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She gave me a reward for rescuing her dog, but I feel so bad for taking it!

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Question - (7 December 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 8 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *gonyunclechris writes:

hi.

i rescued a lost dog the other day, and the woman gave me £9 for it, but i feel soooo bad for taking it now. its not alot to me but to some people its an awful lot, especially around the christmas period

what do you all think i should do? give it to a charity or something.

thankyou and merry christmas

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

If you feel that bad about it , give it to some charity that deals with helping pooor children about your age

XxXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

If you are still feeling guilty you can send it over to all of us at DearCupid.

As Ms.Anonymous says we are going to perfect our art of receiving.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

Great answer Ms anonymous, being able to receive is as important as being able to give. You found her dog, something no amount of money could ever repay. Buy yourself something nice, something you can keep, and then you'll always remember the day you helped a lady in need...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008):

Hi

Don'T feel bad, it made her happy to give it to you.

The art of RECIVING is just as important as the GIVING. you may hurt her by giving her kindness back.

However you could by a Christmas present for the dog with the money...then all will be happy.

via con dios.

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A female reader, Anonny United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2008):

Believe me - £9 is not very much in this day and age - please do not feel bad!!

- You did the lady a favour and she chose to repay you so everyone is happy! - It is nine pounds not ninety nine pounds so do not worry - but if it is still bugging you maybe just pop it in an envelope and send it back!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

do you know whether she goes somewhere a lot. you could give it back if you felt so bad. if you can't find her. put a couple of notices up asking for her 2 come forward. she may really need it but I'm sure if she was really desperate she wouldn't have given it to you?? maybe spend it on something from the pdsa website or ncdl??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

It's difficult to say what I would do, and everything would depend on the age of the woman whose dog it was. If she was a pensioner I wouldn't have taken it in the first place, but assuming I took it as you did, I think I'd put it in an envelope and put it back through her letterbox.

If the woman was obviously not short of a few quid I'd probably buy my mother a fiver's worth of flowers or chocs and waste the rest. Alternatively, put it under your mattress for safekeeping or a rainy day - much safer than a bank or building society.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

Hey AgonyUncleChris,

I salute you for following the spirit of the season.

Do you know of anyone who would think that amount of money is an awful lot?

Put it in an envelope and give it to them wishing them,"Merry Christmas!"

Merry Christmas to you too.!:-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

i wouldnt feel bad about it if i was you.

if it really bugs you that much why dont you get her a nice christmas card and a small gift - nothing big just chocolates or something or maybe something for the dog :P

only an idea lol, hope it helps

good luck xxx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2008):

You are a lovely person!

I think she probably values her dog at more than £9 so don't feel too bad.

You could always use it to buy gifts for your family and friends for Christmas. When you get a lucky break pass it on!

Good Luck!! xx

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