Do men have a forgiving nature?
Q. do guys have forgiven nature or not.guy said i was rotten to him years ago and he still mad me for it.and i said sorry and i didn,t mean to hurt his feelings.but i really didn,t .but i though he was making fun of me,i didn,t even know he liked me ...
A. 4 March 2009: Obviously - you cannot tar men with all the same brush!
- But I must admit, speaking from experience, the only two people I have ever fallen out with and who refuse to speak to me now are ... MEN!! - So yes I think men do hold grudges and some... (read in full...)
Unlike many girls who is crushing on their teachers, I am in my early twenties, what shall I do???
Q. Dear Cupid, This isn't the first time I mention about my obsessive crush on my teacher. Many of you have given me valuable advice, but I still feel powerless to stop myself from sinking into depression. It has been two years since my infatuat...
A. 17 February 2009: Hey - like you say it is normal (and quite harmless) to have a crush on your teacher! - Obviously, you have got it bad seeing you are looking him up on Facebook!
But considering you are in your 20s and are leaving university soon, why don't yo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hardly kisses me and is always making excuses for it.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about a 1 year but we hardly kiss. The weird thing is that when we talk about the things we like doing with each other, he says that he loves kissing my lips because they are so soft. We can go for months without ...
A. 17 February 2009: My man is a bad kisser!! - He isn't reluctant to kiss me - but when he does he barely opens his mouth and I think his eyes are half open too!!
Anyway, I'm so in love with him, that I think a "bad" kiss is better than no kiss so I just accept h... (read in full...)
Why is it soooo hard for guys to express their feelings?
Q. Ok, so this V-Day started off great with my boyfriend! But ended in a disaster. :-( We've been dating for almost a month. We watched a live sports game. Afterwards, he had planned for us to go to a hotel, with jacuzzi, and have a little wine. I j...
A. 16 February 2009: Yes - I went out with a guy who was very moody (whenever I wouldn't give him sex) - but he would never talk about it!! - I think men must think we are mind readers!!... (read in full...)
Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher?
Q. Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher? I don't mean it romantically (the card says "You're a cool cat")... it's just that he's always been really nice to me so it's a thank-you. Is that weird at all? Could he take it the wrong way?...
A. 11 February 2009: Maybe - you could just give him the card but on a different day to Valentines Day - then it will seem harmless enough!... (read in full...)
Is "I'm falling for you" close to "I love you"?
Q. My bf said, "I think I'm falling for you." Is that getting close to saying 'I love you.'?? ...
A. 9 February 2009: Yes - near enough!
- Sometimes when I want to say to my man "I love you" but am too shy to say it - I tend to say "I've fallen for you" instead!... (read in full...)
Recently I've been finding it hard to sleep, any ideas?
Q. I am 20 years old and recently ive been finding it hard to "fall asleep" once I am asleep I am fine..I can sleep for 10 to 11 hours if I have to. its just falling asleep thats the problem. i toss and turn and stress out because I have to be up at 7a...
A. 2 February 2009: Unfortunately - you could be becoming an insomniac!
- I have suffered from insomnia for the last 10-15 years and it too started when I was about 20ish.
There are many tips that could help - but the quickest way is a short term sleeping pil... (read in full...)
He says the hugs he gives to other girls are just friendly hugs but I can't help being jealous.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year now but he is always hugging other girls at my school, and when I talk to him about it he say's they're just friendly hugs and don't mean anything, but I can't help feeling jealous? What should I do ?...
A. 1 February 2009: I think your intuitions are correct young lady - I knew a man who was very flirty at work and he used to hug various women - usually the good looking ones! - In the end he ended up having an affair with one of them!
See if your boyfriend hugs any... (read in full...)
Laws on teacher student relationships?
Q. hey :) I just popped on here to ask a simple and maybe somewhat controversial question but I shall discuss it whatever :) If you are 18 and want to pursue things with a teacher what EXACTLY are the laws on this? I understand people will tell me...
A. 1 February 2009: I am a teacher and know that any relationship taking place IN the institution can lead to a sacking ( or even prison if the student is under 16 for obvious reasons).
However, if the student is an adult, (18 or over) and both adult and teacher ... (read in full...)
Irish catholic?????
Q. This guy described himself once as "Irish catholic." obviously, this means he's Irish, but does it mean he's also of the catholic religion? Sorry, this is probably a stupid question....
A. 31 January 2009: Yes this means he is of Irish origin and was born a Catholic. It does not necessarily mean he is still a practising Catholic though (ie going to Church on Sundays and sticking to the commandments). - You would have to ask him to know for sure.... (read in full...)
