I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 28 January 2008: If you are leaving him , there is no sure guarantee that you will find a man that you like or to have a child by him.
He could be impotent or he does not want children. So where does that leave you?
That is the risk you have to consider.... (read in full...)
Husband has deadly secret! who can I turn to?
Q. my husband is into child porn , he has these storage things not sure what they are called. you can save pictures and videos on them. went through them when he was at work found images and videos of child porn . what should i do i have 5 children...
A. 26 January 2008: "Regardless of if the man is only looking at other peoples children or if in fact he is looking at your children, the fact of the matter is he is looking at child porn! You can not ignore it, you can not act like you did not find it and you ... (read in full...)
Husband has deadly secret! who can I turn to?
Q. my husband is into child porn , he has these storage things not sure what they are called. you can save pictures and videos on them. went through them when he was at work found images and videos of child porn . what should i do i have 5 children...
A. 25 January 2008:
If you are in the UK, will reporting to the police help?
Well! They will take down your report and maybe send someone to interview your husband and that would be the end.
Most probably , your report will just end up in the file cabinet and... (read in full...)
Husband has deadly secret! who can I turn to?
Q. my husband is into child porn , he has these storage things not sure what they are called. you can save pictures and videos on them. went through them when he was at work found images and videos of child porn . what should i do i have 5 children...
A. 25 January 2008: You said your husband is into child porn. What exactly do you mean by that?
Is he involved in the making of child porn .Kidnapping children and forcing them to make sex videos or just saving those pixs and videos?
If it is just saving those vi... (read in full...)
How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...
Q. My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...
A. 24 January 2008: The question here is do you still love him or not? Can you answer that question? If you don't love him , then listen to those who thinks walking way will solve your problems. Talk is cheap.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy friend says "you know that I love you"?
Q. What does it mean when a guy friend says you know that i love you? We have been friends for about 2 yrs now and the whole story is complicated and we have already done the bedroom thing. So that leaves out the whole get in ur pants thing. We don't ...
A. 24 January 2008: Saying I love you without any actions is like faith without works.
A guy would not say 'love' if it is only a friend. The word would be 'like.'
If he says that , he means, he love you more than a friend .But he is unsure if you love him back th... (read in full...)
Why can't he let go of his ex??
Q. Hey there... I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. we live together, and we always talk about getting married someday... i love him more than anything and want to spend my life with him, but i have some issues i kinda need help wit...
A. 24 January 2008: If your b/f wants to cheat on you , you cannot stop him. There is no way you can watch over him for 24/7.
It would be better to resign to this fact that if his heart is not in for you , just let him go.
You need to be confident and tr... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to date two similar men at the same time?
Q. Do you think my relationship is healthy? Im in love with 2 men and they both know. I fist fell in love with (will call him Guy) Guy is 10 years older then me, I honestly dont care about that, the issue is he does humantarian work in Africa and we...
A. 24 January 2008: It is like a man who marries two wives and they all get along well. What is wrong if a woman can find two men and they all get along fine? The men can come and go and they like this arrangement.Who are we to say it is wrong or somebody will get ... (read in full...)
I don't like how much time he spends with the boys. What can I do?
Q. I have been married for nine months. I am from a small town, but lived in a large city for awhile. I met my boyfriend, now husband, and moved to his small town with him ( from the city). We are now married and expecting our first baby. I do not mind ...
A. 24 January 2008: The men need to socialize and a time for men's out.Sometimes their needs can be incompatible with a family lifestyle. Compromise is the only solution. No one is happy but you get along as best as you can.... (read in full...)
In a relationship for two years, still happy with him... But there's somebody else. I don't know which one I want. How can I decide?
Q. I'm in a 2 year relationship with a lovely guy. He's caring and we have a lot in common in terms of our principles,and I would have always said that we loved each other and saw our future together. We have complete trust which I know is really ...
A. 24 January 2008: To really know a person takes time , trials and experiences.
You may be attracted by the new man but you do not really know him well.
Would you choose some one of known quality or will you choose some one who you just know and of unknown qual... (read in full...)
