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We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?

Q.   This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...

A.   18 February 2008: [Quote] "am not mad, i care about you, if i can help, ask. I can be a good friend 4 you. if you need time, space, ok. I am here for you. take care of wonderful you." [Unquote] From this message, you showed that you have no hard feelings , ... (read in full...)

I just don't feel we are functional together...what should I do??

Q.   I am having trouble deciding what to do in my current relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We have been having trouble (miserable around each other) and I moved out of his place into my mother's. He wants to...

A.   7 February 2008: You have to decide if you can find happiness in that relationship. You should not be influenced by his actions. Maybe, you need to be separated for a time to give you a better view and then decide. Lest you become too hasty and did not think ha... (read in full...)

My best friend wants us to be roommates... but I'm in love with her. Should I accept?

Q.   Hello.. Well, a couple of years ago i started a new job where I met this girl, a coworker. we were instantly good friends. a few months into our friendship, i confessed that i liked her, but was shot down. it was a bit awkward at first, but we ...

A.   4 February 2008: There are so many uncertainties in life.Nobody can really predict what happens in the future. We should not be a pessimist but an optimist. It is better to have love and failed then not to love at all.If you are going to extradite a confessi... (read in full...)

Is there any way I can stop getting so nervous??

Q.   Whenever i try and do something i can do, like a trick, i do it perfectly infront of friends, but when im infront of the one i like.... =S disaster strikes, I get too nervous, and i freak out, is there any way to fix it? Or is it just a natural ...

A.   3 February 2008: You become too self conscious in front of that one. You need to imagine she is not there and you become natural. It takes a bit of training to do that.... (read in full...)

What's with all these mixed signals from my ex??

Q.   Hi, I really need some help with my ex-boyfriend and current boyfriend. My ex-boyfriend and I were going out for 9 months, we do love each other and we want a future together. But, the thing is, I dumped him recently because I was having a bit of a...

A.   3 February 2008: Sometimes , people will say one thing and do another thing. Some will say go but in the end they did not go. You need to discern what is from the heart and not what is from the mouth. The mouth can tell lies but the heart cannot. There is your ... (read in full...)

I just don't feel we are functional together...what should I do??

Q.   I am having trouble deciding what to do in my current relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We have been having trouble (miserable around each other) and I moved out of his place into my mother's. He wants to...

A.   3 February 2008: You are more matured than him and you need to call a time out on your relationship to assess your situation from the outside. If you still love him , you can try to make changes in your relationship . If however , you find that he is lacking, you ... (read in full...)

How can I make this feeling go away?

Q.   Please help me I'm in a state. I'm really in love with someone who I had a serious conversation with tonight I now know there is no point whatsoever of trying with him anymore, he has told me he hasn't got feelings for me and never will. Hard to ...

A.   3 February 2008: Time will heal your wounds.You need to forgive him and not hold any anger or grudges against him or anyone. Go out and do those things that you like and enjoy .Go meet your friends and have fun. Soon he will be distant and will not feel the hurt ... (read in full...)

How can I make this feeling go away?

Q.   Please help me I'm in a state. I'm really in love with someone who I had a serious conversation with tonight I now know there is no point whatsoever of trying with him anymore, he has told me he hasn't got feelings for me and never will. Hard to ...

A.   3 February 2008: Time will heal your wounds.You need to forgive him and not hold any anger or grudges against him or anyone. Go out and do those things that you like and enjoy .Go meet your friends and have fun. Soon he will be distant and will not feel the hurt ... (read in full...)

How can I make this feeling go away?

Q.   Please help me I'm in a state. I'm really in love with someone who I had a serious conversation with tonight I now know there is no point whatsoever of trying with him anymore, he has told me he hasn't got feelings for me and never will. Hard to ...

A.   3 February 2008: Time will heal your wounds.You need to forgive him and not hold any anger or grudges against him or anyone. Go out and do those things that you like and enjoy .Go meet your friends and have fun. Soon he will be distant and will not feel the hurt ... (read in full...)

How can I make this feeling go away?

Q.   Please help me I'm in a state. I'm really in love with someone who I had a serious conversation with tonight I now know there is no point whatsoever of trying with him anymore, he has told me he hasn't got feelings for me and never will. Hard to ...

