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what qualifies me to help people is personal experiences that I have encountered during my life.

I live in the beautful leafy county of buckinghamshire the town I live in is bourne End Iam training at the moment to become a beauty therapist at the moment iam doing a course in beauty therapy at college

Iam 28 married with a young daughter of three.

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Should I have an affair??

Q.   I met a man at work when he came from an agency to cover shifts, we went for a drink after work and had a kiss in his car the only thing is he's married and wants us to have an affair. Should i because i don't want anyone full time and it would su...

A.   6 May 2006: oh and by the way what I said to was not out of order two worngs do not make a right you ate as bad as he is you have no standards and you do not know how to behave... (read in full...)

This woman at work has a crush on me...do i tell my wife and how do I proceed with this? Help!

Q.   I've been married to my wife for two years, and been together for about six. We are both in our mid twenties, and although we are young I feel that i have married the love of my life still. However I work in a small team and spend everyday with on...

A.   29 April 2006: Try and ignore it of you can. It is only a temporary thing she has with you it won't last eventually she will get bored and move onto somebody. Do not say anything to your wife as it is not that serious you will create aggravstion at home not to ... (read in full...)

Broken relationships, I have a child to support and need a job... what do i do?

Q.   We broke up and have a child, and I don't have a job what do i do?...

A.   29 April 2006: Basically you need to get in touvch with toehr parents and a support network you then need to to get the benefits that you need find a nursery for your kids and get some advice at your local welfare or social sevcutry office and you need to sign on ... (read in full...)

How do I know if she really likes me??

Q.   I think a girl likes me,she flirts with me, but how do i know if she really likes me? ...

A.   29 April 2006: Try asking her and may be if what you say is true make the first move and you will soon find out.... (read in full...)

How do I get a girlfriend??

Q.   How do I get a girl friend??...

A.   29 April 2006: Try the chat lines dating agencies going clubbing or if you are college university or you are working try chatting women up . Basically shop arouund if you see someone you like go for it don't hold back. What you need my dear is confidence and ... (read in full...)

She says her feelings went away when she got a gf but I think she still likes me!!

Q.   So to start off with, I guess it's important to say that I'm a lesbian. That aside, I need opinions as to whether or not this girl still likes me. She's got a girlfriend now, but admitted to me a few months back when we first began talking,...

A.   29 April 2006: Have you asked her whether she still likes you directly because the only way tpo find put is to ask your ex girslfriend that. Thinking that she likes you is not really a positive way of knoiwing. Basically try asking her. byeeeee... (read in full...)

She says her feelings went away when she got a gf but I think she still likes me!!

Q.   So to start off with, I guess it's important to say that I'm a lesbian. That aside, I need opinions as to whether or not this girl still likes me. She's got a girlfriend now, but admitted to me a few months back when we first began talking,...

A.   29 April 2006: Have you asked her whether she still likes you directly because the only way tpo find put is to ask your ex girslfriend that. Thinking that she likes you is not really a positive way of knoiwing. Basically try asking her. byeeeee... (read in full...)

How can people love those who treat them badly??

Q.   Please cupid helpers enlighten me. Some women claim to love there men when they can treated quite badly. one example - I have a female friend of 40yrs who loves this guy who treats her quite badly eg. picks arguments, doesnt pay his share of the ...

A.   29 April 2006: OH dear that is a very good question in my opinion I feel very sorry for thses people. Sometimes to help them recoginse it you need to get there friends and family to wothness it and let them tell them from their point of view. this sourt of ... (read in full...)

He says he loves me but is not in love with me!!

Q.   Hi, im 19 years old and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. But now he has broken up with me. He says he feels different, that he loves me but is no longer in love with me. Help! What can i do to show him that we are meant for each ...

A.   29 April 2006: basically your man needs to know what the word love means does he love you as a frind sisiter. If he's not in love with may be he loves and cares for you like a friend but if you are unsure get him to find ouyt what he emans.... (read in full...)

She drops me and picks me up again. Should I support her now??

Q.   I have fancied my best friend for three years and up until a few months ago we were always close, flirting and she even told me she fancied me. We both have other friends, but spent most free time in each others company (live together)- practically ...

A.   29 April 2006: sounds like a roller coaster if you ask me . it sounds to me thta thid perosn is very difficult to be firneds with as she turn from wamr to cold basically I think that you ahouldn't supoport her at all... (read in full...)

How do i stop being jealous of my ex and her new guy??

