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writes:Hi,I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her?Thanks for any answer, I just cant get it off my head she so pretty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): tell her she is sexy and that you LOVE christmas
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008): ok ill tell u of my story the full story for u readers.. well this was last year i was 15 and my cousin was 16 with the biggest boobs and butt ever. well every christmas our family has a vaction at those big high tech lodges with the cool views. their was about 50 to 60 people in the lodge so we had to share a room with one big bed. well it was christmas eve and everyone was already asleep except me and her. we where talkin about stuff and then we eventually talked about sex i asked her about girls and she asked about guys well we started to get sleepy and it was time to go to bed. but wat i didnt know was that she slept in her bra and underwear and we went in bed back to back when i turned around i saw he sexy body then i got and erection i had a pretty big penis for a 15 year old and i guess she felt something their she grabbed it not knowing wat it is and then shes like "do u want ur christmas present now" i was like "uhhhhh ook" then she stared to suck me penis for about 10 mins straight then she went on my penis and we had sex i think she watched alot of porn cause she was riding my penis like crazy but her butt and her boobs made it all worth it. good thing where not blood realitives i pulled out rite before i came. i cant wait for this christmas only 2 months away man wher gonna have fun by the way this was only last year so man im i gonna have fun this year lol true story
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): its easier then it looks you ask her if she has any feelings for you and if she rejects then ask her to think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): Hmm hard to answer this but I also think it would be hot to have sex with you cousin maybe you could try and accidentally bump into her and your hand would touch her butt. Or you could wrestle with her and show her some moves that would let you touch parts. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): so you want to have sex with your cousin,
the best advice i can give you is simple, approach her like you would a possible girlfriend, this gives you all the signs of wether she is interested in sexually, if she is then i surgest, going to a hotel to have sex, because if you both still live at home you don't want your parents in the house while your doing it. book the room for the night that way she won't feel like a slut if you just go for the afternoon or a few hours,
all this worked for me when i wanted to sleep with my cousin victoria, and believe me it is worth it, and don't forget to have sex regularly, my cousin and i are still having sex 15 years later after we first started, we now live to gether so its easier for us,
have fun and remember wear a condom
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): If I were you, I would just start slow and see if you get a reponse. If you do, go for it. If you're worried about her telling your family, maybe get some blackmail on her. I know it sounds wrong, but think about it. If she says yes, then great and she doesn't have to know. If she says no and is going to tell, simply produce the blackmail and forget about it. But, really, do what you think is right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): I`m 23 years old and I have one year older cousin....and if she give me a sighn... I would fuck her so much!!!
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reader, bobcat  +, writes (30 August 2008):
Well my young friend, being at this point in time, the last post, I doubt you will ever read this. But others may, so I will post my opinions along with everyone else. 1st! at your age emotions run rampant and wild, but I also know that they can run true! So you have feelings for your cousin...WOW, call the tabloids, we have a freak!!!.....FCK them! Despite my profile, I have been with my 1st cousin for 65 years now! We have 8 wonderful, (AKA NORMAL!! For all you hypocrites) children, and 7 amazing grandchildren!Times might have changed since I was courting..(dating), but some things stay the same my friend!....1st) Do you have feelings for her, or is it 'sex lust' ?2nd) if there is feelings, have you said anything?---- Don't be blunt here! back in my day we took girls for sodas or shakes. Do the same with her, go for a burger or something small.3)small talk and honesty! think of it like your first date, but don't try to get in her skirt!!..treat her like you love/like her. Get to know her more than 'family' dictates! get to know her like she wants to be known.4) Understand what she likes.5) don't let 'family' or 'law' stop what blossoms6) hint at sexual fantasies. IE.. "dare you to tell me what turns you on" ......(I made it into a game for us lol")
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): I'm 22 and my female cousin is 17. We are third cousins which means that we share the same great great grandparents. I want to have sex with her. The thing is this: my family CANNOT know about it, that is...if I ever want to have sex with her again. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your cousin, but treat it as you would ANYONE else-- start as friends.
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reader, my_cuz_is_hot  +, writes (23 August 2008):
my cousin , Laura is soooo hot! I've wanted to bed her for years! We're both in our mid-late 20s now and the feeling of sexual frustration around her has never subsided.
