He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 12 February 2008: You have a tremendous amount of generosity and forgiveness of your b/f's excesses. He is not worthy of your love and yet you still love him.Are you an angel?
If others can be like you , I think this Dear Cupid site will have to close shop. LO... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 12 February 2008: [Quote]
But i think this site would fall flat on its face if couples had to give both sides of a given story.
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This must be another of your quality advice. Thank you.... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: [Quote]
He cheated on you. Why would u want to be with him again? He can cheat on you again.
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This is a stereotype answer. Not everyone is the same. Maybe, the one who said this will cheat again but it does not mean that others will... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: I am glad you are now back and you did not have to apologize.But if you were to apologize to him ,it would make a bigger difference to your relationship. It is better to be humble than to have pride. Pride is the downfall of many. You broke up ... (read in full...)
How can I be happy again after losing my husband??
Q. MY husband passed away 8 years ago and we were married for 26 yrs. How do I go out into the real world and meet someone where do you go and what do you do? How can you make your self happy again? Thanks, want to be happy ...
A. 9 February 2008: You can go to your local church or any charity org. to meet new friends. You can attend any social events or get to know your neighbors who lives in the same street.... (read in full...)
Am I too uptight about talking about sex stuff??
Q. Well i keep having a few girls say this and im starting to wonder if there right. They think im to uptight about sex stuff while talking. Well the tend to like to talk about sex related stuff a lot. And sometimes tend to drift into odd stuff that is ...
A. 9 February 2008: If you do not feel comfortable, there is nothing wrong with you . There are some topics that is better left unsaid.... (read in full...)
He says we can be together in time....but I'm not sure I can wait.
Q. I have a problem... I went out with my sister to meet her mate....we got on really well and a few days later he came into my work and asked me for my number...we started hanging out and we are getting really close.... We really like each other ...
A. 9 February 2008: In one ear and out the other. You just carry on with your life and meet new friends and who knows , you may meet some one more interesting or better than him.... (read in full...)
Can we get engaged without him getting divorced??
Q. Hi, I have been with my partner for nine years, i would like to get engaged but the problem is that he is still married but has been separated for 15 years, could we still get engaged without him getting divorced just yet?...
A. 9 February 2008: Whether you are engaged or not , it does not change anything.He is still married and your engagement is ultra vires his marriage contract.
There is no legal standing of your engagement. It is just a false security for you, nothing more.... (read in full...)
How do I move on after seeing my wife cheating??
Q. My wife cheated on me last April. I walked up on it they where in the back seat on her suv at a bar. Im having trouble getting over it. At first she said they where just talking and a month after that i found out it was more. She tells me it was j...
A. 9 February 2008: You should forgive her and ask her to forgive you for this pain which you inflict on each other.Then you can release all those hurts that has build up in your system.
Think of all those 12 years and do not let any thing come in between you two.... (read in full...)
We have been dating two months and he is just too much for me.
Q. Ok now I know most women want a man who pays attention to them and kisses them all the time.... well i thought that is what I wanted.. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months and I feel like I am about to lose it.. He is always texting ...
A. 9 February 2008: Communicate your feelings to him. Too much of one thing is a put off.... (read in full...)
Heartbroken over losing my first love...how can I move on??
Q. I went out with my ex for 1 year. We broke up 4 days after our anniversary. I am so heartbroken. He is so mean to me now. He says the most horrible things about me. I loved him so much and I don't understand why he is doing this to me. If he loved...
A. 9 February 2008: You are still young and the world is so big. I am sure you will one day find some one who will be better than him.
Everything happened because there is a purpose. Think positive. If he does not go , some one better may not fill his place. You will... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 9 February 2008: Even if she does not want him back , she has to apologize and forgive him to heal her hurt.This is part of the healing process.You forgive and asked for forgiveness.
If she does not apologize or forgive him , she will have no peace and will be ... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 9 February 2008:
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How can saying sorry to a guy thats cheated and blamed you, and ask his FORGIVENESS???? be a good quality advice?
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I think you need to read her question thoroughly. She does not want to break up with him and want him back.Sh... (read in full...)
Was there something else?
Q. My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...
A. 9 February 2008: She was probably lonely and wanted to talk to someone.She likes you that is for sure .... (read in full...)
Was there something else?
