Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 23 February 2008: You mutually parted and good for you . You can throw away all his baggage and fly again. Good Luck and enjoy!... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 12 February 2008: You could bring a friend along to accompany you .Remember not to accept any lift from him .Be careful your drinks is not spiked.
Type this address in your search window to go to Google.
http://www.google.com/... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 12 February 2008: You should not feel guilty to meet another man. You have done nothing wrong.You are just checking out some facts and you have not committed anything yet.
If you don't meet him, you will never know if he is real or not.
Get his real name and ad... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 12 February 2008: You have a tremendous amount of generosity and forgiveness of your b/f's excesses. He is not worthy of your love and yet you still love him.Are you an angel?
If others can be like you , I think this Dear Cupid site will have to close shop. LO... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 12 February 2008: [Quote]
But i think this site would fall flat on its face if couples had to give both sides of a given story.
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This must be another of your quality advice. Thank you.... (read in full...)
Is this true love? How can I get my ex back?
Q. I really love my ex-boyfriend now,I dont know what to do how can i forget him,I promise to my self that his my first and the last one that i love eventhough some guys are courting me now but i dont like them coz there different of my ex bf...its ...
A. 12 February 2008: If he is yours , no one can take it away from you.He may not be there by your side but his memories will be cherished eternally.
Some day he will come back and don't lose hope.I pray for you and that you will be together again soon.
Thank y... (read in full...)
I care too much for him but at the same time I want my family's approval, only that my parents disapprove of my bf! Please advise.
Q. Please, I really need some advice on this topic I am 21 years old and come from a pretty traditional Italian family. I live at home since I am finishing up my degree. Recently I started dating this guy from work and am crazy about him! He ma...
A. 11 February 2008: It is very sad when parents don't approve of their daughters b/f. Some traditional families frown on inter marriages and they can even go to the length of ex communicating their children .
Parents should think of their children's happines... (read in full...)
I care so much about his feelings that I don't mention mine, thinking they'd turn him away. That is emotionally exhausting!
Q. The man i am dating has mentioned once that he doesn't want to get married. On the other hand i told him that i want to get married. After our disagreement before 2 months i haven't speak again clearly about this matter but he however mentions ...
A. 11 February 2008: This is not true love. If you have to hide your true feelings from him , you are living in a world of deceit. This can cause you emotional, psychological and mental problems.It can wear you down.
You want to date ,in view marriage but he just wan... (read in full...)
He sounded really funny on the phone when I called him, should I be worried?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time. Recently we went on a break but that only lasted a couple days and we're back together again but it seems like things have changed a little. Okay, a lot! I hung out a couple nights ago and ...
A. 11 February 2008: He could be having some second thoughts or his mind is facing some mental problems or he is confused.... (read in full...)
Is his invoked reason valid? How can I know?
Q. I have this guy that says he likes me a lot, He lives about 400 miles away from me. He wants himself to be the only man in my life, and he says I'm his future wife. But he says the only reason that were not dating is because of our distance from ...
A. 11 February 2008: Faith without works is dead. You can proclaim anything but it is meaningless when you don't do what you said.
It is just like a pledge and nothing more.Don't think he is serious about it.... (read in full...)
Is this an example of me disregarding my bf again??
Q. I have been with my partner for almost 18 years - it's been pretty rocky at patches but we've always pulled through. My family and my boyfriend have never got on. My mother died a year ago and there have been all sorts of complications with the...
A. 11 February 2008: When you totally disagree with a person , it means that you do not accept his views and you over ride his objections.
This can be taken as disregarding him.
If you partially agreed to some of his conditions, then you cannot be said to disregard... (read in full...)
Confused about this guy...why are his friends saying I could do better??
Q. I'm so confused! I think he likes me but I'm not sure. At first my friends say go for it and now they are pushing me away from him! What should I do? Apologies if my question is too long or doesn't make sense at times; I'm really confused. I like t...
A. 11 February 2008: Sometimes friends can mean well but they don't know what really goes inside of you .
You could ignore your friends remarks and just observe or trust your own intuitions.... (read in full...)
