Why hasn't he responded to my text?
Q. Hiya so i met this boy about a few months ago.. and he said i wish i had met you on a night out and i said why and he was like dont worry.. So anyway last week i bumped into him again at a nightclub, a bit later i saw him sitting down and he call...
A. 8 December 2008: Sometimes, for some reason - men are useless at phoning back! - I think they take some women for granted and either just forget to do it or play it cool and phone when you least expect it! - Give it time - he may still text - if not you could always ... (read in full...)
When I like a guy, I eventually get bored and irritated when he gets attached, help!
Q. Okay i have a major prob, i don't quite see the prospect of dating anyone with the way am functioning. The prob is as follows : For eg. i like a guy..like him for max a month or something...then he starts to crush back..then wehave a good ti...
A. 7 December 2008: Actually, I used to have the same problem! - I used to enjoy the chase - but as soon as the guy was interested I suddenly wasn't and I didn't want to become intimate or anything!
- Anyway, by the time I turned into my 20's I got off with a guy that... (read in full...)
She gave me a reward for rescuing her dog, but I feel so bad for taking it!
Q. hi. i rescued a lost dog the other day, and the woman gave me £9 for it, but i feel soooo bad for taking it now. its not alot to me but to some people its an awful lot, especially around the christmas period what do you all think i should do? give ...
A. 7 December 2008: Believe me - £9 is not very much in this day and age - please do not feel bad!!
- You did the lady a favour and she chose to repay you so everyone is happy! - It is nine pounds not ninety nine pounds so do not worry - but if it is still bugg... (read in full...)
He no longer messages me and the silence is killing me!
Q. i know this guy through facebook. and having good conversation and messaging with each other. flirting with each other. he say that he into me, but everytime he say so, i will just say that it is impossible. he always the one to take the first move ...
A. 4 December 2008: Join the club girl!! - This is one question that if us women knew the answer to - we would make a lot of money!!
Men I think can only answer this - but it is a lifelong problem of
man getting on with woman,
man dating woman
then man not ring... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he close his eyes?
Q. my boyfriend doesn't close his eyes when kissing what does it mean?...
A. 4 December 2008: Hi there Nokutenda! - I actually have the same problem with my guy!! - I only see him now and then but when we kiss goodbye I have noticed he keeps his eyes open too!! - I really don't know whats going on here - is it more common than we think?... (read in full...)
Should I call him even though I got his number from someone else?
Q. I know this boy n he comes over n we huge out all the time, but I got his new number by someone else. Should i call him if his not the one that give me he's number? And should a girl get upset when a boy don't call as much as she does?...
A. 30 November 2008: I would try & judge the situation! - Sometimes the guy might love that you make the first move - alternatively he could be quite a private person & get annoyed! - You need to see what he is thinking!
As for men calling - I tend to get low when I'm... (read in full...)
How do I get older women to take me seriously?
Q. Why are older women so reluctant do date young guys? I've been trying to get an older women for two months now I've gotten NOWHERE. I've never had problems getting girlfriends my own age, but whenever I hit on a woman in her 30's or 40's she doesn't ...
A. 25 November 2008: I am an older woman (in my late 30s) and the last couple of men I have been involved with have been a lot younger (ie in their 20s/early 30s).
Usually at work older women find younger men they work around attractive so maybe look there!
I'm s... (read in full...)
Should I or shouldnt I call him?
Q. I really like this guy and I want him to like me back. A friend of his told me that I wasn't really his type. He gave me his mobile number and I gave him mine but I'm so afraid to text him because when we're both on bebo he never really talks to me ...
A. 23 November 2008: I think if he's given you his mobile number he won't mind you calling! - Just do it and you'll find out if he likes you too! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Why is he avoiding my questions?
Q. My question was Y when I asked my friend if I could see him soon he begin 2 talk about my son. I told him he doesn't have to b afraid 2 tell me NO! I've explained 2 him that he wouldnt hurt my feel'ns. Y do u think he avoid'n my questions? D...