Q. My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he ...
A. 8 February 2008: When she loves you enough , nothing or no rules will bind her. She would break every rules in this world to be with you .
She wants you to know the problems if you want her. You need to convince her of your strong love. If she is not interest... (read in full...)
Body language and eye contact...
Q. I am so confused about a guy that I like. He is very good looking and athletic, he works at the gym I go to and is about the same age as me. I started going to this gym about six months ago to lose weight and I noticed him looking at me several ti...
A. 8 February 2008: He seems interested but he has no guts to approach you for a date.It is called , loving from a distance.If you are interested, you could initiate the meetings and chat .
... (read in full...)
How can I get him to go out with me?
Q. I am 15. I am having a problem, you see, over the christmas holidays, my brother introduced me to his good friend. Me and the friend spent lots of time together and became quite close. This last weekend when he started to cry infront of me it brou...
A. 8 February 2008: Go slow lady! You may scare him !. Just be friends until he lets down his guards for you.... (read in full...)
Should he make more noise when he comes?
Q. I always need to release the sexual pleasure/tension obtained during intercourse by crying out and moaning etc. My boyfriend says nothing but sweats like mad-his only noise is a series of gasps when he orgasms.Is this normal for a man as he's only ...
A. 8 February 2008: Some men grasps , some groans ,some hiss and some pants.
The men can only do single task unlike the multi tasking women. If he is going to shout, he may lose some strength down below.LOL!
... (read in full...)
How can I tell him I'm fed-up of seeing his friends??
Q. Im 47, Chinese and going through divorce with my husband. We came to live in England ten years ago. Im a housewife looking after my daughter and he is self employed selling computer. In the recent years his temper is becoming from bad to worse. I ...
A. 8 February 2008: You could tell him that you are restless and have no peace inside of you and want to seek your destiny and to travel in search for it. He would not stop you from your mission.... (read in full...)
She is the one who suggested that we try again, how do I get her to open up?
Q. I recently got back together with this girl that i was seeing for about over a month. Actually shes the one who asked if i would give her another shot. The thing is im having trouble getting her to open up to me. Evadently she has feelings for me or ...
A. 8 February 2008: You need to be patient and praise her whenever possible. You will have to woo her all over again.
Start complimenting her and you will get some back.... (read in full...)
I find it hard forming friendships, I struggle to bond emotionally, can anyone help me?
Q. I don't know where to start, I guess I just feel like I need some answer's and maybe someone out there can help. I have been through alot in my 25 years, I certainly know that the 31 times I have moved doesn't help, I have lost myself I do believe. ...
A. 8 February 2008: You need to focus your attention on what you want in this life or your aims in life. Some people focus on God and others on their ambitions. You walk towards that destination and if you meet any problems , they are just a distractions . Tackle each ... (read in full...)
Trying to conceive, how can I have triplets?
Q. Hey guys, Im 26 years old and trying to conceive. my absolute dream would be to have triplets. Im just wondering whether any has any advice or tips on how to conceive triplets? Thanks you all so much...
A. 8 February 2008: Try IVF where they insert three embryo's inside you. It will be very costly . Some people take fertility drugs.... (read in full...)
Will my baby make if full term?
Q. I had an internal scan on Monday at 6 weeks, and my baby was fine and so was the heartbeat. I went to the abortion clinic this morning as I needed to go to cancel my appointment but let them do a stomach scan and they said they thought I had a ...
A. 8 February 2008: I think you need to seek professional advice. Ask your doctor on your next appointment.... (read in full...)
I'm stalking my ex, do I need help?
Q. Help im becoming obbsessed with going to my local pub where hoping to see my ex,and his mates i go at least once a week but im always thinking about going there, i sometimes go past the pub hoping to see my exs car, or even go and walk past his ...
A. 8 February 2008: Yeah! I think you are crazy! You can be jailed for stalking and harassment..LOL! You are becoming too obsessive and compulsive .
What will you do when you see him?... (read in full...)
Is it true that if you can't love yourself you can't love someone else?
Q. Is it true that if u can't love yourself then you cant love someone else? i thought i disagreed but now i cant get it out of my head....
A. 8 February 2008: If you cannot bring yourself to love your own self, how can you have the capacity to love others.
Loving your own self for who you are and what you are brings confidence and increased your self esteem.
