I hate the girl I love, so why do I love her?
Q. I am crazy about a girl but I also kind of hate. I have been single for 1 and a half years but I really like this 1 girl but in a way I hate her. She is a slag, she is cheating on her current boy friend she is can be mean and she never is single ...
A. 22 February 2012: Maybe you hate her because you cant have what you believe everyone else is getting. Come on mate, this is not healthy for you. Forget her and look at other women.... (read in full...)
He ended it because he couldnt cope with other men looking at me, and then in the 7 days we were apart he got a new girlfriend!
Q. Thanks in advance for any advice given! I am in a sad place right now and really could do with some opinions from a mans point of view and also a womans if you have been in the same situation. Up until a couple of weeks ago I was dating a guy...
A. 22 February 2012: 7 days and he`s with someone else? No, I think she will have been on the scene from time and is the reason for your break up. ... (read in full...)
If cheated on will the man suddenly find the woman sexually unattractive?
Q. If you made a mistake and was found out for cheating, can it make a man go from finding you very sexually attractive, into not finding you attractive any more? Can men change just like that? How do you pull them back? Any one ever been through this?...
A. 22 February 2012: There will be a lot going through his mind. I think the end is near to be honest.... (read in full...)
Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a ...
A. 21 February 2012: Save all the texts she sends you. Show all the doubters who the real nut case is. No, they don`t know her like you do, that`s true. They all think she is normal. Tell you what to do? You know what to do.... (read in full...)
Will asking about his past open a can of worms?
Q. Hi there, I've been in a relationship for 6+ months, and all is going well. We are happy. We never talk about past relationships, we are both quite guarded people and are slowly opening up more over time. He has a lot of female friends. Which h...
A. 21 February 2012: If you are prepared to lie by omission about your own past, then dont ask him about his. ... (read in full...)
I like him but I'm wondering if he's gay?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice, I've met a really lovely guy who is in tbe military. But I'm concerned he might be gay. He can be camp at times, loves cleaning and ironing it took 7 dates for him to kiss me which I instigated and also said his ma...
A. 20 February 2012: Granted, you have said things that would make people question his sexuality, but I have known of guys like him` and after years of speculation, ended up married with kids but are still camp, but not gay. I dont know if he`s gay or not, but there are ... (read in full...)
I'm getting tired of defending myself against boyfriend's thoughts that I might cheat
Q. My boyfriend and I began dating exclusively from the day we met. He calls frequently and tells me he can't live without me and if anything is a bit over-possesive. He always makes comments that imply that I'm ready to have an affair with the ...
A. 20 February 2012: He has either got a giant inferiority complex or he is projecting his own personality on to you, and you should watch him. Don`t take it lightly either. If something has triggered his lack of trust what is not mentioned, then ignore this answer.... (read in full...)
Why didnt my husband back me up and come with me to the police station to lodge a complaint against his ex affair partner?
Q. Long story short, my husband had an affair with an aquaintance whom we barely knew for 3 months, she is a friend of a friend and lives with her fiance and their son, i have asked for advice previously but i couldnt find the link. I basically fo...
A. 20 February 2012: Your husband wont have backed you up through fear of being beaten up. Seeing as he had knobbed the guys woman, going to the police too, just may have pushed the guy overboard. He`s got off very lightly considering. I`m surprised you are still with ... (read in full...)
Can some people turn their love on and off?
Q. If you do some very bad things, more than once, to your partner, and then break up over it, do you think it can make them stop loving you? or do you think they still love you really, but just act like they dont like you? Can some people just turn ...
A. 19 February 2012: In case you are asking for a reason, then if someone has been acting like he doesnt like you for more than a few weeks, then he`s probably not acting. He wont have just turned off his love, its already been turned off for him.... (read in full...)
My new husband is making me feel paranoid that I'm a slag because of my past! Is it really abnormal for women to be able to have guilt free casual relationships while young, purely for the sex and without any emotional connection
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, especially aunts, I am a divorcee who has recently remarried, and my new husband has a major problem with my past. We have an amazing relationship and he's the only one I've ever given my heart to, but not my body, and tha...
A. 19 February 2012: He had no confidence to talk to girls, and I believe his real problem is not being to accept you may be more experienced than him, although he wont probably admit that to you or himself. There are women out there (rightly or wrongly)that have ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my best friend which aren't returned. I don't want to lose her!
Q. So I've been best friends with this girl for 3 years now. I've had 'extra' feelings for her for a long time now, on and off. I told her about these feeling about 18 months ago, but got totally shot down. Our friendship wasn't shaken though and we're ...
A. 18 February 2012: You are her friend, she see`s you like a brother. If you cannot shake this feeling off, then you should cut down your contact. If you don`t then you will be stuck and waste your life. You don`t have any other choice.... (read in full...)
Does anyone deserve a second chance?
Q. when someone has cheated, should you give them a second chance?...
A. 18 February 2012: It may sound really unforgiving and it probably is, but why give some one the chance to hurt you twice? From my own experience and personal observation, cheating does not happen only once. If it does, your constantly expecting it to and the ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend not trust me or want me to go to the library?
Q. Hi guys. Just looking for some advice. My main questions: Do you think this is acceptable in a relationship? Am I in the wrong? What would you do if you were me? Any other comments? Ok so the situation: I work part time/full time stud...
A. 18 February 2012: I cannot help but think that there is a possibility he is projecting his own personality on to you. I think you should have been watching him more. I don`t think he`s even done nice things for you. The nice things are done to give himself an angle ... (read in full...)