Q.   I still live with my ex girlfriend in a student house with a few mates. We remained very close- practically going out but without the sex. But now shes seeing a new guy. I'm so jealous, i don't know how to control it- i end up causing argument...

A.   29 April 2006: meet someone else and don't hang around whre she is ... (read in full...)

Long distance lover is giving me the cold shoulder, What should I do?

Q.   What do you do when your girlfriend seems to not love you anymore for no apparent reason? My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for a few years now, about half of it has been long distance, but we've got used to the situation and al...

A.   29 April 2006: find out what is wrong and why he is doing this ?Ask him wherher he has another woman? and to be straight with you.... (read in full...)

Do I lose the weight to make myself feel better, is it all in my mind?

Q.   I feel like I'm being pressured into losing weight. I've always had a thing about my weight, from being bullied about my weight throughout my childhood, but truth be told, I'm not fat, and I'm not thin, but yet I feel like I have to lose weight or ...

A.   28 April 2006: Its up to you how you ffeel at the end of the day. If you feel you have to lose weight then you should do at the end of the day only you know whats best.... (read in full...)

I'm falling asleep on the phone and she thinks that I don't listen!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going strong for 9 months now. It's long distance since I'm at school, so we are on the phone late at night a lot. On several occasions during these late at night conversations, she'll be talking for a while and I'm ...

A.   28 April 2006: Well iam not surprised you do not have a very good telephone manner. Basically when you are on the phone to somebody. If you feel to tired to listen or talkl to some one. politely let them know that you are tired or you are getting tired and tell ... (read in full...)

I can't say NO to others and I hate it! Advice needed badly.

Q.   Hey there. I have a problem with being assertive. I mean, I can't ever say no because I'm so afraid of hurting people or seeing their reactions. I can't ever say no and I wish I could. The other day my friend asked me to go into town with her but I ...

A.   28 April 2006: Be honest learn to stand up for your self and defend yourself do not worry about hurting other people. In this life you have to learn to be tough . so mthere is no law in this country that you cannot say no. Do not be a push over and let others ... (read in full...)

I was fighting depression and lost all my friends as a result. How do I get them back?

Q.   I hope someone can help me with my problem. Im 22 years old and last year I suffered badly from stress and depression. I am now getting through it and am feeling alot better. However, I didnt realise how detatched I had become to all my friends a...

A.   28 April 2006: Well everybody at some stage suffers from some sort of depression at a time in their life . It sounds to me that thses friends of yours are not your real friends but your good time party spend more money on me good time only friends. If you ask ... (read in full...)

He's married and I tried to cut all ties with him! What can I do?

Q.   I have managed to let myself get involved with a married man. He never ever hid the fact he was married, he says he loves me but he does not want to put his kids through a divorce. I tried to cut ties but to no avail. He says he thinks about me ...

A.   28 April 2006: Get rid of him he is ,married dump him tell him you are not interested don't get involved with him. ... (read in full...)

He's in jail because of me, but now I miss him!

Q.   I am in a relationship that has lasted four years. my partner has been abusing me starting four months into the relationship. we have a two year old child. my partner has an alcohol addiction. I have had a restraining order since I was pregnant. ...

A.   27 April 2006: do not blwme your self that he is jail he got himself into that mess not you. I can understanmd that you miss him but their is nothing to stop you from visitning him in prison... (read in full...)

How do I ask this (married) guy for his number?

Q.   i work at a place that has a truck come deliever stuff to us once a week. im very attracted to this guy. but i found out that he won't be delivering anymore after next week. i want to ask him for his number but im way to shy and scared of what he ...

A.   27 April 2006: don't even think of chatting up this guy he is married so he ius not up for grapbs leave him alone... (read in full...)

Is it posssible to subconsciously try to get pregnant?

Q.   Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months,we'r both in our mid-late 20's so age not an issue, and we often end up having unprotected sex. The first time it happened I was quiet drunk but told him the next morning that we had to use condoms from now on, ...

A.   27 April 2006: not a chance i have never heard of anyone getting pregnant subconsciiously. basically to get pregnant you need to have sex with a man that is how you will get pregnant. Remeber natures way is the only way. ... (read in full...)

New guy wont answer my calls, What can I do??

Q.   Hey guys Im new to this and a little nervous if im being honest. Two years ago I broke up with my ex fiance since then ive gone on a couple of dates but no spark. I set up my own company and home and ive built my life again. Last week my cousin a...

