I am having terrile pain from my period. Can anyone suggest something to do or take that will ease the pain?
Q. i really need some help quick cuz im in reallyyyy bad pain. ive just come on my period and ive had them for four years so they aint new but this one is killin me. ive never bin in so much pain, ive bin curled up on my bed rockin to try and stop it n ...
A. 25 May 2009: All the ideas that 'Ginalolabridga' and 'betty black' said were really good but if nothing they suggested helps, and if the pains are serious, you could talk to your mom about going to a gyno and get birth control pills, they'll help the pains and ... (read in full...)
Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?
Q. ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...
A. 24 May 2009: It depends on the guy. If and when you have sex and if you're worried about it, ask him what he likes but it's all about what makes you comfortable.... (read in full...)
How do I tell mommy and daddy that I'm ready to date?
Q. I am 13 and I think I am ready to start dating. How do I tell my parents?...
A. 22 May 2009: If you really think you're ready to have a girlfriend then sit down with your parents and have a serious talk with them about it. If you can have a mature talk with them, then they'll see that you're mature enough to handle having a girlfriend. Just ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart, but I'm still in love with him, what can I do to move on with my life?
Q. ok im 14 years old and madly in love with my ex bf whos 15. but again hes my EX BOYFRIEND.....and its got me really depressed why: -hes got alot to handel all the time because hes got a hard life and hes not as strong as he comes across (but i...
A. 22 May 2009: You're only 14 so you're still young and you'll find someone else. It might hurt since you cared about him and loved him but The best thing to do, to get over him, is not have any contact with him what so ever, especially if it's awkward when you do ... (read in full...)
Do girls just date people because they can?
Q. Do girls just date people because they can? There is a girl that i know that is dating someone that (at least i think) she does not even like....
A. 22 May 2009: Well, if she doesn't like him then Maybe she's dating him for attention or just so she can fit in and have a boyfriend. A lot of girls though, wait until they actually like a guy to go out with him. Not all girls are the same, so don't judge. ... (read in full...)
My friend told the whole school about the girl I like!
Q. Im 13 and my friend asked me who I like, I told him and the next day at school he tells everyone! I asked him why he did it and he said it was about reverse physcoligy and that would make her go out with me. He said he'd ask her out for me and when ...
A. 22 May 2009: Something kinda like that, happened to me too. It was about 3 years ago, I told my friend who I liked and she ended up telling my teacher and my teacher screamed out to everyone that I liked this guy. It was embarrassing.
Anyway...Don't worry too ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out again, after she turned me down, or ask someone else out?
Q. Im 13 and I like a popular girl in my grade. She turned me down so I thought of going out with girl of my "level". Should I ask the popular girl out again or should I go out with the other girl? ...
A. 22 May 2009: Well, just because she's popular, doesn't mean you have to date her. If she turned you down once, that means she doesn't like you so you gotta deal with that and try to move on. If you really do like the other girl, go for it! Ask her out:)... (read in full...)
She wants to break up!
Q. Three weeks ago there was this girl that i got together with and we felt like we were the best couple ever, better than any of our other relationships. one day she just changed, she hasn't been trying to get a hold of me in any way, now she wants ...
A. 21 May 2009: You can't change how she feels. You might really like her but you're young and you might think that there aren't any better girls out there but trust me, you can find someone that's better than that. If the relationship doesn't work out and she ends ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a player?
Q. This guy asked me out, but he's a real player. but i have seen him be really sweet and nice, i'm just afraid he might cheat. should i say yes?...
A. 21 May 2009: If he's known as a player and if he's cheated on past girlfriends, then no I don't think you should date him. Do you want to get hurt? If you don't then, just say no because theres other guys out there that are better than that.... (read in full...)
Why am I not over him yet??
Q. Ok so the guy who I crushed on in 3rd 4th and 5th grade came back to school after Christmas. He is really hot and he was like amazing! ok so I totally picked up where I left off (totally in love with him!) every time he was around I would get really ...
A. 20 May 2009: Since you crushed on him for so long, it is going to take a while for you to get over him. You did do the right thing by breaking up with him for smoking pot and everything because, I wouldn't wanna boyfriend that smoked pot. It will be hard but try ... (read in full...)
He said "I love you" and I think it was too soon, what now?
Q. Well I just started seeing this guy and well I really like him. But he asked me to be his girl friend a few days after I met him and then one night I went over to his house and he told me he loved me. I think that was way way to fast. What should I ...
