My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 8 February 2008: If you were not good, will he come for more? You have to be careful that it is love and not lust. The mouth only say love but in fact it is lust.
Wanting to have more sex with you is not about love . It could be pure lust. Has he done anything... (read in full...)
My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 5 February 2008: How good is your good? What kind of standards are you looking at?
Good for you or good for him?
If you think it is good for him, then you don't have to worry.As long as you are there for him , it will be good enough for him.
As for whether it... (read in full...)
The last thing I want is a lifetime boyfriend who is stringing me along...
Q. I'm worried that I am in a dead end relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. Our relationship moved very fast at the beginning and we have been living together for over a year now. He is planning to buy a house i...
A. 5 February 2008: If he is serious with you , he should put both your names on the ownership of the house.
If he does not , then he has some ulterior motives.... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my guy friends or my boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. my boyfriend of 7 months has told me nearly every day since Christmas that he loves me and I find it hard to say it back! I do love him, really I do but I just not so much get embaressed but I don't know what it is, I just find it hard, what do I ...
A. 5 February 2008: Your b/f has to grow up..He cannot shut you up from your world.
If it comes to a head, then you will have to choose, his world or your world. ... (read in full...)
I slept with my friend who has a boyfriend and I feel crappy.
Q. I slept with my friend who has a boyfriend. I'm so torn up. I feel very guilty, but at the same time I wanted it to happen. I like this girl a lot. But we live in opposite sides of the country (right now). She basically told me to pretend like ...
A. 5 February 2008: Forget it , the issue is dead and buried. Deal with it yourself and move on.... (read in full...)
How can I belive my boyfirend wasnt talking to "her"?
Q. ok so first i have been dateing my b/f for 2 yrs this june, and well im having a problem right now so i hope you guys can help me bc i really dont want to lose him. So ok my problem is i havent talked to him all day and wen i get on myspace hes on ...
A. 5 February 2008: You love him so much and you want him not to talk to this girl. What other things you don't want your b/f to do?
It is no wonder , your b/f does not want to answer your calls.... (read in full...)
I think it's time I really had a boyfriend but I don't know what to do!
Q. I am 14 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Everyone at school says that I should have one because I'm "pretty" and have a great personality once they get to know me but I really don't know. I am actually pretty shy around everyone until I ...
A. 5 February 2008: Don't worry , your Prince Charming will one day appear when you least expect him and he will come and sweep you off your feet.... (read in full...)
Is he flirting with this other girl?
Q. I might need your help with this situation. Hope there is someone who can help. My ex... who was at a meeting tonight and asked me if I was coming confused me. I still like him but am about to give up. He was flirting with another girl a bit in ...
A. 5 February 2008: He is your ex and he flirted with another girl in your presence and you take offense.
Though he is your ex and you still have hope of coming back together. Now , you don't know if you want to hammer the last nail into his coffin or not.
He is y... (read in full...)
My bf of 4 years lied to me about his age. How could I trust him again? Should I move on?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend who i have been with for 4 years just lied to me about how old he was. I started getting suspicious about his age only a few months ago when he refused to show me his drivers license, i knew something was up. ...
A. 4 February 2008: Is lying about his age so very important to you ?His real age is not important but you think his lying is a great sin.
Is it worth to terminate a friendship just because he lied about his age?
Have you not told any lies to anyone? Do you t... (read in full...)
I'm clueless as to how to tell if someone is genuinely interested in you as a person or if they are just trying to use you.
Q. A few months ago I ended a long term relationship. So newly single, I've been meeting new people. There is this one person I am interested in but when I rationally look at his personality and lifestyle, I know that it would be really hard for a ...
A. 4 February 2008: They will walk that extra miles for you and accompany you to the end of the world.Only time will tell if he is genuine or a fake.
They will take all the craps you throw at them and they are like a big sponge.
They will make you feel like the mo... (read in full...)
No girlfriend and a strong desire for Sex is making feel ill! What is this?
Q. hi,i think i need an urgent help i have no gf in my life but i have a strong strong desire for sex, recently i donot feel healthy, when i contact my doctor he told me that i don't have as such a physiological health problem except the gastric ...
A. 4 February 2008: There are some people who do not have sex and live up to a ripe old age of 102.
Your health is because of your diet and the pollution of the atmosphere. You did not have regular meals and that is why you have gastric problems and not because ... (read in full...)
I love my girfriend, but I'm very shy! How can I get past my shyness?
Q. hello i really love my girlfriend she wants 2 kiss and hug but im too shy does this mean im frigid??? if it does how can i get over it ?? because i realy want 2 its just i cant....
