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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Horny girls?
Q. At what age are girls the horniest? And how can u make a shy guy horny?...
A. 30 August 2010: Actually, mine is peaking now at 25 but I think that's due to my biological time clock ticking. Oh yes, you can tell when the shy guy is horny sweaty palms, turning red, and then "Is that a banana in your pants or you just happy to see me?". You ... (read in full...)
I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one?
Q. I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one? I think all that talk when I was a teenager back in the mid 80/s about AIDS put me off for life!!!!...
A. 30 August 2010: Hey I loved that movie 40 year old virgin. I'm sure there are men who are virgins..plus you can adjust them to your likings. Now, if you happen to find a woman you really want to be with and want to sleep with her then I would ask her to provide ... (read in full...)
Divorce, from the child's perspective
Q. I dont really trust my family. Its not that I dont love them, because I do. I have two older sisters [17 and 22, im 13]. My mother is in her mid forties, my father is in his early fifties. When I was about six my mother called a family meeting, ...
A. 30 August 2010: Parents often lose site of their children in divorce. Mine got divorced when I was 22, 23 years of marriage down the drain..I didn't know it any other way. My mother had an affair. I had to move back home because the economy was dipping, I didn't ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on my best friend?
Q. i love my guy-friend like a brother, hes always been the ONLY guy i have that i can depend on. i've had a little crush on him since we met, and he liked me too but i never acted on it b/c my on/off bf of 3years.(i've known my b-g-f just as long)...
A. 30 August 2010: Well haven't you been beating around the bush long enough? Tell him how you feel, girlfriend or not..Who by the way is giving you the stink eye because she knows you're a threat. He could either break up with her for you or he could tell you that he ... (read in full...)
Have I been had?
Q. I went out my ex for 7 years, we had 2 beautiful kids together and yes we did a lot of things to hurt each other that was unforgivable. We broke up 3 years ago but continued to sleep together and spend a lot of time together. we last slept together ...
A. 30 August 2010: You were in that danger zone of being ex's and still sleeping together letting those old feelings get the best of you. Don't take him back it's completely over you two just aren't meant to be and there's better men out there! From seeing the guys ... (read in full...)
Living without the love of your life...
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. A year ago i moved overseas to the united kingdom. About 4 months after arriving i met my current boyfriend, whom i have been in a serious relationship with for the past 5 months. I love him more than anything, and even just...
A. 30 August 2010: Agreed with Anon..I am an army wife is well and in October I will be going without my husband for a year. God forbid anything happens to him. You have only been in a relationship for 5 months and have spent every waking minute together...sounds like ... (read in full...)
How can he know he likes me THAT quickly?
Q. I'd love some advice, please. So I've been single for 9 months after breaking up with my bf of 8 years after he cheated on me. I have not been interested in dating anyone else in that time. Last night, my best friend (f) invited me to dinner with ...
A. 30 August 2010: Well, think are you ready for another relationship or are you just looking for some fun? If he turns out to be a ladies man just keep it as a fling. However, if he's not then it could turn into a relationship. Flirt back and let him know you're ... (read in full...)
We live together but spend our holidays apart, no family visits. I am angry, any advice?
Q. I have been living with my bf for about a year now. We've been together for 5 years now. We are both from California, but we live in New York now 'cause he is working in NYC and I moved in with him.. The problem is that every time we come back to ...
A. 30 August 2010: I dated 2 guys that were like that, plus it was also out of respect to their parents who were old fashioned. Do you have any proof that he sneaks out at night? I don't blame you for not replying either...if he wants to talk then he can stop being ... (read in full...)
I ain't playing games with her. I want answers from her!
Q. Hey, I'm 27 and have a 20 year old gal who it appears that only I refer to 'girlfriend', I never actually heard her saying in front of other people that I'm her boyfriend and we've been dating for like 5 months, and she's Danish. We really clicked, ...