Why have I never had a "normal" relationship?
Q. Why have I never had a "normal" relationship? In my life I have been involved seriously, with about 3 men - none of which I could class as having a serious normal relationship. The first guy I dated on and off for about 10 years but never let h...
A. 29 January 2009: Thanks - yes deep down I probably do fear commitment! - I also think I wasn't destined to be in a relationship - that is why I go for the unobtainable ones!... (read in full...)
What are the laws on student-teacher relationships?
Q. hey :) I just popped on here to ask a simple and maybe somewhat controversial question but I shall discuss it whatever :) If you are 18 and want to pursue things with a teacher what EXACTLY are the laws on this? I understand people will tell me...
A. 29 January 2009: Hi - I am a teacher and as far as I am aware - any student under the age of 18 ( and definitely one under the age of 16) is considered a child and is considered "out of bounds" for obvious reasons.
However, once an adult (over 18 years), I do not... (read in full...)
I am in love with him but he doesn't respond ..
Q. I was happily married for close to 10 years till I saw my dentist. I haven't been able to sleep or eat after I met him. The way he cupped my face to work on my tooth and his deep eyes - all is making me crazy. He is married and has kids. I know his ...
A. 27 January 2009: If he is not making any responses the chances are, unfortunately, that he may not be interested! Sometimes us mere mortals end up fantasising over professional people in charge of us like doctors, nurses, teachers and dentists too etc - but a ... (read in full...)
Do guys like petite girls?
Q. Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?...
A. 26 January 2009: I don't know about guys - but from a female point of view I am seeing a guy who is smaller than me - but as a rule I don't usually date small guys because of what you said - they DO look look like small children - especially if they are young! ... (read in full...)
9 months later, I still miss her horribly...
Q. I miss her so much !!! With 25 Jan it's gone be 9 months that we broke up. Omg its so hard to get over and i know that the life's goes on but after every day its get in worst. anyways i just need some advise from someone. I just still coul...
A. 22 January 2009: Heartache is a terrible thing - especially if you didn't meet face to face to discuss ending it!
9 months is a long time to be missing her - maybe try socialising a bit more or listening to some of your favourite music can take your mind off thin... (read in full...)
Sex as a weapon?
Q. Just to let the ladies know, this DOES NOT AMOUNT TO ANYTHING POSITIVE! Yes, women and men can enjoy sex just as much as the other, but men in general 'do' want it more than women and our feelings towards it are different. Men view sex as 'ess...
A. 17 January 2009: I think I read somewhere that:-
"women use sex to get love from a man" and
"men use love to get sex from a woman"
or words to that effect..!... (read in full...)
Girls Girls Girls please help
Q. Question to girls, do you find guys that wear tight pants attractive??? I'm not talking about the super emo tight pants but something that hugs the body at least??? And why do you find it attractive???...
A. 8 January 2009: I think if both men and women have good figures then they look GREAT in tight pants/trousers! - Very sexy!... (read in full...)
Going to Ireland--can anyone give me advice?
Q. can some one tell something about ireland becasue i hope to go there for short hoilday...
A. 7 January 2009: Hi! - I have a lot of Irish friends & relatives and from experience I find the Irish are all very friendly and laid back! - It is a much more relaxed atmosphere over there!!... (read in full...)
Can I lose weight even if I don't exercise?
Q. Hi there, Im just wondering can you lose weight if i dont exercise? im a little bit overweight so i decided to go on a diet, im just eating really healthy and not eating any junkfood. But im not doin any sort of exercise programme. I'm n...
A. 7 January 2009: Hi there Anon! I would just like to say that I am living proof of someone who has lost weight on two or three occasions without doing ANY exercise (seeing I'm one of the worlds most lazy people!!) I have never been really overweight but when ... (read in full...)
Is it too hard making LDR's work when you don't see each other for weeks?
Q. Hii, i just wondered if anyone has or is in the same situation i am soon going to be in. my boyfriend attends university about 2 hours away from home and has a place there in the halls of residence. he has recently been home here since the start of ...
A. 6 January 2009: Hi Carys!
I would just like to say if you REALLY like each other and want to stay in touch you will!!
I am currently in a long distance relationship with a guy whom I adore! - We also live a couple of hours away by train but believe me - eve... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and fancy an 11 year old!
Q. My question is . . . I am 15 years old and there is this young girl who is 11 years old, she fancies me. I think she is really attractive! Her mum is also my mums friend. I want to get with her but im afraid she will tell her mum then it will be ...