A. 4 February 2008: Go and practice the art of kissing and hugging with your bolter everyday. When she comes, close your eyes and think of her as your bolster.... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and she's 17... Is this okay?
Q. hi ppl i think im in love with a 17 yr old and im 21. do you reckon that its an ok thing or is it too much of a gap for anything to work. its been built on friendship and we've just got closer and closer. please help thanks...
A. 4 February 2008: Love knows no bounds. It cuts across all barriers and creeds.You see everything with rose tinted glasses and everything is very beautiful.... (read in full...)
What are the symptoms of Diabetes?
Q. The other day a friend and I were talking and I said I was always tired and thirsty. She said I might have diabetes because her dad is the same and he has to go ever year for a test to check. Does any body know what the symptoms are?...
A. 4 February 2008: Just Google that word and you will get all those info's... (read in full...)
How do I let him know how I feel without invading his potential girlfriend?
Q. Hi There, I have a really big dilemma. I have fallen bigtime for my best friends brother, who i've been close to for my whole life. I know my friend and her family would be okay with us going out (his mother especially!) and I know he has liked me ...
A. 4 February 2008: You have a very good ally in your best friend. . Get more highly visual to him. Wear your best when you see him and he will definitely takes notice of you. Guys are attracted by visuals.
About his potential g/f, don't worry about her. His ship wil... (read in full...)
I don't have any friends. Help!
Q. I don't have any friends. I tend to tune out most people, and only make strong connections with a few people. It's hard for me to make chit-chat, I like to talk about real things, deep things, or clever things, but I'm also somewhat depress...
A. 4 February 2008: If you want to have friends, do a good deed each day. Just help or offer your hand to any stranger you meet in the street. ... (read in full...)
Deluded dating vs real dating..friends with benefits...
Q. i met a guy over the internet for sex. it was first name basis, it was midnight, and it was fantastic. i only do one night stands once in a blue moon, and they are rarely so good. and afterwards, he really wanted me to stay the night. i know the ...
A. 4 February 2008: Start out with the sex first and get to know each other afterward?
After you have that many number of sexual encounters, it becomes meaningless. You wanted sex because you want to know that you are still attractive and wanted. You want to have tha... (read in full...)
Do women only like muscular bodies? - I'm thin.
Q. hey there, i have a big problem which is affecting my overall life and here it is i would like to share with you hoping that i may get your kind advises; i am thin thin thin...and my being thin is affecting my confidence to approach women whom i ...
A. 4 February 2008: Women maybe attracted to muscular men but they would prefer to marry guys like you because those muscular men tend to stray and have affairs.Some women think of them as sleeping partners only.
Go to the gym to exercise or get a fitter and a more t... (read in full...)
27 and starting to secretly worry about dying alone! - in need of hope.
Q. Hi guys just looking for a little hope I guess. What I want to know is if anyone believes in true love any more? I have been cheated on and messed around with more times than I care to remember. Despite all this I KNOW i am a good person and deserve ...
A. 4 February 2008: There are millions of women who are in the 40's and 50's and still single . You do not qualify to enter the single's club yet! LOL!
27 is just the starting age and you are at the starting blog and you want to throw in your towels!
How can... (read in full...)
Why would he say he loved me and change his mind as soon as I said I love you back?
Q. Guys I really need advice. I seperated from a long term relationship of (8 years) and started dating a new guy within 2 weeks. We were seeing each other all the time and he seemed so keen on me, telling me he loved me wanted to be my boyfriend that ...
A. 4 February 2008: It was not love but LUST! When you wanted more, he showed his true colors. He is a Casanova.... (read in full...)
My best friend wants us to be roommates... but I'm in love with her. Should I accept?
Q. Hello.. Well, a couple of years ago i started a new job where I met this girl, a coworker. we were instantly good friends. a few months into our friendship, i confessed that i liked her, but was shot down. it was a bit awkward at first, but we ...
A. 4 February 2008: There are so many uncertainties in life.Nobody can really predict what happens in the future. We should not be a pessimist but an optimist.
It is better to have love and failed then not to love at all.If you are going to extradite a confessi... (read in full...)
I would love to know him but don't want to scare him.
Q. hi..i need some guidance in my love life. I'm 28, having met this guy who is 27. I am very nuch attracted to him but not sure if he is too. I met him about 2 months ago, initiated first contact, to which he responded positively. I was invited ...
A. 4 February 2008: If you never call , you will never know what is on his mind. You need to probe him and find out his reactions. Send out your feelers and see if his response would be cool or cold. ... (read in full...)
