I fear I've been used by a man I met on a dating site.
Q. I have been such a fool. I joined a dating site and met what seemed like a man in a million. He was a good listener, polite and we clicked. He took me for a meal and we ended up at my home, we talked and he listened to my problems and then we slept ...
A. 29 November 2012: Be very careful with who you meet. You seem a little too trusting for your own good. At the end of the day, he could have been a dangerous psychopath.... (read in full...)
Has he crossed boundaries, should I make something of his behavior?
Q. I was at a meeting last night and the usual innuendo was going on. After the meeting I went down the pub with two of the men one of which I know quite well being my partner's friend. The other guy had gone outside for a cigarette so when we sat d...
A. 29 November 2012: If his normal humor is sexual innuendos to everyone then no problem. If he`s like that to you only, then it sounds to me like he thinks he`s half way there. Be careful.... (read in full...)
Why would my guy want to be friends with his ex after everything she did?
Q. My man was with a women 7 months and she cheated, stole, destroyed his heart and now he wants to be friends with her and she wont leave him alone. How can i make her go away???? Why would he want to be involved with her after that at all anyway? I ...
A. 26 November 2012: I think he probably still loves her. He doesnt seem to want to let go totally, does he?... (read in full...)
Is there any hope of turning this around? I keep finding my Gf on dating sites.
Q. My life seems like a constant cycle of catching my girlfriend on dating sites, breaking up and then somehow ending up back together. When I have caught her she has lied by denying it, blamed me for neglecting her, accused me of jealousy, abuse, i...
A. 26 November 2012: She cheated on her "abusive" husband? Was he really abusive or did he simply reject her unreasonable behaviour and got branded that? Something about this past of hers is also part of her present. To be honest with you, I don`t think anything will ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to fix the problems with my Gf since she cheated. WHAT should I do?
Q. I need help. I have a girlfriend who, like me had a rough childhood, which has ultimately made us both kinda crazy. When we are happy, it is obvious we are in love, but when we are mad, you would think we have been married for 45 years. She...
A. 26 November 2012: Her excuse is a joke. She cheated on you because she wanted to. The best way of fixing your problem is to find a girl who wont cheat on you.... (read in full...)
My wife says there is no love for me and she has fallen for some man online
Q. i have a problem. my wife and i have been together for several years now and we have always had our ups and downs. we have both done things in our time together to hurt each other and we both dont like it. the problem now is that we drifted apart ...
A. 25 November 2012: Let her go. Whether you meet someone else or not would be nothing compared to living the rest of your life with her. You have been together several years, and now she announces she has fallen for a man online? Not someone you can depend on really, ... (read in full...)
How has he found it so easy to move on when I still cant?
Q. Why do men find it so easy to move on? I was in a relationship with a wonderful man for almost 2 years and we split in march. We were madly in love but due to circumstances beyond our control (which I won't go in to,) we decided the best thing we ...
A. 24 November 2012: He may not be living the life that you think he is. He may not have moved on. Only he will really know that. If you are not getting back together, is it not better that you "both" move on anyway? Also, sometimes the reason for you breaking up can ... (read in full...)
My ex is trying to win me back but has an online profile that he visits every day???
Q. Not sure if I want to continue reuniting with my ex-bf. We had been together for 12 years, living together for 6 of those, then he left me in a most cowardly sort of way. Then, after about two-and-a-half years of on-and-off luke-warm contact,...
A. 22 November 2012: If I wanted to get back with an ex, then the last thing I would be doing is putting myself on a dating site.... (read in full...)
I feel I've lost so much. How can I get my life back on track after breaking up? Life's really tough for me right now.
Q. Please ladies explain this to me. I'm on my own for the first time in my life and I'm 36 now. Two long term relationships, 2 children and I'm ashamed to say with both women. The first I thought was love. The second I walked out on in the mi...
A. 17 November 2012: Which is true: You walked out? or, she threw you out for flirting through emails and text? It sounds like you are missing a lot of details out.... (read in full...)
We had an incredible week long affair and now 3 months later nothing! What happened?
Q. It's the usual affair story....I've been married for 19 years to a good man, hard worker, who would do anything for me. The problem is, he is extremely negative, has no friends, is suicidal at times, is a drinker and his family is rotten. I have ...
A. 14 November 2012: What should you do? Do you mean about your lover? Your husband? or your life in general? I would say you cannot plan anything "with" your husband yet as he may find out and then any decision regarding him will be out of your control. I would not get ... (read in full...)
