I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 28 January 2008: If you are leaving him , there is no sure guarantee that you will find a man that you like or to have a child by him.
He could be impotent or he does not want children. So where does that leave you?
That is the risk you have to consider.... (read in full...)
I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 24 January 2008: How do you know she will end up like that? Are you a soothsayer or crystalball reader? Can you see into the future?Are you God?
Hey! Is one kid so tough to bring up? Women of today are working and don't need a man to feed them or house them.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to build a more meaningful relationship with me after 18 months?
Q. I’ve been in a relationship for 18months.Since july 06. I’m 33 female and Australian.hes 29 so hes four years younger. Heres the deal.I have been in love with hijm since the beginning And I only assume he has too.The sex has been good but cou...
A. 23 January 2008: If a man gets everything while unmarried, what is it in for him to get married? There are no more rewards but only responsibilities. It will be like tying two heavy stones on his neck.
If you can get for free, why should you pay for it?
... (read in full...)
Why do men engage in extramarital affairs? Love? Pure escapade?
Q. Is a man who engages in an extramarital affair usually in "love" with the person with whom he is having the affair, or does he "just want to have an affair", meaning there is no emotions or love at all?...
A. 23 January 2008: One hand clap , can make no sounds. It needs two hands to clap to make a sound.
Give a fish to a cat,will the cat refused it?
Just as a women comes to a man and lay herself down, do you think the man will just walk away?
Man are the pla... (read in full...)
I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 22 January 2008: If a man wants to divorce, it is not whether you had kids without his consent. It could be many other factors.
Who decides to have kids in the family? The man may have a say but it is the woman who will have the final say. If she wants to have kid... (read in full...)
How can I give my bf a good orgasm without full-blown sex??
Q. Hey, agony aunts. I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we've been taking things slow, but we're starting to think about fooling around a bit. Nothing major, we know we're too young to start anything too serious,...
A. 22 January 2008: You can find it online. Google the word 'masturbation.'... (read in full...)
Should I worry about not being able to orgasm during sex?
Q. I'm getting quite worried, because I just can't orgasm during sex. I can when he licks me out, or rubs my clitoris, but during actual intercourse it doesn't really turn me on to a point where I can orgasm... Is there a problem? I know there's ...
A. 22 January 2008: Some women faked orgasm while some men won't even know if you had one or not. Some men just did their job and is'nt bothered if you had an orgasm .
As long as you can please him , he will be satisfied.... (read in full...)
How do I cope with a workaholic boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and what first attracted me to him was the fact he is a determined person.However, I have came to realize that his determination is more like money hungery. He works 7 days a week. It seems like ...
A. 22 January 2008: Many men have the mistaken belief that they need to focus on their careers and let their wives look after their family.
They give 90% or more to their careers and little to their wives.
The wives are people and women with feelings. They are not... (read in full...)
I love her so much but sometimes, she turns 'cold' on me. How do I know if she feels the same?
Q. Just need your help on a situation that's a complete mess in my head. Basically I'm in love with another female. She's in her early 30's, I'm in my early 20's. I can't explain what it is, but I've never felt such feelings for anyone ever in my life ...
A. 22 January 2008: Do not seek for answers when there is none. Just live from day to day and enjoy doing things with her. Be happy in the little things you share together.When the time is ripe, you will find your answers.... (read in full...)
What's the next step up the ladder from kissing, but not actually having sex?
Q. hey ok so this is just a question about where, and how to go from kissing, bt not leading to sex. I always have great fun with guys, kissing them, but i always get the impression during kissing these guys that they want more. and i know id like it ...
A. 22 January 2008: After kissing , the next stage is light petting.You gently caress each other on your backs, hands and body. Then you progressed to heavy petting by touching those erroneous zones .If you feel that is enough , you stop it.
Fingering is too far...... (read in full...)
I'm so moody even my family cant stand me!