A. 30 August 2010: It always happens when you're on deployment doesn't it? Now, I've met some foreign Army wives then I see their husbands and realize why they're here. Not all are like that, I know. A common thing happened to you that happens to a lot of guys on ... (read in full...)
What's it like losing your virginity?
Q. so im talking to this guy about having sex with him so i can have a first time. i really like him but i dont think he feels the same way.. he is only 2 years older than me. should i have sex with him? he is in college and im a junior. and how bad ...
A. 30 August 2010: Yeah, he just wants your virginity...he's in college and there are tons of girls there. Think about it. I too regret my first time and wish I would have held out for a better boyfriend.
My cherry popped and it was a small amount of bloo... (read in full...)
Help me get out of this relationship!!!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my gf, she is working as a prostitute against my will. Nothing i do or say will stop her, i think it empowers her in some way. On top of this, she is acting insecure, hyper-jealous, irrational, temperamenta...
A. 30 August 2010: It's ok for her to sleep with men for money but not okay for you to look? Guys are going to look it's typical male nature, just a quick look while we're not looking now if it's a stare and we catch you then you're getting it. You need to get out of ... (read in full...)
Still alone and still visiting prostitutes
Q. Well here we go.. I posted on here previously about a problem i had. So lets start form the beginning and hope someone can give me a little insight or advice. Well before (and still) i felt very lonely (i was at uni a bout a year ago, never had...
A. 30 August 2010: Are there no women at the gym you frequent? I don't like guys who go out drinking, drugs, and clubbing..quite often they're man whores or a nicer term a ladies man. You sound shy, and maybe a little insecure (but who isn't?) There's other ways to ... (read in full...)
Whyy is she acting like this?
Q. I'll try to keep this short. I was seeing a woman from work for about 8 or 9 months. Initially she was with someone else and we were just friends. Her relationship with this other person was pretty unhealthy (sexual assault and aggression towar...
A. 30 August 2010: This is why you never, ever date/hook-up with a co-worker if things go sour it makes an awkward work environment. It sounds like she's that type of woman who can't stand to be alone and goes back to the one that hurts her. Take it as you were there, ... (read in full...)
Love won't let me leave!
Q. I have been in a relationship with the man I absolutely love and adore for 2 1/2 years. When we met he was married with 2 children. His wife he claimed he was never in love with. They married young and he said he really only married her because ...
A. 30 August 2010: Sounds like he's a liar. If he married his wife because he felt sorry for her then why does he keep going back to her and has another child by him? Another thing is if he loved and cared about you then why hasn't he been there for you and his child? ... (read in full...)
Why is my cum green?
Q. ok so like my cum came out light green why whats going on ,what is it help...
A. 30 August 2010: If there is an odor with it then it's an infection. Or did you eat any green vegetables today or yesterday?... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 3.5years wants space, saying she has feelings for another bloke. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm after some advice. So here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 3.5 years. We have practically lived together for 1.5 years but have only in our own place for the past few months. Things have been goo...
A. 30 August 2010: Dang it God ignored my prayers..well maybe this is a sign. Yes, it's best to terminate the lease, to get all your things, leave it all behind..and to not be friends with her anytime soon...Just know that you sat there and gave your all nothing less. ... (read in full...)
Is she just taking needed space or is she going to really break up with me?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now, living together. I love her very much and in the beginning she had nothing but pure joy and love with me. I brought her out of a bad situation and past, one she couldnt ask for anything better. ...
A. 30 August 2010: Honestly, I don't see why she would leave you over the little things you mentioned..Guys ask questions, you referred to things as yours, or the house, if you're paying for the house then it's yours, or those things that were possessions before her ... (read in full...)
Are her excuses lame and is she just playing games?
Q. I have been interested in this woman for about two months, she finally got my number and we have been texting for about a month. I told my ex who i had been sleeping with since about a month ago that i was interested in another woman annd now she is ...