I am confused about my long distance boyfriend
Q. I need help!!! I'm madly in love with this boy. We live 200 miles away and have been together for a year and a half. and we broke up a couple of weeks ago. He doesn't want me to be going out and having fun like he doesn't want me going to my h...
A. 4 February 2008: The only way to prove your love for him is to stay at home and don't go out for any social events or talk to any boy. He is your only sun and your only world. You cease to exist anymore to the outside world. Can you do that? If you want to fol... (read in full...)
How can I approach girls to make them like me
Q. What is the best thing to say to a girl, when you walk up to them. i.e. hi, blah blah blah Also what is a great thing to talk about that makes girls laugh?...
A. 4 February 2008: If you look like Brad Pitt or David Beckham, it won't be a problem. Just give your sweetest smile and say ,"Hi pretty/beautiful/sexy/charming/sweetie/luv/..You look good today. Praise her hair or clothes or shoes or the shine or smile on her fac... (read in full...)
My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 4 February 2008: Practice makes perfect. Don't worry, you will learn on the job.It gets better with time. You got to do more foreplays and orals .... (read in full...)
How Can I kick the strip club habit?
Q. I am trying to kick going to the strip club and be with my wife instead all of the time. I am hung up on sex all the time. I don't know what to do. The girl I was emailing has stopped now that she knows I was looking for a relationship. She just ...
A. 4 February 2008: Focus your eyes on God and your original aims.You want to kick the strip club habit and want to be with your wife.You are willing to sacrifice anything to be with your wife .Keep your hopes and faith alive and fight this war. I will keep you in my ... (read in full...)
My husband is having Cyber sex
Q. i have been married 28 years i recently discovered my husband was having internet sex with web cam. he said he was looking at chat line and was very excited by what women would show him he bought a camera because they expected something in return w...
A. 4 February 2008: You can convey to him your feelings about this issue and hope that he will agree and respect your feelings. You may watch him but will you be able to watch him 7/24? He may surf when you are not around. You cannot police him all the time.... (read in full...)
How can I make mom support my decision in my long distance relationship
Q. Hi, my name is Jennifer, and I'm 18 years old. For the past year, I've been in a relationship with someone who lives in another country. It's extremely difficult, but we take turns visiting one another and have been making it work. He live...
A. 4 February 2008: You could tell her that one week is not enough to learn all about him or the culture and way of life in the UK.You need to find your destiny and the truth about him.
You are matured and a well balance person.You need to experience life on your own... (read in full...)
Her lack of education bothers me, should it?
Q. Hi ladies and gents in the hood outta ther, happy new year. As 2007 came to an end I felt alittle bored with our relationship and was nolonger sure how long i was to conttinue with my girlfriend. 2008 came with a whole new adventure and i feel u ...
A. 4 February 2008: Love is blind, odorless and colorless. If her lack of education is an impediment to you , then you do not really love her.Her lack of education will become a stumbling block later on.... (read in full...)
Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship?
Q. Is it too much to ask for a phone call everyday in a long distance relationship? This is my second long distance relationship where my other decides to not call or return calls for 4 days at a time, when we typically talk daily. I ended the first ...
A. 4 February 2008: Some people may welcome it and some may not. After some time , it gets kindda boring and repetitious. Long distance calls should be spontaneous and do not make it like a chore.Sometimes silence is golden.... (read in full...)
He wouldn't give us a second chance, he just said that getting back together for a bit won't change things... any views?
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up nearly four months back after being together nearly two years. He is moving away and ended it saying he wasn't happy anymore, didn't feel the same as he didn't see a future. Anyway since then we have remained friends, ...
A. 4 February 2008: It looks like it is winter season in your place. He is cold towards you . You could just hunker or dig in or you can go to another place where it is summer.
If you love him, you will dig in and ride out the cold winter.Maybe , you need to call a t... (read in full...)
She's so paranoid about her body!!!
Q. hello my girlfriend for 5 years has always been paranoid and unhappy with the way her body looks, even though everytime she says something about it i always reasure her that i love the way she looks and she doesnt need to do anything, but she wont ...
A. 4 February 2008: She should do more exercises to increase her metabolic rate , eat less fast food but more nutritious home cooked meals or more vege's.... (read in full...)
Nasty Ex - How do you get over an ex that won't let you go??
Q. How do you get over an ex that won't let you go?? I have been apart from my ex for just over a year, he dumped me on new years day 2007, we are in a really complicated place, he apparantly doesn't want a relationship, yet he sleeps around with ...
A. 4 February 2008: You are the door keeper to your soul. Who do you want to let into your life is in your hands. You need to have stronger will power not to let the wolves inside.You may not be that lucky the next time.... (read in full...)
Should I leave her alone now she has a guy??
