He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?
Q. I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...
A. 3 February 2008: Your b/f is a very responsible, honest and kind man. He was caught in a bind and it was not easy for him to extradite from that situation. The light at the end of the dark tunnel for him and for you the sky will shine again.
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I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?
Q. Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...
A. 3 February 2008: I am sorry and apologize if I hurt your feelings.I was saying it figuratively about putting him on the pedestal.
To turn on the love , we need to remove all our bias and prejudices and start from a clean new slate. We should not harp anymore ... (read in full...)
I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?
Q. I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...
A. 3 February 2008: It is only a small mistake .In time, she will realize that she will miss you and want you back.Look at the bigger picture.Call it a time out or winter time or whatever. Just hunker down and wait for summer time. Things maybe brighter..... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?
Q. Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...
A. 2 February 2008: [Quote]
How do I turn off feelings and turn them on for my husband? How do you turn off your love when it existed before I even met my husband? Is it possible?
[Unquote]
Everything is possible if you put your heart into it. If there is a will ... (read in full...)
We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward
Q. I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so ...
A. 2 February 2008: He treats you like a remote. When he wants you , he just turn you on and when he does not want you , he just turns you off.
Throw your remote away.
... (read in full...)
He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?
Q. I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...
A. 2 February 2008: She can only work that job as stipulated in the visa. Any other job would contravene her visa and she may have her visa canceled and send home. This is right and true.
... (read in full...)
Torn between two men and when something goes wrong I always run to the other one.
Q. I have two men in my life and can't choose between them. It is causing me great turmoil, so much so, I have lost my job and I am overall not handling things well. I had (guy 1) as the end all be all. Completely fallin' in love with him and wanted t...
A. 2 February 2008: No person is complete. It is like you need to take both vitamins for your well being.You need the support of both.Do not feel troubled. Those men are not complaining.I am sure you can work out with them as they are.... (read in full...)
He makes me feel unwanted and ugly and I am starting to feel like cheating is the only way.
Q. I've been in a relationship for 8 years now.Of course my significant other watches porn and at first I had no problem with it but now it seems to be a huge problem for me. We went to having sex all the time to where he couldn't keep his hands of...
A. 2 February 2008: If you want him to come to your terms , you need to leave him and be separated for a while. Then , he will realize and appreciate you. You need to get back your rights.If you don't leave, you will get worse and worse treatment from him.
Prepa... (read in full...)
Would love to go out with the counter girl but am too shy to ask.
Q. Hi, Over 6months ago i started visiting my local bank as id moved house. I really started liking one of the counter girls and when i was lucky enough to be served by her we use to have a friendly chat normal stuff. I've really started liking h...
A. 2 February 2008: Love is not for the feign hearted. You got to take a chance and a risk of rejection.
Get her phone number . Tell her in case there is any emergency and you need to consult her.If she is interested, she will give it to you.
You could invite her... (read in full...)
How can I get my dad to allow me a bf??
Q. My dad won't let me have a boyfriend and i'm 13. What can i do to allow me to have a boyfriend? He said i could do something called courting and thats when i invite a boy over my house to watch TV and my dad questions the hell out of him; that is ...
A. 2 February 2008: Meet the guys and then when he is the one, invite him home for a family dating to know your family especially your dad. ... (read in full...)
I want him back...but should I ask why he changed his mind on marriage??
Q. Before Christmas, after over 5 years I ended a long distant relationship and I didn't stop thinking about him one day since then. I cry a lot because I miss him a lot and I can't accept that it is over. He is the love of my life. He is everythi...
A. 2 February 2008: I think you should let past issues rest and do not dig them up.Be friends with him and give him a time period .If there is no progress in your relationship and if he is not the committed kind, do not waste your time. Think of him as just a friend.... (read in full...)
Stuck between by ex and my current b/f. Should I give in to his blackmail?
Q. So heres the deal...My current bf of 2 years and I have have a 1 year old daughter together, he treats me well (except for when I want to hang out with my friends). Im 19 and hes 31 I feel like we're lifetimes apart. While on the other hand my ex ...
A. 2 February 2008:
He is young,inexperience and immature. Many men of his age thinks that looking after babies is easier than their job. They do not realize that it is a very stressful job and you need to relax and take some breaks in between . It can be a depr... (read in full...)
I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?
Q. I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...
A. 2 February 2008: Give her time to reflect on her actions . You have done what is required of you and the ball is at her feet. If she is so petty minded, let her go.... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?
Q. Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...
A. 2 February 2008: [Quote]As for saying that they will realise what a sacrifice you made for them if you stay, NO THEY WONT. They will grow up and have thier own lives and you will be left on your own with the husband that you cannot seem to stand.[Unquote]
If th... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?