A. 30 August 2010: Here's the female perspective..Your ex whom you slept with the past month(although it was just sex but know it's never just that) is going to get mad and say those things about the other woman because she wants you back in her bed. The woman your ... (read in full...)
I will not make him marry me!
Q. When my boyfriend and I first got together, he said he didn't think he would ever get married. A while into the relationship, we talked about it as a possible option for us. Well, we got engaged July 9th. I was the one who asked and he said yes. It ...
A. 30 August 2010: Ha men sure don't think before they say, too late when it's out because the damage is done. First off kudos to you for asking, I could've never done it and were brought up in a society that the man will ask you when he's ready. According to Carrie ... (read in full...)
My ex friend's man keeps hitting on me ,how can I tell her and have her believe me?
Q. A few months ago my friend met a new fella who seems to be really nice. I'm really happy for her cuz shes had a run of bad luck with men over the years. We went out on friday night and me and my friend fell out. I walked off to go home. Her fella ...
A. 30 August 2010: Oh toughie, if it's jealousy you guys had a falling out then chances are she won't believe. However, it will stick in her head what you said because she knows you said it for a reason. So when he does cheat on her with someone more willing then she ... (read in full...)
How do I stop him from ruining his life?
Q. Please help everyone! I'm in a pretty tough situation. My best friend and me have fallen out because he admitted that he felt for me as more than just a friend, but i already had a boyfirend. I tried to handle the situation the best way i could, but ...
A. 30 August 2010: Well going out with him isn't going to save him. I don't condone drugs but weed is known as the lesser of drugs, still it's harmful and detrimental to his health in the long run. You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves..he's more ... (read in full...)
My selfish husband, what to do?
Q. [MOD NOTE: OP's OWN TITLE] Recently I moved to a new state because my Husband is the military. So he refuses to teach me how to drive. I am city girl, I never expected to have to get my license as I rode the bus/train in NYC. So when our move hap...
A. 30 August 2010: That's military for you hon, they tell you what base you're going to and when. Get used to it, if you're lucky they'll give you a moments notice...Have you made any friends with the other military wives? I'm sure one of them would teach you how to ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I'm crampy AFTER my period!
Q. I have question and im curious... can u really help me please? i start my period on 17 of aug and finish on 23 or 24 of aug this month and i had sex with my boyfriend 4 days after my period and i had sex on 28 of aug this month and my questio...
A. 30 August 2010: No you haven't even started ovulating..I get cramps even after my period, didn't used to but now I do, I even bloat a week in advance. Besides, if you were one of those ones which it doesn't happen often who starts ovulating the day after her period ... (read in full...)
Which guy should I choose , if any?
Q. What do you do when you have several guys that like you? I am a 20 year old junior in college, and I'm really not sure what I should do about these guys. The first one is a guy that goes to my college with me; he's an international st...
A. 30 August 2010: Let's weigh the pros and cons...
International hottie
Pros: That foreign hot factor, sweet, can speak English, and goes to your college.
Cons:Maybe going back to his country when he graduates, still a little of a language barrier, and the... (read in full...)
I think my daughters friend was sexually molested
Q. is this normal? My daughter who is nine had her ten year old friend over the other day. They were playing on the slip and slide in the backyard. I looked out in the backyard and the ten year old is sitting with her legs spread with a big smile on ...
A. 30 August 2010: That's a serious assumption to make. All it is an assumption, you don't have any facts. I don't know how sexually informed kids are these days but when I was that age when we discovered our dad's stash of playboys we were grossed out but intrigued. ... (read in full...)
Husband's actions lead me to believe he is cheating on me
Q. I feel like my husband is cheating on me. He lies and when i question him he gets mad at me. He does not spend time with me or is interested in me. He calls me names when he dosent know where I am. He says he will be back in 2 hours but he wont be ...
A. 30 August 2010: The lying and staying gone longer than expected are red flags..How's the sex life? If it has completely depleted then I would say yes. However, if you guys are still having sex then I would say no. You don't have any evidence to prove that he is. Do ... (read in full...)