My friend's ex likes me, should I go for it?
Q. My friend's ex boyfriend likes me. he and my friend broke up over a year ago. the thing is I am also attracted to him, but this will hurt my friend? So should I or shouldn't I pursue it?...
A. 11 February 2008: If she is no more with him. She has no right to feel hurt. She maybe concerned for you because of him.
Do you value your friend more or this man? You will have to decide.
Or
Which is more important to you, your happiness or her happine... (read in full...)
I feel like a "Homewrecker" should I tell his wife?
Q. Firstly I want everyone to know that this wasn't planned it just happened. I'm a uni student and to make some extra cash I began babysitting for a local couple. They're a great family but the father, who is 28, I was told was a bit of a player. ...
A. 11 February 2008: You committed a grave mistake even though you had no intentions to be a home wrecker, but you became a victim of circumstances due to alcohol and close proximity with a man.
The only way you can carry your head high is to quit your job and work... (read in full...)
Does a cheater deserve a second chance?
Q. My husband had an affair with his best friend but he says it never got physical. He admits his fault and wants me back. Should I give him a chance?? How do I guarantee that it will not happen again??...
A. 11 February 2008: Everybody deserves a second or a third chance.
For the first time, everyone make mistakes and they have not encountered such an incident.They failed the test.
For the second time,they may have tried their best and still failed.
Thats... (read in full...)
Do people who were abused lash out?
Q. I am so thankful that I finally got out of an abusive relationship I was in. He was emotionally abusive, for example he would get very angry if i didn't smoke or drink or sleep with him, he never respected me, and there's really so much more. And I ...
A. 11 February 2008: It is not your fault but the fault is , you were at the wrong place, wrong time and with the wrong man.
Most men respect a woman who can stand up to them. A woman who lets her man abuses them do not get the respect and admiration of the man ,the... (read in full...)
I made my bed now I have to sleep on it
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend. We'd been having issues for almost a year. However, I love him with all my heart and didn't wanna leave him but he left me no choice. Actually, we've broken up a lot of times, and usually came back together after a...
A. 11 February 2008: If you want to have peace, you will have to accept the reality of the situation and try to make peace with your surroundings.
Forgive those who have hurt you and ask forgiveness from those you have hurt in the past. Do not keep any grudges ... (read in full...)
Am I going over the top being so opinionated with him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now. We always have fights and disagreements and we quarrel sometimes. I must admit we are both strong characters and when we get angry we both hit the roof. I am now feeling drained about the ...
A. 11 February 2008: I think redecorating his new home is a NO! NO!. He wont appreciate your involvement with his things. Don't ever touch his things or he would rave like mad. You won't be appreciated for tidying or decorating his place. Better to keep your hands off ... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 11 February 2008: Be careful of online friends. You don't know who they really are until you meet them in real life.They could be married or conman on the prowl.
Do some background checking first.... (read in full...)
He says I'm forcing him to marry me
Q. He says that i am forcing him to marry me. These are the words of a very strong man....
A. 11 February 2008: He maybe strong physically but weak mentally. If you are coming on strongly , then you could appear to be forcing that issue.... (read in full...)
I don't want to break the friendship
Q. well here the problem , i really fancy and love this girl(A) to bits and we want to be with her, but my best friend who is also a girl(B) wer not attracted and anyway but really good mate hates the guts out of her(A). i really want to be with ...
A. 11 February 2008: Give each girl a half of you ......
Girl B hates girl A's guts. You have eyes but you don't see. If you like A why B cannot like A ? It is because both of them are females and you are the male in between.
You do not have a choice. You can ... (read in full...)
How faithful are men really?
Q. this is 1 for the guys can a lepord really change its spots ? my bf has cheated and sent flirty messages to toher girls and met up with girls behind my back will he change like he says he will do or will this carrie on ? from a mans point of view i ...
A. 11 February 2008: Well! I would say a dog is more faithful than a man. LOL!
If a man wants to be faithful, he can but if you want to be absolutely sure he remains faithful forever to you , you need to go and live on an island where you are the only gorgeous... (read in full...)