If you don't know who you are, how can you... (read in full...)
Do you really get what you deserve in life?
Q. Do you really get what you deserve in life? Or there is no such a thing? Also do things really happens for a reason,or its just random?...
A. 8 February 2008: Everything comes in a circle whether you believed it or not. There is God's laws and the Universal laws.
Whatever you sow , so shall you reap in this life or the life after.
Everything happens for a reason and you are just like a jigsaw pu... (read in full...)
A casual encounter with my ex awakened my partner's jealousy! I love my partner and this coldness scares me!
Q. Hi, I have a dilema that's really troubling me. I really need some advice. I have been with my partner for 3 and a half years. He means the world to me, and I love him so much, maybe too much. He has to have a lot of contact with his ex wife...
A. 8 February 2008: You may not have send that e-mail but to some people that is the same, as you had the intentions.
He has slid down the slippery slope and he can't stop .He needs to be shaken hard to realized that he should forgive you and move on.
You wil... (read in full...)
Involved with drugs, my lifestyle led to troubles in my relationship, how can I set things right?
Q. over and over she tried and over and over i lied and over and over she cried.it was 5 years we were together i was almost never at our apt. i do drugs and sell them to. I never let her see me on them. I lied to stay away and she also loaned m...
A. 8 February 2008: You should ask her. You broke her heart. If you want her back , then you need to really listen to her.... (read in full...)
He recently initiated a separation, without explaining his reasons, as usual! (We dated for a year after 21 years of break.) Is it worth waiting?
Q. Help,my boyfriend recently told me he does not want this relationship, we were dating for a year, we dated 21yrs ago and we were each others first loves, so after 21yrs he called me and we realised that we were still in love with each other, things ...
A. 8 February 2008: When a person is angry , he cannot control his emotions and it comes out straight and it can hurt.
What you should do is not to believe what is said in anger. It is just anger which caused him to lashed out at you since you are like his sand bag... (read in full...)
How do you move on from someone you truely loved and still be friends?
Q. I was with my ex for nearly 2years,and before that we we were best friends..he was my 1st love, who i loved with all my heart and soul. We've been split up for 9 months now, and as hard as i try to move on i seem to be stuck with a broken heart!! ...
A. 8 February 2008: To heal your broken heart, you need to forgive him for the pains and hurts you inflict on each other. Then only your heart will heal.... (read in full...)
I'm playing a "dangerous game" with a married man. Do I stop this BEFORE anyone gets hurt?
Q. Im playing a dangerous game, thats how he put it. Flirting (its both sided) with a married man. we talk about sex all the time and get on well generally. last night he text me saying "do you think we're playing a dangerous game?" i replied with...
A. 8 February 2008: You know it is dangerous and yet you want to play with the fire. You can control a fire when it is small but when you fan it , it will burnt everything in its path.
If you want to play with fire, better buy some insurance.... (read in full...)
Getting an ex back - any tips?
Q. How do i get my ex boy friend back, we split early December and he's since changed his number and i don't see him much anymore, i'm not sure if it was because he was my first guy to go out with and it didnt last for very long where he called it off. ...
A. 8 February 2008: Find out from his workmates or friends about his whereabouts.Search the internet or Google his name and you may find some info about him.... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 8 February 2008: You asked how to get him back. I don't see where I am rude. If you think my answer is rude, that is OK. You may not like the truth. It does not matter.
Your question ask for an answer and some people are too judgmental. Did you ask for their op... (read in full...)
13 and in want of sexual toys - how to buy one/ask my parents?
Q. im 13 and i want some condoms and sexual stuff like that how should i ask my mum to get me some orhow do i get some??? [Added] im 13 and want to get a butt plug becasue im sexually active i dont no how to ask my parents im to embarassed i rea...
A. 8 February 2008: Get from the pharmacies, super markets or go ask from your dad.... (read in full...)
She wants me to leave University and emigrate!
Q. I am 23 years old, and i have a girlfriend in 24. She's not from the same country as me, but we met here in Spain and we had a big connection and a big Love. Since this year, in September, i started to study in University, after one year living w...
A. 8 February 2008: Your ground is shaky and fluid. Anything can happen over there. If she can wait until you graduate, then it is good but there is no guarantee that you may keep her.
