Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 23 February 2008: You mutually parted and good for you . You can throw away all his baggage and fly again. Good Luck and enjoy!... (read in full...)
It's all such a mess, I was told my husband cheated on me and threw him out, now I've found out he didn't!
Q. I have been with my husband for almost 7 1/2 years now... we've been married for almost 4. We have two sons, one 5 1/2, and the other is 1 1/2. He was my high school sweetheart, and we've been through so much. He was in the Marine Corps, and is such ...
A. 15 February 2008: All's well that ends well!
I am glad and happy for you that everything is bright and shinning again in your life.
Take care!... (read in full...)
It's all such a mess, I was told my husband cheated on me and threw him out, now I've found out he didn't!
Q. I have been with my husband for almost 7 1/2 years now... we've been married for almost 4. We have two sons, one 5 1/2, and the other is 1 1/2. He was my high school sweetheart, and we've been through so much. He was in the Marine Corps, and is such ...
A. 14 February 2008: Time will heal all your hurts and pains. Just be good and nice to him like a good wife should be.
It will return back to normal in time.... (read in full...)
Which one of us should make the first move after our row?
Q. What is the best thing to do after a bad argument with your long term boyfriend in terms of who makes the peace gestures. My bf walked out on me after a big argument which he started due to being in a bad mood. He said it was all over and he was ...
A. 13 February 2008: Thanks Anon,just some common sense only.LOL!
Behind a hard facade lies a soft heart.
What you see is not what you get.
You need to look deeper into their souls.
A small boy inside of him crying for help.
... (read in full...)
Over 10 times a cheater...now I feel I can live without him.
Q. My boyfriend has cheated over ten times in our home and outside our house. Its always sex and talking on the phone; he says he loves me everyone says its true you can tell he loves you more then anything but nobody can explain or undersand why he ...
A. 13 February 2008: What you feel and what you do are two different things.
You may feel you can live without him but when you really leave him and be on your own , your feelings may not be the same.
You many want him back like so many posters here who regrett... (read in full...)
I feel like I have made a fool of myself...and there is an age gap too...what should I do??
Q. Im 16 i have been talkin to this guy online; i added him on facebook. Anyway, his profile said 20 but i thought i'd add him anyway. Somehow theres been an error in my account and its been displaying me as 19. We got talking and really clicked....
A. 13 February 2008: If he calls again , then he is OK .You are just friends and you can be friends with anyone no matter how old.... (read in full...)
I'm sick of men!
Q. Why do they always have to lead you on then break your heart? Please answer me that. I totally changed who I am for this guy. The way we met was weird but we've been seeing each other since August. Now he's been seeing some lassie(who is a total ...
A. 13 February 2008: There are The Good, The Bad and The Ugly ! If you took a bite on a rotten apple,it does not mean the whole barrel is bad.
If you always get the rotten apples, there must be something wrong with your taste or your method of picking them. LOL!... (read in full...)
It's all such a mess, I was told my husband cheated on me and threw him out, now I've found out he didn't!
Q. I have been with my husband for almost 7 1/2 years now... we've been married for almost 4. We have two sons, one 5 1/2, and the other is 1 1/2. He was my high school sweetheart, and we've been through so much. He was in the Marine Corps, and is such ...
A. 13 February 2008: Just be frank and sincere and tell your husband that you made a big mistake , apologize to him and seek his forgiveness.Since he love you , I think he will accept you back.
You should have checked and verified those rumors first before you take... (read in full...)
Why do I feel really sad???
Q. Can somebody help me? I really don't know what's up with me. I feel so low and empty. I find myself wishing I could make everybody around me happy, to see them content - I know this is an impossible wish. Over the last 3 years my strong and bubb...
A. 13 February 2008: In your hour of despair , there is nobody who can help you except Jesus.Give your life to Him and your life will change for the better.We need His strength to make us whole again.
Sometimes , there are no right answers to every question or why t... (read in full...)
I don't wanna be in love!!! Pleasssse help!!
Q. There's this one guy that I like a lot but he's what people would consider a dork but he's really nice and hilarious. All my friends give me weird looks whenever they see him. You don't understand how many times I've tried to give up on him!!! I ...
