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How do I ask a girl to be my girlfriend?

Q.   ok im an 14 year old boy, i like this girl at my school but i wanted to ask her to be my girlfriend but i dont know if she likes me and im too nervous to ask her, so how do i ask her to be my gf?...

A.   12 February 2009: If you don't know for sure if she likes you, get a friend of yours or her's that you can completely trust, and get them to find out ahead of time, if she likes you or not. If she does, make your move and ask her out. You might be nervous at first ... (read in full...)

I got mad when I saw him hugging another girl- am I in the wrong?

Q.   ok im not sure if im in the wrong or not about my situation so here it is me and my boyfriend agreed to not hug anymore people of the opposite sex so today when i was in school i turned around and he was hugging another girl and i dont know but when ...

A.   12 February 2009: You're not in the wrong. Different people have different opinions on what they like and don't like. If you guys both agreed not to hug other people then he shouldn't do it. If you still hug other people then I think he should have the right to do ... (read in full...)

I keep hearing my boyfriend is flirting with other girls, what should I believe?

Q.   i keep hearing things from other people that my boyfriend keeps messing around with other girls and flirting and stuff like that. i try not to believe it, but its almost a daily thing and he gets mad when i do believe it. but im not sure what is ...

A.   12 February 2009: If the other people who you are hearing this from, are random people just telling you things then don't believe them. If they're your friends or people you can trust, then you might want to believe them. Just sit down and have a serious talk with ... (read in full...)

Terrified to ask her out in case she says no and it ruins our friendship.

Q.   I have a few questions... I have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. We have alot in common and I have the sense that she likes me too. She is always giving me random hugs and whatnot so I think it's time to ask ...

A.   10 February 2009: I think you should ask her out and since it really seems like you guys have a lot in common and are really good friends, try to promise that nothing will happen to your guys' friendship if there is a break up or fight. If she says no when you ask ... (read in full...)

My parents won't let me have a boyfriend...

Q.   ok I'm 13 and this guy in my nieghborhood is 15 and we are both in 8th grade. I like him (I might love him) he liked me last year and we talk all the time we are like best friends I think he likes me and I want him to ask me out, my mom lets me and ...

A.   12 January 2009: Well, I used to be in the same position that you're in right now. My mom wouldn't let me have a boyfriend. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15 right now. I talked to my mom about it. Maybe you should try talking to your parents, and let them know that you ... (read in full...)

How far would a partner need to go for it to be considered as cheating???

Q.   hi What would your girlfriend/boyfriend have to do for you to consider they have cheated on you? Thanks I'm really confused right now :( x x x x...

A.   9 January 2009: It really depends on what you think cheating is. For me, if my boyfriend just kissed another girl, I'd consider it as cheating. So it all really depends on what you think cheating is. Hope you're okay.... (read in full...)

Girls Girls Girls please help

Q.   Question to girls, do you find guys that wear tight pants attractive??? I'm not talking about the super emo tight pants but something that hugs the body at least??? And why do you find it attractive???...

A.   8 January 2009: For me, tight pants on a guy is just gross. Lol I like guys that wear loose pants, not real baggy but loose. I don't understand why some guys like tight pants. Its just..eww!! Lol ... (read in full...)

How long does it usually take a guy to say I love you?

Q.   so my bf and i have been together for over a month and he is a little less than 3 years older than me. he is a juinor in highschool and i am a freshman. he has never said i love you, and we talk on the phone alot, and i get to see him about once ...

A.   7 January 2009: Well, it all depends. He might not exactly love you yet. There's a BIG Difference between like and love, and "In Love". He might be using you but just because he doesn't tell you he loves you or tells you that you're pretty, doesn't really mean he's ... (read in full...)

He's hot I like him

Q.   Hello. I need help. I am new to this so I'm just testing it. I like this guy. He's hot but I doubt he likes me back. Any advice?...

A.   7 January 2009: Well, first off, you can't just say you like a guy because he's hot. Okay, you can but its not right. Talk to him and get to know him a little better and find out about his personality too because I doubt you want a boyfriend who's a jerk riight? ... (read in full...)

