him what he likes. Shaving makes it itch and I will honestly tell you, it doesn't feel comfortable growing back and it ... (read in full...)
Dreams of my ex-boyfriend....Should I tell him?
Q. ok so heres the thing. me and my boyfriend broke up last month. we were 2gether for 1yr and 3 months. so like i was really into him. he was acting like a big jerk to me. and i couldn't take it anymore. everyday that went by he wouldn't act like my ...
A. 20 June 2009: You're probably just having dreams because you guys just broke up. I wouldn't tell him because just because you're having these dreams, doesn't mean that you want or need to be with him. They're just dreams, not reality. In reality, you said he was ... (read in full...)
I broke things off with him, now how do I stick with it?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off since November. I realized that this is not healthy for me nor him, and I am really unhappy being with him, but I some how always find my way back to him, and he swoons me with all his, 'i promise i'll ...
A. 16 June 2009: If you honestly do not want to be with him, you need to stay strong and listen to your heart. You need to let him know that it's not his fault and you don't want him to change, you just don't want to be with him anymore. If it's hard Not to go back ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be his girlfriend because he cheats!
Q. I need an advice about my relationship. I have been in this relationship since Dec 2008. He has certainly been more than just a loving and caring person. He has always loved me like a child and been very tender towards me. But this is the second ...
A. 16 June 2009: You've given him quite a few chances, more chances then I'd give my boyfriend, to be honest. If you really do love him then I say you give him just one more chance, and I mean only one more. Sit down and have a serious talk with him and let him know ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to tell his mates that we are dating!
Q. Hey I was just wonderinig you see my boyfreind is really nice and everything i still love him and that. i just find one problem he doesn't want me to tell any of his mates that we are going out! this doesn't really bother me except when i see them ...
A. 12 June 2009: Honestly, I think you should break up with him. If he can't tell his friends who he's dating then he's probably just using you. Usually when a guy starts dating a girl, he wants to tell the world, not keep it private. You're young so you might think ... (read in full...)
When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?
Q. Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...
A. 11 June 2009: I was able to start dating when I was 12 years old. All parents are different though.... (read in full...)
What should I say to him?
Q. I went out with this boy but it only lasted a week because everyone was pretending to go out with me. I still like him and everyone can see it, they all say he likes me too but i don't know if i can trust him again. He's too afraid to say something ...
A. 11 June 2009: Well, the question here is, Do you trust him? Do you think he'd be a good boyfriend to you? If you honestly don't trust him or think you don't then maybe you should try building a friendship with him first and get to know him better if you don't ... (read in full...)
How do I fall out of love?
Q. i think i'm in love with a guy. but i don't want to be, i want to fall out of love with him, that's the question how do i fall out of love with this guy? i feel i should explain first why i need to fall out of love with him. I have liked this guy...
A. 11 June 2009: I honestly think, you should try to stay out of contact with him for a while. You can't control your feelings but he's using you. I know it might be hard but try to focus on other things like, hanging out with friends and try to forget about him. ... (read in full...)
On and off several times, but he has my heart
Q. So I was dating this guy off and on for about three years now. Lets start from the beginning.... Me and him at first weren't really connecting so we broke up. But when we got back together after a few times of trying, we started to have a ...
A. 11 June 2009: I think you should try to move on. He shouldn't tell you he loves you then go and get another girlfriend. Chances are, he's lying about loving you. Some guys are jerks but a lot of guys out there aren't. It might take time for you to move on but you ... (read in full...)
I can't bring myself to kiss her. Help me guys
Q. Hi there I am really nervous,, I am going to the cinema on saturday with a girl i like and we are going with some mates. Well ive never kissed anyone properly before and im really worried because i think she has and i dont want to look like an idiot...
A. 11 June 2009: If you don't tell her, then she won't know. Just be calm, you'll know what to do once you're already kissing her. Trust me.... (read in full...)
I'm still worried about losing my g/f!
Q. I am worried about losing my gf again i mean i lost her nearley to a guy before and then after that i nearley lost her to this girl and now i am just so worried about losing her AGAIN she means the world to me and now that we go back with each othe...
A. 9 June 2009: There are two options here. Have a serious talk with her and also tell her, what you just told us. Let her know that you are afraid of losing her. Or since she's almost left you twice, you could always end the relationship and find someone else who ... (read in full...)
I can't bring myself to kiss her. Help me guys
Q. Hi there I am really nervous,, I am going to the cinema on saturday with a girl i like and we are going with some mates. Well ive never kissed anyone properly before and im really worried because i think she has and i dont want to look like an idiot...
A. 9 June 2009: There is no right or wrong way to kiss a girl. If you really want to kiss her, then just do it. Once you actually start kissing her, you'll be able to go right along with it and you'll know what to do.... (read in full...)
Why am I so scared?
Q. hey I'm 15 years old and I don't what to do. I really want to be in a relationship and have a boyfriend, but the thing is I'm too scared. I don't no why I am so scared, when I talk to boys I start shaking and go all shy. My last relationship I w...