A. 13 February 2008: It is what you think and not the world think. The world moves whether you think or not. You are too self conscious.
As long as you are happy, why do you care what other's think?... (read in full...)
Now I'm ready for something real and I want it to be with one of these guys, should Ii bother waiting for either of them?
Q. I'm really discouraged with this love thing lately, there is one guy who we really have something going on the chemistry thing but he lives far away from me we talk occasionally but I really want to be with him on the other hand I really care about ...
A. 13 February 2008: It is as good as they are living in another planet.I don't think it will bear any fruit. Put them into the cold storage room.... (read in full...)
I want him to take this to the next step--what can I do?
Q. At the moment, I really like this guy but I haven't a clue what to do about it. We flirt online and constantly text each other but I don't know how to take it a step further, as I want him to make the effort of asking me to hang out with him so that ...
A. 12 February 2008: Get to meet him and you will find ways to do things together.... (read in full...)
Can I trust him not to be a cheater like his best mate?
Q. i have being with my partner for 9 months. when we first got together we were so happy. he lost touch with his best friend and we had a great time. have being on holiday and generally enjoyed each others company. his best friend has now came bac...
A. 12 February 2008: It could be a prank,joke or character assasinations. You should not read too much in those posts.You need to filter those messages.... (read in full...)
He broke up with me and wants to be friends! But he asks me to talk dirty and web cam with him. Help!
Q. *SIGHHH* Okay me and my boyfriend just broke up, he said I can move back in April.. but said that right now we're just friends what does this mean? He asks me to cam with him and talk dirty with him, but when I ask him he says no... What does this ...
A. 12 February 2008: It means you pay for your own expenses and you take care of your own self.... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of stress?
Q. I'm 18 and I get stressed really easily. Can you please suggest ways to get rid of stress....
A. 12 February 2008: Exercise is a good way to de stress because it takes your mind of the problems and you feel more relax.
You can Google that question and find all the answers there.... (read in full...)
Is my emotionally abusive ex bf, finally getting over me?
Q. I broke up with my emotionally abusive ex fiance about 4 months ago, and since then i've had to change my number because he wouldn't leave me alone. anyway, i used to live with him, so my tax forms were sent to his house, and yesterday he sent them ...
A. 12 February 2008: He sounds like he is over your break up with him.He feels normal now.He has come to terms with the situations.... (read in full...)
Which one of us should make the first move after our row?
Q. What is the best thing to do after a bad argument with your long term boyfriend in terms of who makes the peace gestures. My bf walked out on me after a big argument which he started due to being in a bad mood. He said it was all over and he was ...
A. 12 February 2008: Who should say sorry first?
The one that is rational or level headed should do the apologizing to clear up the obstacle in their relationship.
This person should not care whether whose fault it is but to get the relationship back on the high... (read in full...)
I married to help my family, but now I'm so unhappy! Help!
Q. I've been married for about a year and a half now.I was just 17 when i was married to my husband who were 30 years older than i am.We've met in a "Male Order Bride Agency"..i did that because of my familys financial problems and others. I wasn't his ...
A. 12 February 2008: When you ventured into this mail order brides, you know your fate. You cannot choose how or what you want from your man . You cannot be choosy. You have to accept whatever comes and try to make the best from your marriage to him.
It is not easy... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 12 February 2008: You could bring a friend along to accompany you .Remember not to accept any lift from him .Be careful your drinks is not spiked.
Type this address in your search window to go to Google.
http://www.google.com/... (read in full...)
Should I try to find another way to let my classmate know I like him? How?
Q. hello, i'm 14 and have a crush problem. i really like this guy in my class. so one weekend when i was at a friends house i had her call him to see if he liked me "without me knowing". it turned out he never answered so she left some voice mails...
A. 12 February 2008: He could be shy and won't look into your eyes.You could look into his eyes and see inside .
He could stutter when he talks.By talking to him, you can feel him out whether he likes you or not. Whether he enjoys talking to you or not.
... (read in full...)