All my friends have done it but me and now I've met a guy who wants to take my virginity, should I do it or not?

Q.   Hey i knw am under age n all... buh am just having second thoughts... all my friends have done it. there's this guy at skwel a little bit older than me and we only started talking on msn..( as friends) then he mentions tht he wants so bad.. 4...

A.   5 January 2009: Don't do it! He's using you! He's going to have sex with you then leave you. He's using you and if you're smart enough, you won't do it! You'll regret it. And just because all your friends say they have done it, doesn't mean that you have to, too! ... (read in full...)

I can't see my boyfriend!

Q.   hey us ee im 13 my bf is 14 nd i love him alot... weve been together 4 a long time...nd well my mom dosnt aprove nd she found us just talking outside...bcuz i would see him witout my parents notice nd well i love him alot nd my mom dosnt let us b...

A.   5 January 2009: You should try having a serious talk with your mom about this. Try telling her that your old enough and mature enough to have a boyfriend, if she still doesn't approve, ask her to meet him and get to know him a little better. I was in the same ... (read in full...)

Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age?

Q.   Why do girls feel the need to lose their virginity at a young age? I know when I settle down,I want someone who hasn't slept around with many partners. All sleeping around seems to do at a young age is get girls popularity and a nasty reputatio...

A.   4 January 2009: Not ALL girls think they need to lose their virginity at a young age. It all has to deal with being responsible. A lot of the girls that do lose their virginity being young, get pressured from everyone talking about having sex and everything. Plus, ... (read in full...)

I TALK ABOUT HIM ALL THE TIME, AM I OBSESSED?

Q.   Everyone thinks im becoming obsessed with my new boyfriend because i talk about him so much, i have known him for over 2 years and were best friends, this wasnt enough and we felt a love for each other so decided to become a couple, i talk about him ...

A.   4 January 2009: If you just started dating him then it's normal to brag about your boyfriend. Lol! Maybe you Should tone it down a bit but its perfectly normal to brag about your boyfriend but it doesn't make you obsessed. It just shows that you really like him and ... (read in full...)

He kissed my Mom--should I ever trust him again?

Q.   hi all,this my first time here and i hope that you help me with my problem,i found this site using google cuz i really don't now what to do? my problem is that i recntly cut down my boyfriend because he did something very terrible. see,my parent...

A.   4 January 2009: If he's tried that hard to get you to talk to him again, then yes try to trust him again. Get him to prove to you or show you that you can trust him again, especailly if your mom is one that made the move. I mean, everybody makes mistakes and don't ... (read in full...)

I like 2 guys, I'm so confused...

Q.   So i'm 15 and i've liked this guy since the beginning of last year. He knew i liked him and we flirted and hung out a little bit but he started to kinda use me. So anyway i barely talked to him all summer and school started back up and now i'm going ...

A.   3 January 2009: If the first guy used you, then why would you want to date him again anyway? If he used you once, what makes you think that he wouldn't use you again? Also, don't brag. Lol If you keep bragging to the first guy about you and your boyfriend then it ... (read in full...)

I treat girls so well and yet they treat me so badly!

Q.   Im 16, and all i have is problems when it comes to dating. girls always make guys out to be the evil ones. but my world is completely up side down. i have been in a few relationships. every girl has dumped me. all but 1 have cheated on me...at least ...

A.   2 January 2009: I agree with the rest, You are WAY to nice. You need to chill and have some fun, also, stop with the expensive gifts. Lol I mean, gifts are nice but girls usually don't care how much a guy spends on them. And I see, you're still young..like me ... (read in full...)

Why did I do something like that? Now she doesn't trust me

Q.   Dear Cupid i cheated on my girl friend, and i hate myself for it. i'v hurt the love of my life so bad, iv broken hers and my heart, and the thought of life with out her is killing me. last night (new years eve) i kissed this girl i didnt know and...

A.   2 January 2009: It will take some time for her to be able to trust you again. Whether it was just a kiss, even if it was just a hug, it was kinda still cheating. I agree with pinkipod too, don't bribe her with any gifts of any kind, or that will just make the ... (read in full...)

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