A. 20 November 2008: Hi the guy I keep in touch with sometimes doesn't answer me either or pretends not to hear!! - Are men just like that?... (read in full...)
My husband of 12 years packed up and left... what do I do?
Q. Here goes..Today My husband of 12 years packed his clothes and left. He told me he didnt love me anymore and has left me with our 2 boys. I know we haven't been seeing eye to eye for some time but i honestly never expected this. after all, what ...
A. 20 November 2008: Aww that is sad! - Atleast you are trying to give him another go & the children will appreciate that! However, if he has slept with someone else - it shows his loyalty has gone out the window - so can he really be trusted?!
Nevertheless keep on tryi... (read in full...)
Should I tell a teacher?
Q. This is a personal question, but it is not relationship based. My name isn't actually Bella Hudson. In my school, there is a list on our wall of students good at science. I am on this list. The thing about my name is that if you add a letter to the ...
A. 19 November 2008: Just cross it out for goodness sake!!!... (read in full...)
Don't know what she's thinking...
Q. I've got this female friend who lives in another city and who I'm starting to get feelings for. We recently agreed I should visit her. She seemed really keen on it, saying how nice it would be to see me, how I should get there, asking when am I ...
A. 19 November 2008: I'm having the same problem with a guy! - We keep in touch by phone but whenever we talk about meeting up either I'm working or he's busy etc etc.
Sometimes I think people get cold feet for whatever reason - especially if they know the other pers... (read in full...)
Is this platonic friendship... or is there more in it?
Q. hi im sorry for the length of this question, I gabble A LOT and it is preety long so thank you for reading, I'm a bit confused at the moment, I have a GREAT guy friend who I met at the beginning of September and we have just clicked! Straight...
A. 18 November 2008: Hi - like you the guy I'm in touch with now was in the beginning always making eye contact with me & we spent a lot of time smiling at each other & consequently everyone around us at the time used to tease us saying we fancied each other!!
- Well... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin! Help!
Q. I am in my late 30s and have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger I was painfully shy and suffered extreme anxiety in social situations. I have now overcome a lot of my shyness and have gained a lot of confidence just through life experience, ...
A. 17 November 2008: Hey - don't worry about the lack of experience - it is probably more common than you think! - I have a female friend about the same age as you and in the 20 years I have known her I don't believe she has ever been intimate with anyone either! - ... (read in full...)
My friends tell me to run from him but I don't see him in that light at all...
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a little dilemma. I met this guy online and we hit it off from the very first meeting. I told him from the start that I was not looking for anything serious and just wanted someone to have fun and a casual relationship wit...
A. 17 November 2008: Follow your heart! - I have never listened to my friends or family over relationships because they do not know what you are truly feeling! - Yes they could be right in the long run - but do what makes you happy!!
I'm keeping in touch with a bit of... (read in full...)
We've been texting each other and he seemed keen, then suddenly lost interest, what could it be?
Q. it's this guy that i'm into.we have been talking for a while.we are considering starting a relationship i think.he seemed like he was so into me just like maybe a week ago.but then my phone had gotten turned off i hadn't talked to him in five days.i ...
A. 15 November 2008: This seems to be a common problem - especially where men are concerned - (not wanting to sound sexist or anything!)
Men seem to have a habit of phoning/texting when they are after something & when they are content with their lot you don't hear from... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, I've been seeing him for the past 3 years, but lately contacts are rare. Should I leave it at that? He has a family.
Q. I guess i already know the answer to this question, but i need to hear it from someone else really. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 years, we met online, chatted, then met, and ever since we have been really good friends, he is/was my bes...
A. 14 November 2008: Its the worst feeling in the world when you suddenly are getting on well with a guy and then slowly but surely he stops contact! WHY DON'T MEN JUST SAY WHEN THEY'RE LOSING INTEREST?? - US GIRLS CAN TAKE IT YOU KNOW!! This has happened to me t... (read in full...)