Q. Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...
A. 2 February 2008: Your heart is only that big and you gave it all to your best friend and you expect your feelings to grow for your husband.
Does he has enough space for him to grow in your heart?
Did you really tried your best or just lukewarm? Can you really c... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?
Q. Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...
A. 1 February 2008: You can rubbish me all you want , I do not mind but do not rubbish God!.You are committing a blasphemy against God. Watch your words lady. ... (read in full...)
Is my partner finding fault in my sexual performance, if she wants a vibrator?
Q. My girlfriend wants a vibrator, but I don't want her to. Why does she want one? Is it becuase I'm terrible in bed? Will she ever want sex again?...
A. 1 February 2008: To be frank, most women cannot reach orgasm just by sexual intercourse.They need manual or oral stimulations of their clitoris.
You can start by using the vibrator on her and then use the real thing.... (read in full...)
I have two men on the go at the moment. Any insight into this?
Q. I have found myself in a situation where I have two men in love with me, both of which are younger than myself. I am petite, successful, educated and attractive, look many years younger than my age (41). I do not feel comfortable with having two ...
A. 1 February 2008: Most older women would prefer the younger guys. They are more appealing even though the age difference is larger but in love, it does not count.
You not only is looking for love but also a sexual partner who can perform to your satisfac... (read in full...)
Why does he abuse me in public?
Q. hello, my recent ex i had a lot of history with, 3 years back we went out for 4 months broke up two weeks later got back together then broke up 2 months later. after that we began disliking eachother and he did horrible things to me and im not sure ...
A. 1 February 2008: You dumped him and he was jilted and he is very angry and want to inflict emotional abuse on you.He is a sore loser.... (read in full...)
Why does he call when there's nothing to say?
Q. Four months since the break up. And I am still hurting! I wish it would stop. All of it. Going to stop all contact starting right now. The thing is I have tried it before but if we don't speak, then 2 days later, like clockwork, my ex boyfriend ...
A. 1 February 2008: He cannot read your mind.So he just calls and do nothing more than that.You did not encourage him or showed that you wanted to patch up with him. He is clueless.... (read in full...)
Do I marry this guy, or wait for the other one?
Q. I have a bf for 5yrs now (he is 3yrs older than me)and we both at marrying age. we already had plans of getting married when we reached 3rd yrear in our relationship and we planned to pursue it this year. During these years that we're together, we ...
A. 1 February 2008: If you don't know the answer, you can wait for the new man to come back and see how it goes.Do not marry in haste. Choose the right one and decide carefully. ... (read in full...)
Stuck between by ex and my current b/f. Should I give in to his blackmail?
Q. So heres the deal...My current bf of 2 years and I have have a 1 year old daughter together, he treats me well (except for when I want to hang out with my friends). Im 19 and hes 31 I feel like we're lifetimes apart. While on the other hand my ex ...
A. 1 February 2008: What makes him sure that he will have custody of your child? Usually the court will award the child to the mother if the child is below 8 as in some countries.He may even have to pay child and mother maintenance if the mother does not work.
Don't... (read in full...)
I miss him, all though I don't show it.
Q. I just ended my relationship with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. He just started dating one of my friends from high school. every time i see them hug, and say i love you to eachother, i get this cringe in my stomach and it doesn't ...
A. 1 February 2008: It depends on whether you still like him or not. If you feel that there is nothing anymore between you two , then just ignore those feelings.
If you still have some feelings for him, then just be friends with him and hope you can spark again.... (read in full...)
We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward
Q. I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so ...
A. 1 February 2008: It takes time to know more of each other. He is not a talker for sure.There will be differences and outlooks between you and him.Maybe , he is the moody type.... (read in full...)
I feel neglected, unwanted, heartboken and emotionally abused
Q. Hi, I am currently in a relation for 4 years living with my bf. I truely love him and he says he does to but lately he hasn't been showing that love, we argue and fight all the time, he treats me like sh-- and after a few days acts like everyt...
A. 1 February 2008: For every action , there is a reaction. The way how others treat us depends on the way we treat them. Do unto other what you want others to do unto you.
You need to check yourself first if what you are doing is the cause of his current actions.... (read in full...)
I feel neglected, unwanted, heartboken and emotionally abused
Q. Hi, I am currently in a relation for 4 years living with my bf. I truely love him and he says he does to but lately he hasn't been showing that love, we argue and fight all the time, he treats me like sh-- and after a few days acts like everyt...
A. 1 February 2008: For every action , there is a reaction. The way how others treat us depends on the way we treat them. Do unto other what you want others to do unto you.
You need to check yourself first if what you are doing is the cause of his current actions.... (read in full...)
Says he doesn't talk to his ex, that he hates her, but he emails her, can I trust him?