A. 18 May 2009: Tell him the truth. Do NOT say "I Love You" if you don't mean it. Love might be a four letter word but it has A LOT of meaning to it and I think he did say it too soon. Just tell him that you really really like him and want to date him longer and ... (read in full...)
We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?
Q. Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...
A. 17 May 2009: You're welcome! If you need anything else, just let me know!... (read in full...)
We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?
Q. Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...
A. 17 May 2009: Well, she might not want to disrespect her parents but here's my advice. Lol Instead of asking her out on an actual date, I think you should ask her to do something on your birthday, as FRIENDS and see where it all goes from there. During the day, ... (read in full...)
He's so 'hot' and 'cold' with me, I don't think I love him anymore..
Q. over the past 5 months I have been having an on and off relationship with my boyfriend. Although he's been acting really off lately and hardly talks to me anymore, leaving me to start conversations. I've asked him if he's okay and he seems fine. I ...
A. 17 May 2009: You need to tell your boyfriend the truth about how you feel and maybe he'll open up and tell you anything if he's hiding any feelings. As for the other guys, they're called crushes and I agree with the first answer, if you have feelings for someone ... (read in full...)
We had sex and now he wants to be "friends"...???
Q. my boyfriend and i had sex then he want us to be friends what does that mean...
A. 17 May 2009: Is your age correct? Just wondering.
You gave him what he wanted so he's done. You guys might remain friends but, he's gonna move on. He got what he wanted and it's over.... (read in full...)
She's against the idea of a LDR. How can I change her mind?
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a year and I really, really love her and she loves me similarly. She's 14 and I'm 15. The problem is that both of us have a parent in the military, so us being apart is a very likely ...
A. 15 May 2009: Just tell her how you feel. Let her know that you really like her(or love her if you do) and you don't want to end your guys' relationship because of distance. Remind her that there are ways for you guys to stay in touch-Phone calls, and writing ... (read in full...)
Having doubts and want to end the relationship
Q. I have been going out with a guy for over a month now, but for the past 3 weeks I've been having doubts about the relationship and decided I want to end it. We started going out 5days before half term, and during the half term break I had no c...
A. 14 May 2009: Just tell him you guys need to talk. Take him somewhere, where you two are alone and let him know how you feel and tell him you need a boyfriend that puts effort into the relationship and actually talks to you but you'd still like to be friends, if ... (read in full...)
How can I keep my friend and my boyfriend apart?
Q. I've had this crush on this guy for 4 years and when he asked me out, I was so thrilled. We have been dating for 5 mouths now. But 3 of those months have been on the rocky side. I was getting a feeling that my boyfriend had a crush (huge one) on my ...
A. 14 May 2009: Sit down with them both and let them know how you feel. Tell them you want them to be honest with you and ask your boyfriend and your best friend if they like each other. If they don't feel comfortable talking with you, around each other then talk ... (read in full...)
My gay best friend came on to me and I don't know what to do
Q. Hi i have a problem and i dont know what to do... okay basically my bestfriend joey came out to me...he told me that he was gay and was attracted to guys, i was shocked but i didn't really care so as a good friend would do..i reassured him, com...
A. 11 May 2009: He might have feelings for you now but if he does, and he is your best friend, hopefully he respects that you're not the type to have feelings for him that way and you're still his best friend.... (read in full...)
My gay best friend came on to me and I don't know what to do
Q. Hi i have a problem and i dont know what to do... okay basically my bestfriend joey came out to me...he told me that he was gay and was attracted to guys, i was shocked but i didn't really care so as a good friend would do..i reassured him, com...
A. 7 May 2009: You really do need to talk to him about it. He's your best friend so he'll be willing to have a talk with you about it too. Just sit down with him and let him know that you didn't mean for that to happen, but it's not going to change anything in ... (read in full...)
Caught between two guys
Q. ok here would be my problem, i've been dating this guy for a week.. and now im starting to think this is just a friend kind of thing. and i don't wanna hurt him because i'm afraid that he'll be mad and that he won't wanna be just friends afterwards. ...
A. 6 May 2009: If you really like this other guy, then you can't stay in the relationship you're in and expect it to be perfect. You have to be honest with the guy you're dating now and tell him that you don't see him as a boyfriend but more as a friend. If you're ... (read in full...)
This new guy is so special..but I don't feel like I deserve him!
Q. So i've been in toxic relationships for the past 2 years. Horrible controlling relationships with too much abuse that i put up with. Now that's it's been like 3 months since my last one and i have a new boyfriend. He's a great guy we started off as ...
