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We broke up and I have a problem with letting go of the man I love. Help!

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Question - (20 July 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2007)
A female Jamaica age 36-40, *UANE writes:

i have so much problem with letting go the man i love.we have been toghether for all most 2 years and we broke up almost two months now. the problem is i still love him,my heart still aches for him and i want him back so badly.i dont see anyone i rather be with,he is the only one i want but he wont talk to me and sometimes i just feel like i cant live without him.i dont know what to do and i miss him so much. why wont this pain go away,why cant i let him go?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007):

Im going through the same thing and i know how much it hurts honey..but this is life..we have to face it wdr we like it or not..try listening to music,spend time with ur pals,read books,do whatever u can just to keep urself occupied...u have to 4get ur past if u want to move forward in life...u knw thrs a saying "when 1 door of happiness closes,another opens,but often times we look so long at the closed door that we cant see the 1 which has been opend 4 us"..if he can wait without contacting u then so can u...im sure ur a very strong girl so b strong..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007):

If you aren't too busy have a night in with the girls. chocolate, movies and a good time, take your mind off him and sleep on it but it is not your decision whether you get back together or not. if it was not working for either of you then it is better not to stay in an unhappy relationship.

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A female reader, chrissy32789 United States +, writes (21 July 2007):

chrissy32789 agony auntHi its really hard to let go of someone that you have been with for a while and specially if he is your first true love, you will have the heart ache for a long time maybe even a year, but what you should do is go out with your friends and have a good time, and if you have things that remind you of him then just get rid of it cause it will keep putting him back in your head, just do things to keep yoour mind off him.

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