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writes:Well i've been with this man for 13 months, he's 22.. i think. im not goin to tell u how old i am but im not younger than 13. i always go to his house. we dont have PROPER sex.. we just like rub against each other, but we're naked.. you might tink this is stupid but its the truth.. we've been doing this for about 9 months and about 1 week ago, we were doin it and then hes penis like kinda hurt my vagina an it hurt really bad.this sharp pain, i ddnt bleed, i think and i dont think he knowz that he might have taken my virginity. the next day i put my finger in and it went in.. all the way. .. and there was like bits of white stuff as well.. and i know its not chlamydia. btw i know stuff about sex.. dnt worry. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): Get a boyfriend your own age this man is a sicko. No offence I'm sure you're not ugly but you're still coming out of childhood he's using you for sexual pleasure.
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reader, xxbaybeegal  +, writes (1 January 2008):
 this is weird, but why would you let some guy do this to you. you should see a doctor and get tests but im telling you if he did take your viginity it would kinda be your own fault and not anyone else, you probably know its wrong but you havent said anything. tell us what happened plz later!!!
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (27 December 2007):
 my bf is 22 and im 17 we started going out when i was 15 and he was 20 were going strong now. but be carefull casuse he may be a pedo do you no him properly? if not be carefull. x
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reader, x-Happy-Feet-x +, writes (27 December 2007):
 yeh i agree with others ihad sex underage and i was really silly to do that but i was mature about it and so with my man i have been withi him 1 year and were fine look hun your probably older then me but if your guna be seeing him please be carefull cuz he could be strange he might be trying to build up trust in you then one day he could just go for you and abuse you and i would hate for you to go through this so plz think about this and as for the white stuff it might just be dishcharge but go get a test done and go check for stds because it could be so serious dont worry about people thinking your stupid for doing what you did because atleast your being mature and sorting out this mistake of yours xx hope this helped
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reader, Charley Coles +, writes (26 December 2007):
well if your going out and you didnt resite then no but some people may think of him as a pedo because you could be younger than `16 if older than thats ok. dont worry about this did he wear a condom??
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reader, AnnoymousGurl +, writes (26 December 2007):
AnnoymousGurl is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni did not put this title...
and i love him 2 bitss
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reader, uhhhhey +, writes (25 December 2007):
 I'd stop seeing him, it might be hard to do because you might think you have feelings for him. But honestly the situation you're in is dangerous and weird. Take a break from him and look back at the situation, and hopefully you'll see how wrong and innapropriate it is for a 22 to have sex with a child of your age. You might not feel like it, but you are still a child, this 22 yr old knows that too and that's why he's waited so long to have sex and stuff. He KNOWs it's wrong but he's doing it anyway. I think he could even get arrested.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (24 December 2007):
 Without more information I don't know what the "white bits of stuff" could be anything from semen to your own secretions to bits of your hyman (cherry). Not all women bleed during their first time. It sounds like he put it in, you said "ow" and he pulled it out. He probably took your virginity, hon. You should go see a doctor to test for any STDs and to make sure you're not pregnant. Think about how you would feel being "intimate" with someone 4-5 years younger than you are -- this is how this guy SHOULD feel about you. He's taking advantage of you. Please don't go to him again.
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reader, Asexy +, writes (24 December 2007):
Without more information I don't know what the "white bits of stuff" could be anything from semen to your own secretions to bits of your hyman (cherry). Not all women bleed during their first time. It sounds like he put it in, you said "ow" and he pulled it out. He probably took your virginity, hon. You should go see a doctor to test for any STDs and to make sure you're not pregnant. Think about how you would feel being "intimate" with someone 4-5 years younger than you are -- this is how this guy SHOULD feel about you. He's taking advantage of you. Please don't go to him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007): you shouldnt be with him and he should be behind bars.
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