A.   3 February 2008: Time will heal your wounds.You need to forgive him and not hold any anger or grudges against him or anyone. Go out and do those things that you like and enjoy .Go meet your friends and have fun. Soon he will be distant and will not feel the hurt ... (read in full...)

Can Sperm go through material?

Q.   My Boyfriend and i were fooling around the other night ... We both had clothes on . He came but not on me , Can Sperm go through material ? What actually needs to happen for me to fall pregnant ? He said he had none on his hands so i should be...

A.   3 February 2008: Oops! Sorry for the error. Sperms can live in your fallopian tubes for 5 days.... (read in full...)

The early pregnancy scan resulted in the impossibility to see the foetus. Should I be worried?

Q.   I had an early scan on Wednesday when I would have been 8 weeks and 5 days pregnant and the Nurse couldn't find the baby, I don't know why but I am positive I must be having a 'silent' miscarriage. The Nurse told me that it's because my bladder ...

A.   3 February 2008: You can go to this site to view the stages of the fetus;- http://www.paternityangel.com/PicsAndPhotos/FoetalDevelop/1stTrimester.htm Sometimes it depends on what type of scan machine they used. If they are using an older modal , it may not b... (read in full...)

Can Sperm go through material?

Q.   My Boyfriend and i were fooling around the other night ... We both had clothes on . He came but not on me , Can Sperm go through material ? What actually needs to happen for me to fall pregnant ? He said he had none on his hands so i should be...

A.   3 February 2008: Sperm can go through porous clothes .It is not easy to get pregnant but if you are unlucky , it is not impossible to get pregnant. Sperm deposited on the outside of your vagina have slim chances of pregnancy. They have a very long way to swim ... (read in full...)

Can I really truly trust this man?

Q.   my boyfriend is moving into a house and renting a room near where i live to be closer to me. problem is the house is a female friend's of his who he had a one night stand with before he met me. he says i've got nothing to worry about as it was a big ...

A.   3 February 2008: Nope! Don't trust anyone, man or woman.They are mortal ,weak and can succumb to temptations.... (read in full...)

My best friend wants us to be roommates... but I'm in love with her. Should I accept?

Q.   Hello.. Well, a couple of years ago i started a new job where I met this girl, a coworker. we were instantly good friends. a few months into our friendship, i confessed that i liked her, but was shot down. it was a bit awkward at first, but we ...

A.   3 February 2008: She is giving you the opportunity , you should seize it.If she does not like you , she would not ask you to be her room mate.You will have more chances to be with her and see her everyday.It is like a trial marriage. Don't expect her to be ... (read in full...)

We're supposed to be best friends, but he always stands me off for her.

Q.   Okay my best friend keeps telling me he loves me more than anyone in the world, and he says i'm his best friend and everything, but he never calls me or asks me to go shopping with him or anything. but he always asks 'amy' [not real name] to go do...

A.   3 February 2008: Tell him directly that you would like to go shopping with him and stop calling Amy. Then you will know what he said about you is the truth or a lie.... (read in full...)

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

Q.   I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

A.   3 February 2008: Your b/f is a very responsible, honest and kind man. He was caught in a bind and it was not easy for him to extradite from that situation. The light at the end of the dark tunnel for him and for you the sky will shine again. ... (read in full...)

Work is making me very stressed. What can I do about it?

Q.   I'm a 24yr old male, and under alot of stress with work. I've always had lots of hair and strong, and clear skin and as of last year i've noticed my hair taking strain and when i wash my hair i have some hair that stays on the comb, and occasi...

A.   3 February 2008: If you are stressed, exercise can reduce stress.Get enough sleep. For hair loss, it could be due to other factors,You can read all about it here;- http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/men/general/081.html... (read in full...)

He sabotages my efforts, and the time I spend with my kids! Is he abusing me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are having huge problems. I think he's abusing me.(not physically but emotionally)He's 50. And I am finding out he has some possession and control head problems. These issues seem to come out more whenever my family come around. ...

A.   3 February 2008: In a situation where you are in a stale mate, where you want him out but he does not want to move out , you need to make peace with him . You need to negotiate your terms and try to make the best of the situation until you get the backing of the l... (read in full...)

Competition for the same guy is making me angry!

Q.   Hi, I am having an issue with this boy that I fancy. We are in theater together in town, and I really fancy him. We don't go to the same school. We are friends, so I asked him to a dance that was at my school and he said yes and it was a lot of fun. ...

