How do I get the courage to talk to a girl and ask her to dance?
Q. hello friends I am 15 i am not in a relationship uptil now,i just want someone to love me,noone loves me,I want someone to hug me when I am sad,wipe my tears when I cry,noone does,it....it just hurts very badly, soo my question is I study in a boy...
A. 2 December 2010: Well you dont tell a girl straight away that you really like her because this will put her off, you need to build up a friendship with a girl first, and be a friend to her for a while, get to know each other and then you can ask her out or tell her ... (read in full...)
How do I get noticed by Mr Right?
Q. What do guys want in a dating,marriage relationship? How do I get noticed by mr. right?...
A. 2 December 2010: All you can do is be yourself, work on your self confidence so that you are happy and confident about yourself, walk with your head held high and smile at people. If you come across as a happy and easy going person then men wont feel intimidated to ... (read in full...)
How do I get the courage to talk to a girl and ask her to dance?
Q. hello friends I am 15 i am not in a relationship uptil now,i just want someone to love me,noone loves me,I want someone to hug me when I am sad,wipe my tears when I cry,noone does,it....it just hurts very badly, soo my question is I study in a boy...
A. 2 December 2010: Well first of you need to concentrate on being happy on your own first, because if you dont you will come across as being clingy and needy, you need to enjoy yourself at the moment, hang out with friends, do hobbies that you like and make yourself ... (read in full...)
I feel so lost after losing this baby...
Q. Me and my husband have together for 5 years and have been married for 3... We got pregnant about 9 months ago but i lost the baby and didint tell him because he said he would leave me... I dont know what to do because he is going to tell everyone i ...
A. 27 November 2010: You need to tell him that you lost the baby, at the end of the day, if he loved you he would be grieving with you not splitting up with you. Its a lose to both of you and you need to grieve together, if he leaves you because you lost your baby, ... (read in full...)
Married and in love with my ex-boyfriend who is always married
Q. I got married over two years ago and am still in love with my ex who is also married. My ex and I were together for over 3 years, I cheated on him one night after a lot of drinks. I went home and told him instantly since I felt so guilty and ...
A. 27 November 2010: Well you need to stop comparing your ex to your husband as this alone causes alot of hassle. You need to write down what you love about your husband and why you married him and whenever you have doubts read the letter that you wrote. It seems to me ... (read in full...)
I feel like my life is over before it's even begun
Q. This isnt really a relationship question as such but the relationship aspect is part of a larger problem. this is probably going to be quite a long question im afraid. The problem is that ever since i left high school i feel like my life has been...
A. 27 November 2010: First off you need to stop sulking in self pity because your life is not going to change if you keep doing that. If your friends dont invite you to hang out and keep making excuses not to hang out with you then they are obviously not good friends or ... (read in full...)
Is the song "only girl in the world" actually possible?
Q. Im sure all of you are probably familiar with rihanna's new song "only girl" Well I have been in a few relationships and I want to know if it is actually possible to have your boyfriend treat you like the only girl in the world... Basically it means ...
A. 27 November 2010: The music industry these days are designed to over exaggerate love and relationships. At the end of the day all guys are different, and sure they are going to look at other girls, we girls look at other girls and guys as well. There whole world is ... (read in full...)
Do you think I got over him too fast? Do you think he was jealous about me going ot to the movies?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me last thursday right before thiis really awesome foot ball game. At the game there were a lot of cute guys there but for some reason I couldn't get my mind off of him. I got over him on saturday and ended going to this ...
A. 27 November 2010: Hi ok you werent even together a month so this was a very short relationship therefore no you didnt move on to soon, and he is the one that broke up with you therefore you are entitled to move on and go out with whatever guy you like. Am not sure if ... (read in full...)
Can't stay if it don't change soon!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm In a relationship with who I think is the man of my dreams. He has children and I also have children. We live together, 3 of my children live with me and 1 of his. Its like when his other children come over for the weekend he c...
A. 27 November 2010: You just need to talk to him about it, off course he is going to have a bond with his own children as he has knowing them for longer and they are blood but he went in to this relationship knowing that he would need to take on more children so he ... (read in full...)
