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Im 14 :)
I live in Enfield, In North London
I love helping people, and reading about peoples situation
It's really nice when you know that you've helped someone by giving them good advice, which is why i help people on this site.
I know people will think im too young to help people with problems but i have my own theory's too and if you give me a chance i will get to test it out.
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Why can't I get a boyfriend?
Q. I have never had a boyfriend. Last year i asked out a guy that i liked and he said no. Ever since i have not been able to talk with boys face to face. The guy that i liked a month ago (i liked him for about a year) found out that i liked him and we ...
A. 9 January 2008: like every1 sed ur trying way hard, relax a lil but dont ask a boy out let them ask you out other wise it make it look desperate so get a new look like the laura sed, relax and the love fling happen on its own... (read in full...)
My soon-to-be wife has unrespectful teenage children. The situation straightens for only a few days every time I try to correct it.
Q. I need some advise from anyone who will provide so that its coming from others besides me. My question is.... My soon to be wife has two children. They talk to her with no respect..they yell at her...backtalk, and if she tells them no, they question ...
A. 9 January 2008: The only reason why they are like this cuz they proabably grew up with being spoilt so they have learned to use it to get pretty much what the want. But do you really think that grounding them off the computer is going to help them? no the ... (read in full...)
Should I stick by my Boyfriend, after his Behaviour.
Q. I was at a party with my boyfriend. He got drunk and then told me to 'shut up' when i was talking to him! I was shocked and horrified. His best friend heard him and told him to apologise to me. I felt really hurt that my boyfriend would do such a ...
A. 9 January 2008: you think....you should break up with him. that is so like no excuse to get drunk and kiss a girl while you where there. what kind of boyfriend duz that...one not like him. and if he tried the *im sorry but i was drunk* thing then just dump him then ... (read in full...)
My ex is making my life a misery, he scares and intimidates me
Q. My ex scares me. He seems to think he can do and say whatever he feels and that it is perfectly OK to change his mind at the drop of a hat. Last year he dumped his new girlfriend for a renewed chance with me and our son. Promised me the ...
A. 9 January 2008: ok i might be really young to answer this (12) but i think he is a human threat to the u and if u dont do anything about it, no-one else is so u need action to be taken ahead. also you have to be strong- you AND your son because if you keep thinking ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date my step-brother??
Q. i really like my step brother we are not blood releated just his mum got married to my dad do you think it is okay to date him?...
A. 6 January 2008: well, its up 2 u really init. its not illegal but it will or can cause confusion later on with ur mum and stepdad... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity last week - could I be pregnant?
Q. I lost my virginity last week and at one point my boyfriend entered me without a condom but only for about 15 seconds, he also came near my vagina but I dont think any wennt on it... now my breasts are starting to feel sore and I 'feel' pregnant, I ...
A. 3 January 2008: well what are you wating for go and get a pregnancy test. ... (read in full...)
Did this paedophile take my virginity?
Q. Well i've been with this man for 13 months, he's 22.. i think. im not goin to tell u how old i am but im not younger than 13. i always go to his house. we dont have PROPER sex.. we just like rub against each other, but we're naked.. you might tink ...
A. 1 January 2008: this is weird, but why would you let some guy do this to you. you should see a doctor and get tests but im telling you if he did take your viginity it would kinda be your own fault and not anyone else, you probably know its wrong but you havent said ... (read in full...)
My mother does not let me see this boy because "the apple doesn't go far from the tree" (she dislikes his father.) Suggestions?
Q. dear cupid, theres a boy that i love very much but my parents will not let me see him outside of school and its really taking a toll on our relationship. they wont let me see him because he has a father (in which he never sees) that my mother d...
A. 1 January 2008: well what do i say you under 12 and talkiing about a relationship... i dont really blame your mum but if she doesnt want you to meet up with this guy she means it. she might not want to let you go to far with things, i mean you 10-12 maybe when your ... (read in full...)
16, attracted to a 12 year old. Is this wierd?
