Am I supposed to shave down there?
Q. I'm a virgin and I've never been fingered or anything. This is really embarrassing but am I supposed to shave down there and if so how much? all?...
A. 3 April 2009: You don't seriously have to shave. If you want to, you can but it's all about what makes you feel comfortable.... (read in full...)
I need advice please. She is the one that I need!
Q. Alright, my name is "D". Me and this girl used to date a long time ago back when we first started talking everything seemed to be going fine and it was. After maybe a month of getting to know each other we started dating and i thought that she woul...
A. 1 April 2009: Try to get together with her and have a serious talk and pour your heart out. Let her know that you were a jerk and didn't blame her for breaking up with you but you really want a second chance. Just tell her how you felt then and how you feel now. ... (read in full...)
What should I do when we first meet?
Q. My boyfriend And I have been together for About 5 months now and we're in a long distance relationship. He's coming down this summer And I'm so excited And nervous. How do you think I should be when we meet? ...
A. 1 April 2009: Just be yourself! Also, be calm, if you're nervous when you first meet him, take a few deep breaths and once you start talking to him, you'll be fine. Trust me. Just be yourself, act like you usually act, and you'll be fine.... (read in full...)
What do you think: shaved or natural?
Q. how do i ask if my boyfriend likes shaved pubic hairs or natural? what do you think are better? i dont want this to interrupt me and him , i dont want it to be a turn off when we first decide to have sex....
A. 1 April 2009: If you don't feel comfortable asking, just trim a little of the hair to clean up a little. I got scared to ask my boyfriend and never did, but while we were making out, I wasn't thinking and he ended up fingering me and turns out, he doesn't want me ... (read in full...)
What are the signs he's going to break up with you?
Q. what are some signs a guy gives if he wants to break up with u? or at least thinking bout it...
A. 30 March 2009: Have a serious talk with him. Ask him what he wants to do and tell him you want the truth. If he can't handle a serious relationship then it's time for you to move on, it'll be hard but you'll have to. But you got to get the truth out of him some ... (read in full...)
Getting intimate with my bf felt good but now I feel disgusting!
Q. My boyfriend and I were laying on his bed today and he started asking me if we could "do something" and we've been together for quite awhile now and last time he tried to get me to do something with him, I did a little and told him to stop because I ...
A. 30 March 2009: Sounds like you weren't ready. Just because it FELT good, doesn't mean you were for sure ready. Think it over when he asks you to do something with him, even if he has to wait for an answer, then tell him NO If you don't feel right doing it just ... (read in full...)
I told her I had a crush on her but she said she's not interested... what now?
Q. I like this girl we've looked at each other from time to time and I said that I have a crush on you and that she's beautiful. She replied saying "ha thanks:)" and then we talked and today I sent her a message with the words of the song "your so ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well, if she doesn't like you then there's not much you can do. You can't and shouldn't try to force a girl to like you. Talk to her and see if you guys can still be friends(IF you want to be), But other than that, move on. You'll find someone ... (read in full...)
Too scared to ask her out...
Q. I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem ...
A. 30 March 2009: Just get together with her and make sure it's just you two alone. Tell her exactly how you feel and ask her out. Since you've already kissed her, she probably does like you. Just ask her out and yes you'll be nervous but once you get to talking to ... (read in full...)
What are the signs he's going to break up with you?
Q. what are some signs a guy gives if he wants to break up with u? or at least thinking bout it...
A. 29 March 2009: He'll stop texting/calling as much, try to adviod you, Won't kiss you or hug you as much or at all, won't want to see you as much as usual, depressed around you(Sometimes).... (read in full...)
He wants to get engaged! We're so young!
Q. does he really love me and want to get engaged im only 15 he is 14 he wants to start and family and get married when im 18 and he is 17 what should i do?...
A. 29 March 2009: Oh wow! That IS way too young. If you feel uncomfortable and think he is moving too fast, tell him that. Have a serious talk with him and tell him that you think you guys should wait to see if you last for a while and then when you're older, maybe ... (read in full...)
I went into his myspace account and found out he's cheating
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and recently had suspicions of him cheating/flirting with other girls so i went on his myspace account to look at his messages (the ones only he can access) and he is cheating i want to end it now b...
A. 29 March 2009: I wouldn't lie to him. Just confront him about it, tell him you had the feeling he was cheating/flirting because he was acting a little different around you and just, tell him the truth of what you did. You shouldn't be the one apologizing or ... (read in full...)
Too much pressure on my b/f to help me?
