Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 23 February 2008: You mutually parted and good for you . You can throw away all his baggage and fly again. Good Luck and enjoy!... (read in full...)
I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...
Q. Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. ...
A. 21 February 2008: Stop thinking of him and talking of him and you will forget him faster.
Refocus your mind on things you would like to do.Go out and mix with your friends and enjoy .
You need to feel what happiness is . Get control over your own life. You do... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 12 February 2008: You could bring a friend along to accompany you .Remember not to accept any lift from him .Be careful your drinks is not spiked.
Type this address in your search window to go to Google.
http://www.google.com/... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 12 February 2008: You should not feel guilty to meet another man. You have done nothing wrong.You are just checking out some facts and you have not committed anything yet.
If you don't meet him, you will never know if he is real or not.
Get his real name and ad... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 11 February 2008: Be careful of online friends. You don't know who they really are until you meet them in real life.They could be married or conman on the prowl.
Do some background checking first.... (read in full...)
...he was watching porn and masturbating, without even asking how I'm feeling!
Q. My boyfriend and I were having sex when I felt a severe abdominal discomfort and I asked him to stop. After taking a rest for about 5 minutes, he wanted to force himself into me again but my pain was still there so I said I didn't want to do it ...
A. 9 February 2008: Not all men are the same . Some have a higher or lower sex drive. I think we should not judge him. If you feel unhappy , you could tell him how you feel about it.... (read in full...)
Will he regret moving in together?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both in our mid 20s. We are very stable and had been talking about moving in together since the first year of dating. We lived in two separate cities approximately two hours drive away. We ...
A. 8 February 2008: Love means never having to say you are sorry.
If he agreed with you , then you should not worry if he will regret later.You can give it a try and if it does not work, then try another plan.... (read in full...)
He decided to leave me because I am apparently a "compulsive liar." How should I go about winning him back?
Q. I am in a state of unconditional despair. My boyfriend recently decided to leave me because I am apparently a "compulsive liar". I dearly miss him, and wish that he would accept my numerous heartfelt apologies and take me back. Could someone please ...
A. 8 February 2008: If you want to win him back , you must not appear to be clingy. This will turn him off. You have apologized and have to play the waiting game. You will have to wait till he kicked the ball to you. Stop chasing him and he will come after you.Don't ... (read in full...)
He decided to leave me because I am apparently a "compulsive liar." How should I go about winning him back?
Q. I am in a state of unconditional despair. My boyfriend recently decided to leave me because I am apparently a "compulsive liar". I dearly miss him, and wish that he would accept my numerous heartfelt apologies and take me back. Could someone please ...
A. 8 February 2008: If you want to win him back , you must not appear to be clingy. This will turn him off. You have apologized and have to play the waiting game. You will have to wait till he kicked the ball to you. Stop chasing him and he will come after you.Don't ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to win him back or is he right and is this for the best??
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, well until last weekend. ?He's in the royal navy and has been serving in the gulf for the last 3 months - due back April next year. Before he went we had a few ups and do...
A. 8 February 2008: I think it is for your best to let him go. You need to respect his decisions. There is no point to love a heart that is dead.
Find a living one that can love you back.... (read in full...)
Is there a chance my teacher might like me as well?...
Q. Hey my name's Lana and I am in love with my highschool teacher. Now please don't say it's infatuation, a stage, a crush or any of that. You can't really tell me what I feel i'm sorry but I've heard that to many times before and I just don't like it ...
A. 8 February 2008: Who can see into the future? Maybe if you manifest right back into his world , you may have a chance. Chance is always there if you know how to make those chances.... (read in full...)
How will I know if I'm ready for another relationship?
Q. I really need some help. Last year I was in an abusive relationship for 8 months (it was my first serious relationship, I am 18 years old). A friend of mine introduced me to his mate a few weeks ago and he got my number of our mate we both share. S...
