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writes:hey allive found the one for me and im damn sure, i have a problem with my past.Im an ex-insomniac and the reason i never slept was due to my past, i never went to a doctor or proffesional about it but this is the basic jist of it, i use to do martial arts and got to black belt all very good but when i started fighting full contact, one day i got really badly smashed up and i hate to say this but a different me came out :S(hate talking about this) but i lost control of all my morals and stuff and just wanted to kill this guy, almost did. this wasnt the first time this happened the reason i didnt sleep was cause i was scared "he" ever came out and hurt anyone, ive since gotten over this side and since ive been with my GF i have been fine sleeping wise.but she knows i use to have sleeping problems and wants to know what the problem was, i keep putting it off:/ what should i do ?any suggestions will be welcome thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (3 November 2008):
I know what its like having sleeping problems & insomnia! - it stops you from really going out & enjoying yourself properly because you worry about not sleeping!!
However, if your girlfriend loves you - she will understand & try & work through your problems with you!
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reader, Jack_McVeigh  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 ok dude dont worry. you should never be held back by your past. because at the end of the day, past is past and there is nothing that we cam do about it. if you have problems sleeping and your gf is asking whats wrong, then i would tell her. because at the end of the day she loves you for who you are and therefore won't think any less of you because of your past. another way of looking at it is that if you choose not to tell her and she some how finds out then she will feel hurt because she will think that you dont trust her enough to know something like this. tell her and she'll be some what shocked about it but she loves you and well to be honest that's all that counts. tell her and she'll respect and love you more because you will have trusted her to tell her something like this.all the bestJack P McVeighx
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