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writes:My wife cheated on me. The guy she did it with wanted her to wear her wedding dress while she sucked him off and while he fucked her. She did this for him, and let him cum all over her dress. I'm not sure what i should be feeling here, but its not anger???
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): I would use a gas-powered chainsaw to cut her weddingdress apart along with the underskirt in front of her ,starting cutting at the bottom of the dress and moving it upwards cutting in the middle of her dress and stopping cutting when the chainsaw has reached the neck of the dress. so afterwards the dress is parted from top to bottom. that what i would do.
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reader, toti  +, writes (5 January 2009):
wow! that's my first reaction. someone that goes that far doesn't deserve love. i'd say divorce her, but again, that's your decision to make. if you love her that much and want to work it out, you gotta talk with her. because if she won't even try then it's not worth for you trying either. talk with her
good luck
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reader, riches +, writes (3 January 2009):
wow! i mean its one thing shes actually cheated on you, but to cheat on you in her wedding dress and allow his to do that is completely out of order, how disrespectful to you and your marriage! I feel disgusted just writing about it, divorce her! you don't want anyone like that in your life! no forgiving can erase that, find someone else, you deserve better! good luck xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): That is horrible. What she did was show complete disrepect for your marriage. Not just by cheating but the wedding dress? This is pretty twisted honestly.. I would leave her but you have to decide this on your own the only other thing I can suggest is counseling.
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reader, Jmo +, writes (2 January 2009):
 If you truly love your wife enough to try and work through your marriage, I think it's important that the two of you seek the help of a marriage counselor. That way, you both can get to the root of how you feel, why she cheated and how you can move on from there.
Best of luck.
-Jmo
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 What you are feeling is NOT Anger.. !! It's called the feeling of Disgust.. !! You're simply disgusted by this act of your wife.. !!
You've got every right to be upset. She definitely has no respect for you or your marriage.. !! All i can do is Sympathize with you.. !! You "have to" divorce her buddy.. !! Shez just not worth it.. !!
G'day
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (2 January 2009):
 That is a super odd thing to do. Have you asked her why? You and your wife obviously have some serious communication issues. To me it sounds like some kind of revenge, but revenge for what?
I honestly don't care about the wedding dress part, but she is cheating on you, how do you feel about that? Does that goes with how you view marriage? You personal morals?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): My personal opinion is that you should file for divorce immediately, on grounds of adultery and emotional cruelty.
Cheating is bad enough, but doing it in her wedding dress is a massive insult that simply cannot be tolerated. Divorce the hell out of her and leave her far behind. Put it down to experience.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 That would be my First Questions Also How Do you Know this? Did she tell you or what? And if she did this then she has no respect for your marraige. I would ask her why she did it and also I would let her knot that it isnt something you will just let go . I would ask her for a seperation and give her time to decide what she wants . Then tell her to let you know but you will not stand for this kind of thing .I cant believe she did this kind of thing bad enough to cheat but to do it in her wedding gown wow that is a real BLOWER.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): hi a_decent_1. i found pics of it on her mobile phone, and it wasnt like she could then dodge the truth.
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (2 January 2009):
My "first question" is, HOW DO YOU KNOW IT..?
Throw Light.. !!
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): wow thats a huge one, i dont even know what to say, cause sorry wont even make you feel better, all i can say is that i hope you learn to move past all this and hopefully forgive and forget everything,nobody said is going to be easy but take it one step at the time
good luck!!
tumi
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reader, pietry  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 It depends if you love your wife or not. What she did is a very bad thing for your relationship and for you. You should talk to your wife and see what she feels about it and what there is left for your marriage. If you love your wife then you will feel that probably it's better for her to be with that man if you can't make her happy anymore. Such things are hard to forget and forgive and even if you think you do will eventually surface and do more damage and even more, torn you apart from inside and slowly destroying your relationship
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