A. 5 May 2009: Try to get over the past and just think that this guy might be better than the other guys you've dated. Try to trust him because if you don't trust him then things won't work out. You have to be happy in this relationship, and you won't be if you're ... (read in full...)
We really like each other, but if his gf finds out..she'll kick my butt! Help!
Q. im in love with this guy who is completely amazing..and he likes me back...but hes dating this other girl...and he said that if he wasn't dating her he'd be dating me...but i really want 2 date him and we are really close and all...but if his gf ...
A. 5 May 2009: Think about it this way-Do you really want a guy that'll go around flirting with other girls and telling them that he'd be dating them if he wasn't with you? Because like "48years" said, if he's doing that to her with you, How do you know he won't ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to hug me or do anything??
Q. i am almost 16 and me and my not offical boyfriend have been "talking" for ever and he hasn't done anything not even hug and i really dont know how to get him to at least hug me or something he tells me that i am great its not me. he doesnt like ...
A. 5 May 2009: God, I'm sorry but I HATE the advice that satindesire gives. She's rude.
Anyway- Do YOU want him to be your actual boyfriend? If you want him to be, have a serious talk with him and let him know you won't hurt him like his last girlfrie... (read in full...)
My friend, dating my personal girlfriend!
Q. Hi guys, I have a little problem, one of my friends wants to date my personal girlfriend! Please, I need advice on what to do. Please reply as soon as you can. Do I let him?...
A. 5 May 2009: If she's your girlfriend like no FWB or anything, then tell him he needs to back off and leave her alone, she's your girl.... (read in full...)
Is he cheating? Or am I just paranoid?
Q. hey everyone. im almost 16, and have been with my current boyfriend for 4 months. latley things have been abit rocky: so let me explain. i have been out with him before, but ended things because he was always really paranoid, but in October ...
A. 4 May 2009: Yes, He's cheating on you! I think you should dump him. It might be hard for you but you deserve better and don't need to be cheated on. You're still young so you'll find someone who will respect you and won't hurt you. ... (read in full...)
Do you think he is using me for sex?
Q. Im in a relationship and have been for nearly two months. I dont really like relationships so when i do get into one its no long term. The first few weeks was great he took me to the movies, we met each others parents and i think its fair to say t...
A. 4 May 2009: Sex seems to be the only reason he calls you and wants to be with you so, yes I think he is using you. Get rid of him and when he calls you to come over, don't lie. Tell him the truth and say you're not gonna sit there and be used. You'll find a guy ... (read in full...)
Flirting with a guy who isn't single
Q. how dose one flirt with a guy whos not single? and please dont say forget about him because i cannot......
A. 3 May 2009: Well you didn't say much but it IS wrong to flirt with a guy that's not single. I Mean, if you're flirting with a guy that has a girlfriend, think about how she would feel if she found out you were flirting with him and also if she found out you ... (read in full...)
I screwed up with my g/f and wnat her back badly!
Q. Long story short, she is the first girl I have ever had deep feelings for and I didn't know how to handle that so after couple of months I became clingy. Every time I look back on how I acted I feel like kicking myself because, rather than just ...
A. 2 May 2009: Tell her what you just told us. Let her know that you love her and you let your emotions take control and you weren't yourself and let her know you've gotten control and tell her you'd like a second chance. Just tell her whats been on your mind and ... (read in full...)
Opinions needed... I don't know if he likes me?
Q. okay this is the continuation to my previous question basically i have this guy friend who i knew since last semester and we have 2 classes together this semester so we've gotten pretty close. I was convinced that he likes me because he's always ...
A. 1 May 2009: Well, if you really want to know if he likes you, then just ask. If you're nervous, get alone with him sometime and let him know that you like him and tell him your feelings and if you open up, he'll feel more comfortable and open up too.... (read in full...)
My girl broke up with me for my cousin!
Q. my gf of 3 years broke up with me :'( cause of another guy who is my COUSIN!!! i hate him i hate him i hate him. im crying right now and i miss her even though she hurt me and cheated on me with him twice and she just told me. gosh. what do i do. im ...
A. 1 May 2009: Calm down. She's obviously not too good of a girl anyway if she cheated on you. You don't deserve her, you deserve better than that. It might be hard to get over her because of you guys dating so long but trust me, you'll get through it. It will ... (read in full...)
How can I be a great boyfriend?