I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 24 January 2008: How do you know she will end up like that? Are you a soothsayer or crystalball reader? Can you see into the future?Are you God?
Hey! Is one kid so tough to bring up? Women of today are working and don't need a man to feed them or house them.... (read in full...)
Do I trust him or not? I don't know what to think now.
Q. My boyfriend took an ex home with him from the pub last Saturday she claimed she was being hassled by some other bloke he should have put her in a taxi home nothing happened, but she did get into our bed, he slept in the spare room when he discovere...
A. 24 January 2008: Yeah! I agree with your planned actions. He has to pay the price for this infamy .This will teach him a good lesson.... (read in full...)
How can I back out of this Mess I caused?
Q. i recently meet a friend of the family and we became close and he is 18 years older than me, we slept together last week and he has a girl friend and a baby but there been rumours going around about us but we have denied it and stopped it happening ...
A. 24 January 2008: Move to some place where he does not know.
Tell him that you do not want any communications with him.... (read in full...)
How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...
Q. My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he ...
A. 24 January 2008: If you love him, you see no evil , hear no evil and speak no evil.
If you don't love him, the door is always open but think carefully before you want to leave.... (read in full...)
Husband has deadly secret! who can I turn to?
Q. my husband is into child porn , he has these storage things not sure what they are called. you can save pictures and videos on them. went through them when he was at work found images and videos of child porn . what should i do i have 5 children...
A. 24 January 2008: Having those pixs and saving them does not make him a criminal or pedophile. You need more proof that he is a confirmed pedophile before you go to the police or you will destroy your own family over this matter. You are the one who will suffer from ... (read in full...)
I want more than just a kiss now and then. How do I initiate it?
Q. Hi everyone! I have been with a guy for 2 years. It is my first bf. It started as a long distance relationship, but now I stay with him. I am his first gf too! He is a very shy guy. The problem is physically. We kiss each other goodbye every...
A. 24 January 2008: If you want more , you have to initiate it, like unbuttoning his shirt or unzip his pants or slip your hands under his shirt or pants and I am sure he would not push you away.He is afraid or shy that you may think badly of him if he does that. He ... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to date two similar men at the same time?
Q. Do you think my relationship is healthy? Im in love with 2 men and they both know. I fist fell in love with (will call him Guy) Guy is 10 years older then me, I honestly dont care about that, the issue is he does humantarian work in Africa and we...
A. 24 January 2008: If they are OK and you are OK .I don't see why it is not OK ?
Today you may walk with one or both and tomorrow , who knows what will happen. Since the men are on good terms, you are a very lucky woman.... (read in full...)
He keeps on lying to me. How can I trust him?
Q. my boyfriend has lied to me many times but never cheated on me. he has lied to me for the past 7 months, and the whole time he was lying to me i was still trying to recover from his past lies. he knew i was emotionally vulnerable and i had also been ...
A. 24 January 2008: He tells lies because if he were to tell you the truth , you would find it unacceptable and may break up with him.
If you think ... (read in full...)
What's the next best step to healing myself?
Q. Dear cupid. I have been in a very emotionally abusive relationship with someone for the past 4 years where I have been lonely most of the time and was confused whether I should call it quits or stick around. About 2 weeks ago I regained contact...
A. 24 January 2008: If you want healing to begin , you will need to forgive all those who did you wrong and ask forgiveness from those whom you have wrongs.
You need to forgive yourself for what you have done wrong.
Let it go and don't be too harsh with yourself.
... (read in full...)
He's got a low sperm count and I'm finding it difficult to concieve. Is there no easy way out?
Q. Hello i was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on my situation. Well i will try to keep it short. I have been with my partner for 6 years and married 2. I have a 5 year old daughter from previous relationship and we are currently trying ...
A. 24 January 2008: IVF = In-vitro-fertilization
Designer babies...
http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2007/12/09/designer-babies-rent-a-womb-woman/
You only need one sperm to make a baby . Though he may have a low sperm count, it is not impossible. Having sex ... (read in full...)
Am I history?