Need a good honest opinion of what to do now.
Q. My girlfriend of 9 months told me from the beginning of the relationship to never ask her about her past sexual experiences and it bothered me having to be so mysterious.... last night she was extremely drunk and we were having sex and I asked her ...
A. 27 November 2010: Well everyone has a past and you should have just not asked her, because its in the past and you shouldnt judge her by that, ok that is an extremely high amount of guys but she has gotten tested reguarly which means that she is aware of STI's and ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 27 November 2010: Ok first of you need to go and see a doctor and get a check up to make sure that everything is ok with the baby and then you need to work out your dates and see who could be the potential dad, how many boys have you had intercourse with without ... (read in full...)
How do you talk to someone who becomes aggressive and intimidating?
Q. How can you talk to someone who doesnt listen to your points and becomes intimidating and aggressive. The problem i have is that my partner of 8 yrs and i have recently split up this was due to a combination of things. He moved out 6 mts ago and ...
A. 26 November 2010: If he hassles you again just be clear to him that your love for him has died and you dont want anything else to do with him and that the only time you want contact between the both of you if it is something to do with your children. Goodluck.... (read in full...)
Needing advice after a nasty break-up.....
Q. Hello Everyone, I am a 21 year old male and need some relationship/life advice. Here's the situation, just two weeks ago my girlfriend left me after being with me for 1 year, this has been my longest relationship. I'm torn, I need advice to put my...
A. 26 November 2010: Ok you need a wake up call badly, this girl doesnt love you, she used you and you let her time and time again, if she loved you she wouldnt lift her finger to you, she wouldnt be online talking to guys and meeting up with them, she was using you for ... (read in full...)
Is this just the dry tampons or have I got an infection?
Q. hi (: ill get straight to the point. im 16 and ive had my period since i was 12. i jus finished it for this month fully yesterday. i use tampons the whole time, but the last 2 days the tampon was pretty dry when i took them out and the ends were ...
A. 26 November 2010: Yes it sounds like the tampons make sure that you change your tampon every 4 hours as it can lead to an infection. If it doesnt improve go to your doctor. When your period is on its lightest days make sure you use light tampons and not heavy ones as ... (read in full...)
How can I get my eyes to look normal again?
Q. Hello guys , i just want to have different advices and opinions about my situation, my eyes gone really deep in my face , you could see the dark circle around my eyes though , but it also got really deep to the point that i can actually see it ...
A. 26 November 2010: Well first you need to understand some of the reasons that can cause this and identify what reasons apply to you. The reasons people get this are:
*Lack of sleep.
*Stress or Depression.
*Unbalanced diet.
*To much sun exposure.
*Using dr... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to help her without causing more trouble for her?
Q. I’m posting because I’m concerned about my girlfriend. Its regarding her family and how they treat her. From what she’s telling me, it seems that she doesn’t feel like one of the family because they either put her down, put her in bad moods or ...
A. 26 November 2010: Hi i think all you can do here is to keep supporting her and showing her that you are there for her. No good will come of you getting involved in family arguments because all families argue and its best to keep out of it. Am sure she knows you are ... (read in full...)
He doesn't give me as much attention as I need!
Q. okay so, me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and almost 2 months.. and im a real romantic i like to have that special attention where it could be a note just saying "i love you" i like to be showed how much you are and lately.. ...
A. 26 November 2010: Well you just need to explain to him that sometimes you dont feel that he shows you how much he cares about you or loves you. Explain to him that you would like him to show you more attention than he does because you like to feel secure and loved. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend still shares a bed with her ex! What should I do?
Q. Hi. Well I got a problem. My girlfriend and I live miles away from each other. I live alone, and she lives with her 5 bestfriends. 3 of them are guys, one of them is her ex. I'm a really jealous kind of guy, and she knows that. I really dont like it ...
A. 26 November 2010: Well it is crossing the boundries to sleep in the same bed as your ex if you have a new boyfriend. It sounds to me like she is not over her ex and that she is always going to take his side over yours as it sounds like she still loves him, and maybe ... (read in full...)