Q. im 16 and have been having problems at home with my mum and i usually talk to my boyfriend about it but im worried im putting to much pressure on him to be there for me. because about 4 hours ago i had an argument with my mum and she walked out of ...
A. 29 March 2009: In my opinion, you're not putting too much pressure on him. But, if this is really bugging you, maybe you should just ask him. But boyfriends are supposed to be there for you, no matter what. So, just ask him. Don't be afraid.... (read in full...)
Should I secretly have a boyfriend?
Q. well me and my mom don't have a really close relationship i want to tell her things like i want a boyfriend or something but she won't listen. Should i secretly have a boyfriend?or What? i can't explain to her...
A. 28 March 2009: I don't think you should date a guy secretly because she'll find out one way or another. Just sit down with your mom and talk to her and let her know that you think you're old enough and mature enough for a boyfriend. Tell her exactly how you feel ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friends it's not right and it's not lame?
Q. i am going to stay a virgin until im married but my friends say i have to have sex or i'm a lame. how do i tell my friends it's not right without becoming a lame?...
A. 28 March 2009: You don't have to prove it to your friends. Don't listen to them! Honestly, It's better to wait until you're married because you'll be with someone you really love and you won't regret it. If you have sex now, you'll most likely regret it when ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't kiss her and now she won't talk to me
Q. My girl friend tried to kiss wile we were going out once i said no, and she wont talk to me. what should i do?...
A. 28 March 2009: I agree with the answer below. If she's your girlfriend, you should kiss her. Why wouldn't you? Of course, she's not talking to you. She's probably mad and hurt over it. Apologize to that girl.... (read in full...)
He left me for another girl and it's killing me...
Q. This guy left me for another girl. It's been a week. She is prettier and more popualar. I feel really gutted. But also, we parted on bad terms and I can't ever speak to him again, and I know for a fact he will never contact me ever again. I miss him ...
A. 28 March 2009: You'll find someone better, and you said it's only been a week, so yes, you will feel hurt. Try to get over him, it might take a while but work on it. If you'd like to still be friends, text him or call him and let him know you'd love to still be ... (read in full...)
17 and no girlfriend!
Q. I am just 17 years old and i have not gotten a girlfriend before, i am not desperate. I do have female friends and i have fallen in love with one of them but the problem is that she is older than me(20 years). I dont know if she loves me, she tells ...
A. 28 March 2009: Tell her exactly how you feel. You being 17 and her being 20, isn't much of an age difference. Have a talk with her, pour your heart out and just tell her how you're feeling and hope she feels the same way.... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do in a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone!!! I need help ummmm this guy asked me out and I said that I would think about it!! And I honestly don't know what to do sure I like him and everything but I've never been in a relationship or anything that has to do with that except for ...
A. 28 March 2009: In a relationship, you go on dates, to the movies, dinner, or invite him to hang out at your house to watch movies and such. Call him and text him, sometimes just to let him know he's on your mind. Believe it or not, guys like that. Once you guys ... (read in full...)
Thoughts about first time sex
Q. Hi everyone! Okay I'm not saying that I'm going to have sex or anything I'm just very curious what is it like the first time you have sex? Does it hurt? Does it feel good? Is it amazing or what? I need to know!!:) it would really help me out for ...
A. 28 March 2009: It really depends. My first time, It didn't hurt but for a few seconds. But every girl is different. But make sure when you decide to lose your virginity, it's with someone you love and really care about or you'll regret it later. And remember to ... (read in full...)
Would you consider this cheating?
Q. Hi people, this morning I was walking down the hall of my school with my friends and then I meet up with my best friend. We were walking down the hall and we go past my boyfriend and all my friends say that they saw him hug and kiss a different ...
A. 28 March 2009: Everyone is different and for me, if I seen my boyfriend kiss another girl on the cheek and hug her, I would consider it cheating. If you trust what your friends say, then confront him about it.... (read in full...)
She made out with another guy, should I forgive her?
Q. Hi, well my dilemma is with my girlfriend. We've going out for a year. She's 15 and I'm 14 turning 15 this year... and yes we've been intamate once and decided to wait until we started doing it casually.. we love each other very much. The th...
A. 28 March 2009: Yes, she made a mistake. Everyone does. She should've kept her promise but didn't and I don't think you're in the wrong for being mad and hurt over the whole thing. But, if you really do love her like you say you do, I'd give her a second chance. ... (read in full...)
We argue over stupid stuff
Q. im 13 and so is my boyfriend.we have been going out for 5 months and we have our ups and downs.the affinity I have for him is sooo strong I just can let him go.WE argue but he says its just disagreeing with each other but is this really worth it ...