Q. Hello well ya see this i really need help its for any doctors out there please help me im so moody even my family cant stand me i dont want to make anymore problems i just wanna get on with my life is there any medication out there that i can take ...
A. 22 January 2008: Go out and have fun and do the things you like .You will be more happier.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to build a more meaningful relationship with me after 18 months?
Q. I’ve been in a relationship for 18months.Since july 06. I’m 33 female and Australian.hes 29 so hes four years younger. Heres the deal.I have been in love with hijm since the beginning And I only assume he has too.The sex has been good but cou...
A. 22 January 2008: It is not about financial but whether he has the commitment in this relationship.He could commit and plan for your future together.
He is just stringing you along.If he is serious about you , he would listen to you and your plans.Don't listen t... (read in full...)
Dating this guy could create problems with my ex...help!
Q. My partner left me, after a four year relationship, nearly 7 months ago when our baby was less than a month old. My dilemma is that one of his best friends and I have feelings for each other and we don't know whether or not to act on them. We have ...
A. 22 January 2008: Your partner has left you . Do you consider you still have a relationship with him? When he left, the relationship is dead.He is not important anymore in your life. Your friend and your ex,it is beyond your control.You do not have to seek your ex's ... (read in full...)
Marriage problem - midlife crisis or age difference?
Q. Hi I have been with the same (only) woman for nearly 30 years - she is older than me and has children from her first marriage. I love her very dearly, but aargh! I'm experiencing a real sense of restlessness - looking at other women, wanting t...
A. 22 January 2008: Marriages are supposed to be for life but after 30 years, some couples find that they are like strangers to each other .There is no more spark and the bond that binds them have become loose.
What is there in their marriage? Do they stick around i... (read in full...)
I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...
Q. i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how....
A. 22 January 2008: Be like an angel to him.If you can , he will not leave you.... (read in full...)
We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her though...advice?
Q. Help, my wife has left me! We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her very much and I know she loves me, but the pain is to big at this point. We have children and I also don't want them to hurt. I am feeling depressed and I ...
A. 22 January 2008: Go to her with a bouquet of flowers and tell her you love her and ask her to come back and you will allow her to do what she wants.Whatever differences, you need to give way to her if you want her back.
Let her be the queen of the house.Sh... (read in full...)
Trouble having sex the first time! I need help please.
Q. i have problems with my boyfriend because he wants to have sex with me but im a virgin, and when we try ito, it hurt's a lot, so i dont know what to do. And i dont know what to say on the phone with him coz he says that his the only one that has ...
A. 21 January 2008: Tell him to play with your body first for 10 to 20 minutes until you are fully aroused before attempting penetration.
You may use KY jelly or Lube for lubrication if you feel dry .
Tell him , you love him and it was not his fault. Don't worry ... (read in full...)
Husband tried to cheat with my friend. Do I forgive him and how can I look my friend in the eye again?
Q. my husband tryed to cheat on me with my best friend we have been married 5 years and have a 2 year old son. my husband and my best friend was drunk she went to bed and woke up next to my husband naked and trying to get it on with her she kicked him ...
A. 21 January 2008: It is not your fault. You should talk to your friend and find out how she feels. Maybe, she will not blame you for it.
This thing sometimes happens. He thought it was you as he was in a drunken stupor. Whether he did it intentionally or mistaken... (read in full...)
She doesn't know if she wants a proper relationship with me because she is really worried about ruining our friendship! Any advice?
Q. hi ok so im 19 and i fell in love with my best friend, who is also a girl!! i plucked up the courage to tell her how i feel and the response was great!! we got closer than ever after i told her, and we are really intimate with each other! we are p...
A. 21 January 2008: You need to set your own time frame. 1 month should be enough to decide . If she cannot give you an answer, it means that it is over.
She has experienced it all with you and I think she only wants the friendship part and is uncomfortable with the... (read in full...)
Is my friend being minipulated, or do I have this wrong?
