We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?
Q. This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...
A. 18 February 2008: [Quote]
"am not mad, i care about you, if i can help, ask. I can be a good friend 4 you. if you need time, space, ok. I am here for you. take care of wonderful you."
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From this message, you showed that you have no hard feelings , ... (read in full...)
We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?
Q. This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...
A. 2 February 2008: Thanks for your update.
From your description of him, I think he is intimidated by you and secondly he is not in a strong financial position. He does not initiate the phone calls to you and have told you about awful at calling you.
The rea... (read in full...)
How can I win the trust of my parents back and start living the life of a normal teenager??
Q. Hey you guys, im 15 years old and i'm having problems in school especially in math. Well the problem is that my parents dont let me do anything infact they dont trust me...because i never used to listen in the past but now i wanna regain that tru...
A. 26 January 2008: Good for you. Continue to act like an adult and be more matured and understanding. You need to see from your parent's perspective too. Some day you will be a parent and have children then you will understand why your parents act that way.... (read in full...)
Should I let him go?
Q. I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...
A. 21 January 2008: Maybe, you could ask him when he is free.He could be unaware of your urgency.You have to give him time and don't be hasty in conclusion and you could be wrong.Give him another chance to be sure.... (read in full...)
Lost and alone...still in love with my ex gf!
Q. I have just split up with my girlfriend from a six year relationship and im complteley heart broken now i love her more than anything in the world and ive gave her space that she asked for and tryed to show her how hard im willing to change so tha...
A. 21 January 2008: Send her a bouquet of flowers and thank her for all those sweet times.Tell her that you love her very much. It is very important that you must tell her that you love her.If you did anything wrong ,apologize to her and promise that you will change ... (read in full...)
Bf is due back and I gained weight! I'm nervous as to hoow he'll react..any advice!
Q. My bf of 2 years has been away for over a month with work He is back this week but im nervous as iv put on weight over the holiday period and feel podgy He is really into keep fit and im sure he will notice I also feel down about it but am working ...
A. 21 January 2008: If he loves you , he may just tell you to lose some . Do not worry too much. Sometimes it happens. We gain some and lose some.You have recognize the problem and dealing with it. You'll be O.K.... (read in full...)
If my bf has never gotten a girl pregnant with the pull out method...does that mean he doesn't have pre-cum?
Q. My boyfriend is quite experienced sexually and has been using the pull out method for as long as he could remember. I understand that pre-ejaculates occur in some men but not others. If my boyfriend has never gotten a girl pregnant throughout his ...
A. 21 January 2008: The pull out method is not 100% full proof!!It is just that he has been lucky this far.If he tries once too often ,his risk becomes greater.... (read in full...)
He's pretty rude to me around his friends..is it time to move on?
Q. I dont know if its time to dump my bf. We've been going out for about two months but its not going anywhere, every time i try to move our relationship forward be backs off. He also acts really different and rude when we're around his guy friends....
A. 21 January 2008: If you don't like his manners, you can talk to him and if he does not want to change, then what's holding you back?
If you can accept him, then when his friends are there, leave them and do your own thing.... (read in full...)
Does my bf mean it when he says he trusts me?
Q. Hello, sorry for how long this is first of all! I've been with my current boyfriend, officially dating for a few months now so not that long but we were seeing each other for a little while before this. However, when we had just started seeing ...
A. 21 January 2008: Sometimes what is said through the mouth may not be the same as what is in his heart.He may say that he trust you but deep down , he may have reservations.
The best way to make him trust you is to remove yourself from that friend's presence... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be my boyfriend but I don't want to hurt his feelings, Help!
Q. Hello dear fellows, I am with a guy about 4 months now. We both study but in different universities in different cities, so we don't share a place together. However we find time some weekends to meet each other, either in my place or his. He i...
A. 21 January 2008: There is the slow and the quick way.
The quick way is like a surgical knife, very sharp and very clean.Get out of his life completely and disappear from his world.
The slow way is to let things cool down and slowly die.
There is no way you c... (read in full...)
How can I help her get over it and forget the past?
Q. Hi, I'm with my girlfriend coming up for 10 months now and we really love each other.. the only (big) problem is that she can't get over my past, no matter what...we had been friends for years before but she couldn't be with me because a friend l...
A. 21 January 2008: You need to keep those certain films or music from her for the time being . Then you need to try to make her happy to forget those past.In time , those past may not hurt her so much.
When you are in a happy disposition , you look at things d... (read in full...)
I love another man - should I stay in the relationship and work things out?
Q. I'm in a bit of a mess right now. I have a boyfriend of over five years and our relationship is really important and special to me. We have been through a few rough patches, which have all been from him wanting to get out, but we ended up resolvin...
A. 21 January 2008: One bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. It is better you focus on what you have then to waste your energy on someone out there who may not even know if you exist.