I have fallen for this total stranger so much that I think about him daily.
Q. I was working the other day and this guy and his mom came through my lane. I do the usual "did you find everything ok?" thing, but the I noticed how cute the guy was, so I was a bit extra chatty. They wanted to purchase some hunting gear for the ...
A. 14 November 2008: Arhh - it is sad you have no contact name or number!! It can happen that you just see someone for a brief moment and end up really liking them! - Unfortunately by the time you realise you like them - they've gone!!... (read in full...)
How can I help my son gain confidence and find love?
Q. I am concerned about my 29 year old son. He is a lawyer, very well-educated and a sensitive, interesting person. He has a pleasant face which looks very charming when he smiles. He's witty and funny, thoughtful and generous. He is short (5feet 6) ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hey - if it helps your son - tell him that I am madly in love with a man who is smaller than 5 ft 6 (because he's smaller than me and I'm about 5 ft 6)!!. If you really want someone - height will not matter! - Unfortunately for me though - this man... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend fight about everything!
Q. Me and my girlfriend fight about everthing! Sometimes it's so little and it turns in to a huge fight, we can be just sitting around and she will ask me to get her something to drink or make her a sandwich etc and if I don't do it she gets pissed ...
A. 13 November 2008: Wow! - I think I would just get out if I were you!! - You are better off footlose and fancy free rather than being with someone who makes your life miserable with arguing all the time!! I hear of so many couples who say they just spend their ti... (read in full...)
It's hard for me to find guy friends because of the fact that I have a boyfriend.
Q. I need help! It's hard for me to find male friends because of the fact that I have a boyfriend. I think this scares them away. Don't worry, my boyfriend is not threatening in anyway. It's just that once I start talking to a guy, hoping to build a ...
A. 13 November 2008: Will female friends not do instead?
Throughout my life I have rarely had any close "male" friends (apart from male colleagues at work) except for when I had a boyfriend & usually my boyfriend would be my confident. I have never felt I needed male... (read in full...)
He's my teacher and I've fallen pregnant to him!!!!! HELP!
Q. Ok.. here's the thing.. I've been seeing this guy for all of nine and half months now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He...
A. 13 November 2008: I don't think you need to worry about getting in trouble with the law! - The fact that you are/were over 18 when the relationship started shows that you are a responsible adult! The only downside is the fact that you were his student when the... (read in full...)
Should I fight it and try to win him over?
Q. Hi agony aunts/uncles! I am in love with a wonderful boy! He has captured my heart, but it turns out that he is with someone else! Should I fight it and try to win him over? Or just accept the fact that I am lonely, unlovable and having no chance...
A. 13 November 2008: You are far too young to be talking about being lonely!
- Infact I used to think like you when I was your age - thinking I would never get a boyfriend & so it was 5 years before I got one!! - So firstly be more positive!!
- Secondly, - if y... (read in full...)
I like goth clothing, is goth believing in the devil?
Q. Hey, I'm a christian. I like goth clothing. Just the way they look, dress. Can I dress goth? Is goth believing in the devil. I want to know more about goth. Any advice?...
A. 13 November 2008: Hi, I used to be a goth many moons ago ( and a christian too)! My interest in goths was purely about the music and also the clothes - nothing to do with Satan at all!! Some goth bands have satanic lyrics - but not many - and you needn't listen t... (read in full...)
If he didnt want to talk to me anymore why didnt he just say so?
Q. I met a guy online five months ago,we started chatting as friends and after some time we started talking romance to each other.I didn't believe in "long-distance online relationships" because I had bad experience ,but he kept saying that distance is ...
A. 13 November 2008: Hi, There has been a couple of times in my life where I have been getting on well with a guy and then BANG! - No further contact! - I actually believe some guys are too cowardly to say they don't want to stay in touch!! - But like you - the silent t... (read in full...)