Q. Hi all, I have a question that I would like some veiws on. Yesterday afternoon, I met a friend and her husband in the pub and was invited to go back to dinner. This couple are our close friends,(he was left by his wife for another man) and we ofte...
A. 21 January 2008: Neither of you are wrong. It is just the male and the female perceptions of what attracts differs .Not all men are like Adam who goes for those sexy attires. No doubt, a female who dressed sexily can get all the looks.
A female who dressed ... (read in full...)
Feeling insecure, how can I cope?
Q. hi... ive been married for almost 6 months now but hav been with my man for 3 years. ive always been an emotional person but recently ive been acting so clingy, i feel like i always need him with me or else i feel so lost and sad. i dont know how to ...
A. 21 January 2008: Grow up and learn to be independent.Don't treat him a clutch.You are not an invalid.... (read in full...)
How can I stop it from going wrong? Please help! I'm desperate
Q. me and my bf have been together for 9 months and we have had our ups and downs but now it just seems like we are always fighting and I dont know what to do cause i do not want to lose him but I feel it coming please someone help me with some ...
A. 21 January 2008: If you want a healthy relationship, you should avoid contentious issues. Fighting is not good for a healthy relationship. Everyone is entitled to their opinions whether right or wrong. You need to see from the other's perspective and if you do not ... (read in full...)
I made a terrible mistake! how can I prove I didn't mean this?, I am only 12
Q. my problem is my older sister will not talk to me at all because me and her 11 year old girl did some touching (you know) the thing is my older sister ha something similar to her happen when she was my age (11) she wont talk to me or my mom at all ...
A. 21 January 2008: You could talk to your mum about it or let time heal all those hurts.In time , it will be forgotten.Do not be too sensitive. You are still young and people will forgive you.... (read in full...)
Baby's names! who gets the last word?
Q. A while ago, I wrote in about wanting to be preggie all the time, even though a baby is still out of the question for some particular reasons which I will not discuss at this time because, well, they're irrelevant to the question, and the question ...
A. 21 January 2008: It depends on who is the more domineering in the relationship.
There is always the compromise .... (read in full...)
Problems with my Dad, I really need some advice please
Q. My issue is the love-hate relationship I have with my dad. As good a man as he is and as much as he helps me and I love him, there is a side of me that doesn't trust him and that makes me "hate" him. My dad has a major chip on his shoulder about his ...
A. 21 January 2008: Just tell yourself that no one is perfect .We are not perfect and we have many faults and defects.Look at his bright and positive side. See the positive things and you will find love. Look at the negative things and you will get hate.
Do you want... (read in full...)
Halfway through the act, my natural lubrication declined. What could have happened??
Q. My boyfriend and I were having sex today and everything was good until about halfway through when I ended up going from very wet to dry, out of nowhere. Any ideas what could've happened?...
A. 21 January 2008: Demand outstrip supply. Did you have sex too often? Your factory could not cope with the increased orders.... (read in full...)
He treats me like dirt, should I trust him again?
Q. Ok so i have been dateing this guy for a little over 3 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter. We constantly argue because i feel the need to complain about some things and he feels i shouldnt complain at all. In the past he has cheated on me ...
A. 21 January 2008: You have voiced your feelings to him and if he disregards your feelings, there is not much you can do .You may not have a high regards for his friends but it is his friends which he likes to hang out with.
You have to let him have his fun with... (read in full...)
I need to change my life, and stop hurting the people I love, but how?
Q. I dwell on everything...little, medium, large issues, I dwell on all of them. Things I have done, people I have hurt, everything. I have shamed myself so deeply many times, I have hurt people I loved. I am ashamed of myself and can't seem to get ...
A. 21 January 2008: You can Google those words, 'Anxiety attacks or Anxiety Disorders' and learn about this disorder and how to overcome them.