A. 4 June 2009: I'm really sorry to hear that but, You're probably scared because, you're afraid of being abused and hurt again. You just have to keep your head held high and remember that, not all guys are like that. You might not be able to trust guys right away ... (read in full...)
He called me a selfish bitch because I don't want to have sex
Q. So I told my boyfriend that I don't want to do anything sexual with him mainly because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Well he gets mad at me cause I told him earlier I was going to gave him my virginity but I realize I wasn't ready. He called me a ...
A. 4 June 2009: No! He's selfish! I would've done the same thing to my boyfriend, too. Honestly, if he cared about you at all, He'd respect that you're not ready for sex, and wouldn't have called you a selfish bitch, he would've waited. I think you should dump him ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!
Q. I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...
A. 4 June 2009: Honestly, Don't do it! I don't think that sounds like a good way to lose your virginity. Wait until you're actually with someone you love and someone who actually cares about you and loves you. He just wants you for sex, so I wouldn't do it. I don't ... (read in full...)
Your hymen...
Q. Hi... I'm 13 years old, and I'm only here to ask this one question. I was told today that you can 'break your hymen' and i've been told too many things, and I'm not sure what is the truth.. Please, will someone explain to me... how do you brea...
A. 3 June 2009: Your hymen is a thin layer of skin in your vagina. It can be broken by wearing tampons, sex, or activities like riding bikes, horse back riding, etc. Once it's broken though, it doesn't hurt to have sex or be fingered. You do bleed when it breaks ... (read in full...)
Why aren't I good enough for him any more?
Q. My boyfriend flirts with other girls... but not just any girls. My best friends... while I'm there! We've been going out a while, few months and we're both the same age really. I'm almost 14, he is. He is also kind of pressuring me into sexual ...
A. 1 June 2009: To be honest, I'd dump him. If he's trying to pressure you into doing things that you're not comfortable with and flirts with your best friends in front of you, then he doesn't respect you at all. You can find someone who's better than that. ... (read in full...)
Why do guys say sappy things like"awww" all the time, just wondering?
Q. Hey! :D I was just wondering why some guys say 'awww' to almost everything you say? It happens to me quite often, mainly it is on msn. I wouldn't usually imagine some guys to say it, even some who are not necessarily tough, but would never say extr...
A. 29 May 2009: Well if it's when you say something sweet to them or are complaining about something then, its probably because he doesn't feel like saying too much back. Lol I'll tell my boyfriend he's amazing or something and I'll get an "Aww" and nothing else. ... (read in full...)
Does she really care more about him than me?
Q. Basically, my girlfriend of nearly eight months has been talking to this guy over the internet for about four years. She says they used to be, sort of together, long distance but then she broke with him (she says). Thing is, she always wants to ...
A. 28 May 2009: I think you should end this relationship because it seems to me, she's using you. Let him have her, let them talk online and you can go out and get a girlfriend that's better than that. Someone who respects you, doesn't go around flirting/cheating ... (read in full...)
What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?
Q. What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?...
A. 27 May 2009: There's two choices here. Either, talk to him about it and let him know that you don't want sex all the time and you'd like to spend time with him and do other things other than have sex. Choice two, if he doesn't understand and gets mad when you ... (read in full...)
Should I be with him, when he hides from his girlfriend with me and makes out?
Q. I think I have an issue. I am in love with a guy that already has a grilfriend. We were dating for a while but he dumped me. We still like each other- it's obvious. We have kinda become friends with benefits we dont have sex we just make out. Last ...
A. 25 May 2009: What both of you are doing, is wrong. Yes, that IS cheating! Think about how you would feel if you found out that your boyfriend was cheating on you. You'd be upset right? That's how she's gonna feel and I think you should step up and tell him that ... (read in full...)
I am having terrile pain from my period. Can anyone suggest something to do or take that will ease the pain?
Q. i really need some help quick cuz im in reallyyyy bad pain. ive just come on my period and ive had them for four years so they aint new but this one is killin me. ive never bin in so much pain, ive bin curled up on my bed rockin to try and stop it n ...
A. 25 May 2009: All the ideas that 'Ginalolabridga' and 'betty black' said were really good but if nothing they suggested helps, and if the pains are serious, you could talk to your mom about going to a gyno and get birth control pills, they'll help the pains and ... (read in full...)
Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?
Q. ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...
A. 24 May 2009: It depends on the guy. If and when you have sex and if you're worried about it, ask him what he likes but it's all about what makes you comfortable.... (read in full...)
How do I tell mommy and daddy that I'm ready to date?
Q. I am 13 and I think I am ready to start dating. How do I tell my parents?...
A. 22 May 2009: If you really think you're ready to have a girlfriend then sit down with your parents and have a serious talk with them about it. If you can have a mature talk with them, then they'll see that you're mature enough to handle having a girlfriend. Just ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart, but I'm still in love with him, what can I do to move on with my life?
