Should I tell her about my past?
Q. hey all ive found the one for me and im damn sure, i have a problem with my past. Im an ex-insomniac and the reason i never slept was due to my past, i never went to a doctor or proffesional about it but this is the basic jist of it, i use to do ...
A. 3 November 2008: I know what its like having sleeping problems & insomnia! - it stops you from really going out & enjoying yourself properly because you worry about not sleeping!!
However, if your girlfriend loves you - she will understand & try & work through ... (read in full...)
Have you ever loved someone you couldnt have?
Q. Has anyone else ever fell in love with someone who you cant have? Either cos they are already with someone or they just dont love you back? I feel so alone. Im head over heels in love with this guy and have been for 5 years. Weve never had a proper ...
A. 30 October 2008: Oh and another thing - what goes around comes around - so he has probably loved someone he couldn't have also!!
Plus there is probably some guy out there who fancies you from afar and you won't be interested!!... (read in full...)
Have you ever loved someone you couldnt have?
Q. Has anyone else ever fell in love with someone who you cant have? Either cos they are already with someone or they just dont love you back? I feel so alone. Im head over heels in love with this guy and have been for 5 years. Weve never had a proper ...
A. 30 October 2008: Unrequited love is an awful thing!! - Usually I become obsessed with guys I can't have or are interested in me but are in relationships already!! I think in my case, its the fact that deep down I am probably happiest being single and so go for men ... (read in full...)
Could anyone enlighten me as to why he wont text me?
Q. hi. i've been seeing my boyfriend for two months and its going great. the only problem is he never texts me or rings me when were not together. i see him a few times a week but i feel as though im the only one making an effort. i dont uderstan...
A. 29 October 2008: Is he short of money? I am keeping in touch long distance with a guy who is currently out of work! - I feel sorry for him and usually am the one that calls and texts! - I know it feels like you are doing all the running but hopefully they will ... (read in full...)
I've given him £6000 in total which he spent on debts and drugs and now he has disappeared...
Q. i dont know what to do and am deepl upst. i will try shorten the story. i was with this wonderful guy, for a year was all perfect, then one day i heard nothing from him at all just stopped calling visiting nothing, i went through torment and ...
A. 21 October 2008: I have just read your letter & am going through a similar thing with a guy I know! - He knows I love him but only contacted me when he wanted some cash! - I only lent him £100 but he hasn't been in touch since & isn't answering the phone!!
- I feel... (read in full...)
Age difference - I need your advice please!
Q. I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...
A. 13 October 2008: You must tell him your REAL age!! - I know people who work with offenders and the number of men who end up in jail because they didn't know the true age of their girlfriends is unbelievable!!! - The law will be against him most probably whether he ... (read in full...)
Missing him and no contact address!
Q. Missing him and no contact address!! I'm in love with a guy (who had a partner unfortunately) who I gave my number to and arranged to meet up with! - On the day we were due to meet we missed each other by 5 minutes but he didn't ring to explain!...
A. 12 October 2008: Thanks for your reply! - In my head I know that you are right - that he has a girlfriend & there is probably no future for us! - But in my heart I am always asking "what if..." - I also worry that he may have lost my number just incase he does want ... (read in full...)
Does true love exist?
Q. Does true love exist? I am in my late 30s and can honestly say that in all my life I have only ever been asked out once by a man I truly wanted to be with (but since have split up with him). All the other occasions I have been asked by men I h...
A. 11 October 2008: Thank you for your answer!
There was a man lately who I really liked but I have since lost contact with him so I guess "unlucky" should be my middle name!!... (read in full...)
He has moved on and I am still stuck on him. I cant get over him!
Q. I'm 16. I dated(unofficially) this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as...
A. 11 October 2008: Ahh - you remind me of myself a bit! - I'm terrible for really liking people but too scared to show my real emotions ( ie getting physical!!) But like you said time is on your side and one day he will just be a distant memory. I still have very ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if this guy likes me or not. Is he just being friendly?
Q. I cannot tell if this guy likes me or not. I am in a relationship (5 years) and he is a mutual friend. When we were all saying bye once he held my hand a little longer that I expected. He kept eye contact a little longer too. He's always playfully ...
A. 9 October 2008: I had the same problem with a guy who I felt really strongly about! - He knew I liked him as his friends could see me looking at him! - Anyway, he would respond by staring at me, smiling, touching my hand etc so I thought great and gave him my ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep going for the wrong kind of guys?
Q. Why do i keep going for the wrong kind of guys? I know I am young, but this trend is starting to worry me. The first serious relationship, he turned out to be violent and broke my nose and slashed my arm with a knife. The second serious relations...
A. 9 October 2008: I seem to have a trend for falling for the wrong men too! - Not violent men - but men who already have girlfriends that I can't have or men who are in prison but have no intention of seeing you upon release!! - Deep down I think its my heart's way ... (read in full...)
I'm so obsessed with a man who was in jail and who returned to his girlfriend!
Q. I can't get him out of my head!! I'm totally obsessed with a man who I probably won't see again and who was in jail but now has gone back to his girlfriend! We had a definite attraction for each other and I asked him to call once he got ou...
A. 9 October 2008: I must admit - I do not normally get obsessed over men in such a way! - But in my head I can see he is is an ex con who would probably be wrong for me - but my heart tells me he is a beautiful person whatever he's done!!
I must admit that I do tend... (read in full...)
Unrequited Love
Q. I have a problem and I'm so tortured. I am suffering from unrequited love with a co-worker. He flirts with me constantly and I turn into a giggling blushing teenager whenever I see him. I know he knows I like him because I feel like he enjoys ...
A. 8 October 2008: Hi - I can sympathise with you greatly here! - Why do men resort to flirting when they know they don't intend leading anywhere?
I have had the same problem on a couple of occasions - where I became so infatuated with the bloke who was flirting that... (read in full...)
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