A
female
age
30-35,
*amJess
writes:Its like when were not together i really want to be with him and then when we are together I really don't and I'd rather be everywhere else and partying and with my friends.Sometimes I get this weird feeling and wonder why I'm even with him and sometimes I get the feeling where I'm the happiest person in the world with him.I don't get whether its because I do want to be with him or I don't, and its confusing because I do like him a lot and we have fun together and stuff, but I don't think this is normal when your meant to love someone? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Bob Loblaw  +, writes (11 July 2012):
It sounds to me like you aren't so much interested in him as you are interested in being in a relationship. Otherwise I think you'd be more enamored of him when he was actually around than you seem to be.
What you long for is simply being able to long for someone who you actually like and want to be around. He's a placeholder at the moment, but I can sense that some other guy may be out there somewhere who would really excite you. Don't be cruel and misrepresent your feelings to this guy, especially if he seems like he is really falling for you.
A
female
reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (11 July 2012):
 This is normal and I wouldn't worry about it. In real relationships people do not have that happy/lovey/ exhilirating feeling 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Some days are just normal/low-key days. Besides the fact that you are still young, so you have a lot of years yet to figure out what and who you want in the longrun.
...............................
|
