Did she pick this trick up?
Q. Have been married 27 years and my wife let me cum in her mouth for the first time. I have always told her I was coming in past and she would immediately stop This time she kept going like she had done it before. Swallowed it all D...
A. 16 January 2023: Maybe one of her friends mentioned how this is received.
You could ASK her (without accusing her)?... (read in full...)
Family pushing me to get married
Q. Im really struggling with myself. I have been advised to seek therapy online by my parents. So I thought I would ask here if I can pay for mental health therapy for getting married - and where you recommend this? I have subconsciously a...
A. 15 January 2023: I think perhaps before you work on getting married, you need to move out of your parents' house and out from under their thumbs.
"I couldn't care less about any furniture when I want to move out."
Why haven't you moved out yet then? You are 32... (read in full...)
Did she pick this trick up?
Q. Have been married 27 years and my wife let me cum in her mouth for the first time. I have always told her I was coming in past and she would immediately stop This time she kept going like she had done it before. Swallowed it all D...
A. 14 January 2023: Is this the only thing that makes you think she is/was cheating?
... (read in full...)
He is in jail and I don't need the stress
Q. Hi I met a guy in 2020 and ten months after he was arrested and kept in prison. At first he was saying he would get out and that he had done nothing wrong. Then in November just gone he was sentenced to 17 years for a serious gang related cri...
A. 14 January 2023: OP!
You have EVERY right to want a life on your own, a life HE CAN NOT be part of as HE is locked up!
"I’ve turned my phone off so he can’t contact me "
Get a new number, OP You shouldn't have to turn your phone off to avoid his calls. Just... (read in full...)
How do I politely ask my friend to move out of my home?
Q. ? ?A friend of mine that I’ve know for over 20 years recently separated from her husband- she was struggling to find somewhere to live so she asked if she could move in with me and my family for a month until she found somewhere. S...
A. 13 January 2023: Contact Citizen's Advice for how to evict someone. You probably don't have to file eviction papers as there is no rental agreement or money involved, thus she probably can't claim tenant's rights, but still call and check for sure.
She what you... (read in full...)
Why does he want me to swallow?
Q. My husband doesn't get turned on by intercourse. He only gets turned on by oral sex and he wants me to swallow, and I really don't want to most of the time. Why is that so important to him?...
A. 13 January 2023: I'm sorry for your loss, OP... (read in full...)
How to fix a brokenheart
Q. Help iam I love with a lovely man who loves me but I have hurt him very badly and he has fi ished our relationship. He is. Builder and recently put I. A new Back door for me. I always pay him for his work as I would not take advantage of him This ...
A. 12 January 2023: If you want a SERVICE done FOR FREE (or for a tip! WTF?) You ASK first if that is OK, you make an AGREEMENT first. You don't wait until the work is done and then say, OH, I'm not paying for the work you did, only for materials and a tip!
He di... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about her past
Q. I'm currently in a relationship, I have been seeing her 8 months and been official for 2. Great chemistry, loads in common and just generally going amazing, i wish I met her sooner in my life, both the same age. How ever I can't stop over thinking ...
A. 12 January 2023: "I know some jealousy is normal "
It's really not "normal" or healthy. Jealousy is like a slow-acting poison. Nothing GOOD comes from it.
You are at a stage where you feel you have to "shit or get off the pot" when it comes to the relationship... (read in full...)
Online dating problem
Q. I joined a dating site to talk to women as I’m single, a girl messaged me who liked my profile, got in touch. we had many things in common and talk every day. since then, I’ve been having doubts, as many people lie on dating sites about their age. ...
A. 12 January 2023: Try a reverse image search.
If it pops up a profile (like Facebook) If she IS 14 - see if her mom is a contact and message her with (preferably) screenshots so she knows what her daughter is up to.
Or contact the dating site and let them kno... (read in full...)
His parents know we had sex
Q. me and my "bf" had sex for the first time about a week ago (been together for a little over 3 months but we haven't made it official yet) and I guess I left a hickey on his neck .Anyways fast forward to about 2 days later and his parents saw and ...
A. 12 January 2023: If you don't want to be "judged" for doing something, don't do it.
It's that simple.
