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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Iwe Noku. another way of lookin at it is this: when a guy closes his eyes he is secure in loving you. when a guy has his eyes open then hes probably just lustin or just insecure and tryin to make the kiss perfect (N.B. doesnt mean he dont luv u, ok). another pointer dont ask him to close his eyes: we guys rarely understand why women fret about such issues. Rather make the kiss as slow and sensual as possible (with your eyes closed)and then take a pick...;)
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reader, Anne-Marie x  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 it could be ok, my boyfriend used to because he never wanted to stop looking at me but i talked to him and he started to close his eyes
you just need to chat but dont start acusing him hun
hope you find out and all is well
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): He loves you......
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reader, Anonny +, writes (4 December 2008):
Hi there Nokutenda! - I actually have the same problem with my guy!! - I only see him now and then but when we kiss goodbye I have noticed he keeps his eyes open too!! - I really don't know whats going on here - is it more common than we think?
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reader, tux  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Well that could be the case as well.. but if he seems like he is enjoying it, he probaly is... if you cant tell and really are concerned about it... talk to him about it... but don't do it in an accusing way.
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (4 December 2008):
nokutenda is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx thought maybe he wasn't enjoying himself
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reader, tux +, writes (4 December 2008):
He may just like to watch you while he kissing you.. I wouldn't read too much into it unless he is checking out other girls while kissing you.
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