Q. I've been dating a guy for two months now. He's in love with me and i'm with him.Problem is, his ex is pregnant. He didn't believe it could be his child, hence he wanted dna testing done the second the child was born. Now, she just gave birth ...
A. 24 January 2008: He was lonely and you came along.He left you by the roadside and rode into the night, perhaps he may never come back for you or he left you with some sweet memories.... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me when he behaves like this?
Q. My husband has damaged our relationship, we have been married for 30 years, recently I discovered he had been watching porn and masturbating to it, he said he would stop and that it was probably due to boredom having been together for so long. Then ...
A. 24 January 2008: A man watch porn and then masturbate to release his sexual tensions.He gets relieved. If he does not masturbate to release those sperms built up in his system , he will have wet dreams .
Most men masturbates even when they are married. The porn... (read in full...)
Why can't he accept it's over? He's doing my head in!
Q. So me and my ex have been talking ALOT over the last few days and its him calling me all day on Monday and when he wasn't calling he was texting me! Drove me nuts as I didn't get anything done but him calling sooo much.Almost every second of my day ...
A. 24 January 2008: You have to decide if you want him back or not. If you have decided then you will know what you will have to do.... (read in full...)
Should I start a serious relationship with my cousin?
Q. Dear Cupid I need help a.s.a.p. I am in love with my cousin who is 2 years older then me and I think she likes me back. I know its wrong so I tried to go out with other girls but I always compare them and I realize that no one is better th...
A. 24 January 2008: Better to stop now ,then to start and then find that you cannot go through it.That would cause more pains to you both.Stay away from her and you will find your feelings for her will wane in time.
... (read in full...)
Does he want a relationship?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for the last 5months, we're both in college in the same city. I met him n a club one nite nd we've been meeting up every night that we're out, we've gone to the cinema and he comes over nd watches films and stays over but i ...
A. 24 January 2008: You will have to wait till he comes back from the USA..In the meantime , just enjoy your friendship and saved your question after he comes back and see what happens.... (read in full...)
What do we do about visitation for the children now we are splitting?
Q. I have come to end of my relationship of ten years.I belive its OVER!! After ten years,and 3 kids he recently TOLD me we have no future together.I have put up with his manic depression,his affair,his mental,verbal and physical abuse.Him twisting ...
A. 24 January 2008: There is no way you don't want to see him. You will have to accept that he is a part of the children's life.
The best way is no limitations. Allow him to see them anytime he wants.It would be better not to impose any visitation rights. It is cruel... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex back?
Q. hi, this sounds really stupid but i need help on how to get an old boyfreind back we split late last year, he ended it, but i still have feelings for him, guess it was because he was my first. but ive still got his number and know where he lives but ...
A. 24 January 2008: Call him up and ask him out , or just talk to him to find out if he still wants to be friends. No venture , no gain. If he does not want , try next time.
You can check out where he goes everyday and then accidentally meet him....... (read in full...)
Furious over cheat claims... But what can I do about it???
Q. I need some advise people! I was out on a night out a few months ago with some friends from my uni and while out we invited a man to join us. we were all dancing with him, then i got left with him. 5 minutes later i was being accused of cheating on ...
A. 24 January 2008: As long as your b/f believes you are innocent, thats all it matters.You cannot stop all those rumors. Just ignore them and do not confront her for she will reap what she sowed.
... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me like he used to. What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend was with me for a year and a half, and then we split up for a month (he was halfway cheating on me). During this time, he squished his love for me and since then, we got together and it has been 'growing back.' Well, it has been almost ...
A. 24 January 2008: He is telling you his feelings. It is possible he felt that way at that moment. He is a living being and his feelings can change over time. Do not hold a man's word forever. Tomorrow is another day and he may not feel the same.Feelings are like ... (read in full...)
How do I handle competition?
Q. I love someone. He loves someone else. She's beautiful. And I've just found out that she has an an amazing voice too. How am i meant to take his attention away from her? She's just using him. I don't want to see him hurt, not again....
A. 24 January 2008: Just be who you are and on your best always for him.Thats all you can do and hope for the best.If that is not enough, then you are not his clique.Move on.... (read in full...)
How do I handle competition?