There are effective treatments for anxiety attacks and disorders. Therapy, relaxation techniques, and a balanced, healthy ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend blows hot then cold! Why?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have just broken up becuase we weren't talking much to each other. I was trying to talk to her but other times she just left before I had the chance to. Her friends says she liked me for a while but it doesn't seem like it ...
A. 21 January 2008: It is possible love flew out the window. Her love is MIA.She will not feel anything about this relationship.
Maybe, you forgot to fill up her love tank or she was a guzzler.
Sorry about your break up.
... (read in full...)
My mate is driving me Nut's, how can I tell her?
Q. My friend is a nutter, and bugs the hell out of me! She never stops talking about herself, and lives in a complete fantasy world. She imagines herself married to a guy after ten minutes. I don't mean the normal 'I wonder what color eyes our children ...
A. 21 January 2008: Go print one T-Shirt with that slogan," My mate is driving me Nut's!" and wear it when she is with you.... (read in full...)
No matter how pleasant my dates, I get bored of them very easily. I call it "carnal apathy." The only different relationship has ended and I'm back to the "old self." Ideas?
Q. Hi there, I Feel rather ridiculous having to come to a forum for the answers to my problems, but without spending hundreds of dollars this is the best help i can get. Around half a year ago, I came out of my first real relationship. It...
A. 21 January 2008: I think your problem is ,you still love your first real relationship.No one can compare to her and none will ever take her place in your heart.Your heart pines for her .
Why not you try to build bridges with her?... (read in full...)
I want to ask my friend out on Valentine's day, but I do not think she reciprocates my feelings. What to do?
Q. I want to ask my friend out on valentines day but I don't know how?!! I will tell her at college. But i dont know how to give it to her alone. Ive likd her for 14 months now. Im crazy over her but she doesnt know and i dont think she likes me. ...
A. 21 January 2008: You need to be confident and act like a man . Just go up to her and ask her out .You need to ask earlier so that if she wants , she will have the time to prepare for it .
If she does not want , so be it. Then you know where you stand .Don't be a cl... (read in full...)
Not trusted yet! How do I handle this?
Q. My boy friend says I am the love of his life but he doesn't trust me. And wants to know eveything I did when we were not together. What do I do? ...
A. 21 January 2008: Just do the same to him. Asked him to tell you every minute when he was not with you.Tell him , you don't trust him too.
That is the rule of the game which he invented and have to be fair .... (read in full...)
I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 21 January 2008: The only way you want to have your own kids is just to let it happen and hope that he will change his mind when he sees the baby.
Some men will change because they could not see their own selfishness. You could tell him that you will support ... (read in full...)
I feel really guilty after my affair!
Q. I met a married man online after a month I felt very close to him thought we could meet and the next thing I know I was sleeping with him anyway he told me how he was depressed with wife and kids hated his job I felt sorry for him he told me it had ...
A. 21 January 2008: Affairs are intense, fun and exhilarating but it's aftermath is very bitter. There is a price to pay.Be not be too harsh, forgive yourself and move on.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is ready for sex, and encourages me to accept it! I'm scared however, what do I tell him?
Q. my boyfriend is ready for sex! And i told him that im kinda scared becuz idk anything bout sex just yet! he told me that i wont hurt thant much! heres what he told me about it, it all depends on how big the guy's penis is compared to the depth of ...
A. 21 January 2008: Tell him you are not ready yet and ask him to be patient. If he loves you truly , he will wait for you.If he insist then it is not love but lust.If his love for you is genuine, he will not force you to do against your will.
... (read in full...)
Why did he cheat on me so soon after our break up? Should I end our relationship?
Q. where do i begin. i had been dating my boyfriend for 5 years when we decided to move across the country together. the situation got really tense and we broke up and he moved back home. shortly after he left we began talking on the phone again and ...
A. 21 January 2008: What is important is, he is by your side and straight with you . Whether he has any feelings for her or not , only he himself knows the truth.If you worry about this issue, you will never find peace in your relationship.Be more positive for you ... (read in full...)
Why do men engage in extramarital affairs? Love? Pure escapade?
