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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I of 3 months are going through a rough patch. He lives 30 minutes away from me and its hard getting together. He just got his license a month ago and he promised that he would see me more but it’s been hard because I started a new job and work a lot of hours. I won’t see him for three weeks unless I drive to his house. So we usually call or text each other every day but something’s bothering me. Yesterday I had college and work so he talked to me until class started. He stopped talking to me because he and his sister were driving around having fun. His sister and I are friends but im jealous that instead of maybe trying to see me he would rather drive his sister's place while bored. I’m stuck with school and work. It’s hard for me doing both because I never have much free time. So after school that day I had work and we talked a little before but after work while he was at his friends house he didn’t have his phone so I went to bed. Now today I told him that I think we need to not talk to each other today because I need some space. I feel this way because if he can spend a lot of days having fun then why should I have to text him constantly on my only day off? Am I making a big deal out of this? I always cry now when I leave his house and it never used to bother me before. It may be because I know ill never see him for a couple of weeks.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 November 2010):
 He's not as interested in you as you are in him. You are doing all of the pursuing, and he's just treating you like a fixture. The real question is, do you want someone who could take you or leave you and pretty much rates you lower than driving around with his buddies, or do you want a guy who will cherish you and be so happy to have you in his life?
You need to fill your time with other things that don't involve him. There's nothing worse than sitting at home waiting for him to call you and relying on someone else for your social life. Go out there and grab life for yourself! While you're at it, drop him and trade up!
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (18 November 2010):
There's no reason why you guys have to wait 2-3 weeks to see each other. My boyfriend lives 30 minutes away and I see him every single weekend and call and text him during the week when we're busy. You should talk to him and both of you try to put an effort in to see each other more, if you can't then maybe it's time for you guys to break it off.
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