He says move on, but I want to get back together. What do I do?
Q. I'm seperated from my partner for 8months and we've got 2 children together who are living with me. The children have said to him several times that they want us to come back but he said 'NO'. I've not had sex since then and i want to with him. He ...
A. 17 February 2012: It could all depend on what caused you to break up? ... (read in full...)
He said, "when you've finished with your boyfriend, I'll take you out." Did he mean that?
Q. A man i know said " where have you been hiding? " , because he hadnt seen me for a long time.I saw him when i was out with my new boyfriend in a bar.This man asked me if he was my boyfriend,as it was the first time he had seen me with him,and i said ...
A. 17 February 2012: Was he joking or did he mean it? Well seeing as he was disgusting enough to wait while your new fellow had gone outside to say that to you, I wouldnt care less, thats unless you hope he meant it. His behaviour warrants someone who needs teaching a ... (read in full...)
I lost my fiance because of online dating sites! Why do I do this to myself and how do I get out of this hole I've dug for myself?
Q. I have been on and off dating sites now for over 4 years. almost 2 years ago my fiance walked out on me after catching me on them again after giving me several chances. Since that, I have met guys off the sites but nothing ever came of them, I was ...
A. 15 February 2012: Your ex is your ex for a reason. You cheated on your ex via dating sites, and your dating site obsession will have passed so much untold misery on to him, which for some reason seems totally overlooked by you. If dating sites had worked out better ... (read in full...)
Months later I'm still suspicious
Q. My partner and I have 4 children.When our youngest was 8mths old (he is now 16 months) I thought my partner was cheating.I didn`t say anything at the time because after having all the babies in quick succession,I felt a bit jealous that his life ...
A. 10 November 2011: I could be wrong and I hope I am. I do think he is cheating. Getting angry and refusing to discuss it further is because he is not comfortable. Its more difficult to lie over a course of time,than it is to tell the truth.... (read in full...)
Internet cheating -- harder to get caught, addictive, what?
Q. I am suprised to read so much lately about internet date sites being used to cheat on partners. I am interested to know what goes through the mind of the one using the site and the opinions of those who have caught their partner doing it. Does ...
A. 10 November 2011: It makes my blood boil when someone inflicts hurt and then blames who they hurt. To that anonymous female who also thinks people have a right to cheat,I personally hope you one day choke on your words. Make no mistake,if ... (read in full...)
After he walked out, I joined a dating site and when he found out, he dumped me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend (ex now) had an argument,and as normal he walked out. The day after I joined a dating site. Only a day I know, but we was not together. He has found out and now dumped me. Its the longest we have ever broke up. He says he does ...
A. 2 November 2011: I think he has reacted just the same as most people would under the circumstance. He may calm down,but dont hold your hopes on that. The act itself was not the behavior of someone wanting their partner back.... (read in full...)
I want to be the girl he fell in love with. What to do now, after messing things up completely?
Q. I am looking for some advice from all of you. So far I have used this forum quite a few times and got very sound advice. Thank you! My LD boy friend and I had a massive fall out last night. So much so that he said if I carried on it was over. ...
A. 2 November 2011: You need to put in more details of your behavior. It could even be that he is more at fault than you. I will presume you are talking about your own insecurity issues and not anything to do with betrayal. ... (read in full...)
Did he just want his ego boosted or does he feel the same?
Q. Hi All, Over 18months ago, I had a short relationship with a guy I met on dating site which lasted about 4 months. We parted over something really trivial and I did not pursue it any further, we remained friends and lost contact over time. However,...
A. 31 October 2011: I would put less energy into this. Its not the behavior of a man who`s bothered about you.... (read in full...)
What do I do? My ex won't be coming back
Q. What do i do as it seems my ex wont be coming back. Its been nine months. I know i kept messing up and he doesnt want to trust me. I go out with friends but its not the same without him. I dont want to date another guy as they all seem boring. How ...
A. 29 October 2011: What exactly do you mean by you kept messing up? He does n`t want to trust you? You may hold the very answer to why he wont get back with you, in what you have failed to mention. You know what you did to mess up and so does he,but if you don`t tell ... (read in full...)
Why is my G/f behaving like this?
Q. The first time discovered my girlfriend on the internet asking for quickies and affairs she became angry when I tried to discuss it and she just told me I`m paranoid and was being mentally abusive by making allegations through my own guilt, and I ...
A. 27 October 2011: She blames you but wont end it,she refuses to get any help because she wants her life as it is. She probably has not got the capacity to question herself,let alone accept responsibility for her disrespectful behavior. She too has a jealous streak. A ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on?
Q. I'm wondering if I should be concerned that the guy I'm dating is still occasionally logging on to the online site we met on. Here's the background: - We've been dating for almost 6 weeks - We live two hours away from each other - He told me...
A. 27 October 2011: A second opinion would be dont build your hopes up. Any human being with an interest in only one wouldnt be thinkinf of visiting the site.... (read in full...)
He won't let me see his facebook page because I snooped when we were broken up!
Q. I snooped in my boyfriends facebook account months ago when we were broken up.we're back together now but he wont add me back on his friend list.he said i dont deserve it because of when i snooped.he said he will put that he is in a relationship as ...
A. 23 October 2011: If he is on the internet for that, the first moment you break up,then the guy is not bothered as long as he has a girlfriend. You are there and easily replaceable as far as it is with him. What the hell do you want a shallow minded loser like that ... (read in full...)
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