He might have a really open and honest relationship with his parents.
You don't know if they will judge you "harder" or not, you haven't even met them. I... (read in full...)
Did she pick this trick up?
Q. Have been married 27 years and my wife let me cum in her mouth for the first time. I have always told her I was coming in past and she would immediately stop This time she kept going like she had done it before. Swallowed it all D...
A. 12 January 2023: Impossible to know.
More likely, she read that men found it hot and she went for it.
It's not "proof" of anything".
It's not uncommon that the older we get the less we worry about how others perceive us. Maybe she was curious and went for... (read in full...)
Hurt over lost friend
Q. My best friend of many years is in an abusive relationship and has suddenly decided to cut me out of her life. When they first started dating, I wasn't wild about it. She has so much going for her and this guy just... doesn't. I tried to be supp...
A. 11 January 2023: I would be hurt if I were you too!!
Unfortunately, your friend loves herself less than YOU love her.
She would RATHER be with an abusive man than be on her own. Why? Probably because he has her so messed up in the head.
Logically, she KNOWS ... (read in full...)
Bed and breakfasts and sex
Q. My bf of 6 months and I are taking a weekend trip. he said he is taking me on a romantic weekend trip. We are staying at a bed and breakfast for a few nights. Have you found bed and breakfasts to be romantic? The rooms to seem to be classic and ...
A. 5 January 2023: It's like a hotel room (in a sense) but consider that you could have neighbors, so moderating your noise level would be a decent thing to do.
It will be whatever you make it.... (read in full...)
Dating websites and scammers
Q. I'm on dating sites and it's not good. We start chatting, start connecting and they request money. Why do they feel it's okay to ask a stanger whom they've never met for money? It's a complete turn off. Even on social media they reach out a...
A. 4 January 2023: Report those who ask for money, ASAP. (the the dating site)
Try another website IF you want to online date, Or try something different, like meeting people through hobbies, friends etc.
... (read in full...)
What do I say?
Q. Need some advice it's driving me mad to be honest I was seeing a guy since Aug 2022 so wasn't long Spent every weekend with him spoke everyday etc planned to spend new years eve together Exchanged Xmas presents where he bought me a lovely ne...
A. 4 January 2023: Yep, Ciar nailed it,
Just use her message and go get your laptop and move on.
You are NOT responsible for him.
If he feels YOU are too good for him, then accept that. That is HIS reality. Get your laptop and move on.... (read in full...)
Confused as to whether I want to get back with partner or not
Q. I was with my partner for 7 years until a few months ago which was due to a fight which lead to me moving out and getting my own place. The sequence of events went quickly but I have been enjoying having my own space again. We've been meeting each ...
A. 4 January 2023: I agree with Ciar!
Stay at your place and if you are unsure about your ex - set some boundaries with him.
Like NEITHER of you date other people or sleep with other people. (and perhaps keep sex off the table with him too) But YOU take the TIM... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his mother ruined Christmas
Q. I’ll try and keep this simple. I’ve being with my boyfriend for 9 months. He had recently just come out of a relationship and he was back home, living with his mother. He had recently lost his father just four month before we met. We moved in ...
A. 4 January 2023: " Is this a toxic relationship I’m in, as I feel very confused?"
It is VERY toxic.
I would say without a doubt that you SHOULD end this relationship. You should WANT more from a partner. You have taken over the "mommy role" by being his housek... (read in full...)
Do I stay away from family get together on New Year's eve because of fight with sister?
Q. I’m probably going to be told I’m selfish for complaining about this but I’ve honestly had enough. My sister who is in her mid 40’s has been in an off and on relationship with her boyfriend- in his late 40’s for the past 5 years. They ...
A. 31 December 2022: Screw her!
Go enjoy the family get-together - ignore her and spend time with the rest of your loved ones. If there are plenty of people there you don't HAVE to interact with her at all.
You apologized, that is enough. She is mad because YOU ... (read in full...)
Wife's Party-Girl Friend
Q. My wife has a friend who has been through a lot in her life. She got married and really lived a controlled life under her ex before they got their divorce. He was very controlling and well now she is has much more freedom (you will see the relevance ...