A. 8 February 2008: When you are ready , you don't have any worries.It comes naturally.
It is not easy to detect an abuser. If he shows displeasure on what he does not like, then most probably he is an abuser. Any controlling or manipulative actions could also rev... (read in full...)
Why would he tell me he still wants to be with me, but not show me?
Q. I recently reconnected with my ex and we ended up spending a really nice evening together. He said that he had been missing me and that he still cared. That was on Sunday and he hasn't called me yet. I can't understand why he would say those things ...
A. 8 February 2008: You can call him and then find out or confirmed your fears.You don't have to fret everyday about his non calling.... (read in full...)
Why can't my ex see he is wasting time with this new woman?
Q. last summer my ex wanted to get back with me we had been together a very long time and had a child together. we had been split up for 8 months when he said he would like to get back with me,i said i needed abit of time to think about it all,and ...
A. 8 February 2008: It is human nature to want what they cannot get. When you can get easily , they have no interest. You have to make yourself unavailable to him.... (read in full...)
Why won't my partner be open about his fantasies?
Q. Recently I found out my partner has been looking at porn and signing up for online dating sites. I had confronted him about this and he said the only reason he is on the dating sites is to look at sexy photos of average women. I asked him why it is ...
A. 8 February 2008: If he likes you or love you , he will open up to you. You have to make him like or love you more..
If what he sees or feels stale about something , there is nothing much you can do except to take a break.... (read in full...)
I can't even think of being with another man, please tell me how I can forget my ex!
Q. he had been my boyfriend for 7 years ,he had been always the one for me,during this 7 years we broke up 2 or 3times and i went for other guys but he was always diffrent so i came back to him,finally we broke up last year ,now i want to forget him ...
A. 8 February 2008: You cannot forget someone who has touched your life. Neither should you idolize someone.Go to some new place and start a new life . You will not be reminded of him and you will be too busy to think of him.... (read in full...)
How do I know if my boyfriend's sexual behaviour is too affected by porn?
Q. How can I know if my boyfriend's sexual behaviour has been "brainwashed" by porn? We're both fairly young so porn was very available during our teenage years. We're also both inexperienced. So he must've learned everything he knows from porn....
A. 8 February 2008: If he starts to criticize you , then it could be from porn. It does not matter if he watch porn or not as long as he wants to sleep with you.... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for her, but am afraid of what my friends will think if I try to rekindle this relationship.
Q. In my junior year of high school I "dated" this girl for about six months. We didn't really go out but we went on dates every so often. Well I moved four hours away my Senior year and had to go to a different high school. In the meantime she got a ...
A. 8 February 2008: Which is more important to you , your friends feelings or the girl you are interested in ?... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my boyfriend. What can I do?
Q. i need help and fast. my b/f wants to break up but i dont think i can stand not having him... i love him soo much. we went on a break that lasted 3 days n now he wants to break up... hes the love of my life and i dont want to lose him how can i keep ...
A. 8 February 2008: If he is bend on leaving, there is nothing you can do about it . You can ask him what will keep him by your side?... (read in full...)
I want to make it work this time, so how do I ease up?
Q. hey guys so me and this girl that have been on and off for the past 2 or 3 years are back on and its all good. We like eachother alot, we have this whole time. well something that always messed stuff up is. I make a problem out of nothing, like ill...
A. 8 February 2008: Will the sun rise tomorrow.? What if the sun does not rise tomorrow? Will you worry tomorrow you are going to die? Nobody knows and you don't have the answers. That is how you should treat your worries.
Do you worry about everything when you shou... (read in full...)
She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?
Q. I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one o...
A. 8 February 2008: You cannot argue with a female. If she thinks it is right , it is right. Period! Argue at your own perils.She will know the truth later.
Thats what you get as a result when she don't agree with you. If you object, it means you come from the dino... (read in full...)
I havent talked to my ex since October, so I don't know if I still care for him or not
Q. the thing is i really really need help. my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 and a half months ago after he hadnt talked to me for ages (it sounds really bad i know)and we live a long way apart but it was going really well. i just cant forget him ...