Should I have stopped hanging out with my friends to make her happy?
Q. So me and my girlfriend just broke up because I keep going to hang out with my friends at least once or twice on the weekends. Should I have just stoped hanging out with my friends to make her happy?...
A. 26 November 2010: No you shouldnt have, not if it was only one or twice a week, at the end of the day you need to spend time with friends as well as a girlfriend. Explain to her that you are not going to stop going out with your friends at the weekend but maybe ... (read in full...)
Frustrated! I work full time, he works part time and does nothing while home!
Q. In need of some help guys and girls! Probably an easy answer for a lot of you, but try and put yourself in my situatin! I am happy with my boyfriend, love him to bits. Only one problem i have.... We are living together in a flat, at the mo...
A. 26 November 2010: He has got himself in to a situation were he feels that its ok for him to only work 2 days, and although you are asking him to get a job he is not going to listen because he thinks you are just nagging and nothing will come of it. You have tried ... (read in full...)
Under his friend's influence my b/f has gotten back into his wild old days behavior again
Q. My bf in his younger days used to be involved in drugs and heavy drinking, smoking and major parties!! He basically lived by the motto, sex, drugs and rock n roll and eventually he got out of it and stopped as he got older. When I met him he didnt...
A. 25 November 2010: The problem here isnt the drugs in my eyes it is the drink, because it sounds to me he has no intention to do drugs but then he gets that drunk that he doesnt care and starts dabbling in them. He has a drink problem without a doubt and he needs to ... (read in full...)
My brother says I'm hot! Is he the brother I used to know?
Q. So my brother has returned home after getting his degree from college. He's sticking around, so he can get his life in order. It's been a long time since I've last seen him. We've been pretty much on neutral grounds as we grew up. We weren't really ...
A. 25 November 2010: Ok this is wrong on so many levels, i understand that you enjoy the attention but it is wrong to be coming from someone like your brother, yes he is a guy but he should not be checking out his sister that is just wrong, you talk to any guy and ask ... (read in full...)
Is denial of conjugal relations a form of cruelty?
Q. After 11 years of marriage, which included conjugal relations, my wife said she no longer wanted to have sex with me. She said I could mssturbate to meet my sexual needs. My choices were to find a eexual partner outside of the marriage or remain in ...
A. 25 November 2010: No it is not described as cruelty, cruelty is were a partner is being verbally abusive, bullying you, calling you awful names threatning you and making your life a living hell, cruelty is when they are beating you up, hitting you, kicking you, ... (read in full...)
Should I stay where my parents are or go where I will be happy?
Q. I am in my late 30's my child has recently moved to her dads in a diffrent city, my dad is in stage 5 alzheimers still being taking care by my mom. I have a great job only in the summers but the winters I am bored and on U.I. My long time freind ...
A. 25 November 2010: Talk to your mother about it and see what she thinks about it, ask her would she be able to cope and discuss when you will be available to come back and visit and give your mother a break, talk to her and see what she thinks. Also have you looked in ... (read in full...)
Reconciliation stories
Q. Can anyone please tell me stories of how they got back together with their exes? I recently broke up with mine and was wondering if anyone has ever actually gotten back together with that special someone that left their life and in the end universe ...
A. 25 November 2010: Everybody breaks up for a reason, and there are a lot of different reasons out there and a lot of different situations. Your story is unique on its own level and therefore there is not point asking people what happened with them unless it was under ... (read in full...)
Why does my sister in law hate me?
Q. My sister in law hates me. I got pregnant with my now fiances baby after 4 months of being together, it was unplanned, but we decided to keep her and we're still happy together over 2 years later, our Daughter is now 15 months. When I got p...
A. 25 November 2010: Is she in a relationship and have children? If not then it sounds to me like she is jelous of what you and her brother had, when she found out you were pregnant it made things worse because she wants a baby and she is acting out on you now because ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my ex?
Q. Here's my long story, about a year ago I met the most wonderful person through an online game. We connected immediately and our relationship soon developed quickly into a romantic one. We lived 5 hours by flight away from each other but in the ...