Q. Hi guys i am new to this so any help would be great! My fiance is the only guy I have ever been completely honest with about EVERYTHING, I have had relationships in the past were I have lied and cheated, but I love him so much I feel like I shou...
A. 1 February 2008: Never trust anyone, trust only yourself. Today your friend, tomorrow your enemies.What you said can be used against you .... (read in full...)
He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?
Q. I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...
A. 1 February 2008: I believe he is telling the truth. He is caught in a jam and it is inhumane to kick her out into the street ,after all they are from the same country and she is his ex.He felt a responsibility for her . It could be their culture to help each other ... (read in full...)
Is my ex just being nice or does he want to see me again?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and ran into him in the mall the other day. There has been no contact between us and at my suggestion we went for coffee. We kept things light and fun and it was good to catch up. The old feelings were ...
A. 1 February 2008: Things happened because you make it happen. Just go and see what happens if you are interested in getting back together.
Nobody knows what will happen in the future. It is better to have hope than no hope at all.... (read in full...)
He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?
Q. I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...
A. 1 February 2008: If he is into her, why does he moved in with you? There is no logic.
I think since she comes from his country and in a foreign country, he is helping her only. She is like a relative to her and he felt he needed to help her.She could be taking a... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my sister
Q. Hi I have a problem. I'm 16, and I'm in love with my 14 year old sister. At first I thought it was just hormones, but it's been 4 years and I still feel the same way. Also I think she already knows, but I can't be sure. Help! ...
A. 1 February 2008: You can love your sister but you should not fall in love with her. You are confused.She is you sister and it is not right.There are many girls out there. ... (read in full...)
How can I ask her out and get to know her better?
Q. I want you to help me, there is this girl I so much love but when we were in school she was going out with a friend of mine and now they are no longer dating and I soooo much love her. What do I do to make her know that I love her? Thanks. ...
A. 1 February 2008: Get to know her as a friend first. If you simply approach a girl and declare your love for her, she will run away from you.She does not know you well enough.You don't know if she wants to be friend with you or not.
Show your special interest... (read in full...)
What levels of detail would you want to know if your wife cheated on you?
Q. Hey all there. I' coming again with an additional question. My wife cheated on me and I want to thank all the persons who gave me quite helpful advice. You can see my earlier question on http:/...
A. 1 February 2008: Will it do any good?She confess she cheated.Period! The less you know those sordid details ,the better it is for you.The more you know about those details, you will only have more agonies and nightmares.
Don't torture youself.Best to forgive ... (read in full...)
I really love him but cant take anymore lies...is walking away the right thing??
Q. I have been in a relationship with a married man for the last 4 years. Initially we started off as friends but became much more than that. He was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a very controlling woman. They were supposed to be ...
A. 1 February 2008: Your brain tells you to get out but your heart tells you to stay.Are you very sure you can live without him or cut him off totally from your life?
Can you answer that?... (read in full...)
My partner has just walked out and left me with a 4 month old baby!! Help!!
Q. I had a great relationship with my ex, after 7 months together we decided to try for a baby, (I have 2 young children from a previous relationship). I fell straight away and we were both over the moon! My ex partner is in a band and they are trying ...
A. 1 February 2008: You should not blame yourself and be forgiving. It is not easy for you to singlehandedly deal with all those stress and pressures. Do you have parents ot close friends who can give you support? It would be better if you have someone who would be ... (read in full...)
I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?
Q. I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...
A. 1 February 2008: Go to her with a bouquet of flowers and apologize for your mistake. Hope she forgives you and everything will be back to normal.... (read in full...)
My partner has just walked out and left me with a 4 month old baby!! Help!!
Q. I had a great relationship with my ex, after 7 months together we decided to try for a baby, (I have 2 young children from a previous relationship). I fell straight away and we were both over the moon! My ex partner is in a band and they are trying ...
A. 1 February 2008: Having post natal depressions can be a very trying time . You need a lot of support from him. You could explain to him about this sickness and hope that he will understand .You were not in the proper frame of mind .You can be nice to him and hope he ... (read in full...)
He found messages from another guy on my phone, but I'm innocent, how can I get things back to normal?
Q. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about two months (I’m 27, he’s 25). Everything has been going really, really well, until about 3 days ago. He went into my cell phone and found text messages from another guy. There were two series of ...
A. 1 February 2008: Your b/f is insecure and the next time , you should learn to delete any texts after reading them in the receive and send sections.
You may have the perception that you did nothing wrong or it is not your fault.
Do you know what goes on in ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my teacher, and I think he likes me too. What should I do?
Q. I really like a teacher at my school and he dosent actually teach me but we talk and we get on really well. I also think he likes me too. What should i do? Do i tell him or just keep talking to him and act as if i don't? ...
