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writes:it's this guy that i'm into.we have been talking for a while.we are considering starting a relationship i think.he seemed like he was so into me just like maybe a week ago.but then my phone had gotten turned off i hadn't talked to him in five days.i texted him from another number and i told him i would keep in touch.he said he missed me and i told him that i wanted to see him.he hasn't been seeming intersted latley.he didn't show up and i think that maybe he is tired of me or sumthing or could he be gay?i did text him today and yesterday.could he be going through sumthing?please explain because i don't know.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (18 November 2008):
 Ughh! i know exactly what you mean. I was texting this guy I met online ..everything was going great! we were flirting, joking. His last text was "How are you? Miss me?"
and I was out of town and it took me later in the day to return his message. Next thing you know ..I don't hear from him again. I saw him on the chat IM. said "Hello"..
he just signed off.
Man! i really don't get men at all. Okay..he decided he's not into me. Or maybe he met another girl he wants to pursue. But i have no choice but too move on. You do not want to be that girl that chase a guy. Just move on with your life like you have before you met him. And then Surprise...you never know. He might run back to you. But if he doesn't..then LIfe goes on
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (15 November 2008):
This sounds like one for the guys to answer.
My guy friend J says he loves texting because it is "yet another wonderful barrier to intimacy!" he was kinda joking, but it's also kind of true. I am starting to hate text. I have guys who try to conduct the entire relationship via text. I think it has to do with they get the fun and ego boost of flirting without really having to put any effort in. Kind of like a girl video game to them or something. Who knows. I might just be kinda bitter right now because I am frustrated too. Well at least you know it's not you. So many guys do this now.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (15 November 2008):
This seems to be a common problem - especially where men are concerned - (not wanting to sound sexist or anything!)
Men seem to have a habit of phoning/texting when they are after something & when they are content with their lot you don't hear from them for days!!
I'm having the same problem with a guy I like who keeps in touch (although he already has a partner) so I'm getting used to not hearing from him from time to time!
Maybe the guy you like is getting cold feet or may have someone else - but like I say - give him a few days as men have a habit of ringing just when you think you won't hear from them again!!!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): sounds like he is seeing other women but wants to keep you on the sidelines too
ugh..men
he prob does like you but wants to chase about other girls too
dnt waste ur time.. you flirt with other guys!!he'll soon come chasing back. dnt text him for a while.do ur own thing..men find this much more attractive :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 November 2008):
Sounds like he wasn't interested in taking it further than texting.
He had his chance to meet you and he didn't bother. Move on.
If he did want you then he'll come looking for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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