Do I have a chance with him? I'm scared of getting hurt
Q. i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...
A. 16 February 2008: You may think your friends having sex is great but you do not realize what is going on through their heads. There will be so many gamut of emotions and feelings that suddenly cropped up and they will have to handle all those new stress that they ... (read in full...)
What can you do when you're in love with your husband's friend?
Q. what do you do when your married and you're in love with your husbands friend? I have been sleeping with his friend for almost a year and now he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to see me anymore and I can't stop thinking about him all day ...
A. 20 January 2008: If you love him ,let him go. Refocus back on your marriage and see him from another woman's perspective.... (read in full...)
Why isn't she like she used to be?
Q. Prior to my wife having our daughter (now 6) e had a good sex life, now if we have sex it is just get it over with, i can't touch her the way i used to, foreplay is non existent. I want to be a good lover and husband but when i ask why she doesn't ...
A. 20 January 2008: It is possible that you wife is having a low self esteem and her body has changed and she may feel ugly and do not want you to touch there. Some women feel ashamed to tell you the reasons and you just have to accept that she does not like it. ... (read in full...)
I have cheating husband with debt --what should I do?
Q. I know my husband from age 15 but we dated for almost 12years before we got married. Married for 6 years. Recently i found out that he sent a vedio clip with love song to this girl and some communications with this girl. I asked him at that time he ...
A. 20 January 2008: Those China Dolls have wrecked many families with their youth,beauty, seductions and sob tales (Some of them con tales to elicit your sympathy and kindness.) There are only in it for the money and when the money dries up , they will dump their ... (read in full...)
She is my ex gf's sister and I am desperately in love with her...what should I do?
Q. I met my girlfriend in 1988. We had 2 children within a few years. It wasn't a very enjoyable relationship as she was never interested in anything including me. I was there for the kids. I started a small business and threw myself into that. Just ...
A. 20 January 2008: If you are meant for each other , nothing will separate you two.If she can make you happy, then you should give her the chance .We only live once.... (read in full...)
Does he have any more than a professional interest in me?
Q. Please advice toward this friendship with married guy! Hi I met a guy around a year ago, he`s in the air force and I met him for business. He`s married so I backed off .We only met 2 times then he left. In those 2 meetings I felt he flirted with ...
A. 20 January 2008: He flirted and like you as a friend.He enjoys your company and whether you want to go further will depends on your outlook.He has shown his softer side of him to you.
Will you encourage him or treat him in a professional way ?... (read in full...)
Can't get a man's attention....what do I do?
Q. Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the ...
A. 20 January 2008: If a man says , let just be friends. It could mean that you are moving too fast for their likings . You need to stop at that base and let them catch up with you.You have to slow down for them.
A man do not like clingy or needy women. You must hav... (read in full...)
Can you really be with someone you don't fully trust
Q. Hey guys, I know this will sound so stupid and idiotic but can you really be with someone you don't fully trust? me and my boyfriend have been through so much and i feel like an idiot when he doesnt pick up the fone and i stress out and get al...
A. 20 January 2008: How would you feel if someone judged you for something that happened a year ago?
Your probable answer is, it happened in the past and at that time , I was stupid and did not think properly.I made a mistake.I have changed and I know it is wrong no... (read in full...)
We were to be married but he dropped me for a woman with money! Can love be sold out for money?
Q. I belong from a very conservative country where people still believe in caste and religion. I was in a relationship with this guy from last 4 years. He was from a higher caste than me. He always knew but he said he doesn't believe in all this and ...
A. 20 January 2008: He is a filial son and he cannot simply run away with you to another country to get married.He has decided to marry this girl and there is no way he will be there for you . It would be better to treat your affair as a dream and move on without ... (read in full...)
Feeling guilt for looking at porn while I am away from my gf! Is this normal?
Q. I'm in a relationship and I love my girlfriend a lot. She's always expressed that she doesn't like the idea of pornography or masterbation, and so I've never admitted to liking either of these things. We've been together a few years, of which we ...