Q. Dear cupid, I am a 16 (going 17 in march) and recently have been wanting to ask this girl out, but never had the guts to do so. Now i find out that she has a man and feel a bit sad. is it normal for me to want this girl and should i tell her what ...
A. 4 February 2008: She has a b/f does not mean that you cannot go for it. It does not matter for she will accept your wooing too.The b/f thingy is not the final one. If you are better, she may dump him and choose you.
A girl's heart is like the moon , there is a dif... (read in full...)
He said the nicest things but hasn't called in over a week..is this a hint??
Q. Greetings everyone!! Well I've met what seems to be an incredible man 3 weeks ago and at first he seemed very into me. We went out to dinner twice and had a coffee the third time together. He said the nicest things to me, like "he'd never been...
A. 3 February 2008: After three dates, I think he has formed an opinion of you.If he is interested, he would have contacted you.
You could send text or email and see his response and confirmed your feelings.... (read in full...)
Should I give him an ultimatum...either lose the drugs or me for good??
Q. I am really confused at the moment. I am 18 and my ex who I have been on and off with for about 3years is 17. I don't know what to do anymore.My heart tells me one thing and my head tells me another.He has been a drug dealer since he was 14 selling ...
A. 3 February 2008: When you want to save someone who is drowning, you got to make sure you yourself is a strong and good swimmer or you will also drown .
If you could have saved him , he would not be what he is today. You have done all the best for him and he does ... (read in full...)
I cheer this guy I like and this girl on but every time I do it creates a larger wound on my heart.
Q. umm...i met this guy in first grade, we are in 6th grade now but he likes this girl, i cheer them on but everytime i do it creates a larger wound on my heart what should i do?...
A. 3 February 2008: Go and get some band aids and stick on your wounds or go get another new heart for every one that is wounded.
Stay at home and don't do any cheering, then your heart won't be wounded.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to pursue a relationship with somebody 1-2 years younger??
Q. dear cupid, I would like to know is it wrong for a person to go out with someone who is 1-2 years younger than themselves. I recently saw this good looking girl, went over to her found out how old she is and that, she seems to be 1 year younger tha...
A. 3 February 2008: There is nothing wrong as long as you can click or have chemistry.If you like each other , that is all that counts.... (read in full...)
Should I leave her alone now she has a guy??
Q. Dear cupid, I am a 16 (going 17 in march) and recently have been wanting to ask this girl out, but never had the guts to do so. Now i find out that she has a man and feel a bit sad. is it normal for me to want this girl and should i tell her what ...
A. 3 February 2008: You need to be friends with her first and get to know more of her. You cannot be a silent admirer and love her from a distant.
If you like her, go talk to her and communicate. You cannot even manage the friend phase , you want to jump to the f... (read in full...)
I feel like I just don't fit in and it is getting me down.
Q. I don't feel like i fit in... i never used to be shy but i am, i just cant open up to anyone. I have friends but i feel that i am just included through one friend and whenever i go out i feel worse when i get home. I guess as all my friends are m...
A. 3 February 2008: Think more positive and not negative.If you think positive, the positive will come to you . That is how your brain works.
If you are pretty but you don't smile and there is no joy in your face and have a sad countenance, you wont look pretty. ... (read in full...)
Any thoughts about my flirting with this older, married man at work? Can't stop thinking about him.
Q. Hey okay this is a complicated one, there's this guy at work and we are really close friends outside of work. We have a really good relationship both in and out of work and we tell each other a hell of alot of stuff. Basically he phones me...
A. 3 February 2008:
Flirting is enjoyable but you have to be careful where and when to stop.
It always begin with flirting and then dinners and finally end up on the bed.
It is one thing that leads to another .When the time you realized the danger , you have do... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can stop getting so nervous??
Q. Whenever i try and do something i can do, like a trick, i do it perfectly infront of friends, but when im infront of the one i like.... =S disaster strikes, I get too nervous, and i freak out, is there any way to fix it? Or is it just a natural ...
A. 3 February 2008: You become too self conscious in front of that one. You need to imagine she is not there and you become natural. It takes a bit of training to do that.... (read in full...)
My best friend wants us to be roommates... but I'm in love with her. Should I accept?
Q. Hello.. Well, a couple of years ago i started a new job where I met this girl, a coworker. we were instantly good friends. a few months into our friendship, i confessed that i liked her, but was shot down. it was a bit awkward at first, but we ...
A. 3 February 2008: She is giving you the opportunity , you should seize it.If she does not like you , she would not ask you to be her room mate.You will have more chances to be with her and see her everyday.It is like a trial marriage. Don't expect her to be ... (read in full...)
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