Q. Hey. This amazing girl is going out with me now. I want to give her everything she deserves. My question is basically "How do I become a great boyfriend?" Any tips, or even your 'ideal' bf would be quite helpful. thanks!...
A. 30 April 2009: Uh satindesire, He asked for advice from us, Not for advice to go to her. If he wanted to ask her, he would've.
Anyway, to be a great boyfriend, just tell her she's beautiful or gorgeous(Beautiful or gorgeous is A LOT better than Hot or sexy). W... (read in full...)
He blames me for cheating! Does he not want me?
Q. What do i do if my boyfriend is always blameing me 4 cheatin but I'm really not??? Do it mean he don't wanna be with me or just what.... ...
A. 28 April 2009: It doesn't really mean that he doesn't wanna be with you. Talk to Him and let him know that you care about him and would never cheat on him. Like Jezebel said, He could've been cheated on in the past and might not be too trusting. Just talk to him ... (read in full...)
In Love with 15 year old guy and I'm 13
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like this guy, he's a gentleman to every girl and he knows who i am the only thing is that he's 2 years older than me!, and i believe that age doesn't matter but he's in my sisters grade see, I'm 13 and he's 15. I've tried to...
A. 25 April 2009: When you see him around in school or something, ask him if you guys can hang out. If you can't hang out then just get alone with him long enough and pour your heart out. Let him know that you really like him and just tell him exactly how you feel. ... (read in full...)
Her parents are very protective and get in the way of our relationship
Q. I am fifteen and so is my girlfriend, we are both about to turn 16 in a few months, and we have been dating for a few weeks. the problem is that her parents are very protective: ie. we went to a movie and her dad had to stay in the theater, and we ...
A. 24 April 2009: You and your girlfriend need to sit down with her parents and talk with them about it. Let them know that you're a good guy and won't hurt her or pressure her into doing anything and you guys would just like some time alone.... (read in full...)
I want him to show more affection!
Q. Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months will be 5 in May... I love him a lot but I don't think he really loves me back. He's really nice sweet funny and everything I want.. the problem is he wont tell me he loves me, kiss me, hold ...
A. 23 April 2009: Have a serious talk with him and ask him to be honest with you and ask him if he really likes you and really wants to be with you. He could also be nervous about holding hands, kissing, etc. So after talking to him about if he really wants to be ... (read in full...)
She's best friends with her ex and even told me she has feelings for him!
Q. My girlfriend has been hanging around her ex-boyfriend a lot more then usual. She goes to see him a lot when he is practicing sports. She tells me that they are best friends and would want nothing more then that. But, today she admitted that she has ...
A. 22 April 2009: I agree with the first answer. If she's your girlfriend, she shouldn't be ignoring you and hanging out with her ex. Her feelings are supposed to be for you, Not another guy. It might be hard but you deserve better and should break up with her, ... (read in full...)
Are we allowed to go out seeing as I'm only 13?
Q. Am 13 and I want to date a 15 year old girl named Sarah, are we allowed to go out? I know she loves me and she knows I love her. Please help me? Are we allowed to go out???...
A. 12 April 2009: I don't see any reason why you guys can't go out. It's not illegal and if your parents don't care then it's fine. I'm 13 and my boyfriend's 15 so were in the same position as you and we've been dating for 6 months. So yes, it's fine:)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never calls or talks to me in class!
Q. well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 days and he never calls me! unless i tell him to since we started going out he only called twice and thats because i told him to. and at school we barely ever talk or see eachother because were in ...
A. 7 April 2009: You need to relax! You said it's been 4 days? He's probably just nervous and you just started dating so just relax! Once you guys get to know each other more and start getting more comfortable around each other, then things will change. My boyfriend ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret whereas I want to tell the world!
Q. my boyfriend is 17 and i am 15 he said for me not to tell anyone about us going out because he thinks people will call him a perv for going out with me. i'v talked to him about it but he just doesn't want anyone to know and keeps changing his story ...
A. 7 April 2009: I agree with the other answers. It sounds to me like he is using you. If he won't take you out in public or doesn't want anyone to know he's dating you, Dump him! He is not worth it. You did the right thing by telling him you don't want to give him ... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to shave down there?
Q. I'm a virgin and I've never been fingered or anything. This is really embarrassing but am I supposed to shave down there and if so how much? all?...
A. 3 April 2009: You don't seriously have to shave. If you want to, you can but it's all about what makes you feel comfortable.... (read in full...)
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