Please tell me am I just being stupid or is there something going on?
Q. hi my husband went to hospital last week and i took his phone home with me but he told me to turn it off charge it up then bring it back to him, then in the morning i turned the phone on to phone his family and tell them he was in hospital and he ...
A. 11 November 2008: Yes - Lets hope you are wrong - but unfortunately the business with the phones!! - I know of someone who lived with his partner but was keeping in touch with another lady through someone else's phone!! - The guy wasn't actually having an affair but ... (read in full...)
Do I keep or dump him?
Q. My boyfriend (dating for 3 months),a clever and charming business guy, has suddenly stopped giving me attention and says he is too busy with his work to see me. He says he still loves me, but not seeing him as often as before brings doubts to my ...
A. 11 November 2008: Some men are hard to read!! - I went on a date with a guy who showed no emotion (but that was his nature) but even when we kissed at the end there was no passion - although he did say he would meet up with me again!! (But I'm still waiting)!
T... (read in full...)
How long will it take me to get over him and move on?
Q. 4 months ago my boyfriend left me for my best friend! We were together for 2.5 years and I have a 20 month old son with him, whom he hasn't seen in about 3 months, he doesn't come to see him or call to check on him or pay child support for that ...
A. 10 November 2008: Heartbreak is a terrible thing!! - Usually, the guys hang around the women with their child - so this is quite unusual! - He may return one day - who knows - but like the other lady said if we knew a cure for heartache it would be great to know!!
J... (read in full...)
I want to tell his gf everything so that I can hurt him, but not her/
Q. my ex has put me through sheer hell, yet as soon as he clicks his fingers I run to him. Even tho he has a gf, I slept with him at the weekend. He was nasty to me and even admitted cheating on her with someone else. He asked me not to tell her and ...
A. 10 November 2008: Some men get a kick out of being pure evil and using women!- I don't know why men are like this - I guess because us women let them get away with it!
However, I don't think you say anything to his gf just yet as it will cause even more pain! If... (read in full...)
Can I, or should I date my students dad?
Q. Okay so here is the deal.... I am a teacher... and I have a HUGE crush on one of my student's dads!! I am a single parent, as is he.... and we have spent a lot of time talking. He is great. I will only be his son's teacher for another month or...
A. 10 November 2008: I'm sure that shouldn't be a problem - why should it?!! - Its only dating the students themselves that causes problems (well ones UNDER the age of 18 that is!) ... (read in full...)
I'm turning ino a stalker over this guy.....I need help fast!!
Q. I need advice Im goin out of my mind. Ok, theres this guy who I was seeing who at the time I didnt really like. I mean I fancied him loads and even wondered if I was falling in love with him. But in the back of my mind, I knew we werent right. He ...
A. 9 November 2008: I think when we suddenly lose the one we love we all turn into a bit of a stalker - wondering where they are, what they are doing now etc and yes I have even driven past an ex's house in the hope of bumping into him again!! - I think as long as ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for texts to "get lost"?
Q. Is it possible for texts to get lost because my boyfriend and a male friend of mine claimed to have sent me texts this week yet I haven't got either of them, even though I am receiving texts from other people? My boyfriend and I have been having...
A. 9 November 2008: I have heard that there can be a delay with some text messages!! - But not usually more than 1 at a time!!
I know a guy who says he'll ring me & just doesn't!! - He doesn't even bother with the excuses!! - I think some men just think they can trea... (read in full...)
Why won't he show me where he lives?
Q. AM I HARD ON HIM I am 25 years old and I have been dating a 30 year olg guy for five months. The problem is that he doesn't want to show me where he lives. He knows where I live and he visits me every day. I feel like he is hiding somethin...
A. 8 November 2008: 5 months is a long time to wait to see where someone lives!! - Usually, unfortunately the reason could be that he has a partner back home!! - Either that or he just lives in a pig sty!!... (read in full...)