Q. I'm a 16 year old male. Yesterday evening I was at a party with my family, a girl was also there with her family..I couldn't take my eyes off her, I felt extremely attracted to her...and I'm fairly sure she liked me too. Problem is...she can't have ...
A. 1 January 2008: she could get scared and think your a pervet, if you think about it ok if u was 25 and she was 21 dont you think but 12 and 16 no out of the subject! you have to find someone near your own age so you dont cause confusion anyway what would the 12 ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and in love with a 30 year old and don't know what to do
Q. I'm in love with a guy who is 30 im 14 I really love him he isnt married but he has a girlfriend with a 5 yr old son I loveee his son to death his girl I wish she would drop dead hes my cuzins friend I'm always at my cousins house seeing him he ...
A. 1 January 2008: i totally understand your situation but do you think that if you managed to have sex with this 30 year old man you would be happy, and how can you want his gf to just drop down dead thats a little mean maybe its just thoughts about this guy you want ... (read in full...)
My Mom snoops when I'm on the internet, I find her lack of trust very irritating, how do I get her to stop?
Q. hi i am 14 and in year 10 and my mom keeps on being nosy about what i do on the internet.i am not doing anything bad or wrong all i do is go on msn and myspace maybe play on games. she clearly thinks i am up to somthing which is wrong she always a...
A. 1 January 2008: hey im 12 and my mum is starting to check what i do on the computer, i no it seems annoying but the internet can kind of get you into a lot of trouble. for instance there are perverts on the internet on chatlines and u dont want any problems but ... (read in full...)
Me and my neice are in love and I don't know what to do, would it be ok to date her?
Q. me and my neice are in love and i dont know what to do shes alot younger than me. i look after her quite alot and she flirts with me alot and on purpose does things so i get glimpses of her body by bending over infront of me so i can see down her ...
A. 28 December 2007: nope. thats all i have to say i know you all in love with your niece but if you want your family to keep close contact then i advice u to stay away from her as in not being in love with her, theres plenty girls in this wolrd other than your niece. ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and upset that there are so many in my grade that are already having sex. I'm worried about everyone and I didn't think I would have this drama till high school. What should I do?
Q. I'll try to make this short. Ok, i'm worried and kinda just upset. i'm 12 in 7th grade and I already know about 8 people in my grade who have had sex and gotten drunk. One of them used to be a good friend of mine who actually lost their virginity ...
A. 28 December 2007: Its so good that your thinking this way but there isnt really anything you can do. those people having sex at a young age are only having sex because everyone else, some of them have sex because they think they are grown up, and some of them do it ... (read in full...)
Happy Xmas from DearCupid
Q. Happy Xmas everyone :-) The aunts who share their wisdom, the people who share their questions and the team of moderators who keep everything flowing onto the site! Plus the 350,000 people who visit each month Have a great Xmas! Feel free t...
A. 28 December 2007: MERRY XMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR- i hope all of you have a fun xmas and also i hope you all have a healthy and happy new year. ps- thanks andrew for making this site so brilliant. xxxgd luck 4 the new year... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in thinking there is more to this??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We recently moved in together after 2 years in a long distance relationship. I'll get straight to the point. I found some pictures of this girl in his phone and asked him who she was. He told me ...
A. 25 December 2007: well im supporting you, because if your boyfriend was open he would have told you about his ' best friend' all the time, also it isnt wrong to look up someone on myspace, but the fishy part of the story is why did she not accept you friend request, ... (read in full...)
Should I be happy for them, or jealous?
Q. My boyfriend of almost 2 years recently broke up...it's has been about a month...and we are both in new relationships..but the only problem is that i think i'm still in love with him...i like my new boyfriend but i'm really not into him...but my ex ...
A. 22 December 2007: erm... i dont really no but the best thing to do is to not show many signs to him then he'll think your jealous even though you probably are. people might say just move on but i dont see it wroks like that. you probably still need time to clear your ... (read in full...)
My friend messes me about but I really like him, even though I have a boyfriend
Q. I am mates with this guy who is a year younger than me. We have done loads of stuff together over the past year but we never went out. He stopped talking to me for a month and then started to text me again last night. He wants to get with me and is ...