A.   27 April 2006: Well this guy you have got to knoiw has no manner si f i were you I wouldn't waste any time wiyth this guy and just dump because he has no manners and is simply rude.... (read in full...)

Should I have an affair??

Q.   I met a man at work when he came from an agency to cover shifts, we went for a drink after work and had a kiss in his car the only thing is he's married and wants us to have an affair. Should i because i don't want anyone full time and it would su...

A.   26 April 2006: no its totally wrong you should be a shamed find a man of your own . if its approval you want you are not going to get it from anyone, accept from people who have no morals or standards.... (read in full...)

Why don't I get wet?

Q.   I'm a young vibrant girl, and would like to know what could be some of the reasons for not getting wet while trying to have sex, althought you're really horny?...

A.   24 April 2006: Bacially think of somethignr eally dirty and horny or read and watch moveies or mags or read books... (read in full...)

I don't enjoy sex anymore, can anyone help?

Q.   Hi i've been with my boyfriend for 8 years and i don't enjoy sex anymore,nothing he does turns me on, and everytime we have sex my vagina feels hot and stings like friction burn.i've tried lubricant but this doesn't help,and i don't have any ...

A.   24 April 2006: t a shame sex is such an enjoyable expereince. basically all I can suggest is that their is nothing wrong qith you it happens to us all basically when we are depressed or we have worries or concerns or past problems. Help is alswys at hand for ... (read in full...)

Am I really too old to have another child?

Q.   I am 40 this year and would like to have another child, my husband would too. We already have 3 children, we are self employed and able to financially afford another child. My problem is that people close to me say I'm too old now and am being se...

A.   24 April 2006: yes you are too old technically to have a child basically the normal age for having choildren is when you are under 30 nd young . when you are under 30 yu will have a helathy normal pregancancy. If you are pregant at forty you will encounter the ... (read in full...)

Advice on sexual relations needed!

Q.   How do I get my girlfriend to have oral with me? neither of us has done it before but I am willing.should I just wait till she wants to?...

A.   23 April 2006: Good idea wait till you are ready and comfortable... (read in full...)

Is it normal for sex to hurt... I feel so embarrassed!

Q.   Hey, I'm 20 and i've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now. I had sex for the first time after 4 mnths of being with him. The problem is it still hurts initially when we do it so this puts me off. Is this normal or have I got some kind of ...

A.   23 April 2006: it is quite common... (read in full...)

Can I make my period stop??

Q.   Ok, I would reeeally appreciate advice on making a period stop. Something that acts fast. although it doesn´t need to stop for a long time.. delay it for a few days would be great. i´ve not seen my lover for a long long time ( we live apart) and ...

A.   20 April 2006: not neccessarily periods are part of nature and they are part of a women's cyclke . all women get periods you have to unfortuantely learn to love them its all part of being a woman.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to do stuff with him I'm not comfortable with... What can I say!?

Q.   i have just got a boyfriend and he wants me to do things to him i dont want to say no coz ill look like a wuss and i dont want to say yes coz i dont want to what shall i do...

A.   20 April 2006: be honest tell him how you feel.... (read in full...)

My gf likes oral but I dont, shall i tell her i need help??

Q.   my girlfriendlikes to have regular oral sex, i dont, shall i tell her i need help?...

A.   20 April 2006: Not neccessarly sex is a two way thing there are going to be things you enjoy and things you don't you just have to explain to her nicely what you do want and what you don't want. ... (read in full...)

How do I get over my husband leaveing me for somebody else??

Q.   My husband of 21 yrs left me for someone else just before christmas and i feel so lonely and unloved how do i begin to get over it? ...

A.   20 April 2006: Hey there Iam really sorry to hear what has happened to you it is not somehthing you are going to get over just like that . It takes time for you to get over the pain and hurt. All I can suggest to you is may be get some conseilling go out with... (read in full...)

I've been told that my husband has been sleeping with his best friend's widow and seeing prostitutes!

Q.   I have being with my partner for 16 years, his best friend committed suicide leaving a distraught very attractive widow. She told my partner that she had always had feeling for him and to cut it short they have had a breif affair. I had very strong ...

A.   20 April 2006: I think the way your husband is behaving is disgusting not to mention hurtful and spiteful. I would advise you to get a divorce as soon as you can and thorw him out. I thnk personally it is despicable that some emn behave like this. ... (read in full...)