A. 8 February 2008: The more clingy , you become , the more he will run away from you .You cannot win back your ex though this way.You will have to wait and it could be a long wait and you may wait all your life and he still won't come back to you.
You need to accep... (read in full...)
I don't know how to fully open my heart to this great guy I am with
Q. i was just wondering if anyone would have any advice,for me.i am living with a great guy now and we love each other,but i dont know how to fully open up my heart to him because i fully opend up my heart in the past ,i got really badly burned by a ...
A. 8 February 2008: Open your door slowly and as you get more and more closer, you let him in more and more into your heart.
In love, you give your heart to him and if he does not know how to treasure it, it is very unfortunate and you cannot do anything about it... (read in full...)
Should I tell his girlfriend he was cheating on her with me?
Q. I dated my long-distance boyfriend for four months. His friend told me two days ago that he has had another girlfriend where he lives the whole time. I dumped him when I found out. I know who the girl is. Should I try to contact her and tell her? ...
A. 8 February 2008: Why should she believes you ? If somebody you don't know come to you and claimed your b/f is cheating. How would you take it? To believe him/her just on that statement alone or would you do some little investigation first.After that you can ask him ... (read in full...)
I snogged a boy but now he is telling everyone I wasnt good. Well, he wasnt good either!
Q. Im 13 and i snogged this boy some time ago and even though i hadn't ever done it before i could tell he wasn't very good but i didn't say anything, and becuase it was my first time i wasn't very good either and now he has started to spread it and i ...
A. 8 February 2008: You cannot control his mouth or what he wanted to say.
The best thing is just to ignore what comes out from him and he will soon lose interest.
You don't have to respond and go down the same level as him.
Have more class and dignity than him... (read in full...)
He always puts his adult kids before me and does whatever they want
Q. how do you successfully date an older man that is so much into letting his family control him. his kids do not like me and he doesn't want to upset them so therefore we will never get married. i mean for goodness sakes .don't let them be sad. he ...
A. 8 February 2008: His love for his children is something you cannot take away from him. His children will come first .That is a fact and you should not compete with his children. If you want him, you need to accept this fact that you are only second best.... (read in full...)
How do I go out with this guy I like and not hurt my friend who likes him, too?
Q. Im 13 and really like this boy at school, but one of my best mates does as well. Apparently he likes me as well but i dont know if this is true and i dont want to hurt my friend. Help me plz...
A. 8 February 2008: Go ask your friend if she will mind if you think so highly of your friendship with her.... (read in full...)
What is my friend doing wrong??
Q. My friend wants to know what she is doing wrong. She likes older boys (1-5 years older) and most of them like her too. The problem is they always let her down and she doesn't know what she is doing wrong. They say they don't have a problem with the ...
A. 8 February 2008: Maybe , she expected much from the boys who could not give her what she wanted.
She could be intimidating or needy.
... (read in full...)
Should I take what she said in a bad way??
Q. i have a some pictures on my myspace and my friend said you look really nice and pretty on them she also said "you look so different", should i take that in a good way or a bad way?...
A. 8 February 2008: It means that you are photogenic .It should be taken as a compliment.... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart or not??
Q. hello all, Theres this really nice lad at college and we get on so well, we flirt a bit and kiss and cuddle only as friends. He says he wants more than just friendship from us, i like him loads and don't want to loose him in any way but, i have a b...
A. 8 February 2008: You need to re evaluate your b/f and then decide if you still want to continue or to terminate it. You need to address this issue first.Then you can move on with your life.... (read in full...)
I try to reassure him but nothing seems to stop him doubting me.
Q. I am a wife of 3 months,to a wonderful husband. Only thing that gets me is that he's always accusing me of cheating,when it has NEVER happen. I do my best to assure him that the only other person besides him is God. In past relation...
A. 8 February 2008: Pray to God to touch him and let him see the truth. Be patient and try to minimize any contacts with any males for the time being.... (read in full...)