A.   3 February 2008: In life, there is no free lunch . You got to fight for it.You have to be better than her . You need to walk that extra mile for him . Competition will bring out the best from you.Take it as a challenge. ... (read in full...)

What can I do to get my wife to want me?

Q.   Okay, so I've been on here before, seeking help because my wife has (what I consider to be) a low sex drive. Some background...she's 25, I'm 32 and we haven't been married long at all, and we only met a few years ago, but we've never had a heal...

A.   3 February 2008: She comes from a culture of , 'No money No honey!" You have got to talk to her in her language. Maybe you need to remind her that many others would be willing to be in her shoe. She has taken you for granted.... (read in full...)

She is the love of my life, but her ex is in the way

Q.   Last June, I bumped into a girl I once worked with. We never had a relationship at that time - in fact we were both married. A few weeks later, she contacted me saying she was single and miserable (recently broken up from a two-year relatio...

A.   3 February 2008: Man are creatures of habit. We like the old and the familiar unless we have been burnt by it. Many people return to their ex after a period of separation when they could not find an alternative .They long for the familiar things.It is like tho... (read in full...)

I feel like I love him more than he loves me

Q.   This is my third post about the same type of problem with the same person. My boyfriend and I are going on one year of living together and over a year and a half of dating. We from the get-go took our relationship very seriously. Before we even b...

A.   3 February 2008: Respect and trust are the two pillars of a relationship. If these are missing , the relationship does not last. If you want him to love you more, withdraw or pullback and see if he will come after you. Lying is one of the men's vice.This is a b... (read in full...)

His contact with other women is killing my feelings & desires towards him

Q.   I'm a little embarrassed, but I need advise again. My boyfriend continues to have contact with his ex's and I have gotten to the point that I am becoming so resentful towards him, that I am beginning to feel like I am not attracted to him anymore....

A.   3 February 2008: You are welcome! Thanks for having a high opinion of me. LOL! I hope everything works out fine over there. If you laugh, the whole world laughs with you .If you cry , you cry alone. Everyone like to be with those who are happy and nobody lik... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a man who's 14 years older than me, and he's married.

Q.   I'm in love with a man who's 14 years older than me, and he's married. He seemed attracted but I cannot speak for him, so I will just speak for myself. I feel really sad about it, and everyone came hard down on me for it and stuff, telling me to ...

A.   3 February 2008: You are in love with him or you just want to be friends with him? If you are in love with him , it is not appropriate since he is married. You can be friends with him but his wife will surely not like the idea that he keeps seeing you . ... (read in full...)

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

Q.   Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

A.   3 February 2008: I am sorry and apologize if I hurt your feelings.I was saying it figuratively about putting him on the pedestal. To turn on the love , we need to remove all our bias and prejudices and start from a clean new slate. We should not harp anymore ... (read in full...)

I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?

Q.   I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...

A.   3 February 2008: It is only a small mistake .In time, she will realize that she will miss you and want you back.Look at the bigger picture.Call it a time out or winter time or whatever. Just hunker down and wait for summer time. Things maybe brighter..... (read in full...)

How do I get over my obsessions on guys!?

Q.   im obsessed with this guy at work he doesn`t feel the same but how do i get over him i get obsessions on guys quite often and the only way to move on is to find someone else to obsess about....

A.   2 February 2008: Your obsessions are still there, only the target has changed.You need to work in an environment where there are only women.Then you won't have obsessions with guys. But whether your obsessions will change from a guy to a girl is something I cannot ... (read in full...)

His contact with other women is killing my feelings & desires towards him

Q.   I'm a little embarrassed, but I need advise again. My boyfriend continues to have contact with his ex's and I have gotten to the point that I am becoming so resentful towards him, that I am beginning to feel like I am not attracted to him anymore....

A.   2 February 2008: You have a negative perceptions of your b/f and what he does . As a result,you viewed everything he does negatively. It is your envy and jealousy that is getting the better of you . You need to send that green demon back into the dungeons... (read in full...)

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

Q.   Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

A.   2 February 2008: [Quote] How do I turn off feelings and turn them on for my husband? How do you turn off your love when it existed before I even met my husband? Is it possible? [Unquote] Everything is possible if you put your heart into it. If there is a will ... (read in full...)