A. 29 December 2008: Yes eleven is WAY too young for both her or you to think about a relationship!!
Also - you need to take a reality check! - There are many men in prison today, who are there for dating children who were a lot older than eleven - BEWARE!!
Try com... (read in full...)
Is it too much money for a present?
Q. hey guys do you think that spending £350 on a birthday present for your boyfriend is too much... ive been with him for a year now... he really wants a tv so i said i would buy it for him... he feels obligated but doesnt really insist that i doont ...
A. 29 December 2008: It depends on you! - If you feel he is worth it - and you have the money to spare - then go for it - I'm sure he will appreciate it! If you are a millionaire, however, - then £350 will just be like a bit of pocket money. If you are on t... (read in full...)
I'm having such a difficult dating..need some advice!
Q. This is a long post and I don't have a specific question really - I am just unsure of what to do. I have never had a boyfriend or dated; I rarely am approached by guys. I'm a great person but I just don't have the "it" that attracts men. ...
A. 29 December 2008: Satindesire is right! - Its like first appearances do count!
Having said that - I have never been too bothered about my appearance - I just make sure I wear something that I'm happy with and don't get overweight so that I can fit into most clo... (read in full...)
Why did he say he would call and now he hasn't? Do all guys do this? WHY?
Q. Alright I know this question is like the ultimate girl question that gets asked all the time Why doesn't he call back?!?! except this time its not after the first date, just being niceness, at this point, we had hung out every weekend at ...
A. 20 December 2008: This is a TYPICAL man thing! ie Man chases girl Man dates girl Man doesn't call girl! - I wouldn't worry too much there'll be an explanation. I used to have the same problem - but in my case my guy had another woman at the same time... (read in full...)
What do women want and what do women need from a man?
Q. Dear Ladies Please answer truthfully: What do women want and what do women need from a man? I just want to gain an understanding of you and how you tick. I'm only getting back confidence talking to women in some varying situations both ins...
A. 20 December 2008: Funnily enough I DON'T go for status, money or goodlooks! - but I may be in the minority here!! I like a witty personality, sexy voice and yes it helps to be nice looking but its not essential!... (read in full...)
I'm unlucky in life all the time.
Q. life for is very depressing i live in town in ireland where there is nothing but houses and small few shopni gym and no nightlife and no where to go.very very few sports clubs..i hate the town i dying to leaave it but i can,t.i am 29 yaers old and ...
A. 19 December 2008: Hey girl! - Ireland is a GREAT place! - I have been there many a time! - Believe me - your town and people are probably a lot better than some of the places over here!
Have you never thought of going to college? That would get you out and about a ... (read in full...)
Is this a sign of bad treatment?
Q. Hello! - What do you make of this? I'm with a man who is constantly short of cash! Anyway, the other day he sent me my Xmas card through the post with no stamp!! So muggins here had to pay!! - How bad is that?! - I havn't got round to asking h...
A. 17 December 2008: Yes I must admit my man is like your man anon - but my man doesn't have much money at the moment and I don't mind paying for things for him - I just don't want to end up being taken for granted!... (read in full...)
One moment he won't be able to keep his eyes off me, but then another he doesn't even pay the slightest attention to me...
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help! I know this person that "might" be attracted to me, but I'm not for sure. I've debated whether he does, for over 7 months now. This is really hard to explain, but he's kind of off limits, ok I'll just say it, I think wh...
A. 17 December 2008: If this is your teacher we're talking about and you were underage then it is unlikely he would risk anything for a fling!
However, seeing you are over 16 - if and only if he REALLY likes you and thought you were worth losing a job over then he may ... (read in full...)
Is this a sign of bad treatment?
Q. Hello! - What do you make of this? I'm with a man who is constantly short of cash! Anyway, the other day he sent me my Xmas card through the post with no stamp!! So muggins here had to pay!! - How bad is that?! - I havn't got round to asking h...
A. 16 December 2008: Thanks Emily - I appreciate your answer!... (read in full...)
I don't have the slightest idea how to snog
Q. Hi guys my girlfriend wants to snog and i said yes. we have been going out for 1 month and we both reallly reallly like each other. the problem is that i dont have the slightist idea how to snog. i really need help quickly please....
A. 16 December 2008: I think this may be a common problem with some men!
I am with a man a lot older than you and he doesn't really know what to do either! (Either that or he doesn't like me!!)
I think you have just got to be yourself and relax - look on the internet... (read in full...)
My jailbird ex just got out and now I want him back
Q. okay so... this is kinda long. im going to start since my son was born. 2 weeks after my son was born his dad gets locked up for 1 year and 4 months. when he finally got out he was staying with me but things changed as in his attitude and mine. what ...