A. 20 January 2008: She does not like porn does not mean that you don't like porn too. You should just be more discreet and she does not have to know about this activity.
You respect her opinions and don't look at porn in her presence or leave those material... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my 'friend with benefits' and its killing me
Q. a year ago while i had a boyfriend i hooked up with this guy he happened to be my friends ex boyfriend and one of my other friends had a crush on him and all of the parents in our area knew about it so for these reasons the affair ended. but by this ...
A. 20 January 2008: Nothing is forever and some day he will get tired of those lifestyles. He may find someone he loved very much and then settle down.
When you are in love, you let your guards down and be prepared to be hurt.If you do not tell him , he will never kn... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper easily. Advice needed.
Q. I love my boyfriend alot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper quite easily. He says he's sorry and that he loves me, but its hard for him to control his temper. we've been together 15 months and are in bliss when we're not arguing. How can ...
A. 20 January 2008: Just take a note of what topics that can make him angry . Stay away from those topics.Some people have a very short fuse.It is not easy to control their temper.
If you are angry count 1 to 10 and you may get over those angers. If very angry co... (read in full...)
Could I have tips on how to spice up your sex life? All opinions welcome!
Q. Could I have tips on how to spice up your sex life? All opinions welcome! No matter how strange. I'm just curious, and looking for new ways to impress in the bedroom. I know I could just google it, but I love this site, and thought I'd give it a go ...
A. 20 January 2008: Go with him to a sex toy shop and find those things that you like.
Watch more porn with him.
Cuddle and kiss more and grope him .
Wear those sexy clothes when he is around.... (read in full...)
I cant tell him I've been sleeping with his best friend!
Q. about 4 years ago i met this lad and fell head over heels in love with him i flirted my ass off but he was still a virgin and wouldnt make a move .We were both very stuborn and wouldnt make the first move, Now i live with his bestfriend who has been ...
A. 20 January 2008: If you care about how hurt your b/f will be , then you should not leave. You cannot just say goodbye and just walk out and like nothing happens.Maybe, he might not be hurt that bad. It is only your perceptions.He may blamed his best friend for your ... (read in full...)
How do I act with my ex as he wants to keep in touch??
Q. I am a girl,aged 18.I had a boyfriend for 4 months,but because he had to leave for Portugal,he decided to leave me. He left in the beginning of the month(January,5th).A month earlier he said we had to break up,as he was leaving and didn't want to ...
A. 20 January 2008: He wanted to soften any hurt by informing you that he sees no future in that relationship as he was leaving. He was being nice to you so as to get you prepared for the breakup.Some other guy would just leave you without a note until the last day.
... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him, or not?
Q. I don't know what to do! i love my boyfriend and he loves mi too and we want to be together. everyone doesn't approve and they don't want us to be together. everyone says that he seems the jeolouse type and that soon he won't let mi go out with m...
A. 20 January 2008: It is like the call of the wild. If the call is very strong , there is nothing to stop you.You are still young and have many things to learn about relationships.
If he loves you , he will wait till you are 18 or until you are ready.You need to ... (read in full...)
Am I being nosy because I'm trying to help her at a new school?
Q. My mate is being really strange: My friend called R fancies a boy called J, and J fancies R - but as soon as R found out she decided she doesn't like him. I know she likes him but I daren't push it because her mum seems to be a bit anti boyfrien...
A. 20 January 2008: You should respect her decisions and just be her friend.You may offer her suggestions and that is all you can do.... (read in full...)
What if the grass isn't greener on the other side?
Q. Need a little advice...it may be long. I apologize in advance, but it's best to tell the whole story. Okay, I am in over my head...I have this absolutely wonderful boyfriend who i would never deliberately hurt, but about a month ago a good...
A. 20 January 2008: You have to decide whether it is the one who you love more or the one who love you more ?
Most girls would chose the one they love more. The man may love you more but you don't feel any appeal in them.You would choose the one you love more. Th... (read in full...)