You are in a relationship and you want to be available.Better to keep lif... (read in full...)
I'm so sick of how boring our sex is!
Q. I have a problem that's really getting on my nerves. Me and my boyfriend have just recently lost our virginity to each other, and have been having sex a lot... A LOT! since that time. The only thing is, we're both (obviously) quite inexperi...
A. 21 January 2008: Tell your b/f , you want to play a game .In the bedroom , you will play the role of a man and he will play the role of a woman, a role reversal for a change and enjoy the fun. Tell him , you are going to rape him..... (read in full...)
My son has been behaving sexually towards his sister, how do I handle it?
Q. Hi All, can someone please give me advice on the following: My 12 year daughter had left a note in her bedroom, which I found when I was cleaning her room, it said, Dear Mom, I think i'm pregrant with B...'s baby love S... This I asked her ...
A. 21 January 2008: You have done what you could and you need to spend more time with your daughter .There is no need to report your son.That will be too drastic.You don't want to destroy your son's future.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't communicate with me
Q. When my bf does something that upsets me, e.g. keeps checking someone else out when he's with me, or whatever it is, if i say he's upset me/he picks up on it and asks whats up, if i tell him then instead of apologising/saying i got it wrong he goes ...
A. 21 January 2008: It is either you pretend there is nothing wrong or you get his standard reaction.
Which is harder to swallow?
If you want to voice problems, you need to see his moods. If he is not in a good mood, shelf them.You won't get a good answer.
... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend has a very shady past, should I let it put me off?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few weeks, and just wondered what people thought in regards to his past. I really like him, and he treats me like a princess, a total gentleman, but he has such a shady past and I guess I worry that it might repeat -...
A. 21 January 2008: Live in the present.There are people who was bad and became good and there are also people who are good but turned bad.
If he is good to you , he will be good to you and will not hurt you.
In every relationship , there are risks . If God f... (read in full...)
We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?
Q. This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...
A. 21 January 2008: That is well done. Now,the ball is at his feet.Your waiting game begins.... (read in full...)
Do men have to have an emotional 'connection'?
Q. I've recently entered my first relationship with a guy (I'm 18) and we've been going out for about a week and a half (three dates). I know it's early days but I want to know how can I connect with him on an emotional level. On the past two dates we ...
A. 20 January 2008: Guys can compartmentalized their feelings or emotions. They can have sex with anything and without any feelings unlike women.They don't have to have a reason for sex.
They are initially sexually attracted to women because they move on the virt... (read in full...)
What would be the best thing for me to do?
Q. I am married but seperated for the past 8 years.Single Parent with a high profile job. Have had a serious relationship and broke off about 4 years back. I am choosy when it comes to dating and getting involved. Recently I started liking a colleagu...
A. 20 January 2008: Most married men may profess to you that they want to leave their family . It is only words and they cannot bring themselves to end that relationship.They will be fence sitters as long as they can.
What he did not get from his marriage, he looke... (read in full...)
Could I be being used?
Q. hello im 33 and i am married to a muslim guy. we married after knowing him only 3 months or so. we married islamically.i think he is using me but his actions say otherwise. we argue a lot and he says he is in love with me , i would love a bab...
A. 20 January 2008: You say his actions showed that he loved you . What more can you asked from him? Do you want a contract written and signed by him ?
Is it because he is allowed to marry 4 wives , that you feel insecure?... (read in full...)
Should I let him go?
Q. I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he ...
A. 20 January 2008: Is he still loving to you?
Some men like to flirt but the trouble is they don't take the trouble to delete those flirtatious texts and can cause problems with their g/f's.
You said you love him very much. How can you love him so much and want... (read in full...)
How can I put a stop to her being abused?
Q. im close friends with a girl who is in an abusive relationship, but shes too scared to finish it incase things turn really nasty. what do i do to help her? he repeatedly beats her and has even attacked her with knives, resulting in numerous ...
A. 20 January 2008: You can report to the police or child abuse centers in your place. Drop them a line but don't tell them who you are . Just say there is an abuse case at this address.... (read in full...)
What do I do if he likes me?
Q. Hey, I fancy this boy and I'm not sure if he fancies me. I asked him to a dance "as friends" but I actually like him. He said yes and we had a lot of fun. We are friends, and we do theatre together so I talk to him at play practice. The other day he ...
A. 20 January 2008: Yeah!, He fancies you alright. His calling you was just an excuse to talk to you.
If he fancies you , just enjoy his attentions . be friends first and let it bloom slowly.
... (read in full...)
What advice can I give my friends?
Q. My friends have a problem. Okay,theyr'e both 17(well the guy is about to be 18) T(the guy)and A(the girl) are both virgens. They love eachother ALOT and have been dating since they were 13.So,they both talked to eachother(and me) about ...