I don't know if she feels the same way
Q. hi, i think im in love with a girl but i'm not sure she feels the same way. i am currently talking to her on a regular basis, but i don't know what to do, please help...
A. 11 February 2008: Keep on talking till the world ends. Somewhere along the way , she will tell you. Can you notice any changes in her?Do you find her more beautiful or she pays more attention to her looks and attires?
Do you feel she is treating you in a special ... (read in full...)
How to make him more confident?
Q. my boyfriend seems really nervous in bed. hes not like other guys wanting sex all the time and he dosent really experiment. how to i make him more confident and relax without talking to him about it beacause i think that would embarasse him....
A. 11 February 2008: You will be his sex teacher . You don't have to say anything.It is like the silent movies. Your actions will speak for themselves.
Slowly lead and if he finds uncomfortable then don't do it. Try again another time till he finds it OK.
Take hi... (read in full...)
Should I just hope for the best or move on
Q. My x boyfriend and i dated eachother for 4 years and we have a child together. When i broke up with him it was just to scare him into shape you knowhelp around the house work more and pay more attention to me. Well since than wehave been on and off. ...
A. 11 February 2008: Since he has a g/f , you have two options.
You can wait till his new g/f dumps him because he will commit the same mistakes or he has not learned from his mistakes.
or
You can move on with your life and leave him by the wayside. Go out and... (read in full...)
I want my man to use a gigantic toy on me without offense. Will he?
Q. I recently visited a toy store and found a gigantic toy penis I want inside me on those fantasy days, especially when I am with my man. But, I am concerned because it is so big, oddly big, that he might get offended instead of turned on by my ...
A. 11 February 2008: You will have to ask him as not all men think alike.Take him to that toy shop and show him that thing. If he agrees then you take it home.Better to consult him first.
... (read in full...)
He isn't open to suggestions.
Q. Dear Cupid- I am a 25 year old woman with lets just a say a good sexual past. My Husband is older and doesn't quite have the statistics that I have. And he's very sensitive about the topic of Sex. I want sex to last longer and be a little more ad...
A. 11 February 2008: Actions speaks louder than words.
You will need to be patient and slowly lead and teach him.Be gentle and go slow.Reward him when he does what you want from him.... (read in full...)
I tried speaking to him but not getting anywhere
Q. Hey guys, I've been with my husband for 5 years but only married for 5 months. We have a little boy together which I love more then life itself. Since we've been married I've been extremly unhappy. He smokes marijana everyday, sometime more then onc...
A. 11 February 2008: If you have spoken to him and getting no where ,it means that your way of communicating to him is ineffective. You need to try to use another way to communicate to him.
You can rant all you want , and he will never really listen except to think yo... (read in full...)
I'm scared to ask her out.
Q. theres this girl in my school and im sure i love her but im too scared to ask her out and before i asked her out on a date but i had to cancell and now im convinced that ive blowen my chances with her...
A. 11 February 2008: Are you scared of girls? So just invite her out and if she rejects you , you can try again another day. One day she will accept your invitations.
Take any rejections in your stride . Treat it like a mosquito bite and move on.... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: [Quote]
He cheated on you. Why would u want to be with him again? He can cheat on you again.
[Unquote]
This is a stereotype answer. Not everyone is the same. Maybe, the one who said this will cheat again but it does not mean that others will... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: I am glad you are now back and you did not have to apologize.But if you were to apologize to him ,it would make a bigger difference to your relationship. It is better to be humble than to have pride. Pride is the downfall of many. You broke up ... (read in full...)
Husband blames me for his abusive behaviour saying he is not happy due to my weight. My situation makes me depressed.
Q. I was so glad to see all the Answers replying to weight-related questions because I have been upset many times by my partner telling me I am 'fat'. I was bigger than I am now when I met him 3 yrs ago) and have lost a couple of stone in the last 2 ...
A. 10 February 2008: Waterloo Sunset,
I really like your post.I cannot help laughing at the way you expressed it. You are one hell of a women !What a strong language !LOL!... (read in full...)