I'm confused adn deluded!! Help/
Q. I met this guy in a straight gym in Essex, England and i fell in love with him from day one. I got to chat with him, and asked him to be my gym buddy, which he agreed to. While we were in the jaccuzi, i noticed how he was staring in my eyes with ...
A. 20 January 2008: It is possible that he wanted to test the waters and feel what it was like. He got chicken and had enough.I think it turned him off. He is comfortable just being friends or buddies and not those close contacts.... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance with him? I'm scared of getting hurt
Q. i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...
A. 20 January 2008: Yeah! If he fancies you , he would have jumped on your suggestion without hesitations.But this does not mean that you have no chance. It suddenly hit him like a hurricane and he could not respond with the right answer. He needed more time to decide. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to upset my best friend.
Q. Im in love with one of my best friends i dont know what to do . Well basically we met at a party and became good friends then we kissed and stuff. We used to be really close like talking nearly everyday and stuff we would make an effort to see ea...
A. 20 January 2008: We can give all our best and if that is not enough, there is nothing more we can do about it.
You can love him with all you love but if he does not return back the same favors ,you just have to accept that he cannot give all his love to you.
... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend plan to cheat on me?
Q. So, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but there is this girl that keeps causing drama my boyfriend was her first and i thought that we had an agreement that he would never talk to her again.. well he told her that she was fine as hell and it ...
A. 19 January 2008: Do you expect your b/f to bare his fangs like when a cat meets a dog?How would you react when you meet your ex?
Women are such insecure beings.If he wanted to cheat, would he do it in front of you?
Anyway , who is the cheater in the future , ... (read in full...)
He may have another woman. What should I do?
Q. I have been sleeping with a man for awhile now and recently he just up and vanished after we exchanged X-mas gifts. This isn't the first time this has happened. The first time he was gone for 6 months and said he had to re-group himself. he has been ...
A. 19 January 2008: He is in it for the fun and thinks you are too.There maybe other women like you out there.He feels he is like a stud and nothing more.
Are you satisfied ? ... (read in full...)
My b/f's friend is being nasty. Who should I believe?
Q. my life is completely screwed up right now! Well..this is the story! my boyfriends bff (ive told u about her) well shes being a pain in the butt saying that im fat and ugly and all that rude stuff! well the one thing that made me mad was that she ...
A. 19 January 2008: The reason could be that she still have ambition for him and do not like you to encroached into her territory .Otherwise , why should she be bitchy towards you ?
Your b/f is a shallow person and do not care about your problems with her.He does not... (read in full...)
Complicated story - where do I go from here?
Q. hi there. i have a problem. well you see, i met this girl in college last september and at the time she was with someone. we got on very well, too well. its a year and a half on and we're preparing to go uni in spetember. shes not with him anymore. ...
A. 19 January 2008: Continue to woo her, be there for her and experience the rich things that a couple can enjoy and feel.You are on a romantic boat journey , so discover new things about her and yourself.... (read in full...)
Is it really, all over between us?
Q. ok so my boyfriend and i got into a real heated argument on monday.. he said things like i want to be single and its over ... usually when we fight we talk like right after but it has been 3 days... I called him and left him message ..... but no ...
A. 18 January 2008: Did you say sorry in your message? This time the fire burned longer and has not died down yet.
If you want to go extinguished his fire , you need to go catch him , say that you are sorry , hug and kiss him and everything will be back to normal. ... (read in full...)
I've pushed him away in the past but now I need a crystal ball!
Q. I've known "john" for 8 years. We both live in a small farm town, and he happens to live only about a half a mile from my house. Everyday up until 3 months ago we were together. John had always been in love with me and I knew this, but for some ...
A. 18 January 2008: You told him you love him.Your latent love surfaced and now John is reciprocating. Now, you asked what is his intentions? You invited John to come inside and he did. He loved you for so long and he wants you to be his g/f. Do you have a problem?
... (read in full...)
Is dumping my boyfriend the solution?
