A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I went out with this boy but it only lasted a week because everyone was pretending to go out with me. I still like him and everyone can see it, they all say he likes me too but i don't know if i can trust him again. He's too afraid to say something infront of his friends and i wouldn't know what to talk about on our own. What should i say and should i trust him? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (11 June 2009):
Well, the question here is, Do you trust him? Do you think he'd be a good boyfriend to you? If you honestly don't trust him or think you don't then maybe you should try building a friendship with him first and get to know him better if you don't know him well enough already. If you're friends with him first and learn more about him and what his personality is like then you'll be able to tell if you can trust him enough to be his girlfriend. Good luck.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Don't go by what everyone else says...trust your gut. Do you feel like you can trust him? Do you really think he likes you back? Talk to him about it, just not in front of his friends. If you have his number, it might be best to call or text him.
...............................
A
female
reader, Smellyellie +, writes (10 June 2009):
 this is completely up too you. How long have you known this boy for?
The thing is you are still really young and have plenty of time for boys. Girls grow up faster then boys. Please remember this! Boys can be very immature and don't like to talk about their feelings especially infornt of their friends..
The best way for this relationship to work again would be to build up on his trust. This would mean going out with him and aload of your mates and just generally get to know him better.. This will then make him feel more secure with you and not act like such a doufuss.
Believe me boys are not worth it when you are really young! Stick to being with your girl mates you have pleanty of time when your older to be width boys!
...............................
|