Ok to date older women?
Q. Im 20 and i have a 2 year old but when she was born i started getting into older women (peoples moms) i've been dating and sleeping with them. Women in there thirties and fourties they're all hot and beautiful i dont know why i find older women ...
A. 8 February 2008: There are no wrongs or rights, you do what you think is right and not what others think is right or wrong.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a stripper
Q. OK well this really isnt a normal scenario although having a girlfriend who is a stripper isnt normal to begin with. Anyways it makes it harder for me since i am in the military. Before i start we are both in our early 20's. I come back from bei...
A. 8 February 2008: She has thought long and hard about it and it won't be easy to sway her opinions. It is about the good money and also about the attractions of the job.
The problem is, if you love her, you close your eyes and let her do what she likes . If you c... (read in full...)
Why do I seem to scare men away? Is there a hidden rule somewhere that I don't know about?
Q. This thing keeps happening to me. I meet someone they flirt, they look for excuses to see me again, we end up having the longest phone conversation and they laugh and giggle and you'd think they like me and then they don't call back or they don't ...
A. 8 February 2008: Don't appear to be needy or clingy or intimidating. You can read tons of materials from this site.
http://www.askmen.com/... (read in full...)
I need to get over my jealousy because it's having such a serious impact on my life.
Q. Help I need to get over my jealousy because it's having such a serious impact on my life. I mainly get jealous of my close friends (the closer they are, the more jealous I feel) and my jealousy makes me want to sabotage the good things they have...
A. 8 February 2008: See No evil, hear No evil and speak No evil!
Pretend you did not see it. If you hear evil, shut your ears and do not speak evil..
Think positive always and the positive will find you.... (read in full...)
My friend and I started getting cosy, but I refused sex, he went into a sulk, I'm not talking to him now, am I right?
Q. so there's this guy i truly care for,but i dont think he feels the same way he's going through a hard time and a separation right now and he has 3 kids.we fooled around and he wanted to have sex but i said no to him evr since that he has had very ...
A. 8 February 2008: He found that you are not available and he may want to seek greener pastures.
If you can over ride your feelings,it is wise to let him know where you stand over this issue.... (read in full...)
I want them to have great lives.
Q. Hello again, My name is Faith and i previously posted a question about my childrens grandmother wanting to take custody of them. First of all thankyou for all your help but i have another question. Ive been thinking alot, and im just wonde...
A. 8 February 2008: I don't think you should part with them in this case. No matter how great or rich their grandmother is , I don't give a damned!
If they really want to give your children a great life, it has to involved you or nothing goes.
When your chi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is getting a divorce, now is having second thoughts, he still loves his ex and me, what do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9mths. When we were friends he was honest to tell me he was divorced (no kids) so when we got together it never crossed my mind again until November 07. He mentioned that he got a divorce letter so I got ...
A. 8 February 2008: You should leave him to allow him the time to think and see who he loves more. If he comes back for you , he is yours.There is not much you can do for him. It is his problem.I wish you all the best.... (read in full...)
...he was watching porn and masturbating, without even asking how I'm feeling!
Q. My boyfriend and I were having sex when I felt a severe abdominal discomfort and I asked him to stop. After taking a rest for about 5 minutes, he wanted to force himself into me again but my pain was still there so I said I didn't want to do it ...
A. 8 February 2008: How would you feel if you were dumped half way though your love making? You are so steamed and he simply could not proceed anymore.
Maybe , the next time , he should go to the WC and jacked it off.... (read in full...)
I am 12 years old. Is it wrong to think about sex and at times want to do it?
Q. ok, i am 12 and i find myself very appealing and so do guys but the thing is i am already thinking about sex. I know i am too young but i think about sex constanly and having a baby and just everything about sex. People say i am an addict to it but ...
A. 8 February 2008: You cannot help what you want to think.Those thoughts can popped up in your mind but you can either let it pass through or you could let them fester in your mind.