I can't quit shaking when he's around
Q. Is it possible to have a very short relationship and connect on a level of intimacy that literally makes you shake (no, vibrate is more the correct word, i think), as soon as you are around that person? And I dont mean butterflies when you like ...
A. 12 February 2008: Actually , some men do not notice it while some men find it amusing or ego boasting when they see you shake.LOL!
Whoa! The men can feel the power over you. The ground can shake and your knees become weak.
Just like beautiful girls see the me... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 12 February 2008: You should not feel guilty to meet another man. You have done nothing wrong.You are just checking out some facts and you have not committed anything yet.
If you don't meet him, you will never know if he is real or not.
Get his real name and ad... (read in full...)
A simple question, why are guys afraid of commitment?
Q. why do guys get close and then run a mile?? im soooo confused?? guys help me out here for gods sake.!! thanks....
A. 12 February 2008: When the guys learn that the women are very needy or clingy , insatiable and high maintenance, they will scoot off !... (read in full...)
Do I go or should I stay...?
Q. Hi im writing to get some advice coz really don't know wat to do... I'm in a relationship for 2 years and still not sure whether he is the one... We've had great time but it hasn't started as I'd like it to start... We've met in a club and he ...
A. 12 February 2008: If you cannot answer that question , don't try because there is no answer to that question for now.
Call a time out or a break with him. You may need a few months or a year to find this answer.
Tell him , you want to explore the world first ... (read in full...)
Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work?
Q. Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work? or should I just be happy with the fact that "he is trying". He has been "trying" for 2 years now and he still needs help to keep clean....
A. 12 February 2008: There are no hard and fast rules . It is a matter of compromise . You cannot split the chores 50% down the center. It is no more a marriage but a business partnership.
What happened to the love?... (read in full...)
Long distance boyfriend cheating.
Q. Okay, so here's the deal: About a week ago I found out that my long-distance boyfriend of 4 months was cheating on me the whole time we were dating. He had another girlfriend where he lived who knew about me and said he "needed someone better"....
A. 12 February 2008: Do you think such a situation is tenable? Can you accept that logic? He has someone there besides him while you are somewhere in outer space.
If you really love him , you could be blind to this fact.... (read in full...)
Can only orgasm during masterbation
Q. I am 25 and can only orgasm from masturbation. I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but it's frusturating and we change positions and try new things?! help.......
A. 12 February 2008: Most women orgasm only through the stimulations of the clitoris orally or manually by hand. Show him how you can orgasm.... (read in full...)
I don't want her to end up heartbroken like me
Q. I have a big problem...my ex nows has a nice and very sweet new girlfriend...and it just breaks my heart to see him treat he wrong...i mean he has tried to sleep with my while he has been with her..and he says he's in love with her..but still texts ...
A. 12 February 2008: When he walks out of your life and your world, it is the end of him .Period! You are not the keeper of his soul or his g/f's.
Focus your attentions on your own self .
It is unproductive to waste your limited resources to think of them as... (read in full...)
Weak for him
Q. i miss my ex.i see him everyday,everytime i see i burn inside.we'd never work out,i know i cant and i shouldnt go back to him,but im afraid ,everytime he decides he wants me back i always run back to him,always.if he were to come to me ,im afraid ...
A. 12 February 2008: Why can't you work out? What is your problem ? You need to tackle one problem at a time.Don't have to break up because you don't see eye to eye on some issues.... (read in full...)
I can't quit shaking when he's around
Q. Is it possible to have a very short relationship and connect on a level of intimacy that literally makes you shake (no, vibrate is more the correct word, i think), as soon as you are around that person? And I dont mean butterflies when you like ...
A. 12 February 2008: It is only temporary as your body goes into an involuntary spam..LOL! Try to sit down or don't hold anything when he is around.... (read in full...)
Afraid what others will think if I get back with him
Q. My boy friend broke up with me 4 days ago, but then called me. We had a long talk and he told me how much he missed me and how I was the only one for him. All my friends tell me to let go because I deserve a better guy, but I think I still like him. ...
A. 12 February 2008: Your friends may give meaningful advises but whatever you do , it will be you who will have to bear the consequences.
Are you a crowd pleaser or are you your own master?