How do you get on with a liar?
Q. HE LIES ABOUT EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING! He lies about his feelings, where he has been, how many drinks he's had, what he does on the computer, if he has a crush on a girl, if he macked chicks at a party, what he really wants, how he feels about me, ...
A. 8 November 2008: I find it is usually men who have something to hide usually lie! - Either that or they are trying to make themselves feel important!
I keep in touch with a guy who says he likes me but only calls now & then (because he has a girlfriend) - he pret... (read in full...)
He asked me out, I said no. How do I tell him I am now interested ?
Q. 4 Months ago this guy asked me to go out with him and I said no, and its been on my mind ever since. Problem is how do I tell him that I want to go out with him. I cant get him out of my mind and dont know how to approach him. he is 45 and im 27 ...
A. 8 November 2008: Hi - you bring hope to those who have asked someone out & have been rejected!! - What made you decide after 4 months or did you know all along & just get cold feet?
Yes all you need to do is bring up the subject again to him!... (read in full...)
I'm still waiting on him to text me...
Q. Hi, I was supposed to meet up with this guy last week but it didn't happen as it was supposed to. I did see him but there was a friend present and we didn't actually go to where we had planned. I saw him again at the beginning of this week and he...
A. 7 November 2008: Sometimes guys are just strange!! - Its happened to me twice now - where I have really fallen for a guy & on both occasions they promise to meet up with you & then...NOTHING!! - Why can't they just be straight with you & say they're not interested ... (read in full...)
I know he's stringing me along but I'm in love with him...
Q. How do I get over him?? I am in love with a man who I know is just stringing me along! - We are not together as he already has a girlfriend - but he rings me from time to time(usually when he needs something - obviously to keep me keen)and I alway...
A. 7 November 2008: Thanks for all your advice!! - I will try to ignore him or atleast act coldly towards him if he does ring! - I know he is wrong for me but I'm not getting any younger & I can't help having these strong feelings for him!!
Luckily we havn't got too ... (read in full...)
On our amazing 3rd date he introduced me to his friends... then he backed off.
Q. I met this guy and we had 2 amazing dates full of chemistry and things in common. Something I haven't experienced ever before. For the 3rd date we met at a bar where 3 of his friends were. I think maybe it was a test to see what they would think. ...
A. 7 November 2008: It is awful when you think things are going well with someone & then you find they suddenly aren't!!
But it hasn't been too long since you heard from him so maybe he is just thinking things through!!
There may be lots of reasons why he has gone luk... (read in full...)
It's been over a week and he hasn't called!!
Q. I met a boy a few weeks ago who is a friend of my friend's bf. I'v seen him a handful of times and we get on really well, have bare things in common and have even spent some time alone. My friend told him I liked him and then told me that he said ...
A. 4 November 2008: Hey the opposite happened to me! - This guy was meant to call me and didn't until 3 weeks later!!! (It was agony waiting for him) - Anyway when we did meet up - he DIDN'T kiss me passionately - just a peck on the lips!! - So whats that all about?... (read in full...)
Is it possible a guy could change his mind about whether he likes you or not?
Q. Is it true that if a boy doesn't like you, he will never like you no matter how hard you try? ...
A. 4 November 2008: Hurray Kinky Boots! - I hope you are right!! - I'm in love with this guy who I think just sees me as a good mate as I'm always showering him with gifts!! - But deep down I think maybe - just maybe he might love me too!!... (read in full...)
Should I tell her about my past?
Q. hey all ive found the one for me and im damn sure, i have a problem with my past. Im an ex-insomniac and the reason i never slept was due to my past, i never went to a doctor or proffesional about it but this is the basic jist of it, i use to do ...
A. 3 November 2008: I know what its like having sleeping problems & insomnia! - it stops you from really going out & enjoying yourself properly because you worry about not sleeping!!
However, if your girlfriend loves you - she will understand & try & work through ... (read in full...)
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