You can go together and see how it works out.If it does not , you go back to ... (read in full...)
Does she still want him? And if she does, would it be so bad to stay with her anyway?
Q. We are both in our 40's, I am 1.5 yrs divorced. I met her 1 yr ago. She had a BF who is 20 yrs younger than her that broke it off 6 mos before I met her. They are still best friends. She seems to need to make him happy, but swears she doesn't ...
A. 8 February 2008: She is having the best of two worlds. The old and experienced and the young and virile. You maybe just the spare tire in case the other one goes flat.... (read in full...)
Is he just being a nice guy, or is he really interested in me?
Q. I've been working with this guy for about four years now and we've always been rather friendly. Over the past two years I lost a lot of weight and it seems that the dynamic of our relationship changed a little. We grew even friendlier to the point ...
A. 8 February 2008: I think he is more than a nice guy . He seems interested in you but is unsure of your signals.Maybe , you need to have more time together.... (read in full...)
Is loving him enough to get back together, or should I just leave it this time?
Q. i was with my ex for 4 yrs. in this time we split up twice before the final split. i then went travelling for a yr and am still away now (only for a week).last night i rang him (drunkenly, although i meant what i said but had been restrainign myself ...
A. 8 February 2008: If you have love, it would be enough but I don't think your love for him is deep enough to sacrifice your wants for his wants.Your own wants are still paramount to you.... (read in full...)
Are the lives we want too different to stay together?
Q. I'm really confused, i've been with my boyfriend nearly 4 years, but i'm starting to think that we want different things. I'm 20 and he's 24, and whilst I want to travel and concentrate on my career for another 10 years before starting a family, he ...
A. 8 February 2008: You are just incompatible. You have incompatible needs. You will need to choose and sacrifice one or the other.... (read in full...)
I just don't know what to do.
Q. I have a boyfriend of 5mth, thing is his sisters ex is after me, plus my ex of 2years wants me back, i am not totally happy and like all three but i dont know what to do...
A. 8 February 2008: Be friends with all and then choose the final one after a period of time.... (read in full...)
How do I get my feelings back??
Q. I have a boyfriend and i fear my feelings for him are going. How do I get them back because i really want to stay with him?...
A. 8 February 2008: Do all those things which you enjoyed doing together. This will make you think of those loving moments of togetherness.... (read in full...)
How do I confront him? He's looking for other girls on net!
Q. Hi there, I am 23 years old and in a loving relationship...or so i thought. I have just come back from a week away at work and logged onto my computer at home to check my emails. I have found out that my boyfriend has been looking at escorts on the ...
A. 8 February 2008: You can just ignore it and see no evil. If it troubles you too much then listen from the lion's mouth .You might want to know why he was doing that.Listen to his version before you formed an opinion of him.... (read in full...)
My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 8 February 2008: If you were not good, will he come for more? You have to be careful that it is love and not lust. The mouth only say love but in fact it is lust.
Wanting to have more sex with you is not about love . It could be pure lust. Has he done anything... (read in full...)
How to make my face look a bit older?
Q. i am about 5'3 and my body has altegether almost finnished devolping (i have a period) but i still have a baby face !!! it looks silly when will my adult face come all my freinds have theres i feel like the odd one out the bunch. can anyone give me ...
A. 8 February 2008: Worry a lot and frown a lot and this can make you age faster.... (read in full...)
Will he regret moving in together?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both in our mid 20s. We are very stable and had been talking about moving in together since the first year of dating. We lived in two separate cities approximately two hours drive away. We ...
A. 8 February 2008: Love means never having to say you are sorry.
If he agreed with you , then you should not worry if he will regret later.You can give it a try and if it does not work, then try another plan.... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 7 February 2008: The only thing is for you to apologize to him and admit that you were hasty and asked for his forgiveness.Be humble and then hope that he will forgive you.
... (read in full...)
My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 5 February 2008: How good is your good? What kind of standards are you looking at?
Good for you or good for him?
If you think it is good for him, then you don't have to worry.As long as you are there for him , it will be good enough for him.
As for whether it... (read in full...)
My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 4 February 2008: Practice makes perfect. Don't worry, you will learn on the job.It gets better with time. You got to do more foreplays and orals .... (read in full...)
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