I let real love slip right by me, and now I'm down and out. How can I get through this?
Q. I think I have messed up my entire life because I followed my head and not my heart and rejected a man who really loved me, and who I loved, not once but many times. Now I feel cursed, actually. My whole life has gone down the toilet and I am homel...
A. 10 February 2008: There is no use to rue over missed opportunities. You can cry rivers of tears and it will not bring him back.
Do you want to wallow in your pool of self pity?
Time and tides waits for no man.If you fall down , pick yourself up again.
No one... (read in full...)
My husband has had an affair for the past year.
Q. 5 weeks ago I found out that my husband (we've been married 21 years)had an affair last year. He says that it is over and is trying very hard to make ammends. we talk a lot and are going to relate. He has told lots of lies and last week I found that ...
A. 10 February 2008: What i find hard to understand is a woman who would deliberatly have sex with a man they knew was married?
Those women want to feel that they are much better than the wife.Married men are more appealing because of their experience and outlook.... (read in full...)
Should I let her promiscuous past bother me? I cannot help but think nastily about her in this regard.
Q. Alright, i need some input just to get my head straight: i have been dating this girl for about 8 months, and i am very much in love with her. I think she is a wonderful person and i actually for the first time in my life can see myself marr...
A. 10 February 2008: If you can accept her and her past, carry on with her.Like she said, get over it.
If you can accept her but not her past, then you ought to give her up.You don't love her enough. Your love is too shallow -for love is blind.It becomes real love whe... (read in full...)
Is this true love? How can I get my ex back?
Q. I really love my ex-boyfriend now,I dont know what to do how can i forget him,I promise to my self that his my first and the last one that i love eventhough some guys are courting me now but i dont like them coz there different of my ex bf...its ...
A. 10 February 2008: You don't really appreciate the value of someone till they are gone.Then you start to find that you missed them a lot .
Is there any way you can contact him? If he is some where in outer space, then you can only hope that your destiny cross pa... (read in full...)
He texted me and told me to leave him alone because he is physically and emotionally drained... what do I do?
Q. I met a man online, and we clicked right away. We had our first date, and things went beautifully. On our second date, my family showed up, and needless to say it was awkward. The next day he called and cancelled our third date, stating his dad ...
A. 10 February 2008: Send him a get well message and wished him a speedy recovery.Period!
If he calls again, then you may give him another chance. If he does not call, then you can say goodbye to him.... (read in full...)
Help me please and quickly!
Q. Please help me and fast!!! I'm going to the movies with this girl I really like but I'm going to be the only guy there and she's coming with a bunch of her friends. What do I do?!!!!...
A. 10 February 2008: You will be the thorn among all the roses. Just smile and step your best foot forward.... (read in full...)
I want to have a skinny sillouette, yet the dangers of Anorexia scare me! Please, any advice?
Q. I really need your help. Ive watched a tv programme about Anorexia and for some stupid reason i want to be skinny like them. I looked up all the dangers of Anorexia and now im really torn, i dont want to die and i do want to have kids but i want to ...
A. 10 February 2008: Don't follow those magazines portrayal of a beautiful women who have size '0'.They looked like they just come out of a German concentration camp.They are all skins and bones.
I don't know why they see beauty in a scarecrow. It is sickenin... (read in full...)
Is my mate interested in being more than a mate with me or am I way off here?
Q. About a year and a half ago I went on a date with this guy. It didn't work out but we remained friends. He is such a good friend that I take all my dating problems to him and vice versa. Anyways just lately I have agreed to go on a date with a gu...
A. 10 February 2008: Most single men do not befriend a girl to be just a friend only.It is only the girls who judge them whether they become friends only or potential mates.
Once the men are put into the friends category , they become blind to any overtures or they ... (read in full...)
Sex films and best mates
Q. My wife often lets me film her perform sexual acts on herself and me. I had never considered showing them to anyone until one day she told me I could show them to my best friend aslong as I pretended she didn't know. At first I was shocked by this....