A. 25 November 2010: You are not allowing yourself to heal or get over her, because you are refusing to let her go and the longer you do this the longer you are prolonging your pain here. She is happy now she is with another man and she has moved on from you and let you ... (read in full...)
If she really wanted it, would she have to think about it?
Q. I'm asking this question because I don't know what to do. I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago now, and it was horrible, we had argued for like 2 weeks before hand and had been together for just over 4 months, short, I know. However...
A. 25 November 2010: im afraid she is giving you a very clear sign here that she does not want to be with you, it sounds to me like she doesnt need time she is trying to break it to you gently that she does not want to be with you, what you need to do now is accept that ... (read in full...)
When would be the right time to ask her out?
Q. One of my friends that i'd really like to date told me that someone she knows just died. Now, i know for sure that now really isnt the best of times to ask her out and ive been trying to be there for her and support her and I'll keep doing so until ...
A. 25 November 2010: Well yes at least it hasnt affected your friendship, thats a good thing and she is being open and honest with you which is always good to. Continue to be her friend but dont wait around hoping that she will change her mind soon and you'se will be ... (read in full...)
When would be the right time to ask her out?
Q. One of my friends that i'd really like to date told me that someone she knows just died. Now, i know for sure that now really isnt the best of times to ask her out and ive been trying to be there for her and support her and I'll keep doing so until ...
A. 25 November 2010: Well yes at least it hasnt affected your friendship, thats a good thing and she is being open and honest with you which is always good to. Continue to be her friend but dont wait around hoping that she will change her mind soon and you'se will be ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he's just not good for me?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating in our last year of high school and are both currently in our first year of college, and still together. He is my first serious relationship. We both have always wanted to move to the same place for school and ...
A. 23 November 2010: Well i guess all that you can do here is to ask him to prove to you that he is going to be there for you as well, only time will tell this, if you are both busy then that can put a strain in a relationship, also going to college for the first time ... (read in full...)
Is everything completely my fault?
Q. Life has been complete chaos for me in the past month. I am 18 years old and have found my first love. I have been with many guys in my teenage years and have yet to feel as close as I do to my boyfriend. The problems started a few months ago when ...
A. 23 November 2010: I dont want to hurt you any more but yes this is your fault at the end of the day you made a wrong desicion, but hey that is life. When you were having problems you should have ended it or tryed working on it not going out and cheating. So i guess ... (read in full...)
Stepfather vs. Daughter with mother caught in the middle!
Q. My husband continues to nag at my 15 year old daughter. She is a slop and can be moody, but she is 15. When my daugther is not around, my husband and I get a long awesome...we never argue unless it is about her. She is a good kid (honor roll for ...
A. 23 November 2010: Hi ok so i understand that you love your husband a lot but you need to put your children first. This is going to affect your daughter big time, she is going to be unhappy, she is going to have low self asteem and feel she cant do anything right and ... (read in full...)
Best friends with benefits!
Q. Dear Dearcupid readers and admins, I have a guy bestfriend. A bestfriend I have since the year 2005. We both like each other since college. We denied the feelings at first bec. I have a bf and he has a gf. His gf is very insecure with me because ...
A. 23 November 2010: Well first off i would hate to be his girlfriend, he shouldnt be doing this to her it is cruel, if he wants you then he would finish with his girlfriend asap. But no he has cheated on her and that is really not fair, people dont realise that ... (read in full...)
I think my friend who's in a relationship has feelings for me!
Q. We've known each other for about three years and have always been really close friends. In that time, however, I had been in a relationship until recently. Her roommates have hinted at me in the past that she wants more than a friendship, but ...
A. 23 November 2010: I think the best advice here really would be not to say anything to her at all. If she does hint at you that she would like to be with you then you can be honest with her and tell her that you are not wanting anything at the moment as you are still ... (read in full...)
If she really wanted it, would she have to think about it?
Q. I'm asking this question because I don't know what to do. I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago now, and it was horrible, we had argued for like 2 weeks before hand and had been together for just over 4 months, short, I know. However...
