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writes:Ok, so I have a friend who is also my moms boyfriends daughter has always been nice and loving and all. Recently we've been hanging out more. Well last night her and her friend came over and we started watching movies. First we watched a scary movie. She was hugging me and putting her head on my chest. During the end of the movie, she started wrapping her legs around mine. When the movie was over they said that they wanted to watch another movie to get the image out of their head. During the second movie, she wrapped her legs aroud mine again. I had no clue what to do, so I started touching her gently on the stomache to see if she did anything. She didn't. So she basically let me "feel her up" through the whole movie, which I though was weird at first, but then I thought that is what she wanted. During the last 20 minutes I kind of put my hand somewhere more serious, then right away she said to her friend: "do you want to go to bed?" I may have been a sucker all up to this point, but I'm not stupid and I knew what it meant.After the movie, we all went into our rooms. I texted her: "you should have said something, now I feel like a complete douchebag"Her:"what"Me:"you didn't care?"Her:"umm yeah I did"Me:"then why didn't you do something? I couldn't tell, I'm a fucking guy"Her:"whatever, just drop it, goodnight"Me: "I'm sorry, but at least ill be able to sleep now"Her: "just don't do it again"Me:"ill die before I do, I promise"Then we left it at that. But I know she must be angry, but how was I supposed to know? She was my friend at the beginning of the day, and now I think she hates me. What should I do?
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reader, davedave +, writes (16 October 2009):
davedave is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI texted her because I thought she wouldn't want to talk, and she answered
"Its cause I was scared just give me time"
That is the biggest relief I've ever felt, thanks for your input guys.
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reader, davedave +, writes (16 October 2009):
davedave is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks heartbroken, I really didn't look at it that way, she should have said something and didn't. And now I feel more sorry than I have ever been.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (16 October 2009):
man don't take nothing from this girl. if she didn't want you touching her it was up to her to say something when you were touching her. she was all up on you too so its her fault as well. don't apologize for nothing. only thing ur guilty of is being a guy. peace out
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reader, davedave +, writes (16 October 2009):
davedave is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know she's my sister, that is why I thought it was a little weird. But your right, I need to stay as far away from that as I can. Please keep replying
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
First of all, she's like a step sister, so it's better not to get involved at all. And secondly, dont' swear at her because she'll now feel as confused as you. Be a friend to her, nothing more. Text her and say you're sorry, you won't do it again and that you'd like to at least be a friend.
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