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writes:I have low self esteem and feel extremely inadequate to be with my extremely accomplished boyfriend. Because of that, I am a very negative person and it is draining him, literally. He is positive and loves me very much but me being so negative and weary and JEALOUS of almost everything has made him a sad person. If I don't change, I have a feeling he will leave me. He wants to go to Brazil with me, but he IS a booty man, and brazil is basically the capital of booty. Although I am fully well endowed I still don't feel as if I am good enough. Going some places with him just seem like a setup for disaster because of my jealous and constant worries about him leaving me for someone else. I really don't want to lose him. How can I POSSIBLY resolve my jealousy issue? I am prepared to do anything to protect our relationship from possible intrusions, including females.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (22 February 2010):
 you have to choose if you wanna lose him you can continue being always jealous but if you really love him then you have to start" to love your self, trust your self, believe in your self. thats the key so you will not feel this jealousy.. i know its easy to say but hard to do, but you will make it.. goodluck dear...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): Thank you Caring guy. I went to a counselor for help, she just didn't cut it. I stopped going to her because she really wasn't helping me at all I thought. The reason i am like this is because of the abuse I have been through for 17 years of my life, the physical has stopped but the verbal continues from my father. Also, the bullying in school I once suffered, along with the heartbreak from loving my first love, and him never loving me back, making me feel as if I'm not worth shit.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 February 2010):
There is a reason somewhere in your past that you are like this. You are right, you will lose him if you continue like this. You say he IS a booty man and that Brazil is full of booty. That's just an opinion of yours. He obviously cares about sex, but he's with you and not just using you for that. He's with you because he loves you. You need to go to a counsellor if you really want to change, because it seems to me like that's the only way now. There is a reason you feel this way, and you must confront it because if you don't, he will have to leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): Thank you for the answers thus far. But you cannot tell me to start being positive and just expect me to do so. i don't know how to think positive, which is why i came here, to learn from you guys.He trusts my words of love I give him but I csnnot trust his own.
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reader, Babyboo:) +, writes (22 February 2010):
Girl all u need to do is take a chill pill... If he loves you he won't leave... Maybe you need to change.. Start being positive
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