A. 1 February 2008: Just keep him on a friendship level and enjoy his friendship.Be happy and try not to change the relationship.... (read in full...)
19, I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. Any advice?
Q. I am now 19 years and I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. I also consulted a doctor who checked my hormone that appeared to be normal. Whats my problem and how can I solve it? ...
A. 1 February 2008: I think you need to find love and romance and this may help you to rekindle your sexual desires.... (read in full...)
Does my ex still love me, or is he just after my money?
Q. Hi!please help me,last monday i call my x-bf coz i just try if he answer the phone coz i missed him then he did,he talk that we almost 5 months for being together if we dont broke up...so last tuesday we meet and then i give him a money to help ...
A. 1 February 2008: Don't give any more money and you will find the answer to your question.... (read in full...)
I broke off with my boyfriend recently, now I'm wondering if we should get back together, is this normal?
Q. I broke it off with my b/f of 3 years a week ago. I just wasnt happy anymore and felt we had drifted apart. I thought it was the right thing. We are still very good friends bt i now feel really lonely. i miss him and wonder whether i shouldve...
A. 1 February 2008: Call him and set up a date. If you need to apologize, do it and then move on. Rebuild your relationship and carry on where you have left. If you are wrong eat some humble pie. People can fall out and fall in again. If you think he is worth it, give ... (read in full...)
I want to send this girl roses, but what do I write on the note?
Q. I decided to order some roses for this girl I like. (It's this package deal thing my school is doing to generate funds for some charity) It comes with a message but I don't know what to write exactly. Any suggestions would be helpful. ...
A. 1 February 2008: Sending you a beautiful red rose to say,
"Happy Valentine's Day !"
Everyday is a Valentine's day and I will always think of you .
You are so sweet and beautiful
You make my world full of happiness and joy.
That I cannot help but l... (read in full...)
I'm 8 months pregnant and 16 yrs old, but I want to have a singing career, any advice?
Q. I have a problem, i wonder if any of you can help. Im 16 years old almost 17 and (foolishly!) im 8 months pregnant. However ive just noticed that i have a real talent for singing and i would love to pursue this career. i dont want to be tied d...
A. 1 February 2008: You may dream but first you need to bring your baby out in this world.Then you decide what you want to do next.Having a baby may change your perceptions about your dreams .... (read in full...)
I think I'm developing premature ejaculation, help me!`
Q. Ok heres my story. Im pretty sure I have a mild case of PE. I am 22 years old, and have been having sex for 4 years now. I was with my most recent GF for over 3 years, and enjoyed a pretty good sex life. I would PE every once in awhile, but it wasnt ...
A. 1 February 2008: This is a great site and contains a wealth of informations on PE.Hope you will find your answers here.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/prematureejaculation.htm... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?
Q. Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...
A. 1 February 2008: You may think the grass is greener on the other side and this is what is clouding your eyes .When you have such a feeling, you will not appreciate what you have at the moment.
You will be uncontented, unfulfilled and unhappy. You think it is a ... (read in full...)
I'll be devastated if I lose her. What can I do?
Q. My wife of 3.5 years has just left after a fight and said she needed some time and space. I have been fighting depression for some few years now and did not know it until last week when I saw a psychiatrist. I have been verbally abusive to her and ...
A. 1 February 2008: Good for you. I think I need to clarify that Knocking on her door, does not mean that you go and harass her. It means that you do not give up hope but you keep your communications with her and not just leave her alone.
She may want space but in h... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?
Q. Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...
A. 31 January 2008: Your dilemma is do you love your daughter or your ex more? If you love your daughter more, you will have to suppress your urge for your ex. You can still be friends with you ex until your daughter grows up .
That is the sacrifice you will have to ... (read in full...)
I'll be devastated if I lose her. What can I do?
Q. My wife of 3.5 years has just left after a fight and said she needed some time and space. I have been fighting depression for some few years now and did not know it until last week when I saw a psychiatrist. I have been verbally abusive to her and ...
A. 31 January 2008: You need to knock on her door until she gives in and open the door for you. Don't give up easily .Whatever it takes, you need to prove your love for her.You need to wear her resistance down till she comes home together with you.Be prepared for the ... (read in full...)
I'll be devastated if I lose her. What can I do?
Q. My wife of 3.5 years has just left after a fight and said she needed some time and space. I have been fighting depression for some few years now and did not know it until last week when I saw a psychiatrist. I have been verbally abusive to her and ...
A. 30 January 2008: You need to woo her and romance her again and to promise her that you will try to control yourself and ask her for another chance. Remember to tell her that you love her.She needs a lot of confirmations of your love verbally and in actions. ... (read in full...)
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