Q. Alright, Well im 16 and I know for a fact that im attracted to older men, but theres nothing I can really do about it at this time in my life. I am still attracted to guys my own age, in fact, I have a boyfriend that I have been seeing since ...
A. 18 January 2008: I don't think you will be happy if you dump your b/f. You need him for a clutch. As to your teacher , it is just a short phase in your life.It will not last as you already know the results.
It could be perhaps you are looking for a father f... (read in full...)
Why is it that I can only get aroused through imagination, and not in reality?
Q. Im an 18 year old virgin. My problem is that i can only get aroused by fantasy/imagination... as in imagining myself having sex with certain people that im involved with.. however, when I am actually with them, I just cant get aroused for some ...
A. 18 January 2008: When you are doing it with them , use your imaginations/fantasies.. There is no harm . Many people do that. When they are doing it , they are imagining they are sleeping with the famous actor or actresses.It brings out the best in them.Men and women ... (read in full...)
I have so many problems in my life - not least a married man who can't make his mind up!
Q. i am divorced for two years and have a 3 year old son. i am a case of depression and very emotional and a emotionaly weak girl.i want someone in my life who loves me like anything and i keep on falling for married men as i cant bear loneliness. this ...
A. 18 January 2008: He does not want to let you go because he thinks that you are weak and lonely. He is just taking advantage of your loneliness . When he does not get what he wants , he has no interest in your problems. This shows that he has only lust and not real ... (read in full...)
Was he doing it for longer than he admitted to?
Q. Hi this time last year I had learnt that my boyfriend now my fiance had been making calls to sex lines. I was drinking a lot and he had just lost his Nan and we had a lot of money toubles. At the time I was cut up however after a lot of thought and ...
A. 18 January 2008: There are things which a man like to do and women may find it revolting.If those things are done in moderations and not excessive, you should tolerate his vices.It is like his way of having fun and de stress . Just as women have their own kind of ... (read in full...)
How can I persuade her that sex is not repulsive?
Q. There is a major problem with my relationship. My partner thinks sex is repulsive. We have not engaged in any physical acts other that kissing and such but nothing sexual in nature. She was brought up very conservatively and strictly on the nature ...
A. 18 January 2008: She has many sexual inhibitions from her childhood. She can read up those sex info's in the many online sites which can dispel all those myths.You need to be very patient with her.... (read in full...)
Which of these two guys should I choose?
Q. I have a friend, Jack, who i have known since freshman year of high school. We were really close and best friends even after he had to move before our senior year. Not long before he moved, he told me that he was in love with me but i was scared to ...
A. 18 January 2008: Your heart is for Jack.The man that is always in your heart, because you love him more. Your present b/f is only 2nd best.... (read in full...)
I think I'm starting to like her again.. although I have a bf. What to do?
Q. blehhh, i have big problems here. i used to like one of my best friends (a girl) like that, lets call her Sabrina.. she's the only girl i have an interest in. we actually almost went out last year. now i have a boyfriend, which i like a lot. but ...
A. 18 January 2008: You can always be friendly with her and enjoy your friendship and not to worry whether it will go back to the same old levels or not.Relationship is like building a home. It takes time and effort. You need to work at it.Rome was not build in a day.... (read in full...)
Short tempered Boyfriend, how do I cope?
Q. I've been living with my boyfriend for 6 months now, and at first everything was perfect but he got a short nasty temper. A minute he's fine the next thing you know when he can't fine something he's looking for or he's feeling hot he's starts ...
A. 18 January 2008: Some guys are like that and you have to get used to those behaviors.They may grow out of those mannerisms .Maybe , you could influence him some.... (read in full...)
My bf broke up with me without explanations! Could it be his mate's intrigues/interference?
Q. hi everyone.this sounds a bit stupid my so called boyfriend called it off a few weeks ago and i've not seen him since. to get down to the story, i went to the place i met him yesterday in a way hopeing to see him as well, but all his mates were ...
A. 18 January 2008: You are only speculating .It is possible because if he speaks nasty about you , his mates could possibly tell him to break up with you.
