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writes:I love my boyfriend, but I'm a lot more sexually experienced around him, he's a virgin and I'm his first girlfriend, I lost my virginity at 14 and have had several partners. I feel quite awkward around him, any tips??
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (17 July 2009):
 THis is cute it seems liek you will ahve to take a more active role,,,, but forst you hvnt given us mutch detail ie has he mentioned he wanted to have sex do you make sexual advances, has he rejected your sexual advances. he could be feeling pressured for ex thinking he cant satisfy you being you have been with others, he may be embarased that his sexual knowledge is lacking theres many things. im gonna say the guy is shy and has confidence issues in that case you should be more agressive dont make him do anyhting he doesnt want to but if hes wlling just give him a boost start small you dont hve to jump str8 into having sex you can try oral b/j fingering if hes feeling inadequate let him kno his member is just fine size wise. you can give him a big head about that no pun intended wont hurt even if its not true, or you may just have to exept that hes not ready im sure hell let you kno when he is but im guessing by your age hes more then ready just nervous
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): oh yea im sure hes just nervous
maybe when the time is right hell be confident enough to do it with u
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): everyones different. im a 17 year old girl, im not a virgin, although im not experienced.. i prefer the guy to be alot more experienced so they can totally take controll, which i really enjoy, this is why i usually end up getting with older men... maybe your boyfriends the same? he wants you to take control..
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 You shouldn't feel awkward around your boyfriend because he's a virgin. The fact that he's a virgin doesn't define who he is as a person, I bet you loved him before you knew he was a virgin, so what's different now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): He will become the student, when you are willing to become his teacher. Openly communicate your thoughts and feelings to him and guide him to a scenario where he can pleasure you as well as being pleasured himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni still wanna be with him, but he seems to say stuff (like on msn) and then nothing ever happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): ohh i see..
well if u feel uncomfortable being with him
let him know that hes just not experienced enough for u
do u still wanna be with him or do u know its time to move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe has no experience at all, he's never even kissed a girl except me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): does ur bf have any kind of experience[like in kissing and touching]
cuz if hes good in that department maybe he might be pretty good at sex..and if u love him maybe u can be his first and show him how to do it lol
good luck
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