A. 31 December 2022: OP,
I think your wife is handling this just fine BUT she feels like she CAN talk to this friend and maybe suggest the friend gets some therapy, it seems like she went through Hell and now she is being careless with her own life, thinking that she ... (read in full...)
I made a mistake coming out
Q. I think I made a mistake in coming out as bi. It's done nothing but bring me trouble. I thought I'd be welcomed with open arms by the LGBTQIA community but they're more rude to me than the evangelical ppl who tell me how wrong I am. I have not acted ...
A. 31 December 2022: I think, perhaps you should wait a while before trying ANYTHING sexual. You are in the 18-21 age group so there IS absolutely no hurry to have sex.
I don't know where you meet people that you have had interactions with but it's obviously NOT wher... (read in full...)
Where are all of the normal unselfish mature women?
Q. I am a 65 year old woman who is happily married. Up until a few years ago I owned and ran a successful business with a lot of staff. I closed it down and retired because I wanted a peaceful life instead of the constant invasion of clients coming to ...
A. 29 December 2022: I think it has to do with boundaries.
The older we get the more we like things to be OUR way (I know I'm that way at least) but your way and my way might not "mesh" and then YOU (and I) need to have some firm boundaries.
the lady you helped ... (read in full...)
Need ideas to sexually embarrass my sister in law without being creepy.
Q. My sister just got me a mankini with bells and a rednose on the kini part. So in trying to get her back, I want some ideas to embarrass her but not come off creepy. backstory, the family has been together forever and never has been any sexually ...
A. 28 December 2022: I'd also ASK your wife but I 100% agree with FA that the only way to win is not to play.
The best thing you could have done when you got it.. was to tell your sister that this outfit must have been labeled wrong and that it probably was for HER ... (read in full...)
How to move on from a falling out with a best friend?
Q. One of my closest guy friends online and myself have had a big falling out. It has gotten very toxic and very messy. He has blocked me on all social media accounts (however hasn't unfriended me), and he is deleting his main social media account ...
A. 22 December 2022: OP,
First, you HAVE to accept that you have NO control over what other people do, say, feel and think.
The friendship didn't last, that happens.
He is talking smack about you, that is on him. Not you. The sooner you block all access TO him ... (read in full...)
Perfect husband sober, but dicing with death when drunk.
Q. Hi All, My husband and I have been together since we were at school, now we are in our early thirties so I quite frankly don't know where to turn from here. I have always known that drink hasn't agreed with him. Some chemical in his brain ju...
A. 22 December 2022: " It's so gutting when he is perfect in every other way."
No one is perfect, OP
However, YOU have to decide when you have had enough.
Maybe (and I normally don't agree with ultimatums) you need to GIVE him an ultimatum. HE stops drin... (read in full...)
When is enough enough when its family?
Q. Okay so… . First of all, I live in a 4 bedroom household with 7 people including myself. Me and my husband in one room, my daughter in her own room, my sister and brother in law in the third room and my mother and 7 year old sister in the 4th room....
A. 22 December 2022: Your sister isn't YOUR responsibility financially, 18 or not. She is your mothers. (and her dad's - if there is one in the picture).
If your mom can't work, does she get any assistance? And if she does, where does that money go?
I don't blame... (read in full...)
My friend used me to look after her kids!
Q. I feel that I’ve been used recently by a friend and it’s really upset me. A few days ago I had arranged for my friend to come over to my house for a coffee (we usually meet up at 1 of our house 2 times a month). That morning she arrived ...
A. 22 December 2022: "She now keeps texting asking to meet up before Christmas but I really don’t want to meet up - in fact I really can’t be bothered with her anymore. Am I being too harsh?"
No, you are not.
She ought to pay your cancellation fee. That was 100% on... (read in full...)
Seeing that ex is engaged has thrown me off
Q. I broke up with a guy about 2.5 years ago. It was an unhealthy relationship where I saw red flags and knew we were incompatible, but thought my love could “fix” him and maybe if I changed certain things about myself, it could work. I have no idea ...
A. 18 December 2022: This is actually VERY typical.
A guy has a GF who doesn't fully respect herself and who caters to her BF - at some point, it ends.