If his mate likes you , I don't think that is a factor why he broke up with you.
Since he broke up , there... (read in full...)
I am use to being a loner, how can I become more sociable, any suggestions?
Q. It's hard to change old habbits, I am 45 y.o. female, some of the people I know at my job would be shocked if they knew I was writing this. I talk to mostly everyone at work, we laugh and joke when we can. Its the more indepth relationships that ...
A. 18 January 2008: You seem very friendly and easy going. Building relationship is about caring and concern about others. If you show your genuine care and concern for them, they will reciprocate.That is how we can build closer relationships.
Just be a friend a... (read in full...)
I gave up everything for this Man, and now he's changed..Why?
Q. Hi, I would so appreciate it if I could have a bit of advice... I need another perspective. So, here it goes... My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. For 5 months, I've been in Vegas to continue college. He was very supportive and had been ...
A. 18 January 2008: Your honeymoon is over.He could not cope with your demands and you expected much from him.When he could not deliver , you felt angry because you gave your all while he seems not to carry the same in this relationship.
You mentioned you are stub... (read in full...)
Gay mate that I need to help! any advice please?
Q. okay this question is about my friend.. she's a lesbian. so there's this girl that she's been dating on and off. this girl hurts her so much and i can't take it. she says crap behind her back, and she even knows what she says. i've helped my friend ...
A. 18 January 2008: You can do nothing except be there for her when she is hurt. She has not reached the end of the road and cannot turn back yet.
She is irrational and sadly she will not listen to you .... (read in full...)
Complicated story - where do I go from here?
Q. hi there. i have a problem. well you see, i met this girl in college last september and at the time she was with someone. we got on very well, too well. its a year and a half on and we're preparing to go uni in spetember. shes not with him anymore. ...
A. 18 January 2008: Enjoy your romance and be intoxicated with it but don't forget your studies.The next step is engagement and then marriage but that is still too far for you. ... (read in full...)
Is this verging on rape?
Q. I'm in Year 11 at school, and one of the boys who I've like for a while is apparently into me. I would do anything for him to like me, and we are quite physical anyway. We have intimate hugs a lot. (He's always been a player.) However, lately, ...
A. 18 January 2008: When you allow him that , what's next? Will you go all the way? Where will you call a stop?
He is just abusing and using you for his lusts.He is not worth your love. Forget him. A good boy would not do that.... (read in full...)
Why does she torment me?
Q. My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago, she's now been going out with another guy for about 3 weeks. I don't know if it's a rebound, she saw a different guy for a couple of days before, and that was definitely a rebound. But this one ...
A. 18 January 2008: She is too happy and cannot contained her happiness.She still treats you as a friend . She is not aware that your feelings are hurt by her indiscretions.This is my assumption.... (read in full...)
My b/f's friend is being nasty. Who should I believe?
Q. my life is completely screwed up right now! Well..this is the story! my boyfriends bff (ive told u about her) well shes being a pain in the butt saying that im fat and ugly and all that rude stuff! well the one thing that made me mad was that she ...
A. 18 January 2008: You need to be critical of what people say. Just because someone said something, you believed it hook, line an sinker.You need to verify the facts first before believing anything.If you cannot verify the facts , then treat it like a rumor.Don't be ... (read in full...)
I am use to being a loner, how can I become more sociable, any suggestions?
Q. It's hard to change old habbits, I am 45 y.o. female, some of the people I know at my job would be shocked if they knew I was writing this. I talk to mostly everyone at work, we laugh and joke when we can. Its the more indepth relationships that ...
A. 14 January 2008: You can go join a church group or any social or charity groups in your location.You could give your time to those unfortunates or those senior citizens .... (read in full...)
Do I have a chance with him? I'm scared of getting hurt
Q. i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...
A. 10 January 2008: Just be a friend and let the current carry you wherever it wants.Enjoy your friendship, live in the present. Be an optimist.
Have you heard of this adage? It is better to love and fail than not to love at all.
... (read in full...)
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