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writes:There is this guy who I have been in the same class with during high school but we have never spoken. He used to see me as a rival back then and disliked me. Last year, he added me on Facebook and would occasionally comment on my status and posts. For the past couple of days our conversation grew often and we started flirting. I have since moved to another city to attend university. And he challenged me that he would come all the way here and look for me, and as a bet prize I need to buy him lunch.He apparently missed his bus and I texted him saying he should spend his time fruitfully with his mum, sister and the girl he loves as women's day is around the corner. And I also said something offensive which is I would send him the bet money. And for that he replied that it is not about the money, If it's for the money he wouldn't spend that much to come see me....He just wanted the five years he wasted without knowing me. I have since sent five apology messages but he is not replying. And he also said that he wont be disturbing anymore. I want him to know that I didnt mean anything I said. I want everything to be back to normal. What should I do?.Does he like me?...He is not talking to me?
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reader, diamondshards  +, writes (3 March 2012):
You should let him cool off for now; wait and see what he does, that will tell you a lot about how he really feels for you.Do keep in mind, anyway, that this flirt is also fairly new, so, please, try not to invest yourself emotionally too much into it. If he gets the feeling that even at the beginning of whatever could be blossoming between you two, you text him five times in a row without answer, he'll most likely be scared away. Keep yourself otherwise occupied, get out with friends, watch a movie, read a book or whatever you have to do to keep your mind off him. Lay off your phone and try and forget about him for a while: if he does text you back, good, if not, his loss. Also, there are a couple of things I find noteworthy in your post: you said 'he APPARENTLY missed his bus', almost sounding to me as you don't really believe him when he said so? Is that why you sent him that miffed text? Or maybe you were just joking and he took it the wrong way? Also, does this guy have a girlfriend {this 'girl he loves'} by any chance? Just guessing here, but if so, for your own good, stay away from him, because you won't get anything but heartache from a taken man, trust me.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 March 2012):
 You sent him 5 replies without a response, 5 messages can sometimes come off as clingy. I think you need to leave it now and see if he responds. It is hard to tell if he likes you or if he was just playing a game with you, time will tell. But for now you cant contact him again. Wait to see if he contacts you and take things from there.
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