A. 27 March 2009: All couples fight. But if you think you're fighting and arguing and disagreeing all the time, then that probably means, you might not be right for each other. You're still young, there's going to be more guys to come and go. Explore a little and ... (read in full...)
Going out with someone else but still have feelings for my ex
Q. hi im 15 and im going out with a 17 year old (ik its a bit of an age difference but idc bout that) named Beth and shes great. she smart, athletic, pretty and a bunch more things. i love her and all but we started going out um about 5 or 6 days after ...
A. 27 March 2009: First off, I noticed you said "I love" a lot in your question. If you say you "love" two girls, you obviously don't know exactly what love is or feels like. You probably do like both of these girls a lot but if you and your ex broke up, and you got ... (read in full...)
Did YOU bleed your first time???
Q. Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping ...
A. 27 March 2009: For me, it was painful for the first few seconds, but then it was fine, not painful at all. There was no blood while having sex but afterwards there was very little blood.... (read in full...)
She wants to end this as she thinks I will end up hating her! Help!
Q. Hey, I've been going out with this girl for about 7 days. Now she's all like, 'you shouldnt go out with me', and she says that its bcuz she will probably do something wrong, and i will end up hating her. What does this mean? I'm confused. ple...
A. 26 March 2009: She might've been hurt in the past by other boyfriends of hers, blaming herself and might be afraid of getting hurt again. I think you should talk with her and try getting some answers out of her about this situation. If there weren't any guys in ... (read in full...)
Virginity is nothing to play around with
Q. Ok so i have a girlfriend that i am truly in love with anyway we were talking and sex thing came up..i am 16 and shes 14 it even might be illegal but anyway we dont live in usa and i never heard any law that says that here anyway.. My g...
A. 26 March 2009: You're for sure, not wrong! She might regret it later. If she thinks something is wrong with her since you don't want her to regret it, talk to her and let her know that you do love her, and care about her(Even telling her she is beautiful might ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's fat!
Q. hi :) well i have a bf and i really love him but he is fat nd i am too but not big he little bigger than me nd like i dnt date fat boyz nd sometimes i think to myself should i even be with him but i love him! or do i just love him beacuse he said he ...
A. 26 March 2009: Don't judge him just because of his looks. If you don't know if you love him, Ask yourself: Do you think he's caring? Loving? Thinks he really cares about you? Questions like that. But don't just break up with him because he's "fat". That's wrong ... (read in full...)
What would a guy do that would make a girl think he's sweet?
Q. hi well I'm just curious but girls what does and guy have to do for you to consider him sweet or nice or whatever is the best adjective out there. thanks bye....
A. 26 March 2009: For me personally, a guy that I'd consider sweet is a guy that shows he cares about me, calls just to say "I love you", hugs me, Holds/Cuddles with me, kisses me, listens to me, when nobody else does and actually cares if I'm upset, tells me I'm ... (read in full...)
Does he want more from me?
Q. My boyfriend just fingered me and it was really good. I just want to know will he want more now and want to have sex? I mean we have talked about how we are going to want a little bit but he is always all over me and was just wanting to know if he ...
A. 25 March 2009: He'll for sure, want more. He's a teenager, all teenage boys, want more. But if he honestly respects you, he'll wait until You're ready to do more. You're still young, just wait. The time will come and you'll know when you're ready. Until then, If ... (read in full...)
What's your dream girl/guy?
Q. If you could have a dream girl/guy what would they be like??...
A. 21 March 2009: My dream guy: Light brownish/blonde hair(Medium length), blue/green eyes, Taller than me, Not skinny but kinda built(Not fat either), Nice, caring, sweet, but outgoing. Funny and can make me laugh but be serious when I need him to. Great kisser. ... (read in full...)
Is the age difference too much here?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 well 14 but going be 15 in a couple of months or so. Anyway I really like this girl, her name is Bethand, she's my best friend's sister but he wouldn't care if we went out. A lot of other people would: my ex would start rumours about ...
A. 20 March 2009: I don't agree with the first answer at all. It's only a 2-3 year age difference. I don't see why you guys couldn't date. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15. That's about the same thing. You're just younger and she's the older one. Nothing bad. But when ... (read in full...)
Stuck between 2 crushes
Q. Dear Cupid... i am stuck between two crushes... the first guy is a jerk who is only nice when were alone i guess its coz hes got that cool image an his friends hate me but i can really open up to him an talk to him an he always tells me it wi...
