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I'm afraid to call my boyfriend!

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Question - (30 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

Recently i feel even scared to call my bf. He is often calling me names and ignoring me and even when i call him, after the call is over i always feel humiliated and even less secured in the relationship.

He often says im needy and clingy, so i stopped calling him more than once a day, i gave him as much space as possible, but still nothing improved. Its like i always have this constant fear of him dumping me and we are in LDR and hence commuication is only thru phone and now he says he cant call me often since he is busy at work. Is it so difficult to spend even 15 mins with ur gf everyday in phone. i know he hangs out every day with his friends. He doesnt talk to me much on weekends also.

I feel really low and down and humiliated whenever i talk to him, but couldnt stop talking to him also. I really wanted to get out of this relationship. Please help me.

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A male reader, Honest Answer United States +, writes (30 January 2011):

Honest Answer agony auntIf I were you, I wouldn't call him anymore. in fact, I wouldn't even answer his calls if he calls you. It is time for you to move on, and find someone that is able to recipocate your love.

Good Luck!

Jeff

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A female reader, cry United States +, writes (30 January 2011):

cry agony auntjust end it and move on . hes not that into you .sorry if the truth hurts .

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011):

you should end the relationship, what you're describing sounds terrible, dont go out with a guy, who doesn't leave much time for his girlfriend, and the time he does spend talking to her, he humiliates her, thats horrible.

end it now.

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