A. 23 November 2010: Ok this girl deep down does not want to be with you, not you personally i just dont think she wants to be in a relationship at all at the moment, but at the same time she is stringing you along because she does not want to let you go, you are there ... (read in full...)
Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 23 November 2010: Just talk as normal to him, be exactly the way you always behave with him, if he asks to see the tattoo then show him if it is just a case of pullin up your top at the back to show him then go for it.
Ok so it turns out that he is interest... (read in full...)
How can I talk to him, and let him know what I feel?
Q. Does he REALLY care about me? Sometimes I think he does, other times I have no idea. We've been best friends for two years now, and I've had a crush on him since the day we met. He kept pushing me away, knowing how much I liked him. Apparent...
A. 23 November 2010: Nobody likes clingy girls you need to give him space or you will get hurt, stop asking him does he care about you or love you let him tell you if you keep asking him you will drive him away, when you are at school give him space to hang out with his ... (read in full...)
Is it better to deny seeing him if he asks me out again?
Q. I finally decided to not make any more effort to be with the man i used to date in the past. I haven't called him for some months. I go out with other men instead. Sometimes he calls me, not often. We just talk but he propposes to meet each other ...
A. 23 November 2010: If you are not over him and you still want to be with him then no its not a good idea to meet up with him again, as all the love will rush back once you see him and you will be back to square one trying to get over him, unless there is a chance that ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to not want to walk into a situation where a man is dependent on me?
Q. met a guy this past summer, June. He and I share a mutual friend. My mutual friend told me about him and told me he'd like for me to meet him because he thought we'd be a perfect pair. Before I go on, my friend told me that his friend was from a ...
A. 23 November 2010: No i think you are right, he told you he loved you and wanted to settle down with you wayyyy to soon. Nobody knows that they are in love with someone after a few weeks therefore he either knew you made a good income and he knew it would make for a ... (read in full...)
I just wish she'd recognise my efforts without me telling her to!
Q. hi. Im feeling really muddled up and im looking for some help... If someone could please reply, i would be extremely appreciative and grateful... Recently i've been doing a lot for my girlfriend and sacrificing a lot to try to keep her happy. H...
A. 23 November 2010: Well it sounds to me like your girlfriend is very selfish, you shouldnt need to tell her these things it should just come to her. If she truelly loved you she would be asking how you are, and helping you to deal with your issues as well as hers, but ... (read in full...)
Should I try to be friends with my ex again?
Q. Here's some background on the situation. I'm 18. All last summer, I carried on an Internet relationship with a 40-something-year-old man. At that point, I was 17, so obviously we could not do more than talk online. We met in person years earlier, so ...
A. 23 November 2010: Well you are 18 therefore you are capable of making your own desicions you are an adult. So you have two choices you can start talking to him again as a friend and break your dads heart and lose what trust your parents have in you, or else you can ... (read in full...)
When would be the right time to ask her out?
Q. One of my friends that i'd really like to date told me that someone she knows just died. Now, i know for sure that now really isnt the best of times to ask her out and ive been trying to be there for her and support her and I'll keep doing so until ...
A. 21 November 2010: Well everybody handles things in different ways, just keep doing what you are doing being there for her and being supportive. But you will be able to tell when she seems happier and in a better place and when you see that she seems happier, like ... (read in full...)
Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 12 November 2010: Ok first off there is nobody out of anybodys league, but still it probably would be a bad line to cross going with a friends ex, it only leads to hurt anger and pain.
Im not sure though what her problem is i think it would be best for you to l... (read in full...)
Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 11 November 2010: could it be possible mr x has a crush on you and has told your friend this? it sounds like someone else has told her something and she has taking it out on you even though she knows its not your fault.... (read in full...)
Is she still my friend or what?
Q. Recently I made a whole new set of friends who I met through a couple of my college friends..amongst them was one girl,lets call her "Miss.X", with who I clicked really really well..we were chummy with each other right from the day we met first.I ...
A. 7 November 2010: Ok well maybe when you said to her to try and forget him for her own good she thought that you were interested in him and now she is jelous and probably doesnt want to be friends with you in case you do get with him and it will cause her a lot of ... (read in full...)
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