My sister and boyfriend are constantly fighting! Why don't they see they shouldn't be together?
Q. I'm wondering if anyone had any advice I could give to my sister and her boyfriend. You see for the past x amount of years (not even sure how long they've been seeing each other), all they do is yell at each other. Mainly, it's my sister. Now, ...
A. 10 November 2012: I would totally leave them to it. Any interference or opinion you have is not going to be appreciated by any of them.... (read in full...)
Caught my boyfriend on dating sites, after calling me a slut and a stalker he then claims it was a virus!
Q. I have found out my boyfriend has been going on dating sites. When I asked him about it he went mad at me and started calling me a stalker, said I dont trust him because I myself am not to be trusted, called me a slut and then turned it around to ...
A. 10 November 2012: This relationship is now more than likely over. I will explain why I think this. If you stay and try to make it work, he will then get the message he can do or say whatever he wants to you. He will probably get worse. He is a liar. You cannot and ... (read in full...)
Caught my boyfriend on dating sites, after calling me a slut and a stalker he then claims it was a virus!
Q. I have found out my boyfriend has been going on dating sites. When I asked him about it he went mad at me and started calling me a stalker, said I dont trust him because I myself am not to be trusted, called me a slut and then turned it around to ...
A. 9 November 2012: I think in your situation it would be better to get out asap. It is likely further emotional abuse and anguish will follow.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of six years has been sending messages to other girls, asking for sexual favors and pictures.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we have a three year old and one year old together. As time goes on he has become more and more controlling, and i have just found private messages to ex girlfriends, and other girls, asking for ...
A. 8 November 2012: No matter what you did or the type of relationship you had, he is cheating. You will follow your own choice, but to me, cheating is the end of it.... (read in full...)
Dating 11 months and he hasn't said "I love you" yet
Q. Hi All, I have been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now in a semi long distance relationship, we generally meet up every other week, the longest apart as been a month so in total Ive probably seen him for 4 months in total but we contact one a...
A. 4 November 2012: He may be thinking you only say you love him when you are drunk? Well he probably isnt thinking that but no one knows what he is thinking really. You would be better seeing how he behaves and what he does. You would be far better talking to him, ... (read in full...)
We broke up and I didn't say what I wanted to say. Should I go tell her now?
Q. Me and my gf split up this January after 5 years together. Her reason was; it wasnt working out. Well that was not surprising as she kept me a secret all that time from her family and friends because i am 17 years older than her. Id had enough of ...
A. 1 November 2012: It sounds like you are having a hard time moving on. Contacting her is not going to help.... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend getting on line and chatting because she is at home and bored?
Q. While I am out at work my girlfriend does nothing all day except chat to guys and flirt on the internet. I have found out about this now for the fourth time in a year. We almost broke up for good, and now I find she is doing it yet again. It is hard ...
A. 1 November 2012: Yeah she might be bored. There may be something missing in your relationship. She may even feel neglected. Nothing excuses her disrespectful cheating behavior though. There are ways to sort things out without cheating. Most of the time neglect and ... (read in full...)
Did I ruin things before they could even begin?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles. Please help me. I have totally muucked things up with a guy who I really like and who I think was perfect for more. I feel sick at what I have done, or more importantly how stupid I have acted. I am 31 and can't beleive...
A. 29 October 2012: If this guy had any interest in you,he would not let you get away. He is not interested in anything more than you already gave him. You are probably not the first he has done this to.... (read in full...)
She created a fake profile to talk with him after telling me she'd deleted him...
Q. true issues. please help she made a fake profile on Facebook to talk to a guy behind my back, what should i do? Long story short, we had some trust issues because of this guy, she said she would block and delete him, she did that, then recently...
A. 28 October 2012: These sort of discoveries cause relationships to go rapidly downhill. I would cut my losses and call it a day. It doesnt appear there is a lot on offer if it`s a real relationship you want out of it.... (read in full...)
His Porn addiction is getting worse. It's bothering me. How do I raise my concerns so he'll listen?
Q. I've been dating the same fellow for a couple of years now and the last number of months has giving me grown concern and I'm not sure how to approach or even handle this situation. I've always known that he has had tendencies to watch porn and boot...
A. 26 October 2012: I think porn addiction and booty shaking is the least of your worries as far as this guy is concerned. I would run away from him as fast as you can. This guy is a serious concern.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband keep going on dating sites looking for women? he knows I know. So why does he keep on hurting me like this?
