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writes: Hey guysIm new to this and a little nervous if im being honest. Two years ago I broke up with my ex fiance since then ive gone on a couple of dates but no spark. I set up my own company and home and ive built my life again. Last week my cousin asked me to go on a blind date with her husbands best friend. I agreed and he called that night and we spent 2 hours chatting on the phone we just got on so well for the whole week I had 3 calls a day from him and we really seemed to "click". He lives about a 3 hour drive away from each other so we agreed to meet up on saturday night in a location which would be half way for each other. Initially we were both wery nervous but in time that settled and we laughed and talked for over 8 hours. He told me he really really liked me and wanted to come and spend this weekend coming with me. We shared a "magical" kiss and I felt like a 12 year old little girl with goose bumps. He left that night/ early sunday morning because he had his children the next day (he is divorced with 2 children) which I was shown pics off. When he was leaving he said he would call on sunday evening. My cousin called on sunday and told me how excited and happy he was and that he wanted to come and see me this weekend. I texted him on sunday and thanked him for a lovely evening on sat and hoped he had enjoyed the day with his children. Ive heard nothing since. Without sounding like a bunny bolier which of course Im not im so disappointed I really felt we had so much in common and he had enjoyed himself as much as I had. Im confused this is the first guy since 8 years ago when I met my ex that I felt I could be myself and that we had so much in common..Please helpSleeplessxx
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (27 April 2006):
 Well this guy you have got to knoiw has no manner si f i were you I wouldn't waste any time wiyth this guy and just dump because he has no manners and is simply rude.
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reader, SLEEPLESS +, writes (27 April 2006):
SLEEPLESS is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Dr Pete xx
Im sure your right about me being ready to move on now, I suppose its having the faith that not all guys are going to be like this one...
Destiny and all that and at the end of the day at least im out there having dates again..
Your advice is much appreciated
Thank you
Sleepless xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2006): I'm really sorry to hear that :(You deserve to know what this guy is thinking. I would try contacting him a few times, just so you are sure he knows you've tried.If it turns out he is ignoring you then you need to try and move on. Dating can be really heart breaking, if someone turns out to be not interested it can dent your self-confidence and you are left feeling like there's something wrong with yourself.Try not to take any of this personally, if the guy won't even return your calls then he is an immature looser and you haven't lost anything.There is of course the possibility that there is some reason for him not contacting you, I guess this will become clear though.If things don't work out this time, don't let it get you down. It sounds like you are ready to meet someone new so stick with it and you'll be ok.
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