We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward

Q.   I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so ...

A.   2 February 2008: He treats you like a remote. When he wants you , he just turn you on and when he does not want you , he just turns you off. Throw your remote away. ... (read in full...)

I went with him nine days. Now I am stuck on him but he says its over. What can I do?

Q.   I went out with this guy for 9 days. Only 9 days nothing more. He never talked to me, at least to my face. But when people asked if we were going out he said yeah, so I thought we were, so we were. Anyway I got in to this guy. Then he sent this girl ...

A.   2 February 2008: He is a coward , sending a girl to tell you .Why he cannot come and tell you in your face? These type of guys are a dime a dozen .He is still green behind his ears. Forget him. Real man don't do like that.... (read in full...)

I have a new crush. How can I get close to him?

Q.   I have a new crush. His name is cory. I have known him since last year (8th grade) but I don't really know him. I developed a crush on him 2 weeks ago. I say hi to him and he says hi back or says wasup. I love his personality and his hair. I get ...

A.   2 February 2008: Go talk to him like a friend .If you have nothing to talk , just sit and stare at each other. That can be fun too..Ask him all kinds of questions.What he likes, what he does everyday , what he enjoys doing ...etc.... (read in full...)

Discovered noncommital boyfirend digs porno: is that why there is problems?

Q.   For some reason, my boyfriend has always differed in only one sense regarding having a Christian relationship . . . sex. He is more liberated, claims it is beautiful between two people who love each other, yet believes marriage is not necessary. I ...

A.   2 February 2008: We are all different and we have our own thoughts and philosophies. We may not be able to accept another's opinions or perspectives. Everyone is entitled to their opinions. We can only agree or disagree with them. Whether who is right or wrong, time... (read in full...)

How do I know if I'm good in bed?

Q.   How can I tell if I'm ok in bed? Can I simply tell by somethings that he does? Or should I just get the courage to ask him? Will he think it's weird if I randomly ask how I am in bed? ...

A.   2 February 2008: If he thinks you are good , he would tell you or he would show his love for you.If he only have sex with you , he would not know or can compare whether you are good or better. If he can cum and thinks he can pleasure you ,then he thinks he is go... (read in full...)

Should I leave her for good?

Q.   Okay...I posted on her about my girlfriend way back in November... Here's the recap: She kissed another guy and treated me like dirt for two weeks and nearly put an end to our two year relationship. I could have forgiven it but the other guy never ...

A.   2 February 2008: To leave or not depends on how deep is your love for her. It could be she is enjoying his flirting and attentions which she did not get from you.Would you mind if your g/f flirts with others? If flirting with other guys makes her happy , will you... (read in full...)

Should I leave my husband, I think he is gay

Q.   I have been married for 16 years, and have on a number of occasions found my husband looking at or signing upto gay porn. Recently I have found through looking at his mobile that he has even been calling and texting men he has found on a dating ...

A.   2 February 2008: You are leaving because you think he is a gay! What if you were wrong? Have you got concrete proof? You are leaving him based on your suspicions only? It looks like you are the one that wants to leave . You are justifying your leaving by saying t... (read in full...)

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

Q.   I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

A.   2 February 2008: She can only work that job as stipulated in the visa. Any other job would contravene her visa and she may have her visa canceled and send home. This is right and true. ... (read in full...)

We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?

Q.   This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...

A.   2 February 2008: Thanks for your update. From your description of him, I think he is intimidated by you and secondly he is not in a strong financial position. He does not initiate the phone calls to you and have told you about awful at calling you. The rea... (read in full...)

What should I do about my bfs crush??

Q.   I think my boyfriend of 3.5 years has a crush on another girl and I was wondering what you all think... should I be worried about it? He has never told me and I have never asked but when she is around and he talks to her, I can sense an attraction. ...

A.   2 February 2008: Since it is just a chance meeting and not regular, there is no issue with it. He may like her and that is all. Just like when you meet your men friend whom you like. It does not mean that you are going to have an affair. This is just normal i... (read in full...)

Is this just a passing phase??

Q.   Hi i'm 16 , and i'm a bit lost at the moment. I'm attracted to girls and boys, but i've never really had the chance to experiment with boys. I also like to wear girls clothes. Is this just a passing phase? Will it pass in time? What should i do? ...

A.   2 February 2008: Could be only a passing fad but time will tell.If you can help it, don't wear them.... (read in full...)

Is he trying to tell me something, reading out this text infront of me??

