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writes:A couple of days ago I gave a girl a note and it had my feelings about her and that I think she is special and how I like her more then a friend then later that day she sai she had to talk to me then she said she don't like girls then she said she didn't mean it in a rude way but I feel like she do like then later that day she said she had to talk to me again but we didn't talk because I got sick so know when we see each other we look at each other then keep walkin should I talk to her or should I push my feeling away wat should I do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): You're so young and very brave to have told her. I think for now it's safe to express your feelings will If she doesn't want to be friends anymore its her loss. But usually they will want to be friends even when they know you have feelings for them. the only thing is respect her decision if she is straight then she is straight don't push her around, don't ask her to try, and most of all don't get jealous. If you truly respect her then you will accept her just as a friend, and nothing more. Now that she knows it might even deepen your friendship. and yeah talk to her because you don't want a note to ruin a friendship. you don't want to wonder your whole life. good luck
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reader, Twinkey +, writes (18 January 2010):
Twinkey is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks know I know what to do net time
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (18 January 2010):
As a lesbian or gay person, it is never a good idea to suddenly express romantic interest in a straight person and put yourself out like that without at least being friends with them first. Doing this is a world of hurt and pain and you will face constant disappointment. Just let it go and move on with your life. Next time you like someone, first don't put it in writing because it can be passed around the school for a laugh. Secondly don't come right out and express a romantic interest. Start with a friendship and allow things to develop naturally over a few months. That way, its not such a shock for the other person because at least they have gotten to know how wonderful you are. All the best.
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