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writes:I known it is wrong, and i probably shouldn't do it, but A everygood guy friend of mine. WHo happens to be a virgin, whats to lose his virginity and have girlfriend. I am in a good relationship and i love the guy alot. The only thing is i've had a crush on my guy friend before. He is one of my best friends and He is one of the few i would throw myself in front of a bus for amnd it really hates me to see him so depressed. Would it be horrible of me to actually have sex with him, so he himself could relieve stress, and not be so uptight and also to see if there is a connection?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (15 November 2007):
 You might relieve his stress but create a load for yourself. Do not do this. It's wrong !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): No. It'll be cheating and you will be doing it To make him feel happy? Stop trying to fix his life. That's not healthy it's called codependency. When you go againt your own beliefs just to make another person happy. "But I like him" It doesn't matter. You know it'll be wrong.
I can't believe how young people value themselves so little they consider their virginity a problem.
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Honestly sweetie your friend maybe all upset and things now but if you have sex with him then things between you two will never be the same i had a best friend and i fell in love with him and then we broke up and nothing was ever the same. YOUR friend will find someone plus you say you love the guy your with now dont go and mess things up!
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reader, rcn +, writes (15 November 2007):
 Well, if you're dating someone all ready, and say you love him, then yes it would be extremely wrong to do that. If you love someone then you really don't need to see if there's a connection.
If you do decide to CHEAT. End it with your boyfriend first. That's the only way to go with something like this. You don't have a right to hurt anyone by selfish desires.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): Yes. It would.
You are already involved with someone. I understand Pity sex. Really I do.
But seriously... either make it some sort of threesome or break up with your current partner if you really have to do this.
Men have a stress reliever. It's called Masturbation. So don't use that to condone cheating at all.
So, either break up with your current guy and brave the unknown or try and find another least slutty way to help out your mate.
Flynn 24
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