The NEXT girl (who ISN'T like the first GF)is the one he will propose to.
I have seen it over and over.
HE ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time?
Q. I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and need advice. I started talking to a guy, he used to text once in a few days but very detailed msgs about some mutual topics , never opened up about himself much emotionally. I didn’t mind cause we ...
A. 18 December 2022: He sounds more lonely than interested. He likes someone to talk to here and there but he really doesn't want to invest too much of himself into this "thing".
Texting is fine but do you guys see each other in person? Meet up?
If not.. Then I wou... (read in full...)
Am I putting in work and not going to get the commitment?
Q. I just turned 29 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months now we have been living together for a year and 8 months, we have a dog together we both have good jobs and are responsible people. The topic of marriage and children has ...
A. 18 December 2022: I'd say wait until the holiday season is over (so wait until January) and then SIT him down and ask him what timeline (if any) HE has towards building a family and getting married.
Then you can tell him yours and see if the two of you are on the s... (read in full...)
Do I tell him that I know he cheated?
Q. I have just found out that my partner of 9 years had cheated on me with his work colleague at his Christmas party. I feel physically sick at the thought of it and having seen the messages of their night of passion, arranging to meet again and keep ...
A. 18 December 2022: Do you really WANT to stay with a partner who can't keep it in his pants?
I get there there are a lot of complications due to it being a longer relationship, you share a house and a child BUT you have to look to the future.
Can you EVER trust h... (read in full...)
Pimples 2
Q. This might sound gross to y’all but whatever. So basically I have a hard pimple(pustule) directly on my clit under the hood of it and it won’t go away.. it’s been a year and a half since I noticed it. Not only is it there, but was embarrassing as ...
A. 14 December 2022: It's probably a Fordyce spots, or sebaceous glands, are small white or yellow-white bumps inside your vulva. These spots are also found on the lips and cheeks. They normally first appear during puberty, and you tend to get more of them as you age. ... (read in full...)
He is insecure broke it off but we still care. How should I proceed?
Q. I think I know the answer but my good old agony aunts and uncles always help me process. I had not been in a serious relationship in over 4 years. I had a horrible experience w a real live narcissist back in 2017. After much personal work, I decided ...
A. 14 December 2022: Sounds like you found another self-absorbed man, OP
You KNOW what a toxic man is like. The thing is there isn't just ONE version of toxic people. You dated "a real live narcissist" in the past so you KNOW those flags, however, that might also mea... (read in full...)
Anyone from South Africa that can answer a question?
Q. Hi is anyone here from South Africa? Just have a question. I met someone online I have went to see him 3 times and he wants to visit me. He said he got his passport, his NIN, and needs his covid vaccine and says it is 300.00 usd. Seems a li...
A. 14 December 2022:
Did he pay for you when you visited him? If not...
Why should YOU pay?
If he can not afford to pay for the requirements to travel then obviously he can't come to visit.
$300 for a covid vaccine sounds ridiculous - also
"Cost: Aver... (read in full...)
Blindsighted by breakup
Q. I want to know if I’m crazy for being totally blindsided by this breakup. I went on a date with this great guy about a year ago. Then we were talking, hung out together with our kids. And definitely had a connection. Then while I was out of town ...
A. 8 December 2022: I would add this OP,
Don't introduce someone you are dating until you have been dating long enough that you KNOW it's a healthy and stable relationship to your son. A GOOD 9-12 months of dating before HE meets your kiddo.
It's obviously OK for... (read in full...)
Think I really hurt my friendship, what should I do?
Q. I’ve been friends with a male friend for a LONG time. I met him working at a GameStop and we became fast friends. However it turned out he really had feeling for me, I turned him down, (I’m gay) but he was really fun to hang out with and I wanted to ...
A. 6 December 2022: You seem to put the blame on the guy but YOU are the awful friend here.
"he would message me to hang out or ask a question and either I would miss the question or forget to get back to him."
Seriously?
"My phone didn’t alert me and I mi... (read in full...)
Do I stay in this marriage?
Q. Dear cupid. I'm writing here already knowing the answer to my own question, but I just need to talk to someone about this, and I can't talk about it to anyone I know. I'm married, and miserable. It hasn't been easy, and the main problem for me i...
