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17 and pregnant???

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Question - (7 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *amilka writes:

Hello, I'm seventeen and i posted a concern on here a couple of days ago. Like i said before i had unprotected sex sometime around the 15 or 16th day january and my period was due on the 26th of january. It is now almost two weeks late and im freaking out. My boyfriend didn't cum inside of me or cum at all. he just put it in and took right back out because it was our first time and we got scared. When he put it in he did go all the way in but it was only once. Please help me!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2010):

I am seventeen and pregnant also, it is not so bad but the nerves on me and my boyfriend are tough. My boyfriend and I never used protection or even bothered to pull out so it is not so much a shock to me. I found out from the doctor after I fainted randomly. If you are pregnant it could be the pre-cum that caused it, which is the cause of many teen pregnancies. Of course do remember, many things can cause your period to be wacked out, for example your diet. If you have had a change in your diet it could cause a change in your cycle, if you are not eating enough or eating too much I learned from being anerexic that it causes you to not get your period at all. Definitely take a test, I would go to the doctor though, they are much more acurate and understanding, just tell your parents you are feeling very under the weather and you want to get a check up and simply ask your doctor to preform a pregnancy test and to not tell your parents, they legally cannot if you are 17.

I went to the doctor every week since I was a month pregnant and she has yet to tell my parents, I am now 5 months pregnant. I go to get b12 shots.

Have you been feeling very week and nautious all the time? Have you lately not even been able to look at food let alone eat it? If you smoke cigarettes have they been making you gag? That was a few of my very early symptoms. The first three months where the most difficult, but now I am happy to say I'm only throwing up every other day haha.

Good luck with your situation I hope this has helped.

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A female reader, Ich_liebe_dich Philippines +, writes (8 February 2010):

Ich_liebe_dich agony auntHopefully you knew exactly the possible result of having sex.

Get Preganancy test, why dont you do it now! what makes you stop or wait or scared? you did it right so you better stand to it. Hopefully youre not pregnant. and if you are not pregnant thanks god and hope this is now the lesson for you to think next time you wanna have sex. theres a lot of way to prevent pregnancy. And if you are better fine a way to take it out as fast as you can so you can move on to your life, study and have a better life. Oh' im sorry i didnt mean to be nasty im just concern to you being 17, theres a lot of beautiful thing waiting for you ahead.. I wish you anyway good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010):

I am interested to know why you don't just take a pregnancy test which will give you an immediate answer as opposed to asking people on here who can only give you opinions. What's stopping you? It's not difficult and doesn't hurt. Grow up and get on with it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010):

Firstly I'd just like to say I don't think you are pregnant. As you said your boyfriend didn't come inside you or atall. I think your period may just be late could be due to you worrying so much. I think you should have a chat with your doctor or local women's clinic. I definately shouldn't worry about being pregnant as this is very unlikely as you need sperm to get pregnant. Hope this helps

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