A. 20 January 2008: They need to watch two shows together. First ,get them to watch a romantic show and then a porn show and they will be in the right mood.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my brother's friend that I like him?
Q. My brother has a friend who goes to my school, and ive kind of grown to like him but i dont know how to tell him or even if i should tell him. What do i do?...
A. 20 January 2008: Just be friends and be free. If you tell him , you will feel something will come in between you two.Make friends first and enjoy the fun together.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a compulsive liar?
Q. my boyfriend lies to me. we've been dating for a bit more than four years he lied once in the first 4-5 months of our rship. he went to a friends cabin for the summer and he spent the time there hanging out with his ex-gf. he lied to me about th...
A. 20 January 2008: A person does not tell the truth because he does not want to hurt you or is afraid of being hurt.
He is a compulsive liar.It is a kind of addiction where he cannot tell the truth or he was brought up in that kind of environment .
Issues like e... (read in full...)
Should I ignore him?
Q. He says he doesn't want the relationship anymore because his parents will not accept it.He says he doesn't want to get serious because his parents do not approve of love marriage.But he insists we still be friends,meet and talk everyday.I genuinely ...
A. 20 January 2008: He has told you the hurdles and the terms of friendship and there is no way he can go against his parents. You either accept him as a friend or you will get hurt later on.
You may make him fall in love with you but in the end , the parents ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex wear my old clothes?
Q. Hello Out there, just a quick question. My ex left me for someone else 7 months ago and I am over her but during the 7 months I noticed she's been wearing my tops that I no longer wanted. I bumped into her at a bar and she wore my vest. I bumped ...
A. 20 January 2008: Maybe , she is trying to say , she wants you back or she still have interest in you. Most girls would either throw away your things if they hate you a lot. They cannot be reminded of you by those things .... (read in full...)
Shall I take revenge on my ex?
Q. Dear Helpers, I just found out my ex had been cheating on me when were together and not only that he had been kissing one of my friends and some of his own. I am so angry I want to take revenge but I know it's wrong to take revenge but for my own ...
A. 20 January 2008: You know it is wrong to take revenge and yet you want to do something which is not right.
You should forgive him and move on. The anger in you burns you more than your enemy. You will start a vicious cycle for what you sow , so shall you reap.He ... (read in full...)
How do I make him forget her?
Q. There is this boy, who I've met once. I've been talking to him online a lot and I really like him. But i know that he's in love with someone else. And i mean IN LOVE. But she's using him, even he knows that. How do i make him forget her? And...
A. 20 January 2008: Do you think he will listen to you?
A man in love is like a fool and much worse than a drunkard.Save your breath and let him learn from his mistakes.That is life's lessons. ... (read in full...)
We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?
Q. This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...
A. 20 January 2008: It is not he is not interested in you but he wanted to know if you have the same interest in him by calling him up.He wanted you to initiate the call.This would prove to him of your interest in him.He wanted to seek further confirmations.This is ... (read in full...)
Am I lazy?
Q. I'm 19 years old, and I take naps. Usually after lunch, I have never broken the habit when I was a little girl, nor did my mother try and break that habit. Now whenever my friends come and visit me around that time or later, they catch me in a na...
A. 20 January 2008: No! You are not lazy . It is your body clock . It has been conditioned that way . Naps are good, it recharges your battery. Your body shuts down like clock work for maintenance.... (read in full...)
Is there another way to tell if I'm pregnant?
Q. Honestly how do you know besides a prenancy test if you are pregnant?And when do you notice your stomach about to rise? ...
A. 20 January 2008: If you miss your period for 2 months or you have nausea or morning sickness or you can go for a scan.
You can see the stages at this site;-
http://www.paternityangel.com/PicsAndPhotos/FoetalDevelop/1stTrimester.htm... (read in full...)
If I'm pregnant, do I keep it?
Q. Hi im 17 years old.And i had sex with a 14 year old we both wanted it to happen but now i think im pregnant.my mother says we are cousins but we aren't blood related.And his mom wants us togeather.Im scared don't know what to do.And i don't want to ...
A. 20 January 2008: Your mum and his mum will handle it. You don't have to worry. They will think what is best for you . Talk to your mum if you are unsure instead of worrying over it. ... (read in full...)
How do I make him forget her?
Q. There is this boy, who I've met once. I've been talking to him online a lot and I really like him. But i know that he's in love with someone else. And i mean IN LOVE. But she's using him, even he knows that. How do i make him forget her? And...
A. 20 January 2008: Out of sight,out of mind.Delete everything about him on your pc.Find something that you like to do and enjoy and you will soon forget about him and his g/f.... (read in full...)
I'm quite shy - any tips on getting out and meeting people?