Q. Is a man who engages in an extramarital affair usually in "love" with the person with whom he is having the affair, or does he "just want to have an affair", meaning there is no emotions or love at all?...
A. 21 January 2008: Some fall in love because they cannot get it from their marriage.
Some think they are in love but in actual fact it is their lust.
Some do not have any emotions or love but just opportunistic.
I think those are the three categories of men.... (read in full...)
He wanted me to compete with the other woman for his attentions and then I got dumped anyways! I feel used and manipulated...advice?
Q. I met a man around the first of November and we started dating once or twice a week. We are both 45 years old. He said right off the bat that he wanted to take it slowly because he ex had dumped him by email about a month earlier. I agreed because I ...
A. 21 January 2008: No men would be stupid enough to tell his g/f that he is seeing another women openly.What would be his motive?
He has preferred the other woman and walked over you but he would still prefer you on the by lines.
You were not wrong to feel th... (read in full...)
What does that mean?
Q. theres this guy dat hates the guy im datinn because he likes me...so i broke up with himmmm then he finally started to talk to him. i broke up infront of the guy i likeee den he started to laugh he told my ex "first is nicole now jamie....why dont ...
A. 21 January 2008: He likes you but you did not give him a chance. He wants to impress you.... (read in full...)
How to help her get in the mood.
Q. Hi aunts, i'm really worried about my and my girlfriend's sex life every since she gave birth in october, nothing has happened since then, i know it must take a lot to get over giving birth but i know any longer and i'll just go and cheat on her. ...
A. 21 January 2008: You can help her with the house chores and baby sitting and she will not feel so tired or stressed out for sex.
You should praise her more and do not criticize her.... (read in full...)
To break up or not to break up...that's the question!
Q. I have been dating this man for about 9 months now. We work together which I do not feel totally uncomfortable or comfortable with. I am somewhat indifferent I suppose. I have never dated anyone which I work with. We go to lunch frequently, ...
A. 21 January 2008: Do you enjoy when you are with him? If you know the answer then it is not difficult to decide to stay or leave.If you don't know the answer, just let time decide.... (read in full...)
Should I let him go?
Q. I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...
A. 21 January 2008: Maybe, you could ask him when he is free.He could be unaware of your urgency.You have to give him time and don't be hasty in conclusion and you could be wrong.Give him another chance to be sure.... (read in full...)
Lost after mothers Death and Wife leaving me for some other guy
Q. Hi There, On Thursday my wife who i married only in april of last year told me it is over, we had been together for five and a half years. She started this process back in november by saying that she just wasnt happy in the relationship and...
A. 21 January 2008: I am very sorry and my empathy to you . When everything seems lost, there is always God. He can help you overcome your griefs.Please give it a try.... (read in full...)
He won't take his shirt off during sex!
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and he has never taken his shirt off during sex. I've known him for 10 years, and we have been off and on since then. These past 2 years have been solid, and we're even talking about marriage. ...
A. 21 January 2008: There is something that he does not want you to see..I am afraid, you just have to accept it .If he does not want to talk about it.Just leave it.
The only reason I could think off why he does not take off his shirt is he has inverted nipples ... (read in full...)
Lost and alone...still in love with my ex gf!
Q. I have just split up with my girlfriend from a six year relationship and im complteley heart broken now i love her more than anything in the world and ive gave her space that she asked for and tryed to show her how hard im willing to change so tha...
A. 21 January 2008: Send her a bouquet of flowers and thank her for all those sweet times.Tell her that you love her very much. It is very important that you must tell her that you love her.If you did anything wrong ,apologize to her and promise that you will change ... (read in full...)
Should I let him go?
Q. I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...
A. 20 January 2008: Is he still loving to you?
Some men like to flirt but the trouble is they don't take the trouble to delete those flirtatious texts and can cause problems with their g/f's.
You said you love him very much. How can you love him so much and want... (read in full...)
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