I was shocked by discovering his stash of porn mags... But appalled when he told me he had just seen a whore!

Q.   I have been with my fiance for four years. We are getting married in January. We have always been very open sexually, and we have always been very relaxed and trusting. There have never been any jealousy issues, and we have always told each other ...

A.   18 April 2006: Take my advice don't marry him get rid of him.... (read in full...)

The sex is terrible... And now he ogles other women in public and jerks off to porn...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together 18 months. He has intimacy issues but is a good man who I have felt pretty happy with. A few months ago, I discovered that he was looking at online porn. It bugged me a little, but I am by all means not a ...

A.   18 April 2006: It sounds to me like this guy makes you really un happy . Don't put up with it; and from what you tell me he is a total jerk my advice to you is dump him and find some else who can make you happy and give you what you need... (read in full...)

Another woman tried to seduce my husband!

Q.   Dear Friends How are you all? Litsten guys, I am really upset. Let me begin. What happened was my husband took my daughter, who is 3 years old, to see her friend who is also 3 years old. My husband claimed that the mother of the child wanted t...

A.   18 April 2006: Thanks guys for your help but the situation is that I have just found out that my husband has lost interest in sex with me because I can't have children also the woman who tried to get off with him he keeps talking about her all them time Also he ... (read in full...)

My wife has left me, saying I scare the kids when I'm drunk! I want her to know I won't do it again...

Q.   My wife is talking about leaving me. It has happened a few times lately and last Friday was the final straw. She says that when I've had too much to drink (which I don't realise) I'm turning very nasty and scaring the kids. Please help me to ...

A.   17 April 2006: The thing is your wife cannot cope with you anymore she has had enough and wan s out of the rel;ationship you have made her very depressed and unhappy and its really not fair on her and the kids and its obvious she has given you plenty of chances to ... (read in full...)

Our marriage is in a heap and we don't know whether to take a break, divorce or what!

Q.   Hi there, My husband always wanted to get married, then we eloped to get married, but he showed no interest on the day. I felt all alone, had lots of arguments while there and he was acting really cold and unsupportive. When I returned home he...

A.   17 April 2006: at the day of the day it is upto you both to decide what to do but I would reccommend marriage guidance counseilling or going to a family mediation coucnseilling that often helps. Take care ronxxxx... (read in full...)

No sex from my husband for a whole year, and I'm sure he's not cheating... Is this possible?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 7 yrs now and we have not had sex for 1 whole yr. It's not me. I'm very sexual with the person I love but I don't know what his problem is. He just doesn't touch me anymore. I used to try but got tired of being re...

A.   17 April 2006: the best thing you can do is to find out what is wrong and why this is the case may be he is under alot pressure may be he's got problems my fisrt miove would be for you too both go and have some conseilling from a relationship counseillor to ... (read in full...)

Another woman tried to seduce my husband!

Q.   Dear Friends How are you all? Litsten guys, I am really upset. Let me begin. What happened was my husband took my daughter, who is 3 years old, to see her friend who is also 3 years old. My husband claimed that the mother of the child wanted t...

A.   17 April 2006: thank you for your replies that you guys have sent me the first one was helpful thank you very much. happy easter to you all don't eat too much chocolate guys. The update on the situation is , is that I feel good now and happy.... (read in full...)

I'm a desperate man with troubles and need advice, I just don't want to let my kids down!

Q.   Hi i have just split from my girlfriend we have a 3 year old son i love and i have 3 kids from a previous relationship,my relationships have a pattern of going the same way starts good end up bad i have a history of depression not violence i just e...

A.   8 April 2006: getb nhelp now you need to go and have counseilling... (read in full...)

Decided to keep the baby but now I'm having 2nd thoughts... Is adoption the answer?

Q.   Im in a right pickle. Im having a baby in a few weeks and the baby's dad left me as soon as he knew I was pregnant, telling me to get rid of it. I was sure things would be ok, that id manage on my own, but now he has started saying he wants to see ...

A.   8 April 2006: You really neeed support from your family and friends here it is going ton be a tough for you any way good luck... (read in full...)

I slept all day, so what?

Q.   my boyfriend is pissed off that on my day off i slept all day i dont see anything wrong, is there?...

A.   8 April 2006: I quite agree after all we all need to rest it sounds to me that you havve been working really hard and that you were exausted and tired and that is no goodm for your health . you need to rest in order toget your energy back and to be healthy. So ... (read in full...)

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