A. 6 December 2022: Honestly, OP?
I feel for you. You HOPE he will change but you KNOW he won't.
If I were you I wouldn't focus on your husband, I'd focus on YOU getting back on track. This means, GO see your doctor and get the issue with walking sorted, if the i... (read in full...)
Former dating partner acts like he does not know me
Q. So a guy I was seeing ended things with me as I wanted commitment and he didn’t see me in that way. he was then with another girl and he didn’t want anymore to do with me even as a mate however that broke down within weeks. next thing he kept ...
A. 5 December 2022: He sounds like a total ass.
I fully agree with Kenny. BLOCK his ass. If he shows up at your work, DO NOT engage. If he shows up at your home, don't open the door.
The guy had his chance and then he treated you like crap and now he thinks there ... (read in full...)
Why does my partner say this?
Q. My partner regularly says hes going to do something that will put him in prison if he doesnt return to his home country soon. I pay all the expenses for my home and he spends his money in the first week and then lives off me for the rest of the m...
A. 5 December 2022: Why are you still with him?
KICK him the F out!
He is UNGRATEFUL and YOU allow it!
Why are you doing this to yourself?... (read in full...)
Blindsighted by breakup
Q. I want to know if I’m crazy for being totally blindsided by this breakup. I went on a date with this great guy about a year ago. Then we were talking, hung out together with our kids. And definitely had a connection. Then while I was out of town ...
A. 5 December 2022: Yikes OP,
Don't feel like you LOST a potentially great relationship, you didn't. You dodged a massive bullet.
OP, honey.... Someone who has OFF/ON relationships with an ex/not ex is NOT really ready or willing to have a healthy relation... (read in full...)
I have no support around me when boyfriend and I argue
Q. I have being living with my boyfriend for the last three months. We have our ups and downs and arguments about day to day things. I live 5.5 hours away from my friends and family. My boyfriend lives about half an hour from his family. I lived away ...
A. 3 December 2022: "I’m beginning to think I’ve made the wrong decision moving in with him as now I have no support around me when these arguments kick off."
So maybe this is the point in time where you take a deeper look at this relationship and DECIDE can we make ... (read in full...)
I want my mom to stop talking to me she has a mental illness
Q. My mom she loves coming into the basement irritating me and threatening me and I don't want her coming to the basement I don't want her talking to me she has a mental illness and she doesn't want to admit to anybody she has one. ...
A. 3 December 2022: If you are living with her, then I presume it's HER house?
If you don't want to interact with her, maybe it's time to move out and stand on your own 2 feet.
Or you can put a lock on your door (you would need her permission if the house is her... (read in full...)
Weird family interactions making me wonder about my husband and his family
Q. So I went to my in-laws house for Thanksgiving. My husband has two sisters. One 18 and the other 16 they were both adopted. Long story short my husband smacked his little sisters behind. Later on in the day my husband touched a over her chest to do ...
A. 30 November 2022: "Grounds for divorce??? "
It sounds weird and inappropriate but also like something KIDS would do to each other.
My brother and I have chased each other around doing towel snaps IN OUR 20's! (gasp!) while doing the dishes after Christmas dinner... (read in full...)
Why does he want me to swallow?
Q. My husband doesn't get turned on by intercourse. He only gets turned on by oral sex and he wants me to swallow, and I really don't want to most of the time. Why is that so important to him?...
A. 17 April 2022: Why hasn't he had a vacetomy?
If he is 100% sure he doesn't want kids?
I mean sex should be pleasurable for BOTH people involved, shouldn't it?
It doesn't sound like you two are very compatible in the bedroom.... (read in full...)
Why does he want me to swallow?
Q. My husband doesn't get turned on by intercourse. He only gets turned on by oral sex and he wants me to swallow, and I really don't want to most of the time. Why is that so important to him?...
A. 15 April 2022:
When you swallow you are being as submissive as heck, you are basically as intimate as it gets. 1. he doesn't have to stop his climax 2. if you swallow you are "accepting "all" of it, in a way. And 3. for some men it's a little bit about dominanc... (read in full...)
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