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writes:Ok ive been so naughty and feel so bad but ive slept with 2 different guys this month...The 1st one my ex boyfriend we had unprotected sex but it was only anal sex and he came there.. the 2nd guy i met on new years eve i have slept with twice we used protection (condoms)but as far as i know it didnt split or anything and had normal sex.. The thing is im about 2 weeks late but would the father if I am hopefully not be the guy I met on new years eve?
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reader, Ravenxx91 +, writes (18 January 2010):
 Before you panic who is the father get a pregnancy test done first, then come back give us a positive or negative, then its best to listen to advise....
find out if your pregnant first!
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 Get a pregnancy test first and see what it says, then tell us what the results were. Its not impossible for you to be pregnant, but if you don't know for sure, then you are worrying for nothing. Worry can actually delay your period so see if thats the case first.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (18 January 2010):
 It's pretty unlikely that you're pregnant. Find out for sure before you start panicking. Periods can be late for a lot of reasons. Doesn't always mean you're pregnant! If it turns out you are pregnant, you'll need a DNA test if you really want to know who's baby it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): Find out if you at all are pregnant before you try to figure out who is the father. I would actually not think you are pregnant at all since you used protection. Being late, or a missing period, can be for MANY reasons, pregnancy is only one. And two weeks into it is barely enough time to get a result on a pregnancy test, so take it easy and get tested first.
But no, if you are pregnant I would sooner guess the holy spirit is the father than any of the other two guys.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (18 January 2010):
it could be either guy. Your first step would be to buy a pregnancy test kit so you can stop torturing yourself. If you indeed are pregnant then you need to think about how complicated it would be to have two possible fathers, both denying its them because of the whole anal/condom thing. But first things first. Buy test kit.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 January 2010):
It could be either. The condom could have slit, just as much as the sperm from your ex could have found its way in there (this is more likely, but no one can be certain). Assuming you want to keep the baby, you will need a DNA test.
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