Q. For at least the past 6 months I was coming across my boyfriend going on dating sites to chat to different women. Of course, he has always denied it and called me weird and neurotic. He knows that I know, so why won`t he tell me if there is somet...
A. 23 October 2012: He is on dating sites knowing that it hurts you. If he was someone worth keeping, he would neither want to hurt you or scout dating sites. Here is a suggestion, and that`s all it is. Leave him.... (read in full...)
But which one? The guy who drinks a lot and is cheating on me versus the nice good looking guy? And why do I still feel so much for the first guy?
Q. I am confused, i am in a good relationship with a great guy, who loves me and the sex is great. however he's in a relationship with the mother of his daughter.(they stay in the same house, she doesn't have anywhere else to go, plus he loves th...
A. 22 October 2012: Maybe you may be better not being with anyone. Sit back and reflect on everything first. You cannot get to love people by trying to love. it will fail.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is cold and emotionless. Will he change?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over five years and I feel so lonely in his presence. He says he's the kind of guy who hates showing his feelings and I want to feel loved and special. He neither show any concern through actions or words. I ...
A. 17 October 2012: I would dig and find out if there are any problems or issues that are holding him back. If there isnt, then it does sounds like maybe you are just his habit.... (read in full...)
She tells me she's happy so why is she on dating sites?
Q. I have been dating for just over 3 years. For the past 9 months I have been finding bits about her being on dating sites again. I caught her out on one last year and her aggression after being unable to carry on denying it when I asked her, caused a ...
A. 17 October 2012: You may be asking questions for the rest of your life on why she is doing what she is doing. Maybe she doesnt even know why herself. The best thing for you is to get out and stay out before she destroys your faith in all females. There are no ... (read in full...)
Can I forgive my girlfriend for not supporting me when I was at the lowest point in my life?
Q. I was bereaved 15 weeks ago. My son died in a fatal car crash. My girlfriend and i had a petty row and she walked out on me. I asked her not to go because i had shouted at her. I was bang out of order. My emotions were all over and i was dreading my ...
A. 15 October 2012: I cannot imagine what you must be going through. I think you will be more lonely with her, than without her. I would not waste another minute of your life on her.... (read in full...)
Is ALMOST cheating, cheating?
Q. Hello, I'm in a very confusing dilemma with my boyfriend at the moment, and I'm afraid to talk to my friends about it because if we do stay together, I don't want them to think badly of him. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relations...
A. 15 October 2012: It does n`t make any difference whether he cheated or almost cheated. By everything you have said, it does not look like he can be trusted. He "wanted" to cheat on you.... (read in full...)
Do some people throw away their real relationship for the sake of online affairs?
Q. I am wondering after ending a relationship due to his compulsive cyber cheating, whether it can be seen as something addictive. I have noticed a lot of questions on here about it. Do some people throw away their real relationship for the sake of ...
A. 13 October 2012: It is no more addictive than any other form of cheating. ... (read in full...)
She said she just felt like talking to a guy on line! Your thoughts please? But why would she start talking to a stranger online?
Q. I've been with my GF for almost 3 years. When I first met her she was always online chatting and I know she has done a lot of stuff she regrets while she was chatting.. She had promissed me to stop that because I said I would leave her and her 2 ki...
A. 9 October 2012: You met her three years ago and she was always online chatting and did stuff she regrets? Anyhow three years on you find out she`s been chatting again. I get the feeling that maybe she never stopped and maybe this is just the first time you have ... (read in full...)
How can I repair our relationship after I cheated on him?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and i cheated on him. Our relationship has changed alot since this happened. What can i do to make our relationship work out and get it back to the way it use to be?...
A. 7 October 2012: You may be able to salvage it but after cheating, it is not ever going to be exactly what and how it was.... (read in full...)
My ex posts horrible things about me on Facebook
Q. Can anyone help me on this topic please. My ex who I broke up with 9 Months ago is constantly writing derogatory remarks and twisted round versions about me on Facebook. There is no mention of name but it is written so everyone knows who it is she ...
A. 7 October 2012: It should remind you that you are far better off having broken up with her. I think this type of behavior is usually done by people who still love their ex and know they wont be getting back together. She is probably only doing it to get a reac... (read in full...)
Should I send the evidence of his cheating to his wife? I wasted a year of my life with him and want revenge....
Q. I met a guy on a dating site who told me he was seperated, he told me he loved me after 2 weeks, he then told me he was still with the wife and begged me not to finsh it with him, he left her the week after, we had been seeing each other for over a ...