A. 22 December 2007: dont go out with him it could be a sign saying he wants to break you and your boyfriend up for revenge as not going out with him. I hope you make the right chice!... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel I should end the relationshop purely because of age difference and people's disapproval... but I'd be so unhappy and miss him. What do you think?
Q. Hi there, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 42.We have been together almost 2 years.He is divorced with no children. When we met we became great friends and gradually got together..we are now living together and things are great. However, when pe...
A. 22 December 2007: well thats sort of tuff for you, cuz if u leave him and go out with another person youll miss your current bf if you stick with you current bf people will dissaprove you and him. the best thing to do is to probably just stick with him, because of ... (read in full...)
My gf is ex-anorexic and has mental issues, becoming moody. If I don't behave in a certain way she gets mad and breaks up, which is emotional straining for me. How do I cope?
Q. hello I a a lesbian any my girlfriend is really feminine and I am too, but not as much as her. we've been together 9 months. She wants me to treat her like I was man as far as doing things for her. She is also ex anorexic and does have mental issu...
A. 22 December 2007: now this is a tuff question, well from what your saying is that any little thing you say can trigger her, and before you know it your DUMPED! so my advice is to take everything bit by bit, you might also want to go to a counselling session and that ... (read in full...)
When I have sex with a man will I not enjoy it?
Q. Loads of my mates talk about masturbation and I tried it but it is really painful and uncomfortable when I fingered myself, is this odd and does this mean that when I have sex (with a man!) will I not enjoy it?...
A. 25 November 2007: maybe your not ready hunni, like the reader love-him sed u have 2 be well lubricated or the skin goes dry and can be quite painful wen u masturbate. if your not ready dont force yourself to do just cuz every1 else is doing it. do it wen ur ... (read in full...)
I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated.
Q. I feel so alone right now, because my mom told the entire family that I masturbated. She was so mad at me, and I am in tears about this. I don't understand why she thinks that it's so wrong!...
A. 28 October 2007: My god, thats pretty sad that she told the whole family, what you need to tell your mum is how you feel about what she did. i mean how can you trust her to tell her anything by the way she is going. dont be ashamed of what you did cause nearly ... (read in full...)
My crush has a gf, who I think doesn't deserves him! Should I forget him or wait?
Q. MY friend has a question, and doens't have an acconnt, soo she is using mine: So i like a Guy, He's everything that i've always wanted in a guy, hes Sweet, Funny, Outgoing, fun, and just someone to talk to, hes my One of my bestfriends. we've ...
A. 28 October 2007: maybe you should leave the guy alone, if he loves the girl so much why try to break them up if they are a perfect couple. It is a tough question but you have to get it into your head that he already has a gf who he loves, adores and cherishes. ... (read in full...)
Big is not bad, but I still don't like being fat.
Q. Hi, I am a 14 year old female and I know I am obese!! I weigh around 14 stone and, Im 5Foot"3Inches Tall. I try to stop myself from eating and do exercise but It only works for as long as two days then I give up because I don't see a di...
A. 27 October 2007: well im 10 stone and i think that im kinda fat on my thigs and my belly and of course its a pain to do excersise i mean i tried and got nowhere, but i found out doing little things such as walking to school to the bustop takingpart in extra ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly 16, part of me wants to lose my virginity, the other worries. Does it hurt?
Q. So hear is the thing, I am gonna be 16 really soon. And I have really been thinking lately. Part of me really wants to lose my virginity, but part of me thinks i should wait. I am worried about the pain, consequences, and regrets of having sex. But, ...
A. 27 October 2007: well basically the questions on you if you feel ready to have sex then why not. sex only hurts if the man/boy you have sex with is putting to much presure in the activity. this is your choice if your ready then so be it.... (read in full...)
How can I find out her size?
Q. Please help me with women's clothing sizes. My girlfriend wears a Medium in blouses and tops, but I want to buy her a nice dress without her knowing. I went shopping at the mall and they were listed by numbers like 4-5 and 5-6. What do these ...