He wants me to be a housewife without marrying me!
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 5 years. I moved about a year ago to where he lives to be with him. We've been living together for a year now. However, we are fighting a lot. We seem to disagree on a lot of things. He gets mad at me for not ...
A. 30 August 2010: What are his views on marriage? I know a couple who have been together 10 years and are just now getting a house together..they're both in their 30s, and they are a little hesitant about marriage. Does he have a job as well? Because if he's sitting ... (read in full...)
She won't swallow!! Help!
Q. How after 5 years of great sex do I get my girlfriend to swallow? I return the faver to her in every way..oral sex, anal licking, she dose not like oral sex on her but she lets me preform it on her every so often and enjoys it most of the time. She ...
A. 29 August 2010: Spitters aren't necessarily quitters..We still do oral now don't we? The only way we would be quitting is if we decided against oral because we can't stand the taste of spunk (for me it's the slimy texture). But we're troopers and we go back for ... (read in full...)
What are some "sexy" tops that aren't a bra.
Q. Okkkkk. So when me and my boyfriend first started going out he told me for his birthday he didn't want anything just me in a thong, and sexy top. well 7 months later here we are and it's his birthday sooo, I have never really tried many tongs so...
A. 29 August 2010: Guys like it when you wear their shirt after sex, especially if it's a button up shirt..This guy is wanting lingerie. So I would go to Victoria secrets has the best selection. Or you can try Fredrick's which is a little cheaper. You can wear a ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my family falling apart?
Q. Uhhh hey, I'm sorry if this is the wrong site but it's kinda a relationship problem, with family? Anyway, my family is on the edge of completely falling apart. I moved away from my parents house when I just turned 16, to look after my grandpa...
A. 29 August 2010: Chances are it will hurt your mum to see her mother go and she will be devastated for quite awhile..and will most likely move your grandfather in your house, if she isn't the type who likes nursing homes. Yeah he's a jerk, old, and rude but he's not ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid women won't be interested in me because I'm still a virgin
Q. What type of women hate virgins? I'm 23 and although still fairly young I always have this fear that I'll end up still being a virgin at 30. My fears are based on the fact that if I meet a girl who i care about, she'll reject me on that basis be...
A. 29 August 2010: Women don't hate virgins..in fact they can teach you everything that they like in bed for an enjoyable experience for them and you. I can't stand guys who think they know all the spots on women and try to go to town thinking that we enjoy it. Not ... (read in full...)
LDR issues!
Q. It's been 9 mths. I'm in my first long distance relationship and that's one issue. The other is he constantly throws in my face that he need's to be number one- and that means before my 16 yr old son - in my life. He said to me bout 2 mths into it, ...
A. 29 August 2010: Been in 3 LDRs myself..last one I married. So they can work but mind you both parties have to put in the effort with communication and the travel. Also, everyone knows children come first, but he's acting like that due to the problems from his ... (read in full...)
I'm always the backup if things don't work out with his girlfriends
Q. hi, i've got a, i suppose, small problem. a really good friend of mine who i have always had strong feelings for, keeps going out with other women. not that i overly mind, he's entitled to go out with who he pleases. but they all keep treatin...
A. 29 August 2010: Ah, he dumps the girls who treat them like dirt then goes to you for what he lacked in his relationship..although it's like momentary friends with benefits then he goes and gets into another relationship. You're more or less a rebound and until his ... (read in full...)
She wants to try oral sex but then again she doesn't!
Q. My girlfriend won't let me eeat her out because she says she don't know when to stop, she is afraid that she will have an orgasm and she says she will het too wet... What do I do, she also says she wants to try it out, so im really confused. I ...