Q. ok im 14 years old and madly in love with my ex bf whos 15. but again hes my EX BOYFRIEND.....and its got me really depressed why: -hes got alot to handel all the time because hes got a hard life and hes not as strong as he comes across (but i...
A. 22 May 2009: You're only 14 so you're still young and you'll find someone else. It might hurt since you cared about him and loved him but The best thing to do, to get over him, is not have any contact with him what so ever, especially if it's awkward when you do ... (read in full...)
Do girls just date people because they can?
Q. Do girls just date people because they can? There is a girl that i know that is dating someone that (at least i think) she does not even like....
A. 22 May 2009: Well, if she doesn't like him then Maybe she's dating him for attention or just so she can fit in and have a boyfriend. A lot of girls though, wait until they actually like a guy to go out with him. Not all girls are the same, so don't judge. ... (read in full...)
My friend told the whole school about the girl I like!
Q. Im 13 and my friend asked me who I like, I told him and the next day at school he tells everyone! I asked him why he did it and he said it was about reverse physcoligy and that would make her go out with me. He said he'd ask her out for me and when ...
A. 22 May 2009: Something kinda like that, happened to me too. It was about 3 years ago, I told my friend who I liked and she ended up telling my teacher and my teacher screamed out to everyone that I liked this guy. It was embarrassing.
Anyway...Don't worry too ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out again, after she turned me down, or ask someone else out?
Q. Im 13 and I like a popular girl in my grade. She turned me down so I thought of going out with girl of my "level". Should I ask the popular girl out again or should I go out with the other girl? ...
A. 22 May 2009: Well, just because she's popular, doesn't mean you have to date her. If she turned you down once, that means she doesn't like you so you gotta deal with that and try to move on. If you really do like the other girl, go for it! Ask her out:)... (read in full...)
She wants to break up!
Q. Three weeks ago there was this girl that i got together with and we felt like we were the best couple ever, better than any of our other relationships. one day she just changed, she hasn't been trying to get a hold of me in any way, now she wants ...
A. 21 May 2009: You can't change how she feels. You might really like her but you're young and you might think that there aren't any better girls out there but trust me, you can find someone that's better than that. If the relationship doesn't work out and she ends ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a player?
Q. This guy asked me out, but he's a real player. but i have seen him be really sweet and nice, i'm just afraid he might cheat. should i say yes?...
A. 21 May 2009: If he's known as a player and if he's cheated on past girlfriends, then no I don't think you should date him. Do you want to get hurt? If you don't then, just say no because theres other guys out there that are better than that.... (read in full...)
Is he using me to get her back?
Q. ok, so i have this bf who i love and believe i am IN love with... just heres the problem... He loves me also... just him and his ex is making me so mad. He will walk away from me to hangout with her, talks to her, gives her hugs. and crap. im j...
A. 21 May 2009: If he says he loves you but goes off saying he wants to be with another girl, then he really doesn't love you. If he actually loved you then he'd respect you and want only you, nobody else. You might love him and it might be hard but you should ... (read in full...)
Why am I not over him yet??
Q. Ok so the guy who I crushed on in 3rd 4th and 5th grade came back to school after Christmas. He is really hot and he was like amazing! ok so I totally picked up where I left off (totally in love with him!) every time he was around I would get really ...
A. 20 May 2009: Since you crushed on him for so long, it is going to take a while for you to get over him. You did do the right thing by breaking up with him for smoking pot and everything because, I wouldn't wanna boyfriend that smoked pot. It will be hard but try ... (read in full...)
He said "I love you" and I think it was too soon, what now?
Q. Well I just started seeing this guy and well I really like him. But he asked me to be his girl friend a few days after I met him and then one night I went over to his house and he told me he loved me. I think that was way way to fast. What should I ...
A. 18 May 2009: Tell him the truth. Do NOT say "I Love You" if you don't mean it. Love might be a four letter word but it has A LOT of meaning to it and I think he did say it too soon. Just tell him that you really really like him and want to date him longer and ... (read in full...)
We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?
Q. Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...
A. 17 May 2009: You're welcome! If you need anything else, just let me know!... (read in full...)
We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?
Q. Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...
A. 17 May 2009: Well, she might not want to disrespect her parents but here's my advice. Lol Instead of asking her out on an actual date, I think you should ask her to do something on your birthday, as FRIENDS and see where it all goes from there. During the day, ... (read in full...)
He's so 'hot' and 'cold' with me, I don't think I love him anymore..
Q. over the past 5 months I have been having an on and off relationship with my boyfriend. Although he's been acting really off lately and hardly talks to me anymore, leaving me to start conversations. I've asked him if he's okay and he seems fine. I ...
A. 17 May 2009: You need to tell your boyfriend the truth about how you feel and maybe he'll open up and tell you anything if he's hiding any feelings. As for the other guys, they're called crushes and I agree with the first answer, if you have feelings for someone ... (read in full...)
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