I say get in whilst you're young and enjoy some good clean safe sex with her and keep it as a special secret
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): Well, get alone with her, watch a movie together or whatever, get close, cuddle and snuggle and whatnot, and if it feels right, you'll know what to do from there, but what about waiting 4-5 years first?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): To have sex with your cousin and ruin the relationship you have is too risky. It's not worth it because there are always more people that you can find having sex with that is way hotter than your cousin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): Hey there, I'm having a simalar problem. My cousin is a year older than me and she is really cute, but i can;t muster up the courage to ask her how she feels about me. I would never want to ruin my relationship with her, but i also wouldn't want to go through life wondering what could have been. It also dosen't help that she lives with me and she walks around naked all the time. But anyways, I would take the plunge if your braver than me, and trust her not to tell anyone if she rejects you. There is also the fool-proof plan to act like your drunk and confess your love for her, and see what she dose. And again, i would wait untill your older, you could try and really ease into it and in a few years she might come out and say she is attracted to you. Good luck!
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reader, kaff  +, writes (21 July 2008):
man, that's ok, i think your too young yet, but it's ok to feel that way.
im 17 and i've been having sex with 2 cousins for about 3 years now, one is 21 and the other is 18, and im really atracted to another two cousins (15 and 13(she's kinda young but she is really really hot!!) and i think they are atracted to me too.
what you gotta do first is to know if she's atracted to you, at least just a little, then try to kis her, make out, then, if everything is going ok, just talk about having sex.
it's not hard. if she doesn't feel the same way nothing bad is gonna happen as long as she doesn't tell nothing to the family.
i wish the best for you bro!!
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reader, sofiamorgan + ♥, writes (19 June 2008):
 You don't!
1) You are far to young for sex
2) It would be incest
3) It would possibly jepordise your friendship with her, and the rest of the family if they ever find out.
Just don't do it, I'm sorry to be harsh.
I hope you work it out for yourself...others have been quite harsh...I don't mean to come accross as being so. Hugs
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): If you love your cousin, then you wont have sex with her. Having sex with your cousin is kinda disgusting. Go out and get you a real girlfriend!
(P.S. I think my cousin is attractive but that doesn't mean I want to have sex with her.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Dude, I always wanted to have sex with my cousin and I did when I kissed her I was when I was 19 and she was 18. we still have sex today. So Just kiss her first then ask her for sex but make sure she doesn't get pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Hey, I always wanted to have sex with my cousin and I did when I kissed her, This was when I was 16 and she was 13. Now I'm 19 and she is 16 and we still have sex.
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reader, DiovanLestat + ♥, writes (18 June 2008):
 Dear poster, I bet your sorry you asked. I bet you didn't expect so many people to answer you and to be so unkind to you as well. Well you asked Dear Cupid, and we've given you our advice. Your too young, your disrespectful and it may be illegal between family in your country. Hopefully you have been sensible and have now found something better to spend your time on instead. Good luck to you, be good and stay safe. Hugs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): Youre to waaaay to young to have sex kid. Way too young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): hi when i was 12 my cousin (he was nearly 14) came over to our farm in the summer for a mouth we hung out everyday after about a week 1/2 we kissed we just wanted to try it as we hadnt kissed anyone before one day we just started talking about sex then a couple of days later when we were in the corn field started talking about sex again and he started felling my ass and boobs (not that there were much there only b) and i started getting really horny one thing led to another and we had sex i was on top it didnt last long and felt weird at first we had sex 6 more times that summer (at the time didnt no about safe sex). the next summer he came over again and yes we had sex alot he also had a weird fetish about making me fat i think as he kept feeding me the hole time i gain like 28lbs mostly on my belly and ass i looked pregnant by the end of summer. at the end of summer my vagina was so loose in looked like i had been in a porno. now im 17 lost the weight he always put on me every summer and at the top of my class at high school i still see him sometimes and we have sex when we do but it is time to move on its been a great teenage years so far
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Don't believe what people tell you when they say that if you have kids, they will be retarded. The chances of you getting a deformed child is only 1.7-2.8% increase from non-related, which is 2-3% for normal compared to 4-6% for cousins. Marrying a woman over 40 will give the same results as marrying your cousin with birth deformities which is still vary rare. While at the same time, you are much less likely to have miscarriage in a cousin relationship as your body chemistry is closer.
For most countrys, cousin marriage is preferred. In the USA we were later raised that way because of an observation by a scientist without enough study which in reality he was proven wrong but the fear of deformities remained with Americans.
26 states allow first cousin marriages; most people can marry their cousin in the US.
No European country prohibits marriage between first cousins. It is also legal throughout Canada and Mexico to marry your cousin. The U.S. is the only western country with cousin marriage restrictions.