Q. I love someone. He loves someone else. She's beautiful. And I've just found out that she has an an amazing voice too. How am i meant to take his attention away from her? She's just using him. I don't want to see him hurt, not again....
A. 24 January 2008: Just be who you are and on your best always for him.Thats all you can do and hope for the best.If that is not enough, then you are not his clique.Move on.... (read in full...)
I've never been with another woman before. Nervous about satisfying her, sexually.
Q. i,m a female that has never been with a female before and now i have a girlfriend .the time for sex is so so very close and i have no idea how to satisfy her and realy don't wish to dissapoint her help me please i'm very afraid....
A. 24 January 2008: You can look at some porn and have some idea what they do to satisfy each other.You can then be an instant expert. She may be as nervous as you . Just be calm and relax.... (read in full...)
I thought we were going to reunite, but she blocked me on messenger! Why would she do that?
Q. i was in what i thought was a serious relationship for over a year, with a woman, that i had a relationship 10 years earlier, which lasted almost 2 years. as time when by after the break up, which came as shocking surprise, i moved on with my life, ...
A. 23 January 2008: Could it be pc problems or technical problems ? Call her up and talk to her and find out if she has any problems.... (read in full...)
We're just newly dating a month---so what do I do for valentines day?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a short while now, by valentines day we will have been seeing eachother for just a bit over a month. We get on really well and I can really see myself falling in love with him in the not too distant future. We spend our ...
A. 23 January 2008: He should be the one who should be doing all the planning for Valentine's day.If he is in to you , he will send you the card and take you out for a romantic dinner or date.
You will know if he is interested in you and not the other way round. I... (read in full...)
He does oral on me but..he stops so quickly. What should I say?
Q. i give my boyfriend oral all the time but when ever he starts to pleasure me he only does it for a few minutes then stops before i have time to orgasm any tips on hints i could give him? thanks =)...
A. 23 January 2008: You can tell him to do it till your body shakes or spasm,or you could do the same to him. Just give him a few minutes.... (read in full...)
I won't be his first sexual partner, so now he's mad at me! What is up with this man?
Q. hi ive been having some problems with one of my male friends, im 24 and hes 34. we met early last year and have since become good mates, however recently he has told me that he is a virgin and thinks i am the girl he would like to have his first ...
A. 23 January 2008: He is like a small and immature boy. He thinks you should be proud that he has selected you to be his recipient for his priceless and virgin sperms.
Most probably he thought you were game for it .I don't know how you could tolerate such a friend?... (read in full...)
How do I make her feel the love that I have for her?
Q. i am in love with a girl in my college but i cant propose her because of the fear that how will she react.she is a very good and serious student.we are even not good friends.what i must do to make her feel that i really love her within next two ...
A. 23 January 2008: You are not even good friends and you are talking about love. You must be living in your own dream world. Get to know her more and just be a friend to her first. ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me? I cant stop cheating
Q. Hi I am in a long term relationship (been with the same guy since I was 16 with no break ups or anything). My problem is that in that time period I have cheated on him more than 10 times. He has no idea about it. There were a bunch of one night st...
A. 23 January 2008: What you did is your affairs and you should not dump your guilt on him by expressing it out to him.
Try not to go to those places where you can pick up those hot men.Maybe , you should look at your b/f from another girl's perspective and find the... (read in full...)
Can you Persuade an ex, that you should be together, and give it another go?
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for a year and just split up recently. I am in my late twenties; ten years younger than him. In the beginning, he pursued me strongly. I wanted to start slow. When we were together, we were great and got along ...
A. 23 January 2008: You need to start from some point and being a friend without any expectations would be more appropriate at this moment.Ask him if you can be friends again? Just let it develop over time and do not rush it.... (read in full...)
Please help! Could I be pregnant?? - from pre-ejaculation.
Q. Is it possible that i could be pregnant? My boyfrriend had pre ejacualtion on his fingers and i believe that it got into contact with my 'down below'* could this mean that i'm pregnant? I got my period 2 weeks after if happened, but it only la...
A. 23 January 2008: If you got your period, you cannot be pregnant.... (read in full...)
Where is the best "place" to ejaculate?