Q.   Hi, There is this guy tht has told me he likes me, but hasn't said it to my face just over msn, this was a few months ago but since he hasnt mentioned anything and has carried on like we are friends. However, there is awkwardness between us and r...

A.   2 February 2008: You are now second best on his list.His feelings for you have waned.... (read in full...)

Betrayed by my best friend and ex...but I still want to be her friend.

Q.   My bf left me for who i thought was my best friend because he said that he had feelings for her. It got to the point where i had to ask him why he even went out with me in the first place and he said he doesn't know. I then asked if he was leaving ...

A.   2 February 2008: It could be her guilt and insecurity or she has a mental problem.... (read in full...)

Torn between two men and when something goes wrong I always run to the other one.

Q.   I have two men in my life and can't choose between them. It is causing me great turmoil, so much so, I have lost my job and I am overall not handling things well. I had (guy 1) as the end all be all. Completely fallin' in love with him and wanted t...

A.   2 February 2008: No person is complete. It is like you need to take both vitamins for your well being.You need the support of both.Do not feel troubled. Those men are not complaining.I am sure you can work out with them as they are.... (read in full...)

I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?

Q.   I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...

A.   2 February 2008: Give her time to reflect on her actions . You have done what is required of you and the ball is at her feet. If she is so petty minded, let her go.... (read in full...)

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

Q.   Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

A.   2 February 2008: [Quote]As for saying that they will realise what a sacrifice you made for them if you stay, NO THEY WONT. They will grow up and have thier own lives and you will be left on your own with the husband that you cannot seem to stand.[Unquote] If th... (read in full...)

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

Q.   Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

A.   2 February 2008: Your heart is only that big and you gave it all to your best friend and you expect your feelings to grow for your husband. Does he has enough space for him to grow in your heart? Did you really tried your best or just lukewarm? Can you really c... (read in full...)

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

Q.   Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

A.   1 February 2008: You can rubbish me all you want , I do not mind but do not rubbish God!.You are committing a blasphemy against God. Watch your words lady. ... (read in full...)

We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward

Q.   I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so ...

A.   1 February 2008: It takes time to know more of each other. He is not a talker for sure.There will be differences and outlooks between you and him.Maybe , he is the moody type.... (read in full...)

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

Q.   I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

A.   1 February 2008: I believe he is telling the truth. He is caught in a jam and it is inhumane to kick her out into the street ,after all they are from the same country and she is his ex.He felt a responsibility for her . It could be their culture to help each other ... (read in full...)

He's helped his ex 100 percent financially for 9 months now. Should I be worried?

Q.   I have asked this question before and everyone said I had nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is from Romania and went to college in the the US. he is graduated and gainfully employed. he dated another Romanian girl for 4 years while in college...

A.   1 February 2008: If he is into her, why does he moved in with you? There is no logic. I think since she comes from his country and in a foreign country, he is helping her only. She is like a relative to her and he felt he needed to help her.She could be taking a... (read in full...)

I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?

Q.   I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...

A.   1 February 2008: Go to her with a bouquet of flowers and apologize for your mistake. Hope she forgives you and everything will be back to normal.... (read in full...)

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

Q.   Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

A.   1 February 2008: You may think the grass is greener on the other side and this is what is clouding your eyes .When you have such a feeling, you will not appreciate what you have at the moment. You will be uncontented, unfulfilled and unhappy. You think it is a ... (read in full...)

I'm married but I want to be with my ex. How can I do this without causing damage to my kids?

Q.   Here's the situation. I love my ex. I always have and know I always will. Always felt he is the love of my life. We recently acknowledge our true feelings. Problem is I'm married. Miscommunications and a broken heart lead me to my husband to ...

A.   31 January 2008: Your dilemma is do you love your daughter or your ex more? If you love your daughter more, you will have to suppress your urge for your ex. You can still be friends with you ex until your daughter grows up . That is the sacrifice you will have to ... (read in full...)

We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?

Q.   This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...

A.   21 January 2008: That is well done. Now,the ball is at his feet.Your waiting game begins.... (read in full...)

We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?

Q.   This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and ...

A.   20 January 2008: It is not he is not interested in you but he wanted to know if you have the same interest in him by calling him up.He wanted you to initiate the call.This would prove to him of your interest in him.He wanted to seek further confirmations.This is ... (read in full...)

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