Q. I'm sick of the boys at my school and I feel like I need to meet new people, but I'm not sure how. I've spent too long waiting for fate, and I want to take matters into my own hands. I'm 18, so legally allowed in pub and bars but its not like I ...
A. 20 January 2008: You could find some part time job during your holidays and you may meet new people at work.
Get out of the house and be in public places where there are a lot of people.
Join your friends in outdoor activities.... (read in full...)
Can someone just tell me what to do as it's bugging me!
Q. I'm stuck. I like his guy that's in my gym class. I wanted to tell him so a couple of days ago I walked up to him and said"Hey I GOT to tell you something" BUT that day he left early before gym. Then the next day when we had gym I said "Hey oka...
A. 20 January 2008: You could always try and your persistence may pay off. If you have tried your best and he is still uninterested, then find some others who would appreciate and value you.... (read in full...)
Should we allow our daughter to meet this guy?
Q. My daughter's 16, and in college studying beauty therapy. She intends to work in tourism as a beauty therapist when she's older, and is doing well on her course. She's got a 21-year-old sister who's at university in Nottingham. Last week she ...
A. 20 January 2008: Since you are monitoring her situation and meeting up with that guy should not be a problem as long as she does not do it alone. You need to check out this man to verify the facts. Online, he could be anybody .... (read in full...)
19 years old...is sex with my 16 yo gf wrong??
Q. I am an 19 year old and im currently in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. I am in madly in love with her and i have never felt this way about anyone else. I've been with her for over 6 months now and we are ready for sex, but im not sure whe...
A. 20 January 2008: Sex is between two people who loves each other. You have to decide for your own self if it is right or wrong for there are two school of thoughts.
If you know the answer , then you are right . ... (read in full...)
How can I win the trust of my parents back and start living the life of a normal teenager??
Q. Hey you guys, im 15 years old and i'm having problems in school especially in math. Well the problem is that my parents dont let me do anything infact they dont trust me...because i never used to listen in the past but now i wanna regain that tru...
A. 20 January 2008: You could please your parents by doing everything they asked of you even if you don't like it. When they see that you have changed , they may relax and allow you more freedom.
You need to understand that your parents love you a lot and they don... (read in full...)
I want to stay with him....but should I tell him??
Q. hey, My bfs just finished me after 2 months, i really really really like him and we always have a laugh together. I just thought we we're good together. I called him tonight and he said we should split up cos he doesnt feel right. He's 16...
A. 20 January 2008: Be nice to him and wait till he grows up and come back to you.Give him time to think about this relationship. He may change his mind about it. If not , meet other boys and broaden your world.... (read in full...)
How do you handle a lazy wife who has cheated?
Q. I've been married to her for 21 years. We have had marriage problems from her cheating years ago. Its been very hard to this day to let go of it mainly because I am uncertain if any more cheating has gone on or if it will happen again. We both held ...
A. 20 January 2008: Sometimes , we need to do those things when our partner cannot or unwilling to do it. This is call love. It maybe her responsibility but she is unable to fulfill it.You will have to fill it in for her.
When our spouse is not pulling their weight, ... (read in full...)
We're trying to rescue him. Any ideas what we could do?
Q. I am the oldest of 3 (22), but I get on really well with brother who is the youngest (18). I know it sounds weird coming from his brother but before I left for my year backpacking this time last year, he was a really nice and caring person who ...
A. 20 January 2008: Get him interested in his hobbies or things that he liked to do before the break up.
Take him on a holiday to relax
Get him to join a church .
Pray for him.
Spend more time with him .
Take him out of the house more often.
... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about him looking at 'Granny Porn'?
Q. a few months ago i found about 20 videos in the recycle bin of the computer i share with my 24 year old boyfriend of porn featuring mature women. i thought this was a bit strange however i put it to the back of my mind. Recently I discovered tha...
A. 20 January 2008: There is no cause to worry , it is just a fad.The men would like to see all varieties and broaden their knowledge.It is not weird but at least he knows what it is like when he gets old with you.LOL!... (read in full...)
What can you do when you're in love with your husband's friend?
Q. what do you do when your married and you're in love with your husbands friend? I have been sleeping with his friend for almost a year and now he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to see me anymore and I can't stop thinking about him all day ...
A. 20 January 2008: If you love him ,let him go. Refocus back on your marriage and see him from another woman's perspective.... (read in full...)
Can someone just tell me what to do as it's bugging me!
Q. I'm stuck. I like his guy that's in my gym class. I wanted to tell him so a couple of days ago I walked up to him and said"Hey I GOT to tell you something" BUT that day he left early before gym. Then the next day when we had gym I said "Hey oka...
A. 14 January 2008: You were like those love birds preening your feathers to get the male's attentions and he could see it from far off.
If he likes you , he would asked for your phone number or get in touch with you.
If he likes you , he would ask for a date f... (read in full...)
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