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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend (dating for 3 months),a clever and charming business guy, has suddenly stopped giving me attention and says he is too busy with his work to see me. He says he still loves me, but not seeing him as often as before brings doubts to my mind... He is not a romantic person and never shows that he loves me. When we go out, he never holds my hand or kisses me in public. We only cuddle when alone. He does take recreational drugs (canabis) on a daily basis and I am forced to wonder if this has an effect on him ... or he is just not that bothered about a serious relationship with me?
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reader, Austinalive  +, writes (11 November 2008):
I don't really undestand the sense of these kind of questions.
If you want to keep him, keep him. If you want to dump him, dump him. Pretty simple, right?
Now tell me: are you able to talk to him or you just generate these thoughts on your own and accept'em as true?
even better: are you able to define what you feel and fight for it?
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reader, Anonny +, writes (11 November 2008):
Some men are hard to read!! - I went on a date with a guy who showed no emotion (but that was his nature) but even when we kissed at the end there was no passion - although he did say he would meet up with me again!! (But I'm still waiting)!
Therefore - maybe when there is no/little emotion or passion the guy isn't really interested! - Sorry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Sounds like someone that I know but younger. So, he takes drugs, that's not very encouraging.
I think you know answer yourself. The changes in his behavour are not very promissing. Seems like his affection and interest toward you declined, and it's only been few months. Work is such a lame excuse. If he wanted he would make an effort to see you anyway. best of luck
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