A. 16 December 2008: Yes - try and talk to him! - His pride may be hurt if you had already left him - but just try talking and explaining - he may not realise what you are feeling!
I also am supporting a guy financially by giving him bits of cash here and there but when... (read in full...)
I can't get over her and she doesn't want me.
Q. My life is just a huge complication. I've liked the same girl for at least 4 years now, and I've recently talked to her about everything again, how i feel, how much i like her. But she says she doesn't like me like that. I've told her before a ...
A. 14 December 2008: Unrequited love is a painful and sad thing! - It happens to us all at some stage and I think you have just got to let time heal things eventually!
However - having said that - 4 years is a LONG time to still be dwelling over somebody. Do you get ... (read in full...)
Why are all these teenagers talking about their sex lives on here?
Q. Is anyone else here fed up - and worried for - all the under-aged girls who come here, desperate for answers about how to solve their problems with their boyfriend who is 10 years older than them? I mean, a lot of these girls are 15 years or ...
A. 14 December 2008: I worry about all the STDs that are getting spread around by immature and inexperienced people!! - But its not just the teenagers - its the adults too that seem promiscuous!!!... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 12 December 2008: Face and smile!... (read in full...)
I hate French Kissing but my boyfriend tries to choke me with his tongue!
Q. I don't like French (or 'tongue') kissing. I am almost 30 years old and have never liked it. I don't like wet sloppy kisses and on top of that I have a very small mouth. My boyfriend insists on ramming his tongue into my mouth every time we kiss for ...
A. 11 December 2008: Hi - I'm with a guy who doesn't really french kiss - but I wish he would and wonder just if he doesn't enjoy it like yourself or maybe doesn't know how to!
Like the others say - if you both read up on how to do it properly you may enjoy it! - It... (read in full...)
I did something really stupid and need advice...
Q. I need help, I did something rly really stupid. Basically there's a male teacher who helps me with sooo much stuff, and today I kinda gave him a quick kiss on the cheek, and I'm soo worried that someone might have saw... I don't think at the angle ...
A. 10 December 2008: Listen Anon - I am a female teacher - and that happened to me once with a male adult student! - I just kind of laughed it off - but was quite flattered really! - But don't worry I'm sure your teacher wouldn't have minded - especially if he said ... (read in full...)
What is the secret that guys have of making girls fall in love with them???
Q. Hi, I was just wondering could a male reader tell me? The guys I like or fancy boast about there so called girlfreinds to me all the time. I don't know why, it's like I want to know because I don't so why do they do it to me it's so annoying...
A. 9 December 2008: Life is cruel and never what you want it to be - FACT!
Okay - you say you have no luck with men - but you probably are lucky in other areas (eg money or brains etc etc). So its all swings and roundabouts.
I must admit - I've only ever been a... (read in full...)
Am I alone or lonely?
Q. For years I've pondered what the differences between the two really are. And I cant seem to figure out which one I fall under here. So far being lonely means, to me (or Ive researched) being sad that your alone. Not having confidence in yo...
A. 9 December 2008: Yes - actually I think there IS a difference between being alone and being lonely. Like you say - you can be alone and enjoy it! - You can enjoy your own company and come and go as you please,meet friends, do your own thing etc etc. But if you are... (read in full...)
How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?
Q. There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...
A. 9 December 2008: Yes - its only a Christmas card! - She'll be pleased you've made the effort!! Why don't you try writing a few others and handing them all out together - then it won't seem like you are targeting her! - You can always write your own private mess... (read in full...)
I see her everyday at work and it hurts so much, what do I do?
Q. i started to hangout with my co worker, and eventually started to like her... she had a boyfriend at the time but broke up with him, so we started to go out more.... i was well aware of possibly being the rebound guy, but it seemed so different with ...
A. 8 December 2008: Unrequited love is a terrible thing!
- I'm kind of seeing a man who was in a long term relationship with the mother of his child. He tells me its over but I know he still has feelings for her and still sees her.
You may be doing the right th... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he responded to my text?
Q. Hiya so i met this boy about a few months ago.. and he said i wish i had met you on a night out and i said why and he was like dont worry.. So anyway last week i bumped into him again at a nightclub, a bit later i saw him sitting down and he call...
A. 8 December 2008: Sometimes, for some reason - men are useless at phoning back! - I think they take some women for granted and either just forget to do it or play it cool and phone when you least expect it! - Give it time - he may still text - if not you could always ... (read in full...)
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