A. 1 October 2012: To be honest, she probably knows everything you could tell her and a lot more too. I am not convinced that you may not end up feeling even worse after telling her. He will have every excuse there is ready for it already. They may even find common ... (read in full...)
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I found him on dating websites
Q. hi, not going to be a long question but, i found out my boyfriend of nearly a year has been going on dating websites. He knows i know now and i told him im leaving him, but hes begging me not to saying he loves me and all that waffle, honestly im ...
A. 29 September 2012: Anger causes people to yell, hit the wall, say horrible things or even get violent. I have never heard of anger driving people to register on dating sites. Whatever you want to believe I suppose.... (read in full...)
I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I found him on dating websites
Q. hi, not going to be a long question but, i found out my boyfriend of nearly a year has been going on dating websites. He knows i know now and i told him im leaving him, but hes begging me not to saying he loves me and all that waffle, honestly im ...
A. 27 September 2012: If he was having problems with your relationship then he could have said something. The chances are he was just looking for an easy way of cheating without getting caught. Leave him because you deserve far better.... (read in full...)
Former supervisor bullied me and now is trying to stop me from making a grievance against her
Q. Hi, I started working at this new place in November last year as my husband lost his job so I had to leave my current part time job to do a full time job. I got on well with everyone apart from my supervisor who from day 1 never liked me or...
A. 25 September 2012: Do not feel sorry for her, she didnt and still doesnt feel sorry for you. She has abused her position and should not be in it.... (read in full...)
Is he right about the meaning of my tattoo?
Q. I have a yin and yang symbol on my wrist, a tattoo. But when the guy i'm seeing noticed it he said he didn't like it because it meant I believe in satan and it's quite emo? I said no, it means balance that everything has an equal an opposite reac...
A. 20 September 2012: The bad in your life is coming from him though, not from your tattoo. It symbolizes balance, not conflict.... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to the constant texts and calls
Q. Boyfriend constantly texting and calling another woman.... Please help, i have been with my partner for 4years and to be honest it hasnt been easy, after the 1st year he dumped me as he had feelings for a female friend. we got back together a...
A. 20 September 2012: I think you need to be prepared to leave this guy and never go back to him. I think you may be here hoping for a more positive answer, but I cannot think of one.... (read in full...)
How do you make someone fall back in love with you? There has to be a way!
Q. Lots of people say once the love has gone it can never come back. Yet so many people get back together and even remarry each other after a divorce. So people obviously can fall back in love. My question though, is how? I'm desperate for my husband ...
A. 20 September 2012: i am sorry to have to tell you this, but if you have been abusive, it will not matter how good or confident you look. nothing will matter, because you are just a reminder of unhappy times. i would like to mention too, females who believe all men are ... (read in full...)
How do you make someone fall back in love with you? There has to be a way!
Q. Lots of people say once the love has gone it can never come back. Yet so many people get back together and even remarry each other after a divorce. So people obviously can fall back in love. My question though, is how? I'm desperate for my husband ...
A. 20 September 2012: If you treated someone very badly, then it will be very difficult (if not impossible) to fall back in love with the person who is the source of a bad memory. No matter what you do or dress like, it will not alter the fact that he knows you far ... (read in full...)
Need a Older Man's Opinion
Q. I met a single man(in this 30's) last year from canada and we have been in contact for 1 year now. We only met once and had a great time and chemistry and everything(did not do anything with him at all, I'm more respectable). So, now he emails me ...
A. 18 September 2012: As he's only interested in one thing and you clearly know yourself that you are far better, and worth more than that, I think you should move on. He has made his intentions clear. ... (read in full...)
We spent time together, he seemed keen but since I have heard nothing from him....why?
Q. I met a French guy online (we are both 32) and met him in London which went well. He is not a frequent texter and by the time I met him again 4 weeks later I probably had 4 messages from him. So he doesnt like texting and that I accept. The 2nd ...
A. 16 September 2012: No one but him knows why he has not got in touch. Speaking generally, males,if we like a woman we will act on it. If he was keen enough, he would get in there before anyone else does. If you did n`t have sex with him, maybe get in touch one last ... (read in full...)
Does going down on a woman frequently make her more likely to cheat?
Q. I want to ask a question please which I'd like the most honest answers to. There's a couple, male and female, and in this relationship the man is willing to go down on a woman all the time without question while making love and without being as...
A. 15 September 2012: A woman (or a man) will only cheat if they are a cheat. It does not matter how good or how bad you treat them. Reasons for cheating are excuses because the choice of leaving is available to them. imo.... (read in full...)
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