Thinking about them is not wrong. It is wrong only when you want to do it because ... (read in full...)
I am finding it hard to trust my boyfriend and it's killing me...
Q. I am finding it very hard to trust my boyfriend and it's killing me, he has kissed another girl and then a few weeks later asked the same girl to dance with him when he knew how I felt. I have also found messages he has sent to other girls telling ...
A. 8 February 2008: You need to learn to trust him and reign in your jealous streaks.You have got to allow some space for his private life and not want to control everything he does. If he flirts with other girls, know it is just for the fun only.You also enjoy some ... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex to notice me again?
Q. I am having a hard time wondering if my ex is still into me. I mean I see him and he flirts a little and he calls once in a blue moon but I don't know. He gives me little signals that want me to think he likes me but I don't know if he does. I ...
A. 8 February 2008: You need to be highly visual in his world and he would take notice of you .You need to be attractive too.Talk to him .The way he responses would tell you his feelings towards you.... (read in full...)
I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?
Q. Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...
A. 8 February 2008: Thanks for your update. You need to communicate and keep the lines open.Sometimes we can misunderstand each other.... (read in full...)
I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...
Q. Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. ...
A. 8 February 2008: You took the separation very well but he took it very badly. He is hurt and that is why he behaved that way. Just leave that incident behind. There is no need to dwell on it anymore. He is not sporting and a sore loser.He will regret those actions ... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 7 February 2008: Just enjoy the attentions and the flirting. Don't take it serious because it could be a girl or a married man or a machine..LOL! There is a Russian Casanova unleashed online and it is a program .... (read in full...)
I'm scared to show my long distance boyfriend my webcam.
Q. I'm scared to get on web cam for my long distance boyfriend. I'm 18 years old and I met my boyfriend off the internet, he lives pretty far away from me, we talk on the phone and we already plan on meeting really soon, sometime in the next month or ...
A. 7 February 2008: Your fears were unfounded and you worried for nothing. Glad you know the truth and it set you free.... (read in full...)
My children's grandmother wants to take custody of them from me!
Q. Hello, My name is Faith and im 21 years old. I have triplet 5 year old girls Their father died 11 months after their birth. 3 days ago his mother demanded that the children went to live with her as im struggling. Im not. I work a part ti...
A. 7 February 2008: Since you have been taking care of them for 4 years, you are a capable person and if this case really goes to the court ,this fact will be taken into considerations.
It is really sad when she acted that way. She should have given you support ... (read in full...)
My children's grandmother wants to take custody of them from me!
Q. Hello, My name is Faith and im 21 years old. I have triplet 5 year old girls Their father died 11 months after their birth. 3 days ago his mother demanded that the children went to live with her as im struggling. Im not. I work a part ti...
A. 7 February 2008: I don't think the courts can take the child away from you but if you have good relations with her, it would be good to have some support from her. Your life would be much easier.
The choice is yours.
... (read in full...)
I'm scared to show my long distance boyfriend my webcam.
Q. I'm scared to get on web cam for my long distance boyfriend. I'm 18 years old and I met my boyfriend off the internet, he lives pretty far away from me, we talk on the phone and we already plan on meeting really soon, sometime in the next month or ...
A. 5 February 2008: If you are planning to meet soon , it is inevitable that he will see you .It is a matter of now you see me or see me later. You cannot run away and it is better that you do it now and see how he will react.
You should be confident and not thin... (read in full...)
I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...
Q. Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. ...
A. 30 January 2008: It is obvious from what you wrote that not only is he not satisfied with what he has or appreciate you but you too have the same malady.
Both of you have very strong drive and it is pulling your relationship in opposite directions. Both of you a... (read in full...)
I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?
Q. Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...
A. 26 January 2008: When anything goes wrong in a marriage, we should not think or blame our partners. The fault lies not in her alone but should be shared. You should analyzed where you did wrong instead of blaming her. Maybe you need to talk and really listen to her ... (read in full...)
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