A. 10 February 2008: When words get around or your 'movie' falls into another's hand and it gets uploaded on You Tube or in hand phones, it would be a disaster.... (read in full...)
She will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak, what should I do?
Q. I'm 16 and a virgin. Everyone is doing it accept me but the thing is I have a small penis and it's wonky so I'm too scared to get with a girl cause when she wants sex she will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak. What should I do?...
A. 10 February 2008: Learn how to romance and love a girl and those techniques to arouse them . This will compensate for your other department.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 10 February 2008: When he talks, you just appear to listen but your attention is not there.He will see that you are not interested to talk. Just answer in mono syllables .... (read in full...)
Husband blames me for his abusive behaviour saying he is not happy due to my weight. My situation makes me depressed.
Q. I was so glad to see all the Answers replying to weight-related questions because I have been upset many times by my partner telling me I am 'fat'. I was bigger than I am now when I met him 3 yrs ago) and have lost a couple of stone in the last 2 ...
A. 9 February 2008: If a man loves you , he will accept who and what you are..When there is no love, whatever you do will come to naught. You have already gone down in weight but he has increased his pressure on you.
The issue here is not your body but his abusive ... (read in full...)
My gf has openly told me she cuddles and kisses her ex, and will glorify how much he loves her, etc. Do I leave her??
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months now and she is amazing. For a month she blew me away, she was nothing but the greatest person on Earth and I even proposed to her. I know I'm young, but I can deal. Anyway, she al...
A. 9 February 2008: This is definitely not a good situation to be in. If you have tried and she ignores you , then you need to shake her up . If you had enough, then you will have to decide if you want to dump her or ignore her ramblings.... (read in full...)
Do I have to tell him that I want more than friendship?
Q. i have a real problem and am confussed as well.2 years ago i meet a man but we were leaving so far; him in usa me in africa but in the first year he came for holidayz .Returning in usa he remain to call me we really keep in touch.now he is here in ...
A. 9 February 2008: If you are not going to tell him , he will never know. If you tell him , then you will know where you stand in his heart.... (read in full...)
Loving him has changed me but haw can I change him?
Q. i like a boy and he likes me ,i know that from a freind but his freind likes me too .and the boy i like doesn't want his freind to get mad at him for dating me (i don't like his freind) i really wanna date him and love him but i can't what should i ...
A. 9 February 2008: You could give his friend the cold shoulder and he would get the message.When you are all together, you can show who you like .His friend will back off.... (read in full...)
Husband blames me for his abusive behaviour saying he is not happy due to my weight. My situation makes me depressed.
Q. I was so glad to see all the Answers replying to weight-related questions because I have been upset many times by my partner telling me I am 'fat'. I was bigger than I am now when I met him 3 yrs ago) and have lost a couple of stone in the last 2 ...
A. 9 February 2008: He is mentally and emotionally abusing you . You don't have to take his BS. Stand up to him and if he continues, leave him for a period of time and he will know how to appreciate you .
Don't play his blame game.... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 9 February 2008: Even if she does not want him back , she has to apologize and forgive him to heal her hurt.This is part of the healing process.You forgive and asked for forgiveness.
If she does not apologize or forgive him , she will have no peace and will be ... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 9 February 2008:
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How can saying sorry to a guy thats cheated and blamed you, and ask his FORGIVENESS???? be a good quality advice?
[Unquote]
I think you need to read her question thoroughly. She does not want to break up with him and want him back.Sh... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 8 February 2008: You asked how to get him back. I don't see where I am rude. If you think my answer is rude, that is OK. You may not like the truth. It does not matter.
Your question ask for an answer and some people are too judgmental. Did you ask for their op... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 7 February 2008: Just enjoy the attentions and the flirting. Don't take it serious because it could be a girl or a married man or a machine..LOL! There is a Russian Casanova unleashed online and it is a program .... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 7 February 2008: The only thing is for you to apologize to him and admit that you were hasty and asked for his forgiveness.Be humble and then hope that he will forgive you.
... (read in full...)
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