A. 27 October 2007: maybe if you sneak into her closet when shes away and check her size on the label. or if you wanna trick her get her into a convo about clothes and then bring what size she is into it.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant by this?
Q. Hi. Although i should know this im really not that sure. Me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night when we finished we relised some of his cum and dripped out the bottom of the condom and may have touched just the inside of my vagina, ca...
A. 27 October 2007: well it depends if it did go in your vagina then you will get pregnant, take a pregnancy test or if your scared talk to your mum or your doctor.
good luckxx... (read in full...)
I really don't want to upset her, what do I do?
Q. Well, there is this guy, and I am absoloutly bananas about him. I'm pretty darn sure he likes me too (like really sure), but there is one problem: my friend. She is a total bitchy bitch bitch and I hate her sometimes, but deep down I love her. ...
A. 27 October 2007: Its time you stand for yourself, shes just being jealous and wants him for herself, if you want to go out with him GO OUT WITH HIM your not her she cant ruin your life to make hers better. Tell her how you feel around her. dont let her take control ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but my mum would kill me!
Q. I want a baby but im only 15. I'm not sure if my bf wants one but i think he does but i no if i get pergent my mum would kill me so what should i do???...
A. 27 October 2007: there are a lot of things to consider before you can even say you want to have a baby, will the dad be responsible, will you have enough money to feed and look after this baby, will you make it college/uni
maybe you should wait until you have a husb... (read in full...)
Should we / How do we talk about sex?
Q. I just told my bestfriend that my boyfriend (of 6 months) rubbed my boob while we were making out. She immediately asked how I felt about it and I told her it was just for fun at the moment I wouldn't let it lead to anything, sex isn't an option for ...
A. 27 October 2007: the best thing is to no confront him he might get offended in a way, and that might spoil your relationship, if when your making out and he goes over the line just tell him your not ready to go that far then tell him how you feel. and it might work ... (read in full...)
How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?
Q. Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for a...
A. 27 October 2007: what the hell is the first thing that pops into my mind, now you want your cousin to have sex with you. The best thing to do is to NOT ask her because if you ask her she might get offended. and also it will break your family relations and will get ... (read in full...)
He wants me but I don't want him.
Q. to cut a long story short basically i went out with a guy during our summer holidays [around july/august time] and we split up due to non commitement from him. but now it seems he wants to be back in my life. my question is what to do as i am no...
A. 26 October 2007: its quite simple, if you dont want him in your life tell him your not intrested, i mean its not by force to go out with someone who you dont want to.Do what your heart tells you to do its the best option... (read in full...)
How can I tell her I love her without ruining our friendship?
Q. I'm 16, I love a girl but I didn't tell her that because I'm not confident about myself. I'm not so tall and handsome. We're saying to each other that we're just good friends, nothing more. Now I want to build a strong image of myself to her ...
A. 26 October 2007: Ok so look basically you have a crush on a girl who just wants to be friends with you. what do you do.
1.be good friends with her-stay close to her
2.be there- when she needs help be there to help her
3.invite her to places-ask her if she'd lik... (read in full...)
What is the right age to start having sex?
Q. What age do you think people should start having sex? People i know still havent had sex yet but im not sure if that is better or should you start young? ...
A. 26 October 2007: well as the law says wait till your over 16. your body isnt ready and you dont want to lose your virginity to someone who doesnt love you. if you have sex now you might regret it later. keep your virginity and give away to someone who loves and ... (read in full...)
Divorcing is a disgrace to my religeon... But I feel trapped. Help me!
Q. In my religion, it's a disgrace to divorce, and very rare. And the thing is, I've had a husband since I was 13 and now, I'm 19. I feel trapped, I see myself just doing everything for him, with him forcing me to do things, to have sex with him, get a ...
A. 26 October 2007: This is a very sad thing to feel trapped with someone youve been forced to be married. im 13 and i can imagine wat it feels like to get married BY FORCE. so your in a situation where you reached the point that your husband wants a baby and you dont ... (read in full...)
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