A. 19 March 2009: I agree with the other two answers! Go for the second guy! If the first guy is going to be a jerk and only talk to you and be nice to you when you two are alone, then he's NOT worth your time! The second guy, sounds like a pretty nice guy and like ... (read in full...)
What exactly is it that girls look for in a guy?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and I was wondering what do most girls look for in a guy??? So this is mainly for girls but guys can answer too I guess and I'm not asking this so I can get a girl but I just want to know....
A. 19 March 2009: For me, personally, I like a guy that's caring, sweet but outgoing at the same time and isn't a player, sticks with his girl, and can make me laugh.... (read in full...)
I'm not going to be stupid when I'm this young!
Q. I feel that my boyfriend is coming on a little too strong. I'm 13 and he's already talking about getting married!! We have been dating for 7 amazing months, and I love him so much. But I mean really, should we be thinking about marriage quite yet? ...
A. 19 March 2009: Don't do anything that you're not comfortable with! If you don't want to have sex, or even foreplay, then tell him you don't want to and if he really loves you, he'll respect you and what you want. As for the marriage thing, I'm 13 too and my ... (read in full...)
Torn between my current boyfriend and ex-boyfriend.
Q. Hi everyone, Im so confused at the minute. I was with my ex for 5 months and since then Ive been with my current boyfriend for 16 months. I love him very very much but every day now I find myself thinking about my ex more and more. I would ne...
A. 15 March 2009: I think you should try your hardest to get over your ex. You might still have feelings for him but if he treated you bad like you said, and your current boyfriend is the "perfect" guy in your eyes, I'd stay with him because if you would break up ... (read in full...)
I think my best friend is in love with my boyfriend?!!!?
Q. I think my Best Friend is in love with my Boyfriend?!!!? Me, my best friend met my boyfriend-to-be in a halloween party. the following year, in february, this guy proposed to me, and i accepted. something happened a month later- something stupid...
A. 6 March 2009: Well, I was kind of in the same situation as you. I met a guy back in October 2008 and we started dating and my best friend, of 3 years(Who didn't even know my boyfriend), said she liked him. I found out she was calling him, telling my frien... (read in full...)
All we've done is kiss, but I want to go further... any advice would be great!
Q. Ok well i am 14 years old and my bf is 16. we have been dating for 8 months. All we have done is kissing and making out. We want to go further. What is the best way to get in the mood. If he fingers me will it hurt? When we have sex will it hurt a ...
A. 28 February 2009: Well, whether someone tells you to do it or not, You're going to end up doing what you want to in the end. So you're asking, if it'll hurt when he fingers you and the answer is, yes. If you've never been fingered before then it will hurt until you ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I let his friend finger me???
Q. Hey, One day I was at my boyfriends and he introduced me to his best friend. At first I wasn't attracted to him but as time went on I started to like him more and more. A few weeks later we were all under a blanket watching a film and he held my ...
A. 16 February 2009: If you really love your boyfriend and you're done fooling around with his friend, then don't tell him but don't let anything happen like that, ever again. You can tell him, I Mean, it'd be the right thing to do but he'll most likely be real mad and ... (read in full...)
Any advice for 1st kiss?
Q. hi everyone, ive been going out with a guy for about a month and hes soo sweet hes taking me out for valentines day and then we're going to the cinema and i know he wants to get off (make out) with me but its my first kiss and i dont know how to any ...
A. 13 February 2009: When I had my first kiss which was on Christmas Eve 2008, I was caught off guard. Maybe you should try to forget about the kissing and just enjoy yourself and let him make the first move. Once he kisses you, you'll know how. I did and I'm sure you ... (read in full...)
First date! Any tips?
Q. Hi Ive asked a girl out and she said yes. We are going to the cinema i think (lol). I just donno what do do on the first date. I get nervous around girls and this is gonna be really hard :P any tips?...
A. 13 February 2009: Going to the cinema is good for a first date! Keep that plan! If you wanted to do something after the cinema though, try going out to eat. Nothing fancy or special. Maybe something like going out for pizza.... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl to be my girlfriend?
Q. ok im an 14 year old boy, i like this girl at my school but i wanted to ask her to be my girlfriend but i dont know if she likes me and im too nervous to ask her, so how do i ask her to be my gf?...
A. 12 February 2009: If you don't know for sure if she likes you, get a friend of yours or her's that you can completely trust, and get them to find out ahead of time, if she likes you or not. If she does, make your move and ask her out. You might be nervous at first ... (read in full...)
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