Sex with your cousin is NOT incest, it is only defined that in the USA from society due to the fears from the observation a long time ago which proved false later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): hey i have the same problem sort of.
the differnce is my cousin is 16 and im 21.shes sooo fucking hott.and i know all of you are thinking straight away that im a pedo lol well im not,ive never ever been attracted to kids before,and to me she isnt a kid,yeah shes 16 but she doesnt act like it or look like it in the slightest.shes hot as hell and i have tried to make some passes at her but never really seem to get a responce,well..nothing hugely negative.i know its strange,but seriously am i weird for likeing my 16 yr old cousin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): hey i have the same problem. i want to have sex with my cousin but i dont know if she wants to back, she acts like it sometimes but doesnt others. i just want to know how to ask her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): I to am in this situation bro. The scary part is, is not knowing how to come out and say it without the person taking it the wrong way then telling the family. Then your in an even worse situation. I don't know what it is but its just she is so hot and so cool.. Its tempting, but heres some advice, ease into it. Try to slowly make it known without coming out and saying it. If she reacts weird then it wont happen and just say when asked, I didn't mean to come out that way. Straight up asking will either ruin your relationship or be the best thing ever. Its a chance I wouldn't risk in my family. But like I said, see how she reacts when you try to put the move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): let me tell you something, im 25, and my cousin and i had a hot relationship for 2 years in secret, it was the best 2 years of my life , i have slept with 9 girls since and nothing could compare, its the kind of thing where she could just touch you and you tingle throughout your whole body. she knows that we are ment to be and its sad acutally because the only reason we are apart is because she knew that we could never have kids and thats something that she really wanted. but we always see each other and talk about old times and how great they were. best of luck to you and dont care about what other people think, because after all , you could be missing out on the greatest opertunity for happiness and true love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): you no, if your 10-12 i strongly suggest you wait a bit.. im not one of thoz ppl who dnt undastand ur situation, i do. but at tht age its a little risky becoz if shes a yang girl she mite not hav an idea of wat emotions really are or if shes older she mite think that ur still a yang boy confused and doznt really hav any feelings so just out of that she could say no. wait for like a year and a half, use the time to talk to her and sty close, if u still fel the same way, then at that time she probably would and you can give her the euphoria she is bound to remmeber.
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reader, ForverRed27 +, writes (18 May 2008):
Honestly, i find having attraction to your cousin/s okay, i mean we are only human. But in all honesty, i find in wrong, disgusting and in a sense immoral to actually pursue sexual activity with your cousin. Especially if you are blood related. That is just like saying "i want to have sex with my brother or sister". you might not think that just because cousins are a little further off in relativity but you are still apart of the same family and are blood related in some way. Especially if you accidentally get her pregnant, you dont want to be what is socially called an "inbred".
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): yea im 15 i wanna screw my cousin so bad...thing is i know shes not interested.so my advise is...make sure she feels the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Maybe you should first start off by perhaps making out with her. Have you two kissed or at least made it to first or second base? Joke around with her a little at first and see if she responds positively. Test the waters my friend. Start with some nice subtle flirts and then take it up a new notches to see where it could lead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): I have some decent looking cousins as well. Best of luck, but don't have kids, or they'll look like The Hills Have Eyes...don't want that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): Dude, bad idea what the hell is gonna happen when she gets pregnant? What are you gonna tell your parents? Oh she just went off her diet for a couple of weeks?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): Wtf! It's your cousin, that is sick. I don't know. My fiance was raped by her cousin when she was 17, so maybe I have a bad taste in my mouth! Stay away from your cousin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Hi, I'm 16 and have expierience a similar situation. I've always been close to my cousin, she's 15 now and ever since we've been toddlers we've slept in the same bed as each other. I guess our parents never thought anything of it since we were cousins - and neither did we. But for a while now we've been really close, as cousins, and as friends. And about a month ago, she came round, and ended up spending the night, anyway we went to bed and were talking for a couple of hours. She moved into my bed, as per usual, we've often slept next to each other. But the conversation moved onto sex, and how we were both still virgins, and after a while i got a hard on naturally. However, she felt this, and even though i tried to hide it i knew she knew. Suddenly i had the urge to shag her. And for a moment we just looked at each - then she kissed me. I held her tight, and she went under the covers. Next thing i knew she was blowing me off! It felt great! That night we had full on sex for the time, and we both found it amazing. Since then we keep meeting up, sleeping in the same bed, as usual, are parents think nothing of it. I think at fist we both thought what we are doing is kind of wrong, but we've now decided that both of us feel extremely secure with the other, and we really do love each other. So we're going to continue having sex. Neither of our parents know, but i guess we just have to come to that hurdle when it arises. But all i know is that my cousins hot, i'm hot, and we've both fallen head over heals for each other, so why not?! I think we are soulmates. In addition, we know each other inside out, so stuff like anal-sex just seemed to happen, there's no hesitation or embarassment or should i or shouldn't i: we just fit. I want to spend the rest of my life with this girl, she's amazing xx.So what i'm basically saying is that if you and your cousin are going to happen, you just will, and one day, you could find your soulmate, and in the process have the most amazing sex ever!Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): I know how you feel. I have a cousin i am absolutely in love with my cousin. She is so beautiful. I can't stop thinking about her. Shes so god damn pretty. Im 15 by the way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Let me say this..Just do it. i'm having sex with my hot cousin and its great you know.forget about incest thing.its all bullshit.ppl get married to their cousin in all over the worldmaybe its kind of weird in u.s but its nlot like the rest of the world is wrong blah blah blah ...you know what im saying anyways i'm 21 now but the first time we did was like 4 years ago. shes 4 years older than me..get her drunk take her to a club sleep next to her dont be affraid to touch her.start kissing her on cheek and then neck and go on.make sure she knows that nobody is going to find out and feels safe with you... dont only just fuck her if you wanna do it again. Be NICE nut i gatta warn you SEX makes you feel closer to her you know? more attached...and trust me you dont want to have feelings for your cousin in this society
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): hey...i am so glad i read this question.i am having the same problem..my cousin is very very hot...i cant just stop it......i know she likes someone else..but i think its normal...i understand you.its so unstoppable......if you really want sex then..try to touch her..and keep going...and see how she reacts to that..if it is positive..then it might be your lucky day....i tried this but my cousin stops me but doest say anything...........and for those who think having sex with cousin is gay..or stupid.....probably you dont have a hot cousin..and its so hard for u to understand..after all its your cousin
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Well ye, read all your answers its got some true in it. What else, if your 12 or whatever, then f*** me shouldnt be thinkin bout it yet. Ye met my cousin after 3-4 years now, and shes well bad, im 17 by the way and shes like 20, thing is you dont f*** every person you think you want to. Feelings change in time, as i bet they will for you, then you probably will be much older and wiser. Best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): I know how all of yall fell i have a cos that is so hot every time i would see him I felt like i wanted 2 have sex wet him i dont know how he feels about me but some times i see him looking at me like he loves me and wants 2 have sex with me idk guys dum like that i am not saying all guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): I dont know how to ask i wish i had an answer to that question. Your not the only one. Try playing "nervoous" it might lead to something or offer a back rub. If you really want it just hint best you can Im not sure how to ask risk free though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): I have the same feelings 4 my cuz. Ive tried so many things like, talking dirty with her(about dicks and boobs and stuff), i've even showed her my dick and all she said was "dont expect me 2 show u anythng", i've touched her boob a few times(she was wearing clothes though), i even walked in on her getting dressed one day in her room on perpis bt she was wearin a jeans and she covered her tits befor i could c anythng... :-( bt im stil trying 2 get in her pants, hpe im succesful in the nxt couple of wks, coz i so wana fock hr. Did i forget 2 mention she is extremely pretty. im 15 by the way. But dude dnt give up keep on tryin!! Report back nd tel us if u made any progres or not ok!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): i wanted the same thing as you and so one day she was teasing me about something and i kinda tackled her and just started feeling her up. then she took off my pants and started giving me a bj and we've been having great sex ever since. i say just start touching her or just come up naked too her and see wat happens. if yo think she does want to sometimes she'll probably have sex with you. you could also get a little dunk with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): dude u should do it i have sex with my cousin and it feels great i am 16 years old
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reader, piperr  +, writes (28 February 2008):
you wana have sex with your cousin,go ahead.i had hots 4 my cousin for long and one day we got drunk n we had sex.thats all i wantf n i got it though we ended up badly n family found out.so get her drunk bt consequences have to b there.so be ready.gud luck.
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reader, WOLF +, writes (9 February 2008):
I wont to fuck my cousin to but maybe its my family's fault for talking about sex around me and talking about her body but every time i see her i just stop thinking about her just to list some stuff they talk about her p**** and her breast and most of the time i cant get up for awhile so i know how you feel and i cant find a way to ask her or tell her because i don't wont to sound dumb
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): see it is natural to have a feeling this way...... if she feels the same about you then go on..........but though iam afraid that this would not cause any type of emotonal gap betwen you both after you have done.start off by a topic that could get her aroused and then finaly ask if only she response realy positively to your discussion................i will take time but the sex is a sureity!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): I am a 13 year old guy who has dry humped my cousin on many ocasions. I just asked her "do you want to have sex, but not realy?"
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