Q. My fiance' and I are both virgins and have agreed to not have sex until our wedding night (we want that to be a special time for the both of us). While I have never had sex before, I do understand quite a bit and have read up on several things. My ...
A. 23 January 2008: Do it inside of her , for she can feel your throbbing and jerking actions.Not all women are the same , ask her for her opinions.... (read in full...)
What does my new B/F mean, by this comment?
Q. My new bf asked me if anyone has "come down" on me, i didnt have a clue what he ment but answered no anyway. Can someone tell me what he was asking please....
A. 23 January 2008: I am not from the UK but it could also mean , has anyone taken advantage of you or bully you. The next time , if you are unsure , asked him to be more specific.... (read in full...)
Do I trust him or not? I don't know what to think now.
Q. My boyfriend took an ex home with him from the pub last Saturday she claimed she was being hassled by some other bloke he should have put her in a taxi home nothing happened, but she did get into our bed, he slept in the spare room when he discovere...
A. 23 January 2008: He does not understand how a female mind works. He still have a soft spot for the ex.
He has to be told that it was wrong to do that.Since nothing happened, just let it go.... (read in full...)
I feel I have to much presure from my parents, how can I tell them to sort this out for themselves?
Q. Hi, I live with my parents due to financial reasons. after a series of bereavements, my mum moved out in the new year,so now I just live with my dad. they both talk to me about their problems (we have always been close) but i find it so hard to deal...
A. 23 January 2008: You are there to listen and not to offer solutions.They need an outlet and you are the conduit. Like a psychiatrist, you pretend to listen and then forget what they said afterwards. You are there for a purpose. ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to build a more meaningful relationship with me after 18 months?
Q. I’ve been in a relationship for 18months.Since july 06. I’m 33 female and Australian.hes 29 so hes four years younger. Heres the deal.I have been in love with hijm since the beginning And I only assume he has too.The sex has been good but cou...
A. 23 January 2008: If a man gets everything while unmarried, what is it in for him to get married? There are no more rewards but only responsibilities. It will be like tying two heavy stones on his neck.
If you can get for free, why should you pay for it?
... (read in full...)
When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out...any advice?
Q. When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out: I'm 28 now and I only discovered girls about 2 years ago, because I wanted to concentrate on my career and education. Why do I feel a bit left out?...
A. 23 January 2008: Thanks for your clarifications.Sorry I read wrongly.Probably most of your mates fell in love when they were 18 . That is why you felt that way. You were a late starter. While others were going through that phase in their life, you were busy with ... (read in full...)
When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out...any advice?
Q. When it comes to love, I feel a bit left out: I'm 28 now and I only discovered girls about 2 years ago, because I wanted to concentrate on my career and education. Why do I feel a bit left out?...
A. 23 January 2008: All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.
If you do not have time for others,others do not have time for you too.... (read in full...)
I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 22 January 2008: If a man wants to divorce, it is not whether you had kids without his consent. It could be many other factors.
Who decides to have kids in the family? The man may have a say but it is the woman who will have the final say. If she wants to have kid... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to build a more meaningful relationship with me after 18 months?
Q. I’ve been in a relationship for 18months.Since july 06. I’m 33 female and Australian.hes 29 so hes four years younger. Heres the deal.I have been in love with hijm since the beginning And I only assume he has too.The sex has been good but cou...
A. 22 January 2008: It is not about financial but whether he has the commitment in this relationship.He could commit and plan for your future together.
He is just stringing you along.If he is serious about you , he would listen to you and your plans.Don't listen t... (read in full...)
I want children, but my partner doesn't. He feels he is to old?
Q. Ok, so I been with my boyfriend for about 4 years and we have had are share of problems but we are very deep in love. He is 16 years older than me and he doesnt want anymore kids. He has three kids of his own. I want kids so bad and I wont give that ...
A. 21 January 2008: The only way you want to have your own kids is just to let it happen and hope that he will change his mind when he sees the baby.
Some men will change because they could not see their own selfishness. You could tell him that you will support ... (read in full...)
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