You know what is best for yourself. ... (read in full...)
I can't walk away from my partner and yet I love this other man so much!
Q. I have been in a 5 year relationship which has dwindled to companionship and financial ties to my partner. I do love him, but I am afraid to leave and the upheaval it would bring. I met someone last year through work and fell madly in love with him ...
A. 12 February 2008: Many men can be one or the other , a breadwinner or a Casanova. It is rare to find both in a man.
You want his money and his time . Which do you love more?... (read in full...)
Shall I continue talking to this man?
Q. Hi, i registered for online dating 3 days ago and messaged a selection of guys my own age,(26) and got no response, and got messages from some unsuitable people. i was just about to write it off when i received a message from a guy who it said ...
A. 12 February 2008: If he cannot be your mate , you can still gain a good friend or companion. As long as you enjoy his friendship, there is no harm knowing him as a friend.... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 12 February 2008: You have a tremendous amount of generosity and forgiveness of your b/f's excesses. He is not worthy of your love and yet you still love him.Are you an angel?
If others can be like you , I think this Dear Cupid site will have to close shop. LO... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 12 February 2008: [Quote]
But i think this site would fall flat on its face if couples had to give both sides of a given story.
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This must be another of your quality advice. Thank you.... (read in full...)
Is this true love? How can I get my ex back?
Q. I really love my ex-boyfriend now,I dont know what to do how can i forget him,I promise to my self that his my first and the last one that i love eventhough some guys are courting me now but i dont like them coz there different of my ex bf...its ...
A. 12 February 2008: If he is yours , no one can take it away from you.He may not be there by your side but his memories will be cherished eternally.
Some day he will come back and don't lose hope.I pray for you and that you will be together again soon.
Thank y... (read in full...)
Why can't I seem to deal with her history?
Q. Hello everyone, i really need some help, i feel as though i'm losing my mind. My girl friend and i have been together for almost 3 years and i can't get over her sexual history.. She is 30 years old and we met on a one night stand. The following ...
A. 11 February 2008: Everyone has a past be they negative or positive. No one is perfect and you too is not perfect.
You need to focus on the positive side of her whenever you have those thoughts.Whenever any negative thoughts appear, banish them away and tell tho... (read in full...)
Can I trust him not to be a cheater like his best mate?
Q. i have being with my partner for 9 months. when we first got together we were so happy. he lost touch with his best friend and we had a great time. have being on holiday and generally enjoyed each others company. his best friend has now came bac...
A. 11 February 2008: His friend may have cheated but it does not mean that he will do like his friend. They can still be friends .The men don't go into each other's private affairs. If he wanted to cheat, he could have cheated anytime. You need to give him some sp... (read in full...)
My fiance's sister is ruining out relationship
Q. My fiance and i have been together for over 2 years now, and we have recenlty moved int an apartment with her sister. Her sister has just gone through a divorce because she said he was too young and didnt get to do all the things she wanted to, and ...
A. 11 February 2008: You should be worried because where there is alcohol and both sexes together, that is a very dangerous and explosive mixture.
You should not trust your fiance or her sister. You need to step in.Either you go along or your fiance don't go.
... (read in full...)
My husband left, I want him back, but he now has a girlfriend
Q. I've had problems since b4 I met my husband, my nanna died when I was 13 and I never grieved properly and it still affects me today. I've had 2 children with him and bad postnatal depression with both and I don't think it went away. He left me a few ...
A. 11 February 2008: You still have a bond with him through your children.When he comes to see them , treat him well and do talk to him to show your concern and care for him.
You need to be better than that new g/f and he will come back for you . Man are familiar... (read in full...)
How can I get him to go to the doctor?
Q. ok so here goes my b/f has like a knot on his arm he says it has been there for as long as he could remember i have tried to get him to go to the doctor but he wont how can i get him to go or what could it be...
A. 11 February 2008: If there is no pain or discomfort, it could be a benign tumor or a cyst or some growth tissue. There is no concern and no life threatening danger.... (read in full...)
What did my ex mean by these emails and photos??