A. 29 August 2010: Well she doesn't want to orgasm? Let me tell you when you first do it she will get hooked! I was a little scared my first time too, you're young you don't know what happens, or how it's going to feel. Not every guy is going to make you orgasm from ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend thinks its ok to push my buttons, treat me badly and then break up with me!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 yeare. the last three have been on and off. We break up and then get back together. I have done nothing less then shower her with love and affection. I treat her very well, she will tell you that. However, ...
A. 29 August 2010: Women like that aren't going to acknowledge their behavior and often drive people away from them. Like her I have a bit of trust issues and whenever a fight (sometimes I start them) erupts then I too push that other person's buttons. I have a bad ... (read in full...)
Classy photos just for me?
Q. I want to take boudoir style photos of my self, because i think they are really classy. I want them just for me the only problem is that I am only 16 and is it really that wrong to want to take photos just for me? That are very classy photos? ...
A. 29 August 2010: Boudoir photography are soft an sensual photos and they usually require you to be of legal age before doing a shoot. They can be revealing but they don't have to..you can do more of the glamour shot with the makeup and teased, retro glam styled ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 3.5years wants space, saying she has feelings for another bloke. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm after some advice. So here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 3.5 years. We have practically lived together for 1.5 years but have only in our own place for the past few months. Things have been goo...
A. 29 August 2010: I prayed for you twice!! ... (read in full...)
I feel more like we are best friends not lovers
Q. I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but ph...
A. 29 August 2010: You're already stronger than you think, you ended the relationship and moved out. Those 2 steps right there are the hardest part!!! But you did it, yaaayyyyy! Now, the next part is not to relapse...Yeah, there was 6 years in it, and you miss the ... (read in full...)
I feel more like we are best friends not lovers
Q. I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but ph...
A. 29 August 2010: You're already stronger than you think, you ended the relationship and moved out. Those 2 steps right there are the hardest part!!! But you did it, yaaayyyyy! Now, the next part is not to relapse...Yeah, there was 6 years in it, and you miss the ... (read in full...)
Should I come out to her or not?
Q. I've been giving advice on this website for a while now but eventually figured I need some help myself. To start off, I am an 18-year-old bisexual guy and my sexuality is not really the problem in this case. I've been bisexual my whole life, star...
A. 29 August 2010: So you've known her for 5 years, but would you say you really know her? If you're a little wary with trusting her then I would listen to the part that is saying no. Reason being another guy on here came out to his best girl friend and she told ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend or this other guy? Three is a crowd...
Q. Me and my bf have been together for a while! When we're good we're good but when we're bad we're bad! We have separated many times, well this last time I dated a guy whom has been nothing but a close friend, he listened to all my problems, he was my ...
A. 28 August 2010: When it's bad with the boyfriend to the closet friend, but when things are bad you go back to the boyfriend. You're running to whomever will give you comfort and assurance...and right now you seem to think the boyfriend has it. All relationships ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 3.5years wants space, saying she has feelings for another bloke. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm after some advice. So here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 3.5 years. We have practically lived together for 1.5 years but have only in our own place for the past few months. Things have been goo...
A. 27 August 2010: In reply to your update...
You don't have to make your status to hint your upset, the girl already knows how much your hurting. Plus those kind of statuses are for the girls anyway were the emotional ones. Not chatting with her on Face... (read in full...)
Girlfriend of 3.5years wants space, saying she has feelings for another bloke. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm after some advice. So here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 3.5 years. We have practically lived together for 1.5 years but have only in our own place for the past few months. Things have been goo...
A. 27 August 2010: You sound like a very stand up guy, having dinner ready for her when she comes home, was going to surprise her with a birthday get-away weekend, and even wrote a letter saying how you're going to make it better. Plus, you're willing to forgive her ... (read in full...)
I feel more like we are best friends not lovers
Q. I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but ph...
A. 22 August 2010: Well, if the spark was never there from the get go then it surely isn't going to ignite now. No spark, chemistry, or passion=a crap sex life. Alright, if you find yourself flirting with others then go ahead and end this relationship before you do ... (read in full...)
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