Q. hey, Me and my ex gf broke up in October last year,the next time i heard from her was on the 1st of Jan. She sent me a email basically saying that she will always care about me and that i will always have a place in her heart..i replied to that ema...
A. 11 February 2008: Call her up and ask for a date. You will know where you stand. Try to open back those communication lines again.
That photo could be hinting that you are always in her heart.Probably a confirmation of the first e-mail.... (read in full...)
Will he or won't he propose, and if so when??
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months and we moved in together a few months ago. We've never really argued. He let slip that hed been thinking of proposing to me but said he deff wouldn't propose Valentines but maybe in the next few...
A. 11 February 2008: It is hard to read somebody's mind.If he says a few months, then you will have to wait .In time , you will know.... (read in full...)
Should I try to find another way to let my classmate know I like him? How?
Q. hello, i'm 14 and have a crush problem. i really like this guy in my class. so one weekend when i was at a friends house i had her call him to see if he liked me "without me knowing". it turned out he never answered so she left some voice mails...
A. 11 February 2008: Find an excuse and go talk to him.Then you will see from his body actions.... (read in full...)
I care too much for him but at the same time I want my family's approval, only that my parents disapprove of my bf! Please advise.
Q. Please, I really need some advice on this topic I am 21 years old and come from a pretty traditional Italian family. I live at home since I am finishing up my degree. Recently I started dating this guy from work and am crazy about him! He ma...
A. 11 February 2008: It is very sad when parents don't approve of their daughters b/f. Some traditional families frown on inter marriages and they can even go to the length of ex communicating their children .
Parents should think of their children's happines... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 11 February 2008: Be careful of online friends. You don't know who they really are until you meet them in real life.They could be married or conman on the prowl.
Do some background checking first.... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: [Quote]
He cheated on you. Why would u want to be with him again? He can cheat on you again.
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This is a stereotype answer. Not everyone is the same. Maybe, the one who said this will cheat again but it does not mean that others will... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 11 February 2008: I am glad you are now back and you did not have to apologize.But if you were to apologize to him ,it would make a bigger difference to your relationship. It is better to be humble than to have pride. Pride is the downfall of many. You broke up ... (read in full...)
Is this true love? How can I get my ex back?
Q. I really love my ex-boyfriend now,I dont know what to do how can i forget him,I promise to my self that his my first and the last one that i love eventhough some guys are courting me now but i dont like them coz there different of my ex bf...its ...
A. 10 February 2008: You don't really appreciate the value of someone till they are gone.Then you start to find that you missed them a lot .
Is there any way you can contact him? If he is some where in outer space, then you can only hope that your destiny cross pa... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 9 February 2008: Even if she does not want him back , she has to apologize and forgive him to heal her hurt.This is part of the healing process.You forgive and asked for forgiveness.
If she does not apologize or forgive him , she will have no peace and will be ... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 9 February 2008:
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How can saying sorry to a guy thats cheated and blamed you, and ask his FORGIVENESS???? be a good quality advice?
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I think you need to read her question thoroughly. She does not want to break up with him and want him back.Sh... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 8 February 2008: You asked how to get him back. I don't see where I am rude. If you think my answer is rude, that is OK. You may not like the truth. It does not matter.
Your question ask for an answer and some people are too judgmental. Did you ask for their op... (read in full...)
Only 3 days ago I met a nice guy online, and I feel like risking my 3-year relationship for him! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 and a half years but about three days ago I met a guy on a chat line, he has been very nice to me and I started to get feelings for him. I love my boyfriend very much and don't believe in cheating but I ...
A. 7 February 2008: Just enjoy the attentions and the flirting. Don't take it serious because it could be a girl or a married man or a machine..LOL! There is a Russian Casanova unleashed online and it is a program .... (read in full...)
He cheated, so I broke up with him. Now I changed my mind, but he doesn't want ME!
Q. Right well I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now! we got together on the 26th January 2007 but we split up Thursday of last week! I finished him because he cheated on me while he was drunk and then denied it and said that it was me in the ...
A. 7 February 2008: The only thing is for you to apologize to him and admit that you were hasty and asked